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58. Angelology: The Doctrine of Angels

Purpose: It is the purpose of this session to bring clarity to the mind of a disciple regarding the existence and work of spirit beings in the world.

Objectives

1. The disciple will understand that there are myriads of angel spirit beings in existence today.

2. The disciple will understand what these beings do and where they come from.

3. The disciple will understand the origin and work of Satan as he mobilized evil forces against the plan of God and Christians in the world.

4. The disciple will understand the very special work angels to for us today.

Scripture Memory

But to which of the angels has he ever said, “Sit at my right hand until I make your enemies a footstool for your feet“? Are they not all ministering spirits, sent out to serve those who will inherit salvation?

Hebrews 1:13-14

Agenda

1. Mutual prayer and sharing.

2. Share Scripture memory.

3. Discuss worksheet and questions.

4. Go over new terms.

Worksheet

The Doctrine of Angels, (Fallen and Unfallen)

This is a difficult study for most people to consider. Because so much superstition surrounds ideas concerning angels and Satan, many simply avoid the subject altogether. We do not feel this is correct.

Angels are “_________________ __________________”, Hebrews 1:14. They have a ministry in the world and elsewhere today. Satan is our “__________________”, 1 Peter 5:8. It is good to know our enemies if we are to effectively resist them and overcome.

The purpose of this session is to help the participant come to a better understanding of a world that we do not see...a world that nonetheless exists. We will become aware of the reality that man is not the highest form of God's created creatures.

We also note that simply because men scoff at the existence of spirit-beings does not mean that they do not exist. Since we believe in the deity of Jesus and the authenticity of Scripture, we also accept the reality of the existence of these beings.

The Existence of Angels

That angels exist is surely taught in the Word of God. Look up the following verses and see how they teach this doctrine.

In Matthew 18:10, Jesus was speaking of little children. In the course of what He said, He referred to angels that seem to minister especially to little children and that they ___________________________________________________________. These we often refer to as “_________________” angels. In reference to His coming, He stated that the angels’ wisdom concerning that event was similar to man's wisdom in that they __________________________________________ _______________________, Mark 13:32. See also Matthew 26:53 and Matthew 13:41. These verses seem to imply what?

Other verses that attest to the reality of angels include the following verses. See if you can tell how they testify to this reality.

Colossians 2:18

2 Peter 2:11

The preceding verses are given to demonstrate that the Scripture teaches the existence of angels. Next it is important to determine some things about their nature. Some of these characteristics are included below.

Colossians 1:16 tells us that angels are _____________ beings. They were created as _____________, are angels today, and will forever be _____________ . They cannot be the spirits of departed humans, nor are they glorified human beings.

Another truth regarding angels is that which pertains to their essence or being. Hebrews 1:14 tells us that angels are sent to serve or sent to those who are heirs of salvation. What ways do you believe angels have served or ministered to you?

Angels seem to have great _______________ , 2 Peter 2:11, and are apparently more powerful than _____________. See some of the powerful things angels have done in the past.

Isaiah 37:36

Genesis 19

In the future, an angel will do what mighty deed? Revelation 20:1-3. Their power is delegated. They are mighty, but not almighty. There also seems to be an order of angels, with _____________ the _____________ at least one of the highest, Jude 9.

The Fall of Angels

That there was a fall that angels experienced, even as man fell, seems to be taught in the Scripture. What do the following verses state about such an event? Describe what seems to have happened from your understanding of these verses.

2 Peter 2:4

Jude 6

The time of this fall, or when it took place, is uncertain. Certainly it was before the fall of man in Genesis. Some feel that it happened between Genesis 1:1 and 1:2. The earth became _________________ and empty! What could have caused this to happen? There was certainly a great catastrophe of some kind that took place at this point. Other Scriptures speak of the fall specifically and give us some understanding concerning how sin entered the creation of God. Read carefully Isaiah 14:12-20. What is Satan called in vs. 12?

How would you describe his sin? vs. 13,14.

Some angels seem to be bound and in prison for their sin. Others seem to be free and are commonly associated with the term “demons or familiar spirits.” Their works are seen in the following verses:

Daniel 10:10-14

Matthew 17:15-18

Ephesians 6:12

These are certainly not exhaustive. Satan and his hosts are cunning and are bent on deceiving the world and thwarting the plan of God and the works of His children.

The Work of Angels Who are Not Fallen

I. They have a heavenly ministry, Revelation 5:11,12

II. Their earthly ministry:

a. Acts 8:26

b. Acts 12:5-11

c. Acts 27:21-26

d. Luke 15:10

e. Matthew 4:11

f. Acts 5:19

g. Luke 16:22

Angels are servants of believers today!

The Doctrine of Satan

The existence of Satan is clearly taught in the Scripture. In Matthew 13: 19, 39, He is called _______ __________ _______, and the ___________. In John 13:2, he is called the_____________. We have already seen that Satan probably was an angel of high and great power who fell because of pride. In 2 Corinthians 11:14, he is called an ________ __________ ____________. It is important to know that he is not a creature with forked tail and smoke coming out of his nose. He probably was originally the most beautiful of all creatures made by God.

The fact that Jesus spoke about Satan can only be explained in one of three ways.

A. Jesus accommodated His language to fit the superstition of His day. But if this is true, then what of His own reliability and sincerity?

B. Jesus believed as people believed in His day, and supported the superstitions with his own belief. But then what of His omniscience?

C. The doctrine is true. Satan is a spirit person and he exists.

I. The Personality of Satan

In the following verses, how is the personality of Satan taught?

A. Matthew 4:1-11

B. 1 John 3:8

C. John 14:30

He is one of the sources of temptation today.

II. The Place of Satan in the World

A. Ephesians 2:2

B. 2 Corinthians 4:4

C. Hebrews 2:14

III. His Names

A. 1 Peter 5:8

B. John 8:44 . The word "devil" is the word "diabolos" which is a term of slander from two words: "dia" which means into, and "ballo" which means to throw.

C. Matthew 13:19 . This title suggests that Satan is not only wicked, but he is the source of much wickedness in the world.

D. Matthew 4:3. What does Genesis 3:1 teach us about his strategy as tempter?

Some of his strategies can be seen when he tempts, Matthew 4:1-11; by the use of right things in the wrong way; and through impressing his followers by signs and wonders, 2 Thessalonians 2:9,10.

What does 1 Peter 5:8, 9 tell us to do?

What is the end of Satan? Revelation 20:10

Questions for Review and Discussion

1. Write briefly about Satan and compare his characteristics with divine attributes.

How does this effect his ability to tempt man?

2. Over what, in particular, does Satan rule today?

3. What effect does your study of the doctrine of angels have upon you?

4. What is a "familiar spirit"? (you may have to research this KJV term)

( see Merrill Unger’s book on demonology)

5. How do you feel about the idea that there is a demon behind every problem man has today (demon of depression, demon of lust, etc.)?

Related Topics: Discipleship

59. Eschatology: The Doctrine of Last Things

Purpose: The purpose of this session is to acquaint the disciple with the major teachings related to things that are yet to come.

Objectives

1. The disciple will understand the meaning of the term, “The day of the Lord.”

2. The disciple will grasp truths concerning the resurrection of the dead.

3. The disciple will have an understanding of truths related to the millennial reign of Christ.

4. The disciple will have a cursory understanding of the judgments.

Scripture Memory

Then the angel said to me, “These words are reliable and true. The Lord, the God of the spirits of the prophets, has sent his angel to show his servants what must happen soon.” (Look! I am coming soon! Blessed is the one who keeps the words of the prophecy expressed in this book.)

Revelation 22:6-7

Agenda

1. Sharing and prayer.

2. Discuss the material.

3. Develop a prophetic map.

4. Discuss new terms.

5. Questions for review and discussion.

The Doctrine of Last Things

This is a study of systematic theology as it pertains to the doctrines relating to the end of the age. It is important to note that this is a rather controversial area among evangelicals. The following ideas pertain to the author's particular bias. You need not feel that you must accept these concepts in their entirety if you can Scripturally justify your own point of view. But you must develop some framework for approaching Scripture and the issues involving the Second Coming of Christ. The following is a suggested framework to help you begin to think through issues surrounding this event that is so often spoken of in the Old and New Testament.

It is also important to know that theology or doctrine becomes a topical approach to great themes taught in the Scripture, so we will intentionally not go verse by verse, but rather theme by theme.

I. The Second Coming of Jesus Christ (to earth).

All eschatology centers around this theme, that Christ is going to return to earth in the same way He left it.

A. This was promised at His Ascension, Acts 1:8-12.

How did He return to heaven?

1. Visibly.

2. From the Mount of Olives.

3. In human form.

4. In a cloud that received Him.

It is important to understand that His return is to be visible and in a body such as we have that can be touched, seen, and recognized. It will not be in spirit form.

B. Promised by Jesus Himself, John 14:1-3.

Jesus promised that if He went away, He would surely come again and receive us. This certainly cannot be fulfilled through the coming of the Holy Spirit, as some would tell us.

C. The epistles speak of it, 1 Thessalonians 4:16,17; 2 Peter 3:10; Jude 14,15; and 1 John 2:28.

D. Revelation gives a grand picture of the event, 19:11-15.

II. What is Associated with the Second Coming of Christ?

A. The resurrection of the dead in Christ—the FIRST resurrection. 1 Thessalonians 4:16,17; 1 Corinthians 15:51-58. Revelation 20:6.

The nature of the resurrection of the body is such that bodies will bear resemblances to earthly bodies, except for their perfection. They will be glorified bodies, never able to die again, bodies free from the infirmities brought about in our earthly bodies because of sin.

Mortal bodies will give way to immortal, corruptible bodies will give way to incorruptible. And at this point, our sanctification will be complete, and we will be glorified. For those who are alive at His coming, there will be instantaneous change that will take place the moment we see Him, 1 John 3:2.

How is His Second Coming referred to in practical ways, or how can I view His return? 1 John 2:29, (a purifying hope) and Titus 2:13, 1 John 3:3 (a blessed hope).

B. The Judgments

It is important to differentiate judgments in Scripture. Romans 8:1 tells us that there is no condemnation (judgment) for those in Christ Jesus. What does this mean? Simply that Christ has paid the penalty for my sin, and that is a question that is settled forever as far as the sin question is concerned. I need NEVER fear the penalty for sin in my life. Christ has paid that once for all!

"Payment God does not twice demand,
First at my bleeding surety’s hand
And then again at mine,"

ter Steegen

But there are judgments that will take place at the coming of the Lord. This brief section seeks to delineate these judgments and help you understand them.

1. The Bema, 2 Corinthians 5:10

The Bema or judgment seat of Christ is a believer’s award seat. Only those who have positional relationship with Christ will be there. The word Bema is used because of the nature of this time of evaluation. The Bema was the award seat at the Corinthian games. No one was ever punished at the Bema for failure to achieve. However, those who did achieve would come to the Bema and receive their ivy wreaths for a job well done, a race well run. In the same manner, every believer will appear before the Bema in order to sift and separate from his life that which was worthwhile and that which was worthless. 1 Corinthians 3-4 deals in more detail with the Bema.

a. Results of the Bema:

We will receive distinction which we will carry with us for all eternity. These are called crowns elsewhere.

b. The Time of the Bema:

The Bema will take place immediately upon the return of Christ when we are caught up in the air to meet the Lord.

2. The Judgment of Living Nations, Matthew 25:31-4

This is a judgment that will determine which nations and people living on earth will go into the millennium when Christ sets up His kingdom to reign over the earth. The criteria for this judgment seems to be the treatment of the Jews (His brethren) in various ways during the tribulation. The time of the Judgment of Living Nations will be when the Lord Jesus returns with His Church to set up His kingdom over the earth at the end of the great tribulation.

3. The Judgment of Israel and the unbelieving world at the end of the Church Age. The Great Tribulation —the time of Jacob's Trouble

4. The Judgment of the Great White Throne, Revelation 20:11-15. This is the final judgment of humans who have lived on the earth.

It is a judgment of "the dead". It is not a general judgment of believers and unbelievers. Resurrected saints will have reigned with Christ for 1,000 years and are in their glorified bodies. Why a judgment for the lost? It is a judgment of all who have desired to stand in their own righteousness in refusing the righteousness of Christ. Their bodies are possibly "the books" and are raised because the record of their deeds are in their bodies. This judgment takes place at the end of the millennium and at the end of all time. Eternity follows.

5. The Judgment of Fallen Angels, Jude 6; 2 Peter 2:4

There is no indication of the time of this judgment, although one might expect that it takes place at the end of all things, and some- where around the time of the Great White Throne.

The foregoing are judgments that relate to things in the future. It is important to "rightly divide the Word of Truth" with respect to these. All judgments are not the same. It is also important to fix forever in our minds that believers are exempt from any future judgment!

III. When is Christ Coming?

This is an important question. The return of Christ has seemed to be considered imminent throughout all of the Church Age. That is, there has never been a group of people in time that couldn't feel that the Lord could come at any time. That is as true today as it has ever been. But Scripture has some specific things to say about the time of His return and we will try to summarize these things for you.

A. No one knows the day nor the hour, Matthew 24:36-42. From time to time there are those who predict the coming of the Lord and ultimately are embarrassed. One of the greatest efforts to decide on the date was involved in the origin of the Seventh Day Adventist Church in the 1800's.

B. The Second Coming of Christ seems to be associated with the completion of the "Mystery of Iniquity," 2 Thessalonians 2:1-8.

C. The full working of the "Mystery of Iniquity" is held back by ONE Who hinders. This One may very well be the Holy Spirit Who is in the Church. Since He is promised to the Church until the very end, He cannot be taken out of the way without the Church also being taken out of the way. This will signal the first phase of the return of the Lord.

Worksheet

This is the last of several studies in Bible doctrine. We are providing these as part of the materials for our discipleship ministry because we want to be sure you are well-grounded with ability to handle the Scriptures with increasing effectiveness. Let's first clarify terms. The word "theology" means "the study of God". The word in the original Greek for God is the word "theos". Therefore, the study of God is called ________________ . There are many areas in theology. One of these, is called "eschatology". This is the study of "last things," or things that relate to the end time. It is called eschatology because the word in Greek for last is "eschatos". Therefore, eschatology is the study of __________ things. Perhaps this is a new word for you. _________________ is the study of last things.

It is important to understand that theology is a study of great topics of major Bible themes. Because of this, we will not be studying verse by verse necessarily. Rather, we will consider the themes taught in the Scripture and attempt to gather together Biblical data that relate to these.

