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7. Self-Control (Galatians 5:23)

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Main Point: God’s Spirit helps us control our thoughts and actions.

Key Verse: (God’s grace) teaches us to say no to godless ways and sinful longings. We must control ourselves. We must do what is right. We must lead godly lives in today's world. – Titus 2:12

Props: A chocolate cake

Background/Review

Say: For the past several weeks, we have been studying all the Fruits of the Spirit listed in Galatians 5:22-23. Can anyone tell me what this verse says?

But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law.

As we have seen, the Fruit of the Spirit grows in our lives when we are living with the Holy Spirit in us. This week, we will study the last fruit, self-control – which means this is our last week of studying the Fruits of the Spirit.

Intro

Teacher Note: The Greek word for self-control in Galatians 5:23 is “egkrateia” which means “temperance: the virtue of one who masters his desires and passions, especially his sensual appetites.”

Say: Who can name some wild animals? Take a look at these wild animals!

(Show pictures of animals).

Which animal is called the “king of the jungle”? Why do you think lions are called “king of the jungle”? They can do anything they want; they are fierce and wild!

Let’s take a look at a short video clip. (Show clip of lion tamer act.)

That lion tamer had control of those lions, didn’t he? That man can make the lion (which is naturally wild) do whatever he wants it to do. The man can make the lion do something it doesn’t want to do (like roll over), or the tamer can keep the lion from doing something that it does want to do (like biting the man). Clearly, the man was in control of the lion.

Today we’re talking about self-control. Can anyone guess what that means? With self-control, we control ourselves. We control our desires – our “want to’s”. Through self-control, we keep ourselves from doing something bad that we shouldn’t do, and we make ourselves do good things that we should do.

Self-Control In Jesus

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Say: Once again, the perfect example of this fruit, self-control, is found in Jesus. Jesus is the one person who had perfect self-control His entire life. The Bible calls Jesus the one who “had no sin” (2 Corinthians 5:21), which means He never sinned at all. Think about that kind of self-control! He never thought, “Just this one time, I can lie to my parents,” or, “No one will knew if I punch my brother.”

We might think, “Well, Jesus must have lived a life very different from me. He didn’t have to live with my sister!” We might think that no one ever bothered Him, or nothing ever went wrong for Him. This is not true at all! For one thing, the Bible tells us that Jesus had lots of brothers and sisters (Matthew 13:55-56). Is it easy to live with brothers and sisters without ever being annoyed or frustrated with them? No way! In fact, the Bible says that Jesus was tempted to sin in every way that we are tempted (Hebrews 4:15) which means His brothers and sisters probably bugged Him sometimes, but He never sinned. He was not mean to them, He didn’t hit them, He never stole their candy. He didn’t even think bad thoughts about them! That is amazing self-control!

But Jesus not only had self-control to keep Himself from doing wrong things. He had so much self-control that He was always able to the right things! He always did what God wanted Him to do, even when it was very, very difficult and painful. Do you remember the story that we talk about at Easter - when Jesus was arrested and taken to the cross? On the night that Jesus was arrested, before the soldiers came to take Him, He was on the Mount of Olives praying to God. Jesus prayed, “Father, if you are willing, take this cup of suffering away from me. But do what you want, not what I want.” (Luke 22:42) Jesus knew that He would go through terrible suffering when He was arrested and nailed to a cross. No one would want to suffer by hanging on a cross! But by His incredible self-control, Jesus chose to obey God’s will rather than doing what He wanted to do.

Think about all the power that Jesus had. He had done so many miracles – He had healed the sick, created food to feed thousands, and cast out demons. He even raised people from the dead! Could Jesus have stopped the soldiers and the people from nailing Him to that cross? Yes! Of course! Jesus had all the power of God at His fingertips. He could have easily stopped the people from crucifying Him (Matthew 26:53). But He had the self-control to do exactly what God asked Him to do, even through all that pain and suffering. Jesus trusted that God’s plan was perfect. He wanted to save you and me from the punishment of our sin, so He willingly went to the cross. And after He did, God raised Him from the dead and now Jesus is sitting at the right hand of God (Acts 7:56)!

Jesus always had the self-control to keep Himself from sinning, and to obey God. The reason He had this amazing self-control was because He was full of the Holy Spirit, and He spent as much time as He could with His Father. The more time we spend with God, the more good fruit God will grow in our lives – and Jesus had the most spiritual fruit of anyone.

Self-Control In Us

Say: So how do we have that kind of control over our own thoughts and actions?

Let’s pretend that you went to the Spring Festival at your school. There were all kinds of games to play. You decided to try the Cakewalk. When the music stopped, you were on the right number, so you won a cake! Let’s say you chose a huge chocolate cake, because chocolate cake is your very favorite thing to eat. (Hold up a chocolate cake.) You love chocolate cake so much, you wished you could eat the entire cake yourself. But should you? No! Why not? That would be terrible for your body; you would get really sick.