Most teaching concerning eschatology, or _________ things, centers around aspects of the Second Coming of Christ. That Christ will return to earth and rule on the earth is a stated fact of Scripture. Look up the following verses and complete the statements about the teaching concerning the Second Coming of Christ.

1. Acts 1:8-12. Read this passage carefully and answer the following questions.

a. How do we know that Jesus ascended visibly from the earth and what cues in this passage speak of his visible return?

b. What form did Jesus have as He ascended into heaven?

c. Who do the men in white apparel seem to be?

d. What did these two men say about the return of Christ?

This is crucial inasmuch as Jehovah’s Witnesses and others say that the Lord Jesus has already returned to earth in secret.

2. John 14:1-3. Read this passage carefully and notice that Jesus Himself promised to return. What did He say He would go away and do?

a. Where are these places?

b. What does He say He will do upon returning?

c. Why is this important to you?

d. Some say this was fulfilled when the Holy Spirit came on the day of Pentecost. Why could this not be true? Look at the verse carefully and answer.

3. 1 Thessalonians 4:16,17. Again, read the verse carefully before you answer the questions. What about this verse indicates that it is a very personal return of Christ to earth?

a. What is to accompany the return of Christ?

b. What is going to happen when Christ returns?

c. Who are the "dead" in Christ? cf. Rev. 20:4, 5.

d. Who are those who are "alive and remain"?

e. What will happen to us at that very moment? 1 Corinthians 15:51-54

f. This is the first phase of the Second Coming of Christ and the "first" resurrection. What is involved at the second resurrection? Revelation 20:12

An event included in the "first resurrection" —the translation of the Church —is often called “the rapture.” The "Day of the Lord" is another term that you might become familiar with. This term does not refer to an actual day, but rather to a period of time that begins with the "rapture" of the Church and ends with the judgment of the "Great White Throne."

4. Jude 14,15. Jude speaks of the coming of Christ with "ten thousands of His saints." To whom does this statement regarding His saints refer? cf. 1 Thessalonians 4:14.

According to the statement in Jude, what will happen when the Lord returns?

5. 1 John 2:28. What should be the result of the anticipation of the coming of the Lord?

How does this come about?

6. Revelation 19:11-16. This is something of an elaborated description of what the return of the Lord will be like as seen by dwellers on earth. How do we know that this describes the Savior?

7. What kinds of things will happen at the coming of the Lord?

a. 1 John 3:2

b. 1 Thessalonians 4:16-17

c. 1 Corinthians 15:51-57

8. What should be our response to the truths set forth in these verses?

1 Corinthians 15:58

9. It is at this point in time that "glorification" becomes a reality. What do you remember from previous studies about the meaning of this term?

(See "positional truth"- session 6).

10. In 1 Corinthians 15: 51-57 who are the mortal? What is immortality? (or imperishable) What is meant by the term "corruptible"? (or perishable)

11. In relation to our early studies in basic theology, to what basic major doc trine is "glorification" linked strongly?

The Judgments

Associated with the coming or return of Christ are several specific judgments. Basically, the important consideration is that for us who are in Christ Jesus, there is no more Romans 8:1. What does this mean to you?

The simple reality is that Jesus paid the full penalty for our sins. As a result of this, we need never again fear judgment for sin. But there are judgments that take place at the coming of the Lord and we will attempt in this section of the study to look at some of these. We as Christians will have involvement in some of them, but not in others.

The Bema
2 Corinthians 5:10
1 Corinthians 3:1-4:5

The word "Bema" refers to the award seat at the Olympic-like games at Corinth. No one was ever punished at the Bema for not achieving. Those who run in the Olympics who do not finish with at least a bronze metal are not punished because of their failure to place with the winners. In the same sense, to not run well in this race in the Christian life is to suffer loss, but it is not to be punished. All punishment for sin is gone with Calvary covering it all with total sufficiency.

1. First let's understand that this judgment seat is a place for the sorting out of works that are of value as opposed to those that have no value. Criteria involved seem to be twofold. But first, look again at 2 Corinthians 5:10. What is the purpose for the Bema?

Please note that the word translated "bad" is not the word that would relate to evil, but conveys the idea of "worthless", (kakos).

1 Corinthians 3:10 says what will be involved? _______________________ And vs. 13 of the same chapter tells us quality is one of the important measures of our work. Because of this, Paul tells us to not _____________ _______________, 1 Corinthians 4:5, because _____________________________________, and he is speaking of the Judgment Seat of Christ, or the B________.

3. What can be inferred by the pronoun "we" in 2 Corinthians 5:10?

4. The result of this discrimination of our works is far-reaching. From the following verses, see if you can determine how far-reaching this will really be.

1 Corinthians 15:40-42b

1 Corinthians 3:12-15

5. Look at the two passages below and try to see what two classes of works could possibly be referred to in the Corinthian passage.

a. Galatians 5:22-23

b. Isaiah 64:6

These look just alike, and it is only possible for deity to sort them out. Therefore, there is a need for a judgment. Why is there a "fear" related to these? 2 Corinthians 5:10-11

The Judgment of Living Nations
Matthew 25:31-46

1. What event will take place before this judgment? vs. 31

2. Who will be judged at this judgment?

3. Who are the sheep and the goats?

4. What seems to be the chief issue involved in this judgment? i.e., what constitutes the behavior that categorizes one as a sheep and the other as a goat? vs. 37-45

5. Who are "His brethren"?

6. The time that has just preceded this great event is the tribulation period when great trouble will overtake the entire earth. The passage states that the criteria for entry into the Kingdom reign with Christ is "how the brethren were treated" by the Gentile nations on earth. It is obvious that no one is truly saved by any other means than faith in Jesus, Ephesians 2:8, 9.

Apparently trouble will be so great and issues so clear during the Great Tribulation, that those who truly know the Lord will also treat the Jews, God's chosen people, with respect, and they will also care for them. What will be the results of this judgment? vs. 46

cf. John 5:24.

The Great White Throne
Revelation 20:11-15

1. At what point in time does this judgment seem to take place? vs. 5, 11-13

2. Where have the resurrected saints of the first resurrection been before this judgment?

3. What are some of the results of this judgment? vs. 12

vs. 14

vs. 15

4. Out of what were those raised judged? vs. 12

5. What are the books mentioned? vs. 12, 15

6. What suggests the finality of this judgment? vs. 14, 15

The Judgment of Angels
Jude 6; 2 Peter 2:4

Who are the participants of this judgment?

Why do they need to be judged?

The Time of His Return

See Matthew 24:36-42, and 2 Thessalonians 2:1-8. Then answer this question in your own words. When will Christ return?

Questions for Review and Discussion

1. What is missing in the life of a Christian who does not hold to the imminent return of Christ to earth?

2. Elaborate on the unique meanings that are found in the phrase: "The Day of the Lord."

3. List several things that will take place when the Lord returns to earth.

a.

b.

c.

d.

4. During the earthly reign of Christ, what will be the situation with Satan in the world, and how will this affect the problem of sin in the human race?

5. What problems are confronted when Scripture is interpreted as teaching only one general judgment at the end of time?

6. What aspect of eschatology gives you the most hope and comfort?

7. What aspect brings you the most difficulty or unrest?

Related Topics: Discipleship

60. The Compound Names of Jehovah: Jireh, Rapha, Nissi

Purpose: There is no better way to discover what God is like than to look at His names. In the names considered in this material, we seek to understand how He cares for us.

Objectives

1. You will understand how God provides for our needs.

2. You will understand and learn to trust Him to make bitter things sweet.

3. You will learn to lean on Him and trust Him when the battle seems more than you can handle.

Scripture Memory

The Lord is good - indeed, he is a fortress in time of distress, and he protects those who seek refuge in him.

Nahum 1:7

Agenda

1. Mutual prayer and accountability.

2. Share Scripture memory.

3. Discuss questions.

4. Discuss any new terms.

Worksheet

Jehovah - Jireh: The Lord Who Provides
Genesis 22

1. Read the text carefully and answer the following questions.

a. What was the setting for the revelation of this name of God?

b. What made this especially difficult for Abraham? See Genesis 15:1-6; Genesis 21:1-6; Romans 4:18-22.

c. Did Abraham really think he was going to have to take the life of his son Isaac? Genesis 22:5; Hebrews 11:17-19

d. How was this story something like the story of Jesus and the offering of Calvary? See Genesis 22:2, 5, 6-9.

The Revelation of the Name Jehovah-Jireh, Genesis 22:12-14. The meaning of this name is The Lord Who Provides. The name is literally, The Lord Who Sees, or The Lord Who Will See To It. This is what we long for when we have a need that is personal and special; One who will see to our needs and provide for us. This is what Jehovah-Jireh means; the Lord Who will see to it that my every need is met. One Who knows my need because He sees. One Who is able to meet my need in just the right time as He did for Abraham, and One Who can meet it fully. For Abraham, it was the ram caught in the thicket that was offered in Isaac's place. For us it is whatever we need.

2. Look up the sample verses and see the bountiful provision the Father has made for you and me. Write the meaning of each verse.

a. Matthew 6:25-34

b. Philippians 4:19

c. Psalm 37:4

d. Psalm 37:25

e. Romans 8:37

f. Ephesians 1:3

The name Jehovah-Jireh is a name that is crucial for us today as we seek to know the Father. It is a name that assures us that our Heavenly Father is able to provide any need we have. Trust Him for that!

Jehovah - Rapha: The Lord Who Heals
Exodus 15:22-26

1. Read the text carefully and answer the following questions.

a. What was the occasion for the revelation of this name of God?

b. What exhilarating experience did Israel just have? Exodus 14:21-31

c. What in our lives today can be likened to the bitter waters of Marah?

List two or three "bitter" experiences you have endured recently.

(1)

(2)

(3)

d. The common way to approach a difficulty or stress in our life is the same way that the Isrealites approached their stress, Exodus 15:24. Also see Job 2: 9. How do you usually approach difficulty that seems cruel to you?

2. The Revelation of the Name, Jehovah-Rapha, Exodus 15:25.

Please note that the solution to this problem of bitter water was not one from the mind of Moses. It was rather from the Lord Himself.

The Lord showed Moses a _________________.

The tree made the difference in the taste of the water. When we think of the many bitter experiences of life, what tree has made a difference? __________________________________ Surely in the light of Calvary, the "tree makes a difference," the bitter problems of life can become sweet. Exodus 15:26 gives us the revelation of the name. God says in the last part of the verse, "...I the Lord Am Your Healer." Literally, I am Jehovah-Rapha, the Lord Who makes bitter things sweet.

3. The name Jehovah-Rapha is a name that speaks to us and our need today. We live in a stressful world and society. Every day new problems confront us and we bend under the load of seemingly unsolvable problems. How can Jehovah-Rapha bring healing to a sick world. List some of the ways you already know that make this a reality for you.

a.

b.

c.

4. Now look up the following verses and see if you can add anything to your list of practical ways to handle bitterness.

a. Romans 8:28-29

When will ultimate healing take place?

Remember that God lives in eternity, and we in time. We are often in a hurry. God is never in a hurry. But the bitterness in our life will someday be made sweet. We have that promise.

b. Hebrews 12:10-11

How does "bitter chastisement" become sweet?

This suggests that I need to view ___________________ in a positive way. It produces a ________________ of _________________ and _____________.

c. And what is the factor that makes a difference in the life of a child of God as compared with one who has not chosen the Savior? See John 1:12

A tree provided by God made the difference. Christ on Calvary!

Jehovah-Rapha means, "I am the Lord _______ ___________ ."

4. What difference is this going to make in your life?

Jehovah –Nissi: The Lord Our Banner
Exodus 17:8-15

1. Read the text carefully and answer the following questions.

a. What were the circumstances involved in the revealing of this name to Israel?

b. The Amalekites were a perpetual sore in the side of Israel. In this story, what parallel can you draw to contemporary Christian life concerning these people? To what in the Christian life can they be compared?

c. To consider this question further, see Galatians 5:17. What do we war against continually according to this passage?

See also Romans 7:21-24. What warfare is described in this passage

2. What led to victory for Israel over the Amalekites? Exodus 17:11-13

See also Ephesians 6:18 and 1 Thessalonians 5:17. What do these verses add to your thinking?

The victory of Israel obviously depended upon Moses continually standing before God and not being weary in his praying. What in the story suggested that prayer was involved? vs. 11-12

What other strategies do you have in not giving way to the carnal nature in your life?

3. The Revelation of the Name Jehovah-Nissi; The Lord Our Banner, Exodus 17:15-16. This name has to do with warfare. In this instance, the warfare involved God's very own. Our Father is willing to wage warfare on our behalf. One area of great battle has to do with our carnal nature. List areas involving your carnal nature that are the most difficult for you to deal with.

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The Lord Our Banner desires to give us victory. Read Romans 8 and learn of the victory that is ours over our carnal nature.

Life Application

Read through your journal and review your experiences. See how Jehovah has met your needs and how He lives up to all of your expectations.

Related Topics: Discipleship

61. The Compound Names of Jehovah: Rohi, Shalom, Tsidkenu

Purpose: It is the purpose of this session to help the disciple understand the many aspects of God’s nature and characteristics that are revealed in His names. It is important to remember that no one name could convey adequately all the fullness of what or whom God is.

Objectives

1. The disciple will understand more fully the righteousness of God with respect to His dealings with men.

2. The disciple will understand and be able to see how all things are under Jehovah’s suzerainty.

3. The disciple will experience greater peace and assurance because of the Father’s nature.

4. The disciple will develop a greater understanding of the wonder and might of the Sovereign of the universe.

Scripture Memory

To the angel of the church in Philadelphia write the following: “This is the solemn pronouncement of the Holy One, the True One, who holds the key of David, who opens doors no one can shut, and shuts doors no one can open: ‘I know your deeds.’

Revelation 3:7-8a

Agenda

1. Mutual prayer and accountability

2. Discuss the worksheet.

3. Discuss the questions

4. Discuss new terms.

5. Share Scripture memory.

Jehovah-Rohi: The Lord is My Shepherd
Psalm 23

This is perhaps the most familiar chapter in the Old Testament. The Psalm is a short Psalm...only six verses. But it is filled with words that elaborate on the central statement in which this compound name is included: vs. 1, "The Lord is my shepherd, I shall not want." Perhaps it is as the little boy said when he misread it, "The Lord is my shepherd, I don't want anything else."

This is only one of the three Psalms that are the Shepherd Psalms. Psalm 22 is the Psalm of the Good Shepherd, laying down His life for His sheep. Psalm 24 is the Psalm of the Chief Shepherd, Who is coming again. And this Psalm is the Psalm of the Great Shepherd Who cares so intensely for His sheep.

Read Psalm 23 several times and write down all of the ways He promises to care for you.

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What are some ways people can be likened to sheep?

Isaiah 53:6; 1 Peter 2:25.

Numbers 27:17. What does the previous verse imply about sheep?

Psalm 119:176.

Matthew 9:36.

Now read John 10 and see how the Lord Jesus—Jehovah-Rohi—becomes the perfect Shepherd of the sheep. Fill in the blanks that speak of His ministry.

He speaks, and the sheep __________________ his voice, vs. 3. When they hear his voice, they _____________ Him, vs. 27. This speaks of an intimate relationship with Him. They know the shepherd so well, they will _______ ________ a stranger whose voice they do not know, vs. 4,5. In the sheepfold, there is but one gate. _________________is the gate by which the sheep enter. The Good Shepherd is willing to _____ ______ _____ ______ for His sheep, vs. 11. He is able through this to provide life so that they might_______ _____ ________ _____________, vs. 10. This life can also be called ____________ _________ , vs. 28. They will never _______________. How is His ultimate protection of the sheep shown? vs. 28-30.

Compare this with Romans 8:38-39. What great biblical truth do these verses (John 10:27-29 and Romans 8:38-39) teach?

What does John 10:16 teach about His shepherding work and the unity of His flock?

What evidences of the shepherding work of Christ are in your life today?

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"Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death,
I fear no evil, for you are with me." Psalm 23:4
"Surely goodness and lovingkindness will follow me
all the days of my life."

Psalm 23:6

There are several other compound names of Jehovah. These are exemplary of additional ways the Lord Jehovah relates to us as His children. We would encourage you to study these on your own. The more fully we know Him, the more fully we can love and serve Him.

"God is our Refuge and Strength,
A very present help in trouble."

Psalm 46:1

Jehovah-Shalom: The Lord is Peace
Judges 6:24

Read the entire text of Judges 6, and describe in your own words the setting in which this revelation of the name of Jehovah became known to man.

1. What kind of person was Gideon? vs. 12

vs. 15

Something God says always makes the difference. What was this in vs. 16?

What does this say to us today—to you and me as we think of being used by God to serve Him?

See 1 Corinthians 1:27. How did God further demonstrate His ability to do great and mighty things through that which was weak? See Judges 7:2-8.

2. What was Gideon's response to this revelation of God's presence and His desire to deliver Israel? Judges 7:16-22.

How did the Midianites respond to all of this? Judges 7:22.

3. The revelation of the Name of the Lord, Judges 6:24. What is the name of the Lord as revealed in this story? ______ ________ ____ _________. Shalom is introduced as a name given in relation to Jehovah. Jehovah-Shalom is the name; literally the "Lord is Peace." This is a name that speaks in practical ways of the effect of knowing Jehovah God in our lives in very personal ways.

One of the many problems encountered in living in our world today is the problem of anxiety. Most major disorders of our minds are those related in some way to anxiety. Let's look at some of the promises given to us today by Jehovah-Shalom.

Isaiah 32:17 tells us that the work of righteousness will be ______________ and the service of righteousness, ______________ and ________________ forever. We are encouraged to___________________________________, Philippians 4:6. When we seem to be confronted with anxiety-producing things, we are to ____ ____ _______ ____ ______ ________ to God. What promise is ours when we do this? vs. 7.

This seems to imply that I should never be anxious. In reality, it is saying that I need never let anxiety control me. Anxiety is a God-given human emotion. We had better be anxious about some things!

1 Peter 5:7 tells me I am to_______________________________________ because He cares. How do we do this? Psalm 55:22.

Look up these additional verses and see how they contribute to our sense of peace in this world.

Matthew 6:25-34

Psalm 91:5-9

Isaiah 41:10 tells us not to fear for what reason?

4. What practical steps can you take to make Jehovah-Shalom a reality in your life today?

Jehovah-Tsidkenu: The Lord Our Righteousness
Jeremiah 23:5-6

We now come to the name Jehovah-Tsidkenu — a name that is more obscure to the average Bible student, but nevertheless so very crucial in our understanding of all that God has done for us. The name is found in Jeremiah 23:5-6. A “righteous branch” is promised to Israel; One who someday will be king over Israel. His name is to be Jehovah-Tsidkenu or Jehovah our Righteousness.

Israel had been carried into captivity, and now the same was to happen to Judah. It would seem that the promises of God would never be fulfilled. Such was not to be the case, however, and Jeremiah speaks of the day when a righteous king would return and set up His righteous kingdom and reign and do judgment on the earth.

Consider the meaning of the word “tsedek.” The name Jehovah-Tsidkenu draws its meaning from this word. Some say the word has within it the meaning of “stiff” or “straight.” It is a word that is used in relation to God’s dealing with men. Though difficult to translate, it has to do with such things as justification, righteousness, and acquittal. When coupled with the name “Jehovah,” it means that all He does is ever and only righteous. He is the sole source of all that is righteous and good.

This has great implications for us. First, how can I stand before One who is always perfect in all holiness and righteousness? I am a hopeless sinner! Thinking of some of our early studies in this ministry, when and how is this possible? How can I, a sinner completely stained by evil, ever think I could stand before a holy God? What would be necessary for this?

It is Jehovah-Tsidkenu who covers me with His righteousness that provides a shelter for me in His presence. I stand before Him both innocent and righteous, and this is assured by His _____________ and _________________, Romans 4:25.

Secondly, how does this aspect of “Who He is” affect the life I live today? Perhaps the question could be better asked, What does this have to do with the life I live in this world with regard to “being good” and my appearance at the Bema?

This name is one that applies to Jesus as well as to the Father. He is our Jehovah-Tsidkenu. How does Peter describe Christ on the day of Pentecost? See Acts 3:14.

Questions for Review and Discussion

1. What great attribute of the Father and the Lord Jesus are alluded to in the name Jehovah-Tsidkenu?

2. This question is to be answered in a very personal way. What does “Jehovah-Tsidkenu” mean to you with respect to your security during the twenty-first century? Answer in the light of your preparation for living, supporting a family, your life goal, your ultimate death and the legacy you will leave after this life is over.

3.Considering your thoughtful answers to this question. What changes are you about to make in your ultimate life goals?

Life Application

Again, when you journal, record things that go on in your life that could be applicable to these three compound names of Jehovah.

See if you can share these concepts with a friend. Most people who know anything at all about the Bible will have some knowledge of Psalm 23. Knowing God can be more complete when these names are understood.

Related Topics: Discipleship

62. Review Questions

Purpose: The purpose of this session is to review and bring into sharper focus the materials taught in the section on Bible doctrine.

Objectives

1. The disciple will find that the review of this material will fix it more firmly into his mind.

2. The disciple will be able to talk about issues in this section more freely because of the review.

3. The disciple will understand the interconnectedness of the doctrines discussed in this session.

Scripture Memory

Take pains with these things; be absorbed in them, so that everyone will see your progress.

1 Timothy 4:15

Agenda

1. Mutual accountability and prayer.

2. Discuss the questions.

3. Share memory verses.

4. Discuss new terms.

1. Discuss two biblical arguments for the existence of God as fully as possible.

2. The Scripture states that God made man in His own image. What does this mean?

3. How do Mormons see the nature of God differently than evangelical Christians?

What is the essential nature of God?

4. How is the truth of the triune nature of God (the Trinity) taught in the Scriptures?

5. What is an attribute when the term is applied to God?

6. God is omnipresent (everywhere and fully present at any time). In what way does this demonstrate His superiority over Satan in the practical events of our lives?

7. Which attribute of the Father is most central? Discuss this attribute in relation to other attributes of God.

8. What is the difference between a relative and an absolute attribute of God? See if you can name or illustrate some of each.

9. We speak of the hypostatic union of Christ’s nature. What does this mean?

10. How would you defend the deity of Christ when talking to a “Jehovah’s Witness”?

11. Name some Scriptural evidences of the pre-existence of Jesus.

12. What was the relationship of Jesus and the creation of all the worlds?

13. Watchtower teachings say that Jesus was the first of all created beings. He was then the creator of everything else. This is an error, of course. How would you refute this teaching?

14. What does the teaching of the “kenosis” say about Jesus?

15. How would you demonstrate the deity of Christ? Discuss this adequately.

16. React to this statement. “The death of Jesus Christ was both tragic and marvelous.”

17. What is the meaning of the word “propitiation” as it relates to Jesus Christ?

18. React to the following statement. “God is reconciled to all men everywhere because of the death of Jesus. Now, the only reason men are condemned is not because of their sin, but because of their unbelief.”

19. Some teach the necessity of the efficiency of the atonement and therefore teach that it is limited (it is only for the elect). What do you think about this teaching?

20. In what way is the resurrection of Jesus a central factor in God’s redemptive dealings with mankind?

21. For what reason is the gender of the Holy Spirit often confused (this refers to failing to understand that He is a person)?

22. Discuss some ways the personality of the Holy Spirit is taught in Scripture.

23. What is wrong with the concept of “getting more of the Spirit”?

24. What are some of the chief ministries of the Holy Spirit?

25. In our studies of the Holy Spirit, we stated that the Holy Spirit is the member of the Godhead we are most likely to deal with in this present day. How is this true?

26. What is the difference between “human goodnesses” and the “fruit of the Spirit”?

27. What work of the Holy Spirit assures the safe-keeping of a believer?

28. What are the chief sins committed against the Holy Spirit by a believer? By an unbeliever?

29. What is an anthropomorphism?

30. How did the sin of Eve differ from the sin of Adam?

31. Discuss the more global effects of sin in the world.

32. In what way does Adam’s sin make us sinners?

33. Discuss salvation in its past, present, and future senses.

34. What is the meaning of the word “salvation” in its general sense?

35. What is the basic meaning of the word “regeneration” and how does it happen?

36. We believe the Bible teaches salvation through faith in Jesus Christ. How can this be harmonized with the emphasis on works in the book of James?

37. What are the implicit meanings of the word “repentance”?

38. To what does adoption relate?

39. React to this statement. “Repentance must have sorrow connected with it. Whenever one is sorry, repentance is assured”.

40. What part do angels play in the spreading of the Gospel?

41. React to this statement. “Whenever a believer dies, he or she becomes an angel.”

42. In a general sense, what role do angels play in the Father’s dealings with Christians today?

43. Discuss Satan’s role in the temptation of a person to sin (on a daily basis).

44. As “the god of this age,” what things is Satan most likely to be related to?

45. React to this statement. “The demon of depression is behind the depressive episodes of Christians today. If one is a Christian and depressed, he is a victim of Satan’s work.”

46. Discuss some of the things associated with the second coming of Christ to earth.

47. What is the “secret power of lawlessness” mentioned by Paul in 2 Thessalonians 2:7?

48. Elaborate on some of the happenings at the return of Christ.

49. What is the “Bema”?

50. What are some of the chief values to Christians of the compound names of Jehovah?

51. Is it possible for a Jehovah’s Witness to be saved? How about a Mormon? Or perhaps even a follower of the Unity organization?

52. What is the basic difference between Calvinism and Arminianism?

53. What is the Arian heresy?

54. Why are those other than Theistic in their world-views not able to be true Christians?

Related Topics: Discipleship

63. Leadership in Fulfilling the Great Comission

Purpose: The purpose of this final formal session is to share tools that will be helpful in providing continued assistance to your disciple and your family tree.

Objectives

1. The disciple will understand that his work is not finished.

2. The disciple will understand how he can provide continued assistance to those in his family tree.

3. The disciple will learn something about group dynamics.

4. The disciple will come to understand principles of spiritual leadership.

Scripture Memory

I have no greater joy than this: to hear that my children are living according to the truth. Dear friend, you demonstrate faithfulness by whatever you do for the brothers (even though they are strangers).

3 John 4-5

Agenda

1. Mutual accountability and prayer.

2. Discuss the session material.

3. Discussion questions.

4. Set up plans for continued follow-up, growth and care for your family tree and spiritual genealogy.

Where Do We Go From Here?

We have been meeting for much longer than a year. If things have gone as planned, you are now working with another in discipleship and possibly have a disciple who is beginning with someone as well. We remember that our studies have suggested that we work toward total evangelization through the process of multiplication. It is therefore necessary that we work toward some stated goals for giving continual help and encouragement to those in our spiritual genealogies. Each maturing disciple needs to develop a style of handling his “oikos” with efficiency that there be no failure in this process, and that total evangelization of the area and even the world will take place.

Workshop

What To Do

I. Consider your work as just begun. You have actually finished the first stage of a lifelong commitment. What has our Lord saved us and left us in the world to do? Matthew 28:19-20

We are called ____________________, 2 Corinthians 5:20, and this calling never ends until we are with the Lord. This should be my passion and my goal. It is the purpose for which the Father has left me in the world. What do ambassadors do?

Whom do we represent?

What is our message to a lost world ?

II. Develop ways to ensure the perpetuation of your ministry. You can add to the things that we suggest, but whatever you do, and however it is, make a commitment to do those things.

Some examples of this are seen in Scripture in the case of Paul the apostle. See 1 Thessalonians 2:5-10. List the things that were involved in Paul’s care for them that would be crucial in the care of your own genealogy.

Vs. 5

Vs. 6

Vs. 7

Vs. 8 (two things)

Vs. 9, 10

There is much from the life of Paul that we can learn about caring for those we have discipled.

Characteristics of a Godly and Mature Person

I. We need to “set the pace” in our personal lives. Water never runs higher than its source. This means that I must do what I want my family genealogy to do. It is important that I set an example for them—to keep ahead of them. See Luke 6:40. Someone has said, “We have no choice in having an impact on those around us, but we do have a choice on the kind of impact we provide.”

A. I will continue my Scripture memory work.

B. I will keep the vision of total evangelism in my awareness.

C. I will give time to reading, studying and personal growth.

D. I will continue to “bring forth fruit” and see that it remains, John 15:16.

E. I will remember my commitment to the goals of discipleship.

II. My prayer life is always a resource for growth and fellowship with God.

A. I will pray for people in my spiritual genealogy.

B. I will remember others who are doing this type of evangelism.

C. I will pray for the world.

D. Praying from a list from which I record answers is best.

III. Knowing that my genealogy needs encouragement, I should meet with them periodically and offer encouragement for their continuation in the ministry.