There are two ways to keep you from eating that entire cake. Someone could stop you, or you could stop yourself. Your mom could take the cake away and hide it, or you could just resist eating the whole thing. Which option sounds more like self-control? Is self-control when somebody keeps you from doing something, or when you can keep yourself from doing that thing? Self-control is when you control you, when you make yourself do the right thing.

Just like a lion naturally wants to prowl the jungle or roar at a human, our natural self (our sin nature) wants to do bad stuff sometimes. What are some bad things that we are tempted to do sometimes? You might want to grab what you want right when you want it; you might want to hit someone or yell at someone when you are angry; you might want to push someone when they get in front of you; you might want your own way instead of thinking of others. These are all actions that we must control for ourselves.

Also, there are some good things that we should do, that our natural self just doesn’t want to do. We should get up and get ready for school in the morning; we should do our homework; we should do our chores that our parents ask us to do. Again, it takes self-control to do the right things that we are supposed to do.

The term “self-control” is sort of a tricky phrase. It is “self”-control because no other person is doing it for us. But that doesn’t mean we are all on our own! God’s Holy Spirit that lives inside of each believer is the One who is really giving us the power to have self-control. When we believe in Jesus, God’s Spirit fills us – just like it filled Jesus (Luke 4:1). We can have self-control just like Jesus did when we depend on the Spirit to guide us. So no matter what is going on around us, we can keep from doing wrong things and we can do right things.

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(God’s grace) teaches us to say no to godless ways and sinful longings. We must control ourselves. We must do what is right. We must lead godly lives in today's world. – Titus 2:12

Conclusion

Say: We’ve talked about many fruits of the Spirit, and the Bible tells us that there are even more. Don’t ever think that you have to grow this fruit on your own! In fact, you can’t grow it on your own! Jesus said, “I am the vine. You are the branches. If anyone remains joined to Me, and I to him, he will bear a lot of fruit. You can't do anything without Me.” (John 15:5)

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When we believe in Jesus, we enter God’s kingdom and God’s Spirit comes to live in us. The fruit of God’s Spirit grows and grows in us as we remain with Jesus – as we talk to Him, listen to Him, and read His word. Love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control grow in us and show in us because of our relationship with Jesus.

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Main Point: God’s Spirit helps us control our thoughts and actions.

Related Topics: Sanctification, Children, Children's Curriculum

1. God Chooses David to Be King (1 Samuel 16)

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Main Point: God uses people who have a heart that trusts in Him.

Key Verse: Man looks at how someone appears on the outside. But I look at what is in the heart. - 1 Samuel 16:7b

Props: A handful of dollar bills; a silver cup or bowl; picture of your children (if applicable).

Background/Review (1 Samuel 8 - 9)

Ask: Are there any kings in the world today? Maybe you don’t know their names, but what do you think they look like? How do you think they live? Say: Let’s look at a few modern-day kings. Belgium has King Albert II, Spain’s King is Juan Carlos, and the king of Jordan is King Abdallah II.

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Say: Now you know the names and faces of some modern day kings. Ask: Are these kings good or bad? Listen for answers. Say: We can’t tell if a person is good or bad based on what they look like. Only what is in a person’s heart tells us what they are really like.

Say: Okay, think back to the time when God called Abraham. God told Abraham to leave his homeland and go to a new land. God told Abraham that He would make him into a great nation. Ask: Who remembers what nation Abraham’s descendants became? Say: They became the nation of Israel, or the Israelites. Later these people became known as the Hebrews or the Jews. The Israelites trusted in the one true God to be their leader. GOD Himself was KING over the nation of Israel, and Israel was blessed not to need a human king like the other nations. God provided everything His people could ever want, and He provided it perfectly, since He is a perfect God.

Israel didn’t need a king, but they heard other nations talk about their human kings. The Israelites wanted to be like the other nations; they wanted a human king too (1 Samuel 8:5). The people wanted to have a human ruler - even though he would not be perfect and he would make many mistakes. They rejected the All-Perfect, All-Knowing, and Powerful GOD as their King! (1 Samuel 8:7)

Application: How could God’s people no longer be satisfied with God? Because they forgot the amazing things He had done for them (1 Samuel 8:8). They stopped trusting Him. They listened to other people rather than listening to God. Can this happen to us today? Certainly! We must abide with God - remain with Him and think about Him every day - in order to remember Who He is and the great things He has done. We have to listen to Him, not to the people around us (including TV and movies).