A. Meet in a group. There can be group encouragement for each one. Give each disciple your phone number to call if they need help.

B. As your group grows, you can assume responsibility for five generations. Each discipler should develop groups for his genealogy.

C. Learn something of group dynamics and run your group in such a way that difficulties that emerge can be handled effectively.

D. Meet every six weeks. Let this time be a time of free discussion and problem solving. Have an occasional breakfast meeting.

E. Decide to not be content with someone failing. Work with them. Give your telephone number to others as well as initiating calls for follow-up. Write letters or e-mail. Look for ways to bring encouragement and continuation in the matter of total evangelization.

In summary, don’t let your genealogy have breaks. Encourage your people to witness and win the lost. These become appropriate candidates for discipleship and you can help them “catch the vision.”

The group is for mutual help and encouragement. Group members should listen intently, reflect feelings and ask open-ended questions. Above all, catch the vision. Continue to share the task of reaching your area, your nation, and the world.

“And now I commend you to God and to the word of His grace, which is able to build you up and to give you the inheritance among all those who are sanctified.” Acts 20:32

Questions for Review and Discussion

1. Name some things you have learned in “Lifestyle Discipleship” that have enabled you to experience life-change.

2. By continuing as a discipler, you have developed a way to lay up pleasing service for eternity. Write on the ways this is true.

3. Continuing your life as a discipler who is multiplying service rather than simply serving God through tasks, can bring joy (3 John 4). Write a statement that concerns this aspect of a disciple-making ministry.

4. Looking back over your discipleship ministry, what has been your greatest joy?

5. List two profound things you have learned during this ministry and speak of how they have and/or will change your life.

Summary and Key Concepts

1. Every disciple should be an example for others to imitate. This is not an option. It is a command from Scripture. Every disciple should become an authentic Christ-like individual whose life is worthy of emulation.

2. It is of utmost importance that we walk in the Spirit and become wise. This will make our own walk unique in a way that enables greater usefulness.

3. If we “keep in step with the Spirit” and develop maturity, we will bring forth the “fruit of the Spirit” and those we win as we reproduce ourselves through discipleship.

4. It is right to have a correct concept of who we are...not thinking more highly of ourselves than we ought to think, but thinking realistically...children of God who are uniquely gifted and in the world to carry on the service of the King.

Related Topics: Discipleship

Bible Story of God Leadership Institutes

BSOG Leadership Institutes

This Bible storying and storytelling Institute has been developed for laity as well as established pastors and leaders who desire to learn practical techniques and strategies for Bible teaching and telling. Studies remind us that 70% of the world population either has literacy issues or prefers learning the Bible through auditory approaches, i.e., storytelling.

This institute empashsizes not only a storytelling approach but teaching God’s Word though a chronological system of stories that not only tells the stories of God but tells and teaches the Story of God, the Bible, so that the listener and learner fully understands God’s story and plan for mankind.

This program has been taught in three U.S. colleges and universities, as well as at Millar College of the Bible in Saskatchewan, Canada, The Bible College of Malaysia, and the Asia Pacific Nazarene Theological Seminary in addition to dozens of world locations through mission organizations and other ministry projects.

Each class is 1 ½ - 2 hours and are offered according to the host church or organization’s schedule and location. Classes can be provided individually or in one program over a full day.

Relational Training – Small Group Break-Out Approach

This training uses two major approaches that may be different from other training formats; a tag team teaching approach and a small group break-out hands-on application process. This is what we call “relational training,” as unlike other training formats this encourages those in the training classes opportunities to share their thinking and processing the course content with others “during” the training rather than reflecting or debriefing at a later time.

In relational training each person in the class brings to the discussion a wealth of information, perspectives and input from their own past experiences and backgrounds.

You will also find in this seminar program a major reduction on media supportive technology and extensive printed material. This is also intentional and in many settings advanced teaching technology is not always readily available and one of the purposes of this training is for it to be duplicable and expandable. That means those who have taken these classes would be very capable of serving on a training team and teaching this same content to others at a later time.

In order for this to occur, this seminar cannot depend on technology or extensive printed material that could possibly need translation and printing or equipment that others may not have. The content must stand alone as much as possible as a training unit that can easily be duplicated and retaught by others.

Hosting a Leadership Institute

BSOG offers this institute free for use by churches, ministries and international missions. Orientation of the institute content by one of the BSOG instructors, if desired, is available for expenses only of the instructor to train prospective mission teams and others. Currently there are several BSOG trainers available in the U.S. and Canada. BSOG trainers can also be involved in a church or mission organization mission initiatives on request and accompany teams, also for expenses only.

Kurt Jarvis, Founder
Leadership Institutes

Related Topics: Bible Literacy, Children's Training Resources, Christian Education, Christian Home, Christian Life, Discipleship

Lesson 80: Fulfilling Your Purpose in Life (John 15:1-6)

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January 25, 2015

A while back someone emailed me a link to a funny video that was in German; but you didn’t need to know German to get the point. A young woman asks her father how he likes the new iPad she gave him for his birthday. He says, “Good.” But then she watches him use his iPad as a cutting board for chopping his vegetables. She is horrified as he rinses it off in the sink and puts in the dishwasher! A caption in English informs us that no I-Pads were harmed in filming the episode.

In real life, it’s no laughing matter when you see something costly not being used to fulfill its intended purpose, or even worse, being used for something contrary to its purpose. In Buena Vista, Colorado, there is an old church building that is now being used as a visitor center and museum. How sad! A place that was built so that God’s people could gather to sing His praises and to hear His Word proclaimed is now being used for a far lesser purpose!

But the saddest of all is when people who have been redeemed by the blood of Christ fail to live for the purpose for which He saved them. They drift through life like the unredeemed people around them, living to accumulate more stuff that they think will make them happier before they die. But they never stop to consider what God wants them to do with the few precious years and the gifts that He gives them.

In our text, Jesus gives the disciples an extended allegory that reveals God’s purpose in saving them: He wants them to bear much fruit. Jesus pictures Himself as the true vine, the Father as the vinedresser, and the disciples as the branches. A man plants a vineyard for a different reason than he plants a flower garden. We plant flower gardens so that we can enjoy the beautiful flowers. But if you plant a vineyard, your purpose is to harvest a crop of grapes. Your goal is that your vineyard would bear a lot of fruit. If all it produces is flowers and leaves, your efforts in planting it have failed. So the Lord’s point in John 15:1-6 is:

Christ’s true followers abide in Him as branches in the true vine and so bear much fruit.

John 15 falls into three sections that reflect our priorities as a church and as individual believers. Our first priority is God-ward, and verses 1-11 focus on our relationship with Christ. Our second priority is to love one another, which is the point of verses 12-17. Our third priority is to proclaim the good news to the world, which is the focus of verses 18-27. But the point of the allegory of the vine and the branches is that we who follow Christ would abide in Him and bear much fruit. That’s our purpose as redeemed people. So we need to understand the parts of the analogy so that we can understand how to fulfill our God-given purpose.

1. Jesus Christ is the true vine and His Father is the vinedresser.

John 15:1: “I am the true vine, and My Father is the vinedresser.” This is the seventh and final “I am” claim of Jesus in John’s Gospel (John 6:35; 8:12; 10:7, 11; 11:25; 14:6). Why would Jesus use this analogy? What would the disciples have thought when they heard Jesus make this claim?

In the Old Testament, Israel is often referred to as God’s vine that He planted. It became a national symbol that was on some of their coins. There was a golden vine over the entrance to the temple. In Isaiah 5:1-7, the prophet paints a picture of the Lord planting a vineyard and expecting to find good grapes at the harvest, but it only produced worthless grapes. As a result, the Lord threatened to destroy the vineyard because it did not fulfill His intended purpose. Psalm 80 uses a similar analogy. God removed a vine from Egypt, planted it, and for a while it was prospering. But now the hedges that protected the vine are broken down and wild animals were ravaging the vineyard. So the psalmist cries out for God to turn again and take care of this vine that He planted so that it will again be fruitful. Other Old Testament prophets use the same analogy (Jer. 2:21; 6:8-9; Ezek. 17:6-10; 19:10-14; Hos. 10:1-2). In each case, Israel was God’s vine that He planted with the intention that it would bear fruit. But, they were disobedient and unfruitful.

But now Jesus claims to be the true vine. In John’s Gospel, we have already seen that Jesus is the true temple, the dwelling place of God with His people (John 2:13-22). Also, Jesus gives living water that Jacob’s well cannot give (John 4:1-42). Further, Jesus is the new Moses who supplies God’s people with true bread that comes down from heaven to give life to all that eat of it (John 6:32-58). In John 7, Jesus fulfills and supersedes the Feast of Tabernacles. John 8 & 9 picture what John 1:9 declared, that Jesus is the true light of the world. Thus when Jesus tells the disciples that He is the true vine, He means that unlike faithless Israel, Jesus is the ideal realization of all that God intended for His people. He is the epitome of what God wanted His people to be. Jesus brought forth the fruit that Israel failed to produce.

Then Jesus adds (John 15:1b), “My Father is the vinedresser.” He owns the vineyard and He takes care of the vines. He cuts off the dead branches and prunes the ones that bear fruit so that they will bear even more fruit. He is in control of the whole process and As the owner, He expects fruit from His vineyard and He does what is necessary for it to bear fruit.

2. Christ’s purpose for all branches in Him is that we bear much fruit.

Bearing fruit is a main theme in this analogy. We see it both negatively and positively in John 15:2: “Every branch in Me that does not bear fruit, He takes away; and every branch that bears fruit, He prunes it so that it may bear more fruit.” The Lord also mentions bearing fruit in John 15:4 (2x), 5, 8, & 16 (2x). So, to understand this allegory, we need to know what Jesus means by fruit.

A. To bear fruit is to see God produce Christlikeness in you.

While the word is used widely in the New Testament, in this context it primarily refers to whatever the life of Christ produces in and through the believer who lives in close fellowship with Him. That includes obedience to Christ’s commandments, especially the command to love one another (John 15:10, 12). This extends to all godly behavior (Matt. 7:20; Rom. 6:21), such as repentance (Matt. 3:7) and conduct that is pleasing to the Lord (Eph. 5:9-10). It encompasses experiencing Jesus’ peace and joy (John 14:27; 15:11). Since love, joy, and peace are the first three fruits of the Spirit, we can extend the list to include the other fruits (Gal. 5:22-23): “patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.” It also refers to seeing people come to Christ through your witness (John 4:36) and seeing them grow in Christ through your influence (Rom. 1:13). To sum it up, fruit is Christlike character, Christlike conduct, and Christlike converts.

Obviously, it takes time for fruit to grow. So don’t despair if you don’t see all of these qualities fully developed in your life yet. But if you are a Christian, you should see growth or progress in these things. You should be in the habit of obeying Christ. You should see the fruit of the Spirit increasing in your conduct. You should be hungering and thirsting after righteousness with increasing intensity. You should be looking for opportunities to tell others about the Savior. If you’re not seeing these fruits growing in your life, you need to figure out why not. Growth in Christlike fruit should be the normal experience of every Christian.

Also, the fruit that we produce will vary in amount and in kind according to our spiritual gifts. In the parable of the sower (Matt. 13:3-8), the good soil representing true believers bore fruit, but it varied: some bore a hundredfold, some sixty, and some thirty. The soil that didn’t bear any fruit represents those who did not truly believe in Christ. Also, we’re all given different spiritual gifts and so our fruit will vary in kind. Determining your spiritual gift helps you to know where you should concentrate your efforts in serving the Lord. Those gifted in service will bear fruit that is different than those with speaking gifts. Both are vital. But we all should exercise our gifts to glorify God (1 Pet. 4:10-11).

So the overall point is both clear and important: God saved you to bear fruit for Jesus Christ. If you profess to be a Christian, but you aren’t bearing fruit, you need to examine yourself and make some course corrections before it’s too late. Here’s why:

B. The branches that do not bear fruit are cut off and thrown into the fire.

Two verses teach this: John 15:2a, “Every branch in Me that does not bear fruit, He takes away….” And, John 15:6, “If anyone does not abide in Me, he is thrown away as a branch and dries up; and they gather them, and cast them into the fire and they are burned.” But there is debate over the meaning of these verses, so we need to examine them more carefully.

Some understand verse 2 to teach that believers may lose their salvation. I hope that I don’t need to spend much time refuting that view, since it contradicts so many clear Scriptures. After all, eternal life is eternal, not temporary. In John 6:39-40, Jesus makes it clear that He will not lose any that the Father has given to Him, but will give them eternal life and raise them up on the last day. In John 10:28-29, Jesus said of His sheep, “I give eternal life to them, and they will never perish; and no one will snatch them out of My hand. My Father, who has given them to Me, is greater than all; and no one is able to snatch them out of the Father’s hand.” Other Scriptures strongly affirm that God keeps all whom He saves unto eternal life (Rom. 8:28-36; Phil. 1:6, etc.).

Others interpret John 15:2 by emphasizing the phrase, “in Me.” They understand Jesus to be referring to true believers who are in Him. They interpret the verse in one of two ways. Some say that it refers to the sin unto death, where God disciplines sinning believers by removing them from this life (1 Cor. 11:30; 1 John 5:16). The problem is, Jesus says that the Father removes every branch in Him that doesn’t bear fruit, and that doesn’t seem to happen with sinning Christians. Others point out that the verb translated “takes away” also can mean, “lifts up.” They argue that it pictures a vinedresser propping up a branch that is drooping in the mud so that it gets light and air to help it begin to bear fruit. I used to hold that view, but now in light of verse 6, I don’t think it is what Jesus meant.

In the allegory, there are two types of branches: Some do not bear fruit and some bear fruit. Those that do not bear fruit are not fulfilling their purpose. They’re dead wood. They get cut off and thrown into the fire. They represent those who profess to believe in Jesus, but their lives give no evidence of saving faith. They don’t bear fruit. In the context, it would refer to Judas Iscariot, who professed to believe, followed Jesus for three years, and went out preaching in His name, but whose real god was greed.

In support of this, in verse 3 Jesus tells the eleven, “You are already clean because of the word which I have spoken to you.” That takes us back to John 13:10, where after the foot washing, Jesus said, “and you are clean, but not all of you.” John explains that He was referring to Judas as the unclean one. Judas was the unfruitful branch that was taken away and whose final end was to be cast into the fires of hell.