Say: God wanted to be the Israelites only Ruler. He knew this was best for them, and He warned them of the dangers of having a human king (1 Samuel 8:11-18):

  • They would have to pay taxes. Teacher: Hand the dollar bills to an adult leader.
  • They would have to serve the king. Hold up a silver cup. If the King wanted his silver cups polished, they would have to polish them; if he wanted his chariot washed, they would have to wash it; if he wanted weapons, they would have to make them.
  • Also, the King could take anything he wanted - their land, their belongings, and their animals.
  • And, their sons and daughters would become slaves of the King. (If you have children, show a picture of your children, and describe how you would never give up your child to be a slave.) Say: Can you imagine your parents giving you over to a king to be his slave?

God clearly warned the people. Ask: Do you think they listened to God? No. Say: Even after God warned the people, they insisted that they wanted a king.

Application: Do you ever insist on doing things your own way even though you’ve been warned? Life always becomes more difficult when you choose your own way. Choosing a way other than God’s way is sin! It doesn’t take long for sin to spoil everything.

Say: God gave the Israelites what they asked for, but it was NOT what God wanted for His people, and many trials and hardships were going to follow. God gave them a human king. His name was Saul. Saul was the first King of Israel.

The godly prophet, Samuel, anointed Saul King. Saul hid himself when he found out that Samuel was going to announce him as the King of Israel (1 Samuel 10:22). The leaders of Israel had to talk him into accepting the position! He started his “career” as King very humbly, even though he was the most handsome man in all of Israel. But soon he became proud and disobedient to God. That ruined everything! Saul became a man that did NOT listen to God!

Shortly after Saul was appointed King, he sinned. Even though he was TALL, his character was SMALL. (Character is whom you REALLY are when no one else is looking.) He did NOT listen to God, and look what happened:

1. God had strict rules about His priests and animal sacrifices. Samuel was a godly priest, and he was supposed to offer a sacrifice to God. Saul waited and waited for Samuel, but then he got impatient and decided to offer the sacrifice himself. It was not Saul’s place to offer the sacrifice. God gave this job to Samuel, not Saul. Saul disobeyed (1 Samuel 13:12).

2. Another time, Saul directly DISOBEYED God, LIED to cover up his sin, and BLAMED OTHER PEOPLE (1 Samuel 15).

3. God rejected Saul as King because he didn’t listen to and obey God.

4. Saul became angry, afraid, and jealous. (Sin ruins everything!)

Ask: Would you like to live in a land with a king like Saul? No. Say: Neither did the people of Israel. Remember, it was never God’s plan for the Israelites to have a human, imperfect king. Insisting on having things their own way instead of God’s way messed up everything. The Bible says:

And the Lord was very sorry he had made Saul King over Israel. - 1 Samuel 15:35b

God Chooses David (1 Samuel 16:1-13)

Say: Because Saul did not obey God, God rejected him as King. The prophet, Samuel, was very sad about Saul, but God had a new job for Samuel.

The Lord said to Samuel, "How long will you be filled with sorrow because of Saul? I have refused to have him as King over Israel. Fill your animal horn with olive oil and go on your way. I am sending you to Jesse in Bethlehem. I have chosen one of his sons to be King." - 1 Samuel 16:1

Say: As Samuel walked to the house of Jesse, he must have wondered what the new King would look like. Jesse had several sons. When Samuel saw Jesse’s oldest son, he thought that he must be the one.

He thought, "This has to be the one the Lord wants me to anoint for Him."

But the Lord said to Samuel, "Do not consider how handsome or tall he is. I have not chosen him. I do not look at the things people look at. Man looks at how someone appears on the outside. But I look at what is in the heart." - 1 Samuel 16:6b-7

Ask: What do people look at when judging people? The outward appearance. What does God look at when He judges someone? What is in the heart.

Application: If we are honest, we would all probably say that we have judged someone by the way he or she looked on the outside. We should pray for God to help us see things as He does - never judging someone by what is on the outside, but wanting to get to know what is on the inside of a person instead.

Say: So Jesse brought in his next oldest son. But Samuel said, “The Lord hasn’t chosen him either.” One by one, Jesse brought in seven of his sons, but Samuel said none of them was the right one.

So he asked Jesse, "Are these the only sons you have?"

"No," Jesse answered. "My youngest son is taking care of the sheep."

Samuel said, "Send for him. We won't sit down to eat until he arrives."

So Jesse sent for his son and had him brought in. His skin was tanned. He had a fine appearance and handsome features.

Then the Lord said, "Get up and anoint him. He is the one."

So Samuel got the animal horn that was filled with olive oil. He anointed David in front of his brothers. From that day on, the Spirit of the Lord came on David with power. - 1 Samuel 16:11-13a

It was SO important for Samuel to listen carefully to God when proclaiming the new King of Israel. Otherwise, he would have made a wrong choice. He would have chosen the King based on outward appearance. Remember, King Saul looked good on the outside, but on the inside, he was proud and disobedient.

David wasn’t the biggest or the strongest of Jesse’s sons, but he had what God was looking for. God said that David was a man after God’s own heart (1 Samuel 13:14). David loved God; he wanted to listen to Him and obey Him. This doesn’t mean that David never sinned. No human is perfect, and sadly, David did sin. But David trusted God. He had a desire to follow and obey God (1 Kings 14:8). In the years to come, God would make David into a great king to rule over His people.

David In Saul’s Service (1 Samuel 16:14-23)

Say: Now, God did not make David the King of Israel right away. The anointing with oil was the promise that David would be King one day. (God ALWAYS keeps His promises!) At that time, however, God set in motion the events that would help make David the King of Israel at just the right time.

The Spirit of the Lord left Saul, and God sent a spirit to Saul that made him sad and

fearful. His servants decided to find someone who could play the harp for Saul. They thought that the beautiful music would sooth Saul’s mind and make him feel better. Ask: Can anyone guess who this will be?

Say: One of the servants said, "I've seen someone who knows how to play the harp. He is a son of Jesse from Bethlehem. He's a brave man. He would make a good soldier. He's a good speaker. He's very handsome. And the Lord is with him."

Then Saul sent messengers to Jesse. He said, "Send me your son David, the one who takes care of your sheep." - 1 Samuel 16:18-19

So David came to play his harp for Saul, and it soothed Saul’s mind. Saul was very pleased with David. He asked Jesse to let David stay with him and serve him. David became one of the men who carried Saul’s armor. Just think: by serving Saul this way, David was placed in the presence of the King, where he could learn how the King ruled the nation of Israel.

God had BIG plans for young David! God used David because David had a heart for God. All David did was love and trust God. God would do the rest! Already we see that God filled David with His Holy Spirit, and then He placed this young shepherd boy in the presence of the King so he would gain kingly experience.

Application: God has big plans for you too! God will always give you what you need in order to serve Him (Philippians 1:6). All He asks us to do is love Him and trust Him! (Mark 12:30, Proverbs 3:5)

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Key Verse: Man looks at how someone appears on the outside. But I look at what is in the heart." - 1 Samuel 16:7b

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Main Point: God uses people who have a heart that trusts in Him.

Note to Teacher: When the author of 1 Samuel turns his attention from Saul to David, he calls us to consider a man who is a prototype of our Lord Jesus Christ. Unfortunately, Saul is remarkably like Satan. Saul is given authority to rule under God, but instead, his rules and rule become more important to him than God’s rules and rule. And so he is set aside. David is the one designated to take his place, to rule righteously over the people of God. Satan, like Saul of old, has been rejected by God. On the cross of Calvary, our Lord defeated Satan. But he still is free to oppose God, though his future containment and punishment is sure. In this interim period, Jesus Christ has been designated as God’s King. He has not only proclaimed the kingdom of God, He has procured it by His death, burial, and resurrection. All those who submit to Him as King will enter into His kingdom, and rule with him for all eternity. The question for you and I today is: “Whom will we serve?” Who will reign over us? To whose kingdom will we submit? By nature, all men are born into Satan’s kingdom. It is only by the new birth, by trusting in the work of Jesus Christ on the cross of Calvary, that men are transferred from the kingdom of darkness to the kingdom of light, from the kingdom of Satan to the kingdom of God. - Bob Deffinbaugh, The Designation of David as King (1 Samuel 16:1-23) ©1996-2006 Biblical Studies Press, reprinted with permission from www.bible.org.

In 1 Samuel 25:28-31, we see a husband and wife with very different perspectives. Nabal refuses to give his allegiance to the man whom God has appointed, and in whom God’s Spirit resides. He clings to the one who rules physically. But his wife professes that David is the true king, appointed by God. Her loyalty is transferred to the man of God who will take the throne in God’s perfect time.

We are now living in the interim. Satan is allowed to rule this world, but in God’s perfect timing, Satan will be vanquished and Jesus will come to rule for all eternity.


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2. God Uses David to Kill Goliath (1 Samuel 17)

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Main Point: Remaining with God every day is the key to trusting Him in difficult times.

Key Verse: If anyone remains joined to Me, and I to him, he will bear a lot of fruit. You can't do anything without me. - John 15:5b

Props: A tape measure that is over 9 feet long (or pre-measured string that is over 9 feet long, with a knot tied at 7 feet); 3 5-lb. bags of flour

Background/Review (1 Samuel 8 - 9)

Last week, we talked about the nation of Israel. God was their King but they wanted a human king so they could be like all the other nations. That is sort of like trading in an all-you-can-eat buffet for a baby-sized happy meal! Even though God warned them that this was a bad idea, they insisted they wanted a king. God’s prophet, Samuel, appointed Saul. Saul started out well, but before long he became proud and he disobeyed God. So God chose a different king. God led Samuel to appoint one of Jesse’s sons to be the new King.