But then, what about the phrase “in Me”? That sounds like it describes someone who is a true believer. But this is an allegory or analogy, and you can’t press every point in such figures of speech. Also, in Matthew 3:7-10, John the Baptist reams out the Pharisees who thought that being children of Abraham would get them into God’s kingdom, even though their lives did not bear the fruit of repentance. He tells them (Matt. 3:10b), “Therefore every tree that does not bear good fruit is cut down and thrown into the fire.”

Also, in Romans 11, the apostle Paul pictures Israel as an olive tree, where some branches were broken off because of unbelief, while the believing Gentiles were grafted in. The Jewish branches who thought that they had a sure place in God’s kingdom because of their Jewish religion, but who rejected Christ, would be cut off. Only those who truly believe in Him will be saved.

Since Jesus is the true vine, the fulfillment of how Israel is pictured in the Old Testament, the branches in Him that are taken away and cast into the fire do not represent true believers, but rather those who think that they’re Christians because they go to church. But they lack the genuine evidence that they are believers; they lack the fruit of Christlikeness in their lives. They are like those that James speaks about who say they have faith, but have no works. Their claim is bogus.

But, what about the branches that do bear fruit?

C. The branches that bear fruit are pruned so that they will bear more fruit and much fruit.

Note the progression: In verse 2, the Father prunes the branches that bear fruit so that they will bear more fruit. In verse 5, the branches that abide in Christ bear much fruit. This points to the process involved in bearing fruit, which takes time. At first, you will bear some fruit. But as time goes on, you should bear more fruit. Finally, the vinedresser wants you to bear much fruit.

To accomplish this, Jesus cleans you with His word and the vinedresser prunes you. Jesus says (John 15:3), “You are already clean because of the word which I have spoken to you.” Clean is the noun in Greek related to the verb “prunes” in verse 2. As I understand it, Jesus is saying that the word He has spoken to them has already “cleaned” them in the sense of salvation. Their sins are forgiven. It’s comparable to the bath in John 13:10, which cleansed them all over. But the Father further “cleans” (or prunes) them repeatedly, so that they will become more fruitful. This is comparable to the repeated foot washing that is necessary to walk in fellowship with the Lord. The pruning is the essential discipline that all true children of God must experience if they are to grow “the peaceful fruit of righteousness” (Heb. 12:11).

I’m not much of a gardener and apparently neither is Bruce Wilkinson. In his book, Secrets of the Vine ([Multnomah Publishers], pp. 55-57), he tells about moving to the country one spring. The fence that he shared with his neighbor had a large grape vine on it and he and his family were looking forward to enjoying some nice grapes that fall. But a few days moving in, he noticed the neighbor out there hacking away at the vine with some large shears. He was worried that his neighbor was going to kill the vine!

Trying to be diplomatic, he walked over and asked the neighbor, “You don’t like grapes, I guess?” “Love grapes,” he replied. Bruce tried to express his hopes that they could share some of the grapes, but his confusion and disappointment over what the neighbor was doing was obvious. After observing that he was a city boy and surmising that he didn’t know much about grapes, the neighbor explained, “Well, son, we can either grow ourselves a lot of beautiful leaves filling up this whole fence line. Or we can have the biggest, juiciest, sweetest grapes you and your family have ever seen. We just can’t have both.” He knew that to bear good fruit, that vine had to be pruned.

And you can’t bear fruit for the Lord unless the heavenly Gardener prunes your life. Pruning isn’t very pleasant when it happens, but it yields a bigger, better crop of fruit in the long run. The fact is, when we come into the Christian life, we all bring a lot of the flesh and the world with us. God is gracious not to hack it all away at once, or we’d bleed to death! But if you want to be like Christ, it’s got to go. If that sounds unpleasant, keep in mind that His aim is that His joy would be in us and our joy would be made full (John 15:11). But you’ve got to submit to the pruning process, trusting that the Father knows what He’s doing.

But there’s one other key concept in these verses that shows our responsibility if we want to bear fruit:

3. As branches in the true vine, we must abide in Christ.

The verb “abide” (or, “remain”) is used 11 times in John 15, 40 times in John’s Gospel, and 27 times in John’s epistles (Edwin Blum, The Bible Knowledge Commentary, ed. by John Walvoord and Roy Zuck [Victor Books], 2:325). The sense of Jesus’ words (John 15:4), “Abide in Me, and I in you,” is probably, “Abide in me, and see that I abide in you” (Leon Morris, The Gospel According to John [Eerdmans], p. 670). In other words, “Live in such a manner that you are at home in Me and that I am at home in you.” It’s much the same as in John 14:23, where Jesus said that both He and the Father would come to the one who keeps His word and make their home with him.

Inherent in that concept is that we are in a long-term, close, growing relationship with Jesus Christ (see James Rosscup, Abiding in Christ [Zondervan], pp. 108-109). Jesus is looking at the overall direction of our lives. To know Him as Savior and Lord means that we invite Him to move into our lives and live there as the permanent Lord of all we are and do (Eph. 3:17). As He lives there, we don’t do anything that would make Him uncomfortable to be there. We let Him clean out the garbage that offends Him. The longer He lives with us, the closer we grow to know and love Him. As we saw in John 14:21, Jesus promises to love and to disclose Himself to the one who has and obeys His commandments.

The abiding relationship also implies dependence on Christ, as His words (John 15:5) indicate, “For apart from Me, you can do nothing.” He means that apart from dependence on Him, we can’t bear good fruit that remains (John 15:16). But abiding is not an effortless, passive matter, as it sometimes is taught: “Just as the branch effortlessly lets the life of the vine flow through it, so you are to do nothing.” I’ve heard it said, “If you’re striving, you’re not abiding.” That kind of teaching is out of balance. The Bible talks about the need to strive against sin (Heb. 12:4). Paul said that he labored and strived for Christ, but added that he did so “according to His power, which mightily works within me” (Col. 1:29). He pictured the Christian life as a battle, a fight, and an athletic contest (Eph. 6:10-12, 1 Cor. 9:26-27; 2 Tim. 4:7).

The New Schofield Reference Bible ([Oxford University Press], p. 1148) helpfully explains what it means to abide:

To abide in Christ is, on the one hand, to have no known sin unjudged and unconfessed, no interest into which He is not brought, no life which He cannot share. On the other hand, the abiding one takes all burdens to Him, and draws all wisdom, life, and strength from Him. It is not unceasing consciousness of these things, and of Him, but that nothing is allowed in the life which separates from Him.

Conclusion

So our Lord’s words should cause us all to ask, “Am I bearing fruit for His kingdom? Am I joyfully submitting to His loving pruning in my life? Am I daily abiding in Christ, making Him at home in my heart?” That’s the purpose for which He saved you. Don’t live for anything less!

Application Questions

  1. Is bearing fruit for Christ your purpose in life? What fruit has Christ produced in your life since you trusted in Him?
  2. How can a Christian discover his spiritual gift? How important is it to determine what your gift is?
  3. What may be healthy and what is unhealthy about comparing your “fruit” with that of other believers?
  4. What ungodly activities, relationships, or priorities do you need to prune out of your life so that the Lord doesn’t have to do it? Prioritize them and work out a plan to get started.

Copyright, Steven J. Cole, 2015, All Rights Reserved.

Unless otherwise noted, all Scripture Quotations are from the New American Standard Bible, Updated Edition © The Lockman Foundation

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Lesson 79: Joy and Peace for Troubled Times (John 14:25-31)

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January 18, 2015

Please understand that I wasn’t reading this on my study leave last week, but in one of my “Peanuts” books, Charlie Brown and Linus are looking very serious. Violet asks, “What are you two standing here looking so worried about?” Charlie replies, “We’re afraid of the future!” She asks, “Are you worried about anything in particular?” Charlie says, “Oh, no, we’re worried about everything!” Linus adds, “Yes, our worrying is very broadminded!” (You’re a Winner, Charlie Brown! By Charles Schulz [Fawcett Crest])

It’s not news that we live in a world that gives us much to worry about. A hundred years ago, a tragedy could wipe out thousands of people on the other side of the world, and you might never hear about it. But now we hear about terrorist atrocities and other tragedies almost instantly and can watch what happened on our phones. Living in such a stressful world, we need a way to experience genuine joy and peace.

And joy and peace, which are fruits of the Spirit, should mark us as Christians. But our main reason for seeking joy and peace should not be because these qualities make life more pleasant, but rather because we want our lives to glorify God. When people ask why we’re so joyful or so calm in this troubled world, our reply should point them to the Lord Jesus Christ.

In our text, the Lord continues to give encouragement and comfort to the disciples just hours before His arrest and crucifixion. Their whole world would soon be turned upside down. Rather than being focused on Himself, the Lord’s focus was on equipping them for the trials that they would face. His words show us how to have His joy and peace in troubled times:

We can rejoice that Jesus returned to the Father, sent the Holy Spirit to teach us, and gave us His peace for our troubled times.

1. We can rejoice that Jesus returned to the Father.

Jesus gives a gentle rebuke to the disciples, who were understandably troubled over the news that He was leaving them. He says (John 14:28), “You heard that I said to you, ‘I go away, and I will come to you.’ If you loved Me, you would have rejoiced because I go to the Father, for the Father is greater than I.” Jesus doesn’t mean that the disciples did not love Him at all. Rather He is exposing their self-focus and their lack of understanding.

Heretical groups such as the Jehovah’s Witnesses cite Jesus’ words, “the Father is greater than I,” as proof that Jesus is not God, but their reasoning is faulty. First, you have to interpret Jesus’ meaning in light of the rest of John’s Gospel, which begins by asserting (John 1:1), “In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.” In John 5:18-47, when the Jews accused Jesus of making Himself equal with God, He didn’t back off or correct them. Rather, He went on at length to make claims that only God can rightly make. In John 8:58, in response to the hostile attacks of the Jews, Jesus asserted, “Truly, truly, I say to you, before Abraham was born, I am.”

In John 10:30, Jesus plainly asserted, “I and the Father are one.” This led the Jews to pick up stones to stone Him, charging Him with making Himself out to be God. Again, Jesus didn’t correct them, but affirmed their accusations. In John 14:9, after Philip asked Jesus to show them the Father, He replied, “Have I been so long with you, and yet you have not come to know Me, Philip? He who has seen Me has seen the Father; how can you say, ‘Show us the Father’?” In John 20:28-29, after Thomas exclaimed to the risen Savior, “My Lord and my God!” Jesus didn’t rebuke him for blasphemy, but rather commended his faith.

So to interpret correctly John 14:28, “the Father is greater than I,” we must interpret it in light of these and other affirmations of Jesus’ deity. Also, if I were soberly to say to you, “God is greater than I,” you would rightly think that I had become delusional! Just to make that comparison would be ludicrous! For Jesus even to make such a statement assumes the essential oneness between Him and the Father that He directly stated in John 10:30. (This paragraph was adapted from D. A. Carson, The Farewell Discourse and Final Prayer of Jesus [Baker], p. 80.)

So why does Jesus tell the disciples here that they should have rejoiced at the news of His departure, “for the Father is greater than I”? In His incarnation, Jesus temporarily laid aside the glory that He shared with the Father from all eternity (John 17:5). He took on the form of a servant and became obedient to death on the cross. After His resurrection, He would be restored to His glory with the Father, seated at His right hand over all authority in the universe (Eph. 1:20-22; Phil. 2:5-11), and He would send the Holy Spirit to indwell them. If the disciples had understood all of this and if their focus had been on loving Jesus rather than on themselves, they would have rejoiced over His return to the Father.

Also, even in heaven there is a hierarchy of authority. The Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit are all eternally and equally one God. Yet at the same time, the Son submits to the Father and the Spirit submits to the Father and the Son in order to carry out the divine plan. The Athanasian Creed stated that the Son is eternally begotten of the Father and the Spirit is eternally proceeding from the Father and the Son. And yet all three members of the trinity are co-eternal and co-equal, although distinguished from one another.

The practical application for us is: if Jesus is the eternal Son of God, now sitting at the Father’s right hand, then He is sovereign over all the troublesome events in this world and in your life. He has promised to work all these things together for good for those who love Him (Rom. 8:28).

In John 14:30-31, Jesus makes it clear that He was also sovereign over Satan and over His own death. Although Satan was behind the events that culminated in the cross, Satan was not over Jesus. He had nothing on Jesus because Jesus was sinless. Rather, Jesus went to the cross to show the world that He loves the Father. He had the authority to lay down His own life and to take it up again (John 10:18). This means that Satan can only touch us to the extent that Jesus allows him to do (Luke 22:31; Job 1:12).

Also, as Jesus repeats again (John 14:28), He will come again to us. This could refer to His second coming (John 14:3), to His resurrection appearances (John 14:19), or to coming to us in the person of the Holy Spirit (John 14:18, 26). All three are a source of joy for us as we face troubling times. But in light of Jesus’ mentioning His return to the Father, the reference here is probably to His promise to send the Holy Spirit.

2. We can rejoice that Jesus has sent the Holy Spirit to teach us.

John 14:26: “But the Helper, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in My name, He will teach you all things, and bring to your remembrance all that I said to you.” As the last part of that verse shows, this promise applied first and foremost to the apostles to whom Jesus spoke. Although they did not have electronic means to record Jesus’ words and play them back later, Jesus promises that the Holy Spirit would perform that function. He would bring to the disciples’ remembrance all that Jesus said to them and He would give them understanding by teaching them what these things meant. In this chapter, we have seen how Thomas, Philip, and Judas (not Iscariot) all lacked understanding (John 14:5, 8, 22). But after the Day of Pentecost, the Spirit would give them understanding and cause them to remember Jesus’ teachings. We have the apostolic testimony and understanding in the New Testament.

This means that we can have confidence that the New Testament is inspired by God. As Peter states (2 Pet. 1:16), “For we did not follow cleverly devised tales when we made known to you the power and coming of our Lord Jesus Christ, but we were eyewitnesses of His majesty.” And, although Paul’s words (2 Tim. 3:16-17) refer primarily to the Old Testament, they also apply to the New Testament, “All Scripture is inspired by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, for training in righteousness; so that the man of God may be adequate, equipped for every good work.” The more you study the Bible, the more you realize that it is a supernatural, Spirit-inspired book.