David was the youngest of Jesse’s son. He was small and insignificant. Just like in most families back then, the job of the youngest son was to take care of his family’s sheep. David spent all day in the fields alone with the sheep. He didn’t seem to have much importance by worldly standards.

Ask: Who can explain why God chose David to be king? Because he was a man after God’s own heart, he loved and trusted God. Say: David did not become king right away. Samuel poured oil over David’s head as a promise that he would one day be king. David was anointed by Samuel in front of his entire family. For many people, this would change everything. Imagine going from a nobody to the most important man in the country.

Ask: What usually happens to people who become famous or get a lot of money? Sometimes they are just treated differently. They get a new home, new car, and people to serve them.

Ask: What would happen if you were signed to play in the NBA? Say: You would be offered a contract to make a LOT of money. You would probably move into a big house and buy several really cool cars! People would ask for your autograph wherever you went. All of these things are fine if you use them to glorify God. But sometimes when people become important, famous, or rich, they start acting differently. They begin to think more highly of themselves than others.

Application: Many times we use the good gifts God has given us for things that aren’t so good. We’ve all sinned against God in this way. Have you ever gotten the highest grade on a test in your class? Did it make you feel better or smarter than your classmates? Did you ever feel like bragging? When God blesses us, we are often tempted to act important or selfish. Sometimes we think more highly of ourselves than we should.

Say: But David didn’t do this. The news that he was now the anointed king over Israel didn’t change him at all. After being blessed by Samuel, David went right back to tending his flock of sheep. He stayed faithful to the job his father had given him. He didn’t desert his family. He continued to obey God in the small things, listening and waiting for God to tell him what to do next.

Ask: What would you call this character trait in David? Humility. Ask: Who can tell me what humility is? Listen for answers. It’s having a proper view of yourself and of God. It’s knowing that every good thing that you have comes from God. It’s using your gifts for God’s glory, instead of your own. It’s not taking credit for anything, but giving all the credit to God. It’s praising God, instead of praising yourself. It’s the opposite of pride.

Say: David was ready and willing to serve God as king, but he knew that serving God as the son of Jesse and shepherd of sheep was just as important for the time being.

Very soon Saul started to be tormented in his mind. David was called in to play his harp to sooth Saul. Saul liked David and made him his personal attendant. David went back and forth between serving Saul and being a shepherd for his dad in Bethlehem (1 Samuel 17:15).

David Fights Goliath (1 Samuel 17)

Say: It wasn’t long before David was called to serve God in a big way. An army of Philistines was attacking the army of Israel. The Philistines were enemies of God, and therefore enemies of Israel. There was a giant among them. His name was Goliath, and the Bible says he was over 9 feet tall! Teacher: Have your tallest student stand up front, and use the tape measure to show how much taller Goliath would’ve been. His armor alone weighed 125 pounds. That weighs as much as two (or three) of you guys! The tip of his spear weighed 15 pounds. That’s as much as 3 bags of flour! Ask your volunteer to lift the 3 bags of flour.

David’s oldest three brothers were fighting in Saul’s army. The Philistine army was on one hill and the Israelite army was on another. The giant Goliath shouted to the Israelites:

Choose one of your men. Have him come down and face me. If he's able to fight and kill me, we'll become your slaves. But if I win and kill him, you will become our slaves and serve us." Goliath continued, "This very day I dare the soldiers of Israel to send a man down to fight against me." - 1 Samuel 17:8b-10

Saul and his whole army were terrified! Goliath kept taunting the Israelite army. He shouted insults at them for 40 days.

Meanwhile, Jesse sent David to the battlefield to check on his brothers, but God had something else planned for this obedient young man. David heard Goliath daring the Israelite soldiers to fight him. The soldiers ran away from Goliath in fear. David started asking questions about Goliath. Saul sent for David.

David said to Saul, "Don't let anyone lose hope because of that Philistine. I'll go out and fight him."

Saul replied, "You aren't able to go out there and fight that Philistine. You are too young. He's been a fighting man ever since he was a boy." - 1 Samuel 17:32-33

Say: Saul liked David very much. He was worried about letting David go up against a fighting monster like Goliath.

But David said to Saul, "I've been taking care of my father's sheep. Sometimes a lion or a bear would come and carry off a sheep from the flock. Then I would go after it and hit it. I would save the sheep it was carrying in its mouth. If it turned around to attack me, I would grab hold of its hair. I would strike it down and kill it. In fact, I've killed both a lion and a bear. I'll do the same thing to this Philistine. He isn't even circumcised. He has dared the armies of the living God to fight him. - 1 Samuel 34-36

Say: If David stopped here, we would almost think he was bragging. But what he says next is SO important! Don’t miss these words:

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"The Lord saved me from the paw of the lion. He saved me from the paw of the bear. And He'll save me from the powerful hand of this Philistine too."

Saul said to David, "Go. And may the Lord be with you." - 1 Samuel 17:37

Ask: Who saved David from wild animals in the past? God did! And Who would save David from Goliath? God would!

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Ask: Do you remember how God described David? A man after My own heart. Say: Here we see exactly what that means. David knew exactly what God thought about a man who insulted the people of God. David knew that God had promised to curse anyone who cursed Abraham’s family, the Israelites (Genesis 12:3). And David knew that God had promised to conquer the Israelites’ enemies, no matter how big they were (Deuteronomy 28:7). David knew that God ALWAYS keeps His promises! So, even though David was small, he didn’t even think twice about fighting the giant, because he knew God was HUGE. David trusted God.

Say: Let’s not forget about Saul in this battle. He was the King, the leader of the army. The Bible tells us that he was a head taller than all of the other Israelites (1 Samuel 9:2). If an average man is 6 feet tall, this means Saul was about 7 feet tall. Let’s see where this would put him in comparison to the 9 foot Goliath. Teacher: Show 7 feet on your tape measure. Compare 7 feet to 9 feet. Humanly speaking, this would have been a much more fair fight than David fighting Goliath. But since Saul was out of God’s will, he was just as terrified as the others soldiers.

Say: It would seem that the Lord had been preparing David for this battle all of his life. Each day as David was protecting his sheep, God was by his side. David remained with God. God was slowly preparing David for the BIG DEAL of fighting Goliath through the daily small stuff of being a shepherd. Each time God sent an animal for David to fight, it made David trust God more. When it came time for David to face the giant, he relied on the power of God without hesitation.

Application: God wants to train you in the same way. God is always there, waiting for you. He wants to speak to you and teach you about Himself every day. God wants to you to invite Him into every part of your life - even the small stuff. If you abide in Him, or remain with Him, every day, and obey in the small things, you will be able to rely on Him in the BIG DEALS without hesitating.

Say: As David prepared to fight Goliath, Saul dressed David in his own armor. You can imagine that Saul’s 7-foot tall armor did not fit the young David very well! David took it off because he wasn’t used to it.

He went to a stream and chose 5 smooth stones. He took his sling and his shepherd staff and went out to meet the giant. Goliath was not alone. The man who carried his shield walked in front of him.

Goliath looked David over. He saw how young he was. He also saw how tanned and handsome he was. And he hated him. He said to David, "Why are you coming at me with sticks? Do you think I'm only a dog?" The Philistine called down curses on David in the name of his god. [Remember what we said about curses!]"Come over here," he said. "I'll feed your body to the birds of the air! I'll feed it to the wild animals!"

David said to Goliath, "You are coming to fight against me with a sword, a spear and a javelin. But I'm coming against you in the name of the Lord who rules over all. He is the God of the armies of Israel. He's the One you have dared to fight against. This very day the Lord will hand you over to me...Then the whole world will know there is a God in Israel. The Lord doesn't save by using a sword or a spear. And everyone who is here will know it. The battle belongs to the Lord. He will hand all of you over to us." - 1 Samuel 17:42-47

Say: God was going to win the battle for David and the Israelites, but His ultimate purpose was to show His glory to the nations, to demonstrate that the battle was HIS. He is all-powerful, and displays His glory for everyone to see. Let’s see what happened:

As the Philistine moved closer to attack him, David ran quickly to the battle line to meet him. He reached into his bag. He took out a stone. He put it in his sling. He slung it at Goliath. The stone hit him on the forehead and sank into it. He fell to the ground on his face.

So David won the fight against Goliath with a sling and a stone. He struck the Philistine down and killed him. He did it without even using a sword. - 1 Samuel 17:48-50

Say: Not only did David fight Goliath, but he ran to meet him. David had COMPLETE confidence in God’s amazing power. Can you imagine all the men watching as David took on Goliath? The Israelites (including Saul) probably held their breath. The Philistines probably laughed as they saw little David coming out without even a sword. However, after God used David to kill Goliath, those Philistines turned and ran! The Israelite army chased them and destroyed them. God handed His people complete victory that day.

Application: David remained with God and God remained with David - in the small things and the BIG things. David knew God’s heart. He knew God’s promises, and he trusted that God was strong enough and good enough to keep them. In the same way, God wants us to remain with Him, and He will remain with us. When we get to know God in our everyday lives, then when a difficult time comes, we will not hesitate to rely on Him.

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Key Verse: If anyone remains joined to Me, and I to him, he will bear a lot of fruit. You can't do anything without me. - John 15:5b

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Main Point: Remaining with God every day is the key to trusting Him in difficult times.


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3. The Armor of God (Ephesians 6:10-18)

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Main Point: Through Jesus, God has provided everything we need to stand against the devil’s plans.

Key Verse: Put on all of God's armor. Then you can stand firm against the devil's evil plans. - Ephesians 6:11

Props: A dollar bill; any piece of armor that looks realistic (sword, shield, helmet, breastplate). Do not use inexpensive plastic pieces.