But there is a secondary application of verse 26 for us: The indwelling Holy Spirit will teach us the meaning of Scripture and will bring that meaning to our minds at the times when we most need it. But this isn’t automatic! We have to study the Scriptures diligently and memorize as much of it as we can. We must interpret the Bible properly, comparing Scripture with Scripture in light of the context and the author’s intended meaning. We should compare our studies with that of gifted, Spirit-filled scholars to make sure that we aren’t out of line, especially on difficult texts.

But as Paul put it (1 Cor. 2:12), “Now we have received, not the spirit of the world, but the Spirit who is from God, so that we may know the things freely given to us by God ….” So dig into the Word and ask the Spirit to reveal to you “the things freely given to us by God.” Ask Him to bring to your remembrance the Scriptures that you have studied at the times when you need to apply them.

We can rejoice in this troubled world because Jesus has returned to the Father, where He is enthroned as Lord of all. We can rejoice because He sent the Holy Spirit to teach us.

3. We can rejoice that Jesus has given us His peace for our troubled times.

John 14:27: “Peace I leave with you; My peace I give to you; not as the world gives do I give to you. Do not let your heart be troubled, nor let it be fearful.” What a wonderful promise from our Lord! I want to answer two questions to help us understand and apply it: What is Jesus’ peace? How can I get it when I need it?

A. What is Jesus’ peace?

1. Jesus’ peace is not the peace that the world gives.

The Lord makes it clear that His peace is different than the peace that comes from the world. The world has its own ways of attaining peace. I recently saw a news report about a middle school in San Francisco that does a half hour of transcendental meditation with all the students every day. They claim that grades have gone up and problems in the school have gone down since they began the program. So you can’t pray or read the Bible in public schools, but it’s mandatory to practice Hinduism! The cover story on last week’s Parade magazine called meditation “The #1 health-booster in 2015.” It said, “Politicians, children & celebrities are doing it—shouldn’t you?” Others seek peace through exercise, counseling, false religions, prescription drugs, illegal drugs, alcohol, or other means. But whatever the means, the world’s peace does not come from Jesus Christ or depend on Him.

2) Jesus’ peace is the inner calm and freedom from anxiety that comes from trusting in the sovereign God and knowing that you are obedient to Him.

“Peace” comes from the Hebrew “shalom,” which refers to general well-being or contentedness which comes from God (The New International Dictionary of New Testament Theology, ed. by Colin Brown [Zondervan] 2:777). D. A. Carson points out (The Gospel According to John [Apollos/Eerdmans], p. 505, “Peace is one of the fundamental characteristics of the messianic kingdom anticipated in the Old Testament (Num. 6:26; Ps. 29:11; Isa. 9:6-7; 52:7; 54:13; 57:19; Ezek. 37:26; Hag. 2:9) and fulfilled in the New (Acts 10:36; Rom. 1:7; 5:1; 14:17).” This peace is three-dimensional.

First, we enjoy peace with God because Christ bore the penalty for our sins on the cross. As Romans 5:1 states, “Therefore, having been justified by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ.” If you have trusted in Christ to save you from God’s judgment, you have eternal peace with God.

Second, we can enjoy the peace of God in the midst of life’s difficult times. This peace only comes to those who first have peace with God through faith in Christ. And, obtaining it is not automatic or effortless. Even Jesus had to wrestle to obtain it. As we have seen, Jesus was troubled as He saw the weeping at the tomb of Lazarus (John 11:33). He was troubled again as He recognized that the appointed hour of the cross drew near (John 12:27). He was troubled a third time as He testified that Judas would betray Him (John 13:21). This means that the peace Jesus gives is not detachment, indifference, or aloofness from life’s problems. Jesus experienced real human emotions as He faced the cross. But through prayer (John 17 and in the Garden) and through knowing that He was doing the Father’s will, Jesus wrestled through to the place of inner peace as He faced horrific suffering and death for our sins.

So although it sounds contradictory, you’ve got to fight for this inner peace that comes from God. That’s why Jesus commands (John 14:27), “Do not let your heart be troubled, nor let it be fearful.” You have to take control over your emotions. We see this often in the psalms, where David’s life is threatened, but he firmly fixes his heart on the Lord, even if he has to do it more than once. In Psalm 57, he was in a cave, hiding from Saul and his army that was combing the countryside looking for him to kill him. After crying out for God to be gracious to him, David affirms (Ps. 57:7), “My heart is steadfast, O God, my heart is steadfast; I will sing, yes, I will sing praises!” He has to state his resolve twice because his fears were so very real! Part of the fight also involves reciting God’s promises to give us peace (such as John 14:27 & 16:33).

The third form of God’s peace is peace with others. In Ephesians 2:14, Paul wrote, “For He Himself is our peace, who made both groups into one and broke down the barrier of the dividing wall.” “Both groups” refers to the Jews and Gentiles, who, outside of Christ, were despised enemies. The dividing wall alludes to a literal wall in the temple that kept Gentiles out of the inner courtyard upon threat of death. But in Christ, both groups are now one body.

But as with inner peace, so peace with others is not automatic or effortless. It often requires a lot of time and emotional energy to work through differences and misunderstandings. It requires death to self to humbly ask forgiveness when you’re in the wrong. It can be a difficult struggle to root out bitterness and to be kind to those who have wronged you. But as Paul enjoins (Rom. 12:18), “If possible, so far as it depends on you, be at peace with all men.” He later adds (Rom. 14:17), “For the kingdom of God is not eating and drinking, but righteousness and peace and joy in the Holy Spirit.” And (Rom. 14:19), “So then we pursue the things which make for peace and the building up of one another.” So the Lord grants us His peace as a gift, but we have to pursue it to experience it!

B. How can I get Christ’s peace when I need it?

I’ve already mentioned several ways to obtain Christ’s peace: You get peace with God through faith in Jesus Christ. You get the peace of God by taking control of your emotions through prayer and obedience to God’s will. You get peace with others through the commitment to work through relational difficulties. But let me expand briefly on some of these.

1. To have Christ’s peace in troubled times, walk in the Spirit and ask Him to teach you His Word.

Joy and peace are fruits that grow in your life as you walk in the Spirit (Gal. 5:16, 22). But you’ve got to be cultivating these fruits before you get into life’s storms. As Proverbs 1:20-33 makes clear, wisdom cries out, calling us to learn from it. But if we refuse to listen, calamity will hit and then it will be too late to gain the peace that we desire. The time to study God’s Word and hide it in your heart is before you get into a crisis.

2. To have Christ’s peace in troubled times, make sure that you’re doing God’s will.

At the end of verse 31, Jesus says, “Get up, let us go from here.” Some think that at this point, Jesus and the disciples left the upper room and started walking towards Gethsemane. Or, as often happens when we say to our mates, “Let’s go home,” we stay and talk for another half hour. If that’s what happened, they may not have actually left the room until after Jesus’ prayer (chapter 17; cf. John 18:1). But Jesus could have said, “Get up, let’s run for our lives while we can!” Instead, He calmly went to Gethsemane and the cross because He knew that He was doing what His Father had commanded (John 14:31). The point is, if you know that you’re doing what God has commanded, you can stand firm and be calm even in the midst of fierce opposition or difficult trials.

3. To have Christ’s peace in troubled times, take your anxieties to the Lord in thankful prayer.

A command and promise that you should memorize is Philippians 4:6-7: “Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all comprehension, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.”

As many of you know, when I first came here over 22 years ago, a difficult conflict erupted between me and some elders (who are no longer here) who were pro-choice on the matter of abortion. Stan Johnson, who was then the youth pastor, stood with me against them. It all came to a head at a meeting in January, 1993, where they would have preferred to force me out of my job. I spent that day fasting and praying and the Lord gave me some assurances that He stood with me.

But as I walked up the sidewalk towards the door for that meeting, my stomach was in knots. I was reciting Philippians 4:6-7 to calm my anxiety and asking the Lord why I wasn’t experiencing His peace when two words in the verse jumped out: “with thanksgiving”! I realized that I hadn’t thanked the Lord for that trial. I stopped, bowed my head, and said, “Thank you, Lord, for this opportunity to trust You.” Immediately I had His peace. So take your anxieties to the Lord in thankful prayer!

4. To have Christ’s peace in troubled times, trust in Jesus as the Lord of all.

Jesus says (John 14:29), “Now I have told you before it happens, so that when it happens, you may believe.” Jesus is a proven Prophet, whose every word is true. He is now exalted to the right hand of the Father, sharing again in the Father’s glory which He had with Him before the foundation of the world (John 17:5). He has authority over Satan, who is temporarily the ruler of this world (John 14:30). He has promised that He will come again in power and glory to strike down the nations with the sword that comes out of His mouth, to tread the wine press of the fierce wrath of God, and to vindicate all of His servants who have suffered for His name (Rev. 6:10; 19:15). Either you trust Him and enjoy His peace or you don’t! Which is it?

Conclusion

Anxiety has been described as “a thin stream of fear trickling through the mind. If encouraged, it cuts a channel into which all other thoughts are drained.” (Arthur Roche, Reader’s Digest, [6/88], p. 159.) Does that describe you? It doesn’t have to! The Lord Jesus who ascended to the Father and sent the Holy Spirit wants you to believe in Him and experience the joy and peace that He gives for all your troubled times.

Application Questions

  1. What causes you the most anxiety? Based on this message, what can you do to cut it off at its root?
  2. Is it wrong for a Christian to take anti-anxiety medication? Why/why not? What biblical guidelines should be followed?
  3. Should Christians practice yoga? Is a “Christianized” version of it okay?
  4. Why should God’s glory, not our enjoyable frame of mind, be paramount in our seeking joy and peace?

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13. A Word to Wives (1 Peter 3:1-6)

1 In the same way, you wives, be submissive to your own husbands so that even if any of them are disobedient to the word, they may be won without a word by the behavior of their wives, 2 as they observe your chaste and respectful behavior.

3 And let not your adornment be merely external—braiding the hair, and wearing gold jewelry, or putting on dresses; 4 but let it be the hidden person of the heart, with the imperishable quality of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is precious in the sight of God.

5 For in this way in former times the holy women also, who hoped in God, used to adorn themselves, being submissive to their own husbands. 6 Thus Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him lord, and you have become her children if you do what is right without being frightened by any fear.

Introduction

Although today is Mother’s Day, I did not plan to preach on this text; in fact, I would have been tempted to avoid this text. If we are perfectly honest, we would have to admit most Mother’s Day sermons are dishonest. Always positive, affirming, sentimental, perhaps untruthful, they sound as though every marriage in the church is unending heavenly bliss, and that every mother is a perfect blend of Mother Theresa, Betty Crocker, and Brooke Shields. If only marriages were year-round what they appear to be on Mother’s Day.

Peter is a man in touch with reality who knows that marriages are not heaven on earth. Like every other human institution, and indeed all creation, marriages too suffer from the adverse affects of the fall. Suffering and groaning (see Romans 8:18-25) are experienced in marriage as in every other aspect of life. Peter assumes there will be suffering in marriage, especially for those Christians who choose to live godly lives. Here, as elsewhere, we will be evil spoken of because of our good deeds (1 Peter 2:12).

Because of the fallen world we live in and the sin nature which exists in our flesh, Christian marriages are susceptible to the same maladies as non-Christian marriages. Peter knows that suffering for the sake of Christ will not only be the lot of Christian citizens living under the authority of heathen political leaders, and slaves under the authority of their human masters, but also wives who are subject to their husbands.

William Barclay, who writes of marriage as it existed in Peter’s day, helps us appreciate the improved lot of women today and also helps us understand why Peter assumes husbands in his day may be abusive to their wives, especially godly wives married to unbelieving husbands.82

In every sphere of ancient civilization, women had no rights at all. Under Jewish law a woman was a thing; she was owned by her husband in exactly the same way as he owned his sheep and his goats; on no account could she leave him, although he could dismiss her at any moment. For a wife to change her religion while her husband did not was unthinkable.

In Greek civilization the duty of the woman was ‘to remain indoors and to be obedient to her husband.’ It was the sign of a good woman that she must see as little, hear as little and ask as little as possible. She had no kind of independent existence and no kind of mind of her own, and her husband could divorce her almost at caprice, so long as he returned her dowry.

Under Roman law a woman had no rights. In law she remained for ever a child. When she was under her father she was under the patira potestas, the father’s power, which gave the father the right even of life and death over her; and when she married she passed equally into the power of her husband. She was entirely subject to her husband and completely at his mercy. Cato the Censor, the typical ancient Roman, wrote: ‘If you were to catch your wife in an act of infidelity, you can kill her with impunity without a trial.’ Roman matrons were prohibited from drinking wine, and Egnatius beat his wife to death when he found her doing so. Sulpicius Gallus dismissed his wife because she had once appeared in the streets without a veil. Antistius Vetus divorced his wife because he saw her secretly speaking to a freed woman in public. Publius Sempronius Sophus divorced his wife because once she went to the public games. The whole attitude of ancient civilization was that no woman could dare take any decision for herself.83

The culture of Peter’s day and the culture of our own day are worlds apart. They could hardly be more different as far as marriage and the place of women is concerned. When Peter commanded wives to be subject to their husbands, this command came as no surprise. Submission was exactly what was expected of wives. Plutarch once put it this way:

So it is with women also; if they subordinate themselves to their husbands, they are commended, but if they want to have control, they cut a sorrier figure than the subjects of their control. And control ought to be exercised by the men over the women, not as the owner has control over a piece of property, but, as the soul controls the body, by entering into her feelings and being knit to her through goodwill.84

In our society, Peter’s instruction to wives to submit to their husbands is totally foreign and repugnant to the feminist movement outside or inside the church. One contemporary commentator clearly suggests Peter’s words are definitely not for us but for another day and time:

The basic command to submission sounds strange to modern Western readers, and so it must be understood in its first-century and early Christian context. Submission to the husband was the custom of the time. For Jews it was based on the stories of the Creation and Fall where the woman, originally created to be a helper for the man (Gen 2:20), is cursed by the pain of childbirth and submission to the rule of her husband (Gen 3:16).

In contrast, the Christian gospel emphasized that in the new situation brought about by the death and resurrection of Jesus ‘there is neither Jew nor Greek, slave nor free, male nor female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus’ (Gal 3:28). Paul expresses the equality of husband and wife in as fundamental a matter as their physical sexual relationships (1 Cor. 7:3-4). He also stresses that they are mutually dependent (1 Cor. 11:11-12). This teaching clearly shows that the effects of the Fall are undone in the new creation that is manifested in the church.