Teacher: Hold up any piece of armor that you have while talking about that particular piece. It is fine if you only have one or two pieces.

Background/Review

Say: Last week, we talked about David’s battle against a huge Philistine warrior. Ask: Who can tell me the warrior’s name? Goliath. Say: All of the big, strong Israelite soldiers were scared to death of Goliath. But David was not afraid to fight him. Some people would say that David was crazy! Goliath was over nine feet tall - probably almost twice David’s size. But David wasn’t relying on his own strength. He said:

The Lord who rescued me from the claws of the lion and the bear will rescue me from this Philistine! - 1 Samuel 17:37a

Goliath and rest of the Philistines were the enemies of God and His people, the Israelites. So often God gives us something we can see with our eyes to teach us about something we can’t see with our eyes. The battle between David and Goliath was a real battle that many people saw with their own eyes. Wars are very real. We have seen wars fought in movies and on news clips. But did you know there is a war going on that we can’t see? It is a spiritual war. Ask: Who can guess who is battling in this war? Listen for answers. (Many kids may say it is between God and Satan.) Say: The war is NOT between God and Satan, because there is ABSOLUTELY NO CONTEST between God and Satan! That would be like if these two collided. Show Power Point of ant and semi-truck. Who would win? No contest! If this truck hit this ant, the ant would be destroyed in an instant. In fact, you probably wouldn’t even find a trace of the ant afterward. Likewise, God is indescribably more powerful than Satan. The spiritual battle that exists is a battle between Satan and God’s people.

Let’s think back for a minute. Before God created our world, He created angels (Job 38:4-7). God made a magnificent angel named Lucifer. He was beautiful, powerful, and good. But Lucifer became proud, and he wanted to be like God (Isaiah 14:12-14). His pride was sin. It is the first sin that we know of. Because of his sin, Lucifer could no longer live with God, so he was thrown out of heaven (Ezekiel 28:17). Lucifer chose to become God’s enemy. His name was changed to Satan, or the devil. Satan has no power to battle God, so he has chosen to battle against God’s best creation, people.

In Genesis 1:27, we read, “So God created human beings in His own image. In the image of God He created them; male and female He created them.” (NLT)

The reason people are so valuable is that each man, woman, and child is created in the image, or likeness, of God. God even commands that we treat each other well because we are created in His image (Genesis 9:6). Since Satan doesn’t stand a chance at battling God, he spends his days attacking people. Every time Satan harms a person, he strikes a blow at the image of God.

The Bible says the devil is like a roaring lion that prowls around looking for someone to devour (1 Peter 5:8). Make no mistake, he is a terrible enemy, and he is stronger than we are in our own power. But just like David facing Goliath, we do not fight with our own power. God is always with us and He has given us HIS weapons to battle with.

The Armor Of God (Ephesians 6:13-17)

So put on all of God's armor. Evil days will come. But you will be able to stand up to anything. And after you have done everything you can, you will still be standing. - Ephesians 6:13

Say: Did you hear what the Bible called our weapons? It is God’s Armor. We just learned a story about armor. Let’s look back at the armor that Goliath was wearing.

He had a bronze helmet on his head. He wore a coat of bronze armor. It weighed 125 pounds. On his legs he wore bronze guards. He carried a bronze javelin on his back. His spear was as big as a weaver's rod. Its iron point weighed 15 pounds. The man who carried his shield walked along in front of him. - 1 Samuel 17:5-7

That is some heavy-duty armor. Ask: Who remembers what David’s armor looked like? He didn’t wear any. Say: David tried on Saul’s armor, but he didn’t like it, so he went to battle Goliath with just a sling and five stones. Yet David won the battle! I believe David was wearing the armor of God. Let’s look at God’s armor.

So stand firm. Put the belt of truth around your waist. Put the armor of godliness on your chest. Wear on your feet what will prepare you to tell the good news of peace. Also, pick up the shield of faith. With it you can put out all of the flaming arrows of the evil one. Put on the helmet of salvation. And take the sword of the Holy Spirit. The sword is God's word. At all times, pray by the power of the Spirit. Pray all kinds of prayers. Be watchful, so that you can pray. Always keep on praying for all of God's people. - Ephesians 6:14-18

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The Belt of Truth: The soldier’s belt, or harness, held all of his weapons and armor together. For the believer, truth holds our spiritual armor together.

The devil hates the truth because it shows him for what he is: not at all like God, and defeated by Jesus. The Bible calls Satan the Father of lies (John 8:44). Most of us in this room speak English. If we went to Spain, the people there would speak Spanish. In France, they speak French. Well, when Satan speaks, guess which language he speaks. He speaks “lie.” The Bible says that lying is his native language (John 8:44). Satan lied to Eve, the first human he ever spoke to. And he hasn’t stopped! He still lies and tries to deceive Christians.

The truth is what God gives us so that we can tell what the devil’s lies are. Teacher: Hold up a dollar bill. Say: When someone gets a job at a bank, they have to learn how to tell real money from fake, or counterfeit, money. The way they are trained is by spending hours and hours learning what a real dollar bill looks like. They feel it, and examine it with their eyes. They get to know a real dollar so well that when a fake bill comes along, they know it is not the real thing. Just the same, if we know God’s truth inside and out, we will never fall for one of Satan’s lies.

Notice what Jesus calls Himself: “I am the Way, the Truth, and the Life.” We cannot put on truth until we have put our trust in the One who is Truth - Jesus (Romans 13:14). By abiding in Him and in His word, our minds become lined up with truth. We will be armed against the devil’s lies.

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The Breastplate of Righteousness: In a suit of armor, the breastplate guards the soldier’s heart and other very important organs. Without a solid breastplate, a soldier would easily be killed with one blow from the enemy’s sword or arrow.

Being righteous is being right, perfect, or without sin. God is righteous. The only way for us to be righteous is by having faith in God’s provision, Jesus, who died to take away our sin. We put on the breastplate of righteousness when we put our faith in Jesus.

The Bible says that at one time, Lucifer walked with God and was blameless, until unrighteousness was found in him (Ezekiel 28:15). Now Satan is the enemy of righteousness (Acts 13:10). He hates all things that are right or sinless.

Not only is Satan the father of lies, but he is also called the great accuser (Revelation 12:10). To accuse means to tell a judge that someone has done something wrong. He actually goes to God to accuse Christians of doing wrong. He constantly tempts us to sin, then he tattletales to God when we sin, and even makes up lies to accuse us when we don’t sin. Isn’t that rotten? This would be like if you went into huddle group this morning and your leader wasn’t there yet. You saw a plate of cupcakes on the table. Another girl was there and she said, “Our leader said these cupcakes are for us to eat. Go ahead and have one.” So you eat one, then your leader walks in. The girl points at you and says, “She ate your cupcake!” Or, worse yet, if you didn’t eat one and she said that you did.

Satan’s scheme is to accuse us. But if we have put on the breastplate of righteousness by placing our trust in Jesus, all of our sins are wiped away. There is no way for God to see us as unrighteous! When He looks at us, He sees what His perfect Son did for us.

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Footwear of the Gospel of Peace: Every good soldier needs solid footing. Who can tell me what kind of shoes a football player wears? Cleats. Why does he wear cleats? To grip the field. Say: Cleats have little spikes underneath that grab into the dirt and grass. This gives him sure footing not to move when he wants to stand still, and allows him to run faster when he wants to move. Without cleats, the player would slip all over a wet field.

The Bible tells us to wear the Good News of Peace to give us sure footing. Again, this piece of God’s armor is only found in Jesus. Through Jesus, we can have peace with God. Because we chose to sin, we became enemies of God (James 4:4). But when we choose to accept what Jesus did, we are made right with God. We are no longer enemies with God! Belief in Jesus is the ONLY way for us to have peace with God. The Bible says, “There is peace with God through Jesus Christ, who is Lord of all.” (Acts 10:36b NLT)

Also, there is peace within our soul, which is rest and the lack of fear. This peace is a fruit of the Holy Spirit that lives inside of each believer (Galatians 5:22).

It may seem strange that “Peace” is needed for spiritual warfare. But the peace that Jesus brings, which is peace with God, and lack of fear, are vital in battling the devil’s schemes. Satan wants to rob believers of peace by placing doubts in our mind. He knows that if we doubt God’s power or promises, we will surely slip, and he will gain ground. We must remain firmly planted in the peace that Jesus gives us.

Note to Teacher: Consider what happened with Eve in the Garden of Eden. Satan planted seeds of doubt in Eve’s mind. Eve doubted God’s love for her, believing that He was holding back some good from her. Without sure footing, Eve’s doubt caused her to stumble, and Satan gained tremendous ground!

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Shield of Faith: The soldier’s shield is a defensive weapon. In other words, he doesn’t hit the enemy with his shield. Instead, the shied protects him from the enemy’s attack. If the enemy shoots arrows at him, he holds up the shield to keep the arrows from hitting his body. Just the same, the Bible says that our shield of faith can put out the flaming arrows that the devil fires at us. Think about what we have learned about the devil’s schemes today. Ask: What do you think the flaming arrows might be? Lies, doubts, accusations. Say: Satan will fire anything at us that he thinks might work. Whether it’s lies about God, doubts about whether we are really saved, accusations against God or us, he will try it. But our faith, our trust in God, keeps those arrows from hitting our heart or mind.

Amazingly, even our faith is not something that we come up with. God gives us the faith that makes us right with Him and guards us from Satan’s tricks (Romans 12:3