Consequently, a new evaluation of the roles of husband and wife was bound to arise. With the new freedom that Christians enjoyed in Christ, there also inevitably arose the temptation to carry things to excess, trespassing the bounds of social propriety at that time.… Peter reminds wives, therefore, to submit to their husbands; that is, to consider his needs and to fulfill them.85

By these comments, Howard Marshall seems to be questioning the biblical imperative that wives should be subject to their husbands. He appears to restrict the imperative to the Old Testament age and not to this age. He seems to imply that the only reason wives were commanded to submit to their husbands was because the culture of that day expected them to submit. If I am correct in my assessment of Marshall’s comments (and I certainly hope I am not), then Peter’s words will be more difficult for us to accept than for the Christian wives of his day. Women were thought of as inferior to men, and so submission was but the lot of women. In our culture, many women are demanding that we treat them as equals, and they bristle at the mere mention of the word “submit.”

Before we allow our emotional juices to flow on this issue, let us hear Peter through, not only in his instructions to wives but also in his instructions to women. I think we will find things are not as bad as we suppose. But we must also be ready and willing to live in a way that dramatically differs from that of our contemporaries to the glory of God.

Additional Comments

It is difficult indeed for Twentieth Century Americans to identify with the setting of our text. The conversion of a wife to faith in Christ presents both the husband and the wife with considerable difficulties. The wife finds a whole new identity in Christ. While she is still dependent on her husband in some ways, she now is a member of the body of Christ, the church. From the church, she receives the ministry of other members in the body as well as sharing from her own gifts and abilities. She finds instruction, encouragement, and even correction from the church. Even if he were a believer, her husband cannot meet all of the spiritual needs of his wife. But an unbeliever cannot contribute spiritually because he neither welcomes nor grasps spiritual truths (see 1 Corinthians 2 and 3). The unbelieving husband would have to be regarded as “ignorant,” as far as matters of the faith are concerned (see 1 Peter 1:14; 2:15).

The woman who was formerly totally dependent upon her husband is now less so because she is a Christian. She might be tempted to seek counsel and guidance from Christians rather than to receive direction from her husband. The non-Christian husband would understandably find his wife’s new faith very threatening. A wife who did not seek to scrupulously follow Peter’s instructions could make matters even worse. It is no wonder that Peter writes to such women.

It would be wrong to state or imply Peter was writing only or even primarily to Christian wives married to unbelieving men. Peter’s instructions to husbands in verse 7 assumes their wives are believers. As in his instructions to slaves, Peter wants to be clear that his instructions apply even to the worst cases. The worst case would be a Christian wife married to an unbelieving husband hostile toward Christianity. If such a person were obligated to follow Peter’s instructions, all other wives would certainly be expected to obey them.

It would be further incorrect to assume Peter is speaking only to Christian wives in our text. Peter’s words are pertinent to all of us because we are all commanded to submit one to another (Ephesians 5:21; see Philippians 2:1-8; 1 Peter 3:8-12). His specific instructions to individuals in specific circumstances are illustrative of what submission is and how it works out in our lives. Peter has chosen to address citizens, servants (or slaves), wives, and husbands because these categories cover virtually all of us, at least once, and likely even more often. Even in the midst of instruction addressed to a particular group, more general application is called for (see 1 Peter 2:15-17, 19, etc.).

The specific sins of which Peter warns Christian wives are not peculiar only to wives. We might call these “besetting sins” (see Hebrews 12:1), those sins particularly tempting for wives. John the Baptist identified specific sins which characterized tax-collectors and soldiers (Luke 3:10-14), but they were not sins committed only by tax-collectors and soldiers. In the second chapter of his epistle to Titus, Paul identified dangerous areas for specific groups, but this in no way suggested the same sins might be a temptation for others. So too Peter’s warnings to wives are not restricted only to wives but should be taken seriously by every Christian.

The Structure of the Text

First Peter 3:1-6 seems to divide evenly into three sections with each containing two verses. Verses 1 and 2 dwell on the silence which should characterize wives whose husbands are both lost and hostile to the faith. Verses 3 and 4 deal with the woman’s attitude toward adornment. Verses 5 and 6 turn our attention to the example of godly women in the Old Testament, especially Sarah.

These three segments are closely related to each other, each one following up on a thought introduced by the previous one. While wives are urged to be silent in verse 1, their chaste and respectful behavior is to be evident (verse 2). This leads Peter to focus on the inward beauty of the wife, which has priority over mere outward beauty. The principle of the priority of inner beauty over external adornment (verses 3 and 4) is then illustrated by Peter in verses 5 and 6 where he turns our attention to Sarah.

When Silence is Golden
(3:1-2)

1 In the same way, you wives, be submissive to your own husbands so that even if any of them are disobedient to the word, they may be won86 without a word by the behavior of their wives, 2 as they observe your chaste and respectful behavior.

The expression “in the same way” indicates a continuation of thought from the previous verses to these words addressed to wives.87 The previous passage was addressed to servants or slaves, and they were commanded to be submissive to their masters, including those who were abusive. Their suffering was for living righteously, and it was to be endured silently. The example set before them was our Lord, the ultimate “Suffering Servant,” whose suffering was innocently and silently endured.

Now Peter’s word to wives begins with the expression “in the same way,” indicating that their conduct is to be Christ-like, for they too are to suffer innocently and silently. And this is precisely what Peter requires. They, like slaves and like our Lord, were to be in submission. As our Lord submitted to the will of His Father (see Philippians 2:8), and as slaves are to submit to their masters, wives are to submit as well.

Christian wives are instructed to submit to their own husbands. They are not to submit to another man nor are they instructed to submit themselves to men in general. They are to be in submission to their own husbands. The goal of their submission, like our Lord, is first of all obedience to God and secondly the salvation of men.88 From verse 7 in chapter 2, we learn that when Peter speaks of being “disobedient to the word” he means that these husbands are unsaved. They have rejected the gospel. In such cases, the conduct of the wife should be such that the husband is saved not by the wife’s speech but by her silence.

It is not as though anyone can be saved without hearing the gospel (see Romans 10:9-15). I infer from Peter’s words that the husband has heard the gospel and chosen to reject it. I further understand Peter to imply that the husband, whether by word or deed, has indicated he wishes to hear no more of the word. If this is the case, let the husband see the word as his wife lives it out in the context of their marriage.

Here is the real test. Can the wife trust God to save her husband by her silence? What does Peter mean by the expression “without a word”? I am convinced he is not speaking about the “silent treatment” which one mate may impose on the other as a form of punishment. Peter is speaking here of silence as it pertains to the gospel. The subject of the gospel should be cheerfully and pleasantly dropped once the husband has made it clear he has heard enough.

What kinds of speech should be silenced then? In general, the subject of the gospel should be dropped, once it has been communicated to the husband and he has chosen to reject it and resisted discussing it. I believe several forms of speech could be cited as examples of the kind of speech Peter seeks to silence.

First, Peter surely forbids a wife to nag her husband with the gospel. This can be blatant or subtle, but it is nevertheless something the husband is keenly aware of and strongly resists. Proverbs indicates that this tendency to nag is one which tempts us all, but especially the wife.

A foolish son is destruction to his father, And the contentions of a wife are a constant dripping (Proverbs 19:13).

Second, Peter forbids debate. While nagging may be one method one might use to persuade another, arguing is another. Nagging, by my definition, is simply trying to wear another down by repeating the same things over and over (some folks even try this on God in their prayer life, see Matthew 6:7). Debate is the effort to change another’s mind by continually approaching the discussion from a different point of view, by trying any and every line of argument.

Third, Peter forbids those subtle forms of persuasion which may produce natural responses but fail to produce supernatural conversion. Jesus warned about carefully prepared presentations of the gospel rather than a reliance upon the Holy Spirit (Luke 21:12-15). The apostle Paul is especially sensitive to human forms of persuasion, which he sees as contrary to the way the Spirit works to convince and convert the lost (1 Corinthians 2:1-5; 2 Corinthians 2:17; 4:1-2; 2 Thessalonians 2:1-12).

In 2 Timothy, 2 Peter, and Jude, we are warned about false teachers who appeal to fleshly lusts rather than the impulses of the Spirit. I believe a woman may have an even greater danger in this area than men. Women may seek to use flattery to persuade and may even employ seductive wiles on her husband.

To deliver you from the strange woman, From the adulteress who flatters with her words (Proverbs 2:16). To keep you from the evil woman, From the smooth tongue of the adulteress (Proverbs 6:24).

Delilah’s seduction was the downfall of Samson. One does not seduce another into the kingdom of God, though some most certainly seduce others into error (see Revelation 2:20-22). Using this kind of speech may not be offensive to her husband, but it is certainly inconsistent with the gospel.

Peter’s instruction is not merely negative, forbidding Christian wives to verbally pressure their husbands to come to faith in Christ. Rather, in place of her words, wives are to witness to their husbands through their works. Husbands should be able to observe that their wives are different than they were before they came to faith. They should especially be characterized by a behavior which is chaste and respectful. The remaining four verses spell out the meaning of these words, but let us at least come to a preliminary definition of them.

The word “respectful” is literally “fear” as the marginal note in the New American Standard Bible indicates. The “fear” called for here seems to be the wife’s “fear” or respect for her husband rather than her fear of God, though both are certainly required of her (see 1 Peter 1:17; 2:17; Ephesians 5:33).

The word “chaste” is employed a number of times in the New Testament, often with a meaning broader than just sexual purity.89 However, here I believe sexual purity is a prominent part of Peter’s meaning.90 A wife may influence her husband in many ways to control or at least manipulate him. Making your husband jealous is one way which is often considered not only clever but acceptable. Chastity is pressed beyond its limits when this form of manipulation is practiced. In some cases, the wife may not wish to control her husband as much as to gain the attention and admiration or another man. This is also clearly out of bounds. The wife’s feminine charms are for the glory and enjoyment of her husband and no other. Peter calls the wife to live by the highest moral standards, not merely by those of the culture in which she lives.

The Ultimate Beauty
(3:3-4)

3 And let not your adornment be merely external—braiding the hair, and wearing gold jewelry, or putting on dresses;91 4 but let it be the hidden person of the heart, with the imperishable quality of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is precious in the sight of God.

The problem of looking on outward appearances is not restricted only to women:

But the LORD said to Samuel, “Do not look at his appearance or at the height of his stature, because I have rejected him; for God [sees] not as man sees, for man looks at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart” (1 Samuel 16:7).

And He said to them, “You are those who justify yourselves in the sight of men, but God knows your hearts; for that which is highly esteemed among men is detestable in the sight of God” (Luke 16:15; see also Matthew 6:1ff.).

In both the Old and New Testaments, however, outward adornment became an obsession and therefore a matter for rebuke and instruction:

16 Moreover, the LORD said, “Because the daughters of Zion are proud, and walk with heads held high and seductive eyes, and go along with mincing steps, and tinkle the bangles on their feet, 17 therefore the Lord will afflict the scalp of the daughters of Zion with scabs, and the LORD will make their foreheads bare.” 18 In that day the Lord will take away the beauty of [their] anklets, headbands, crescent ornaments, 19 dangling earrings, bracelets, veils, 20 headdresses, ankle chains, sashes, perfume boxes, amulets, 21 finger rings, nose rings, 22 festal robes, outer tunics, cloaks, money purses, 23 hand mirrors, undergarments, turbans, and veils. 24 Now it will come about that instead of sweet perfume there will be putrefaction; instead of a belt, a rope; instead of well-set hair, a plucked-out scalp; instead of fine clothes, a donning of sackcloth; and branding instead of beauty. 25 Your men will fall by the sword, and your mighty ones in battle (Isaiah 3:16-25).

9 Likewise, [I want] women to adorn themselves with proper clothing, modestly and discreetly, not with braided hair and gold or pearls or costly garments; 10 but rather by means of good works, as befits women making a claim to godliness (1 Timothy 2:9-10).

In the days in which Peter lived, those with the means to do so went to great extremes in dress, cosmetics, and hair styling to look good to others:

Ornate hairstyles were prevalent in the high society of the Roman world:

‘Curl climbs on top of curl and over the forehead there arose something which at its best looked like the chef d’oeuvre of a master pastry cook and, at its worst, like a dry sponge. At the back the hair was plaited, and the braids arranged in a coil which looks like basketwork.’92

While outward appearances affect every believer, male or female (see Matthew 6; and 23:5-6), Peter particularly instructs married women about their priorities concerning true beauty. There is nothing wrong with dressing in a way that pleases one’s mate. It is no sin to be well-dressed (see Proverbs 31:22). But it is wrong to be preoccupied with outward appearances at the expense of inward beauty. A beautiful woman who lacks inner beauty and character is, according to Proverbs, like a pig with a gold ring in its nose.

[As] a ring of gold in a swine’s snout, [So is] a beautiful woman who lacks discretion (Proverbs 11:22).

Not only is it wrong for a woman (or a man) to place too high a value on external appearances, it is likewise evil to seek man’s approval rather than to strive to please God. That which pleases God is a “gentle and quiet spirit.” This is hardly the contemporary estimate of the ideal woman. Our culture teaches women to practice assertiveness and aggressiveness and outer beauty, rather than to acquire a gentle and quiet spirit.

Why is modest apparel and a “gentle and quiet spirit” pleasing to God? What does this have to do with submission, the major topic of our text? Biblical submission is more than most Christians think. Many Christians are resistant to the biblical teaching of the submission of the wife to her husband. And even those who accept this teaching may think of submission primarily in terms of obeying their husband, of following his leadership.

The submission of the wife to her husband certainly includes honoring him and obeying him, whether this is popular thought or not. But the submission of the wife to her husband is much more than this. Creation requires the submission of the wife to her husband (1 Corinthians 11:7-12), as does the fall (Genesis 3:16; 1 Timothy 2:12-15). It is necessitated by the picture marriage is to portray about the relationship between Christ and His church (Ephesians 5:22-33). It is to demonstrate the headship of Christ over the church (1 Corinthians 11:2-16).

The headship of Christ involves more than His authority and rule over the church. It includes the fact that He is the source of the church, that the church was brought forth through Him. It also involves the supremacy and preeminence of Christ. The glory is to be His, not ours. We are here for His glory. The glory of God must be one of our guiding goals and principles (1 Corinthians 10:31).

When the woman ceases to act with a “quiet and gentle spirit,” she begins to promote herself and bring attention to herself. Rather than being the glory of her husband, she steals the glory from him. The same is true of her attire. She may never utter a word publicly, but she may dress in a way which causes every eye to be fixed on her. To do so is to cast aside the headship of her husband and the submission required of her. No wonder Peter and Paul speak of a woman’s dress and demeanor.

But a woman can attract just as much attention to herself by looking sloppy and unkempt as she can by being “dressed to kill.” Whenever a woman attracts attention to herself rather than to her husband, she has failed to grasp and obey the biblical teaching on submission.

23 Her husband is known in the gates, When he sits among the elders of the land. 24 She makes linen garments and sells [them,] And supplies belts to the tradesmen. 25 Strength and dignity are her clothing, And she smiles at the future. 26 She opens her mouth in wisdom, And the teaching of kindness is on her tongue. 27 She looks well to the ways of her household, And does not eat the bread of idleness. 28 Her children rise up and bless her; Her husband [also,] and he praises her, [saying:] 29 “Many daughters have done nobly, But you excel them all.” 30 Charm is deceitful and beauty is vain, [But] a woman who fears the LORD, she shall be praised. 31 Give her the product of her hands, And let her works praise her in the gates (Proverbs 31:23-31).

The Example of Holy Women of Old
(3:5-6)

5 For in this way in former times the holy women also, who hoped in God, used to adorn themselves, being submissive to their own husbands. 6 Thus Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him lord, and you have become her children if you do what is right without being frightened by any fear.93

A “gentle and quiet spirit” is totally the opposite of the spirit of the contentious wife of Proverbs (see Proverbs 21:9, 19). The spirit or disposition which underlies submission is of crucial importance. Peter turns our attention to the “holy women of old,” not to remind us of how they dressed but to point to their submissive spirit, their source of true beauty. Notice these women were submissive to their “own” husbands, not because their trust was in their husbands but because their hope was in God. They trusted God to work through their husbands and to work in spite of them. Their hope, like every Old Testament saint (see Hebrews 11), was not in this life but in the kingdom of God to come. Their hope was in God alone who would bring it to pass.

Sarah is the one woman Peter identifies by name. Quite frankly, I would never have picked Sarah for she always seemed to be a kind of feminine counterpart to Lot. As I read Genesis 16 and 21, I find Sarah a little hard to like. She, like Lot and every other saint, was not a perfect saint. But she did exemplify the submissive spirit of which Peter speaks.

Peter refers to Sarah calling Abraham “lord,” as recorded the one time in Genesis:

9 Then they said to him, “Where is Sarah your wife?” And he said, “Behold, in the tent.” 10 And he said, “I will surely return to you at this time next year; and behold, Sarah your wife shall have a son.” And Sarah was listening at the tent door, which was behind him. 11 Now Abraham and Sarah were old, advanced in age; Sarah was past childbearing. 12 And Sarah laughed to herself, saying, “After I have become old, shall I have pleasure, my lord being old also?” 13 And the LORD said to Abraham, “Why did Sarah laugh, saying, ‘Shall I indeed bear [a child,] when I am [so] old?’ 14 “Is anything too difficult for the LORD? At the appointed time I will return to you, at this time next year, and Sarah shall have a son.” 15 Sarah denied [it] however, saying, “I did not laugh”; for she was afraid. And He said, “No, but you did laugh” (Genesis 18:9-15).

Sarah may have called Abraham lord at other times, but this instance is especially noteworthy. Peter has been contrasting inner beauty with outer adornment and the beauty of a “gentle and quiet spirit.” This passage in Genesis illustrates Sarah’s spirit.

The angels have come to Abraham’s camp and been invited to stay for a meal. They then announce to Abraham that at this time next year Sarah will have a son. Sarah seems to have been eavesdropping, for when she heard the prophecy of a son, she laughed to herself. The words recorded in Genesis 18:12 are the words Sarah thought to herself. She did not speak them aloud, although the Lord was aware that she laughed inwardly.

Most of us speak respectfully to someone’s face, even if hypocritically. But Sarah spoke to herself calling Abraham “lord,” indicating the way she really thought of him. In her mind, Abraham was not “the old man,” but her master, her lord. And she, as it were, was his servant. In her heart, she was submissive to her husband, which made her a beautiful woman and an example for all to follow.

Abraham is sometimes referred to as the “father” of those who believe in Jesus Christ, whether Jew or Gentile by birth (see Romans 4:11-12; Galatians 3:7, 16, 29; Hebrews 2:16). Here, Sarah is called the “mother” of all those women who walk in her footsteps and who respect and obey their husbands: “and you have become her children if you do what is right without being frightened by any fear.”

If I understand the passage correctly, “without being frightened by any fear” parallels the earlier expression of a “gentle and quiet spirit.” Some Christian psychiatrists speak of the “typical hysterical female,” a characterization I am not certain I like. Peter talks about the godly Christian wife as being exactly the opposite. She is not hysterical or panic-stricken about the future,94 for her hope is fixed on God. She calmly and quietly submits to her husband,95 knowing God’s purposes will be achieved because of or in spite of her husband.

Can you imagine leaving your homeland, your family, and all of your friends to go to a place God has not even yet revealed (see Genesis 12:1-3)? How many times did Abraham come to his wife to tell her God had instructed him to do what appeared to be foolish? As far as I can tell, Sarah was never present when God gave Abraham his instructions (except this one time in Genesis 18). It could have been a most terrifying thing to have been married to Abraham and follow him without being frightened by any fear. But Sarah did submit to Abraham, first in her spirit, and then on a day-by-day basis.96 For this, she became an example of godly submission to all of us.

Conclusion

A few years ago, I would hardly have felt the necessity of stressing a point which seems all too apparent, but in today’s culture I must stress it: God requires wives to submit to their husbands. The submission of the wife to her husband was established at the time of the creation of man and then at the fall. It is not merely an Old Testament requirement but a New Testament imperative. Paul taught it, and so did Peter. It is clear from our Lord’s practice that He agreed. The cross does not overrule or override the need for submission. In 1 Peter, the cross is not only an example of submission, it serves as the basis, the means and the motivation. Peter’s teaching on the submission of the wife to her husband follows immediately upon his teaching of the submission of servants to their masters, and especially of Christ to the will of the Father, which led to His death on the cross as the great “Suffering Servant.” As Peter addresses Christian wives, he begins with the words, “in like manner.” One cannot avoid the fact that in this age, as in all others of the past, the wife is to be in submission to her husband.

Does our culture bristle at this thought? This is just one more way the Christian will stand apart from others and one more reason why our “doing good” will be evil spoken of by unbelievers. Submission to one’s husband is one of the many ways in which the Christian may suffer for the sake of Christ and to the glory of God. Such submission is required under favorable conditions, and even in adverse circumstances such as when the husband is an unbeliever and refuses to obey the gospel by submitting to Jesus Christ for salvation. The submissiveness of the wife to her husband may bring about his salvation which most certainly pleases God. Does submission appear to limit one’s happiness and fulfillment in this life? It may, but the Christian wife has her hope in God, and she willingly accepts suffering in this life assured of the glory to come.

While this may not sound all that good in theory, I assure you it is even more difficult to practice. More often than I wish to admit, I find Christians turning their backs on Peter’s teaching. They believe a wife should not have to put up with an abusive husband. When they do so, they are thinking according to the mold of our culture rather than the mind of Christ.

Suppose one of your very good friend confides that her husband is cruel and “abusive” to her. She is a Christian; he is not. She wonders what she should do and asks for your advice. Do you turn to the Bible, or do you give “your opinion?” And if you turn to the Bible, is this text one of the first you show her? It should be. It calls on the Christian to suffer unjustly, to the glory of God and for the salvation of those who are lost. Is a “dysfunctional marriage” pleasant? No. Is it an excuse to bail out? Peter gives us the answer, although it is not one we want to hear. Who of us wants to suffer?

Peter’s words about submission and suffering should give us a different perspective on suffering. We are a generation of so-called “victims.” The very excellent book entitled, No God, But God, contains a chapter by Os Guinness entitled, “More Victimized Than Thou.”97 We have become a generation of victims, not victors. Peter will have none of this “victim” mentality. I used to say our culture sought to replace HOPE with HYPE. That is no longer the case. Now, our secular culture seeks to redefine HOPE so that it becomes nothing more than COPE. We are not called to be “copers;” we are called to suffer for Christ’s sake so that we will be overcomers. Let us shed the victim mindset as something which comes from the pit.

This passage cuts to the heart of a growing crisis in America—the disproportionate emphasis on appearance. Peter does not sanction a blatant disregard for good health and caring for one’s body, and neither does Paul (see 1 Timothy 4:7-8). Physical appearance has become the dominant driving force in the lives of many women. I cannot help but think the epidemic of eating disorders is rooted in a failure to understand and apply the principles Peter lays down in this text. Skinny women “feel” fat, and so they refuse the nourishment their bodies need. They are never skinny enough to fit the image of the perfect body, and yet often little attention is given to the inner beauty of which Peter speaks. Let us see Peter’s words as very relevant to our thinking and conduct, for they are.

Peter certainly challenges us to think more carefully and precisely about evangelism. We think of evangelism as being virtually synonymous with our speech. We must proclaim the gospel, for men and women are saved only as they hear and respond to the good news of salvation in Christ. And yet Peter makes it clear that there is a time to be still. We do not convert people by wearing down their resistance. We do not convert people by our persuasive powers. Our lives are to be consistent with the gospel we preach. After the lost have heard of Christ, they must see Him in us. That is the connection which Peter makes between the “Suffering Servant” in 1 Peter 2:21-25 and the suffering of His servants in this entire section. It may very well be our suffering rather than our success in speaking which God uses to draw the lost to Himself. If this is so, it is consistent with the experience of others such as the apostle Paul (see 1 Thessalonians 1 and 2).

Our lesson has primarily been addressed to those who have already trusted in Jesus Christ. Peter has been speaking to Christian wives. He has made it clear that those who have come to Christ must live like Christ. Just as He suffered for us, we are now called to suffer, as He did, to God’s glory and for the salvation of others. But just as it is true that coming to Christ often results in suffering, it is also true that suffering may bring us to Christ. Listen to these words spoken by our Lord at the outset of His ministry:

1 And when He saw the multitudes, He went up on the mountain; and after He sat down, His disciples came to Him. 2 And opening His mouth He [began] to teach them, saying, 3 “Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. 4 “Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted. 5 “Blessed are the gentle, for they shall inherit the earth. 6 “Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they shall be satisfied” (Matthew 5:1-6).

Has suffering brought you to the end of yourself? Has it caused you to look to the Lord Jesus for salvation? Jesus came to minister to those in need. If that is your plight, then there is hope—in Him. He suffered and died so that your sins could be forgiven and so that you might have eternal life. May God open your heart to trust in Him, who turns suffering to joy unspeakable and full of glory (1 Peter 1:6-8).


82 I do not mean Peter is writing only to Christian wives married to unbelieving husbands. Peter focuses on the conduct of a godly wife married to an unbelieving husband because this is the “worst case scenario.” If Peter can require what he does of a wife in such adverse circumstances, then surely all other wives are to apply the same principles.

83 William Barclay, The Letters of James and Peter (Philadelphia: The Westminster Press, [rev. ed], 1976. The Daily Study Bible Series, pp. 218-219.

84 Plutarch, “Advice to Bride and Groom” as cited by Balch, p. 99, cited by Edmund Clowney, The Message of 1 Peter (Downers Grove: Inter-Varsity Press), 1988. The Bible Speaks Today Series, p. 127.

85 I. Howard Marshall, 1 Peter (Downers Grove: InterVarsity Press), 1991. The IVP New Testament Commentary Series. p. 99.

86 This term is employed five times in 1 Corinthians 9:19-22 for winning one to faith in Christ.

87 The same is found in verse 7 showing that Peter’s words to husbands continues the same line of thought and action.

88 Augustine described the witness of his Christian mother which led to the salvation of his pagan father: ‘She served her husband as her master, and did all she could to win him for You, speaking to him of You by her conduct, by which You made her beautiful. . . . Finally, when her husband was at the end of his earthly span, she gained him for You.’” Confessions 9:19-22. Cited by J. N. D. Kelly, The Epistles of Peter and of Jude (New York: Harper & Row, Publishers), 1969. Harpers New Testament Commentaries Series, p. 128.

89 “The wife’s conduct is also characterized as chaste (hagnen), ‘pure’ or ‘holy.’ The concept is not to be limited to sexual chastity; it denotes that purity in character and conduct that should characterize all of the Christian life (Phil. 4:8; 1 Tim. 5:22; Titus 2;5; James 3;17; 1 John 3:3).” Clowney, p. 185.

90 Compare Proverbs 7.

91 “Putting on (endueos), a term not used elsewhere in the New Testament, is another noun of action and apparently indicates the practice of appearing in a great variety of dresses, ‘the frequent changing of frocks.’” Hiebert, p. 187, citing J.W. C. Wand, The General Epistles of St. Peter and St. Jude, p. 90.

92 Clowney, p. 132, citing J. Balsdon, Roman Women, Their History and Habits (The Bodley Head, 1962), p. 256, cited in Hurley, op. cit., p. 258.

93 This seems to be a free quotation of Proverbs 3:25.

94 “This fits with ‘peaceful,’ a term used in the NT only here and in 1 Tim. 2:2, the nominal form appearing as well in Acts 22:2; 2 Thess. 3:12; and 1 Tim. 2:11, 12. The sense of being calm, peaceful, and tranquil as opposed to restless, rebellious, disturbed, or insubordinate appears in each passage.” Peter H. Davids, The First Epistle of Peter (Grand Rapids: William B. Eerdmans Publishing Company), 1990. The New International Commentary on the New Testament Series, p. 119.

95 I want it to be very clear that I do not embrace the position publicly taught by one Christian teacher that women are to imitate Sarah by submitting to every request of her husband, whether sinful or not. As with our submission to others in authority, we must always limit our obedience to those things which do not clearly violate God’s commands. Sarah was wrong to participate in the deception that she was Abraham’s sister rather than his wife. She should have said, as Peter later would do, “We must obey God rather than men.” Wives are to submit to their husbands when they doubt the wisdom of their leadership, but not when they know it requires them to sin.

96 The tense of the word “obeyed” in verse 6 is such that it probably should be rendered “used to obey,” emphasizing the continual obedience of Sarah.

97 No God, But God (Chicago: Moody Press, 1992), edited by Os Guinness and John Seel, pp. 81-93.

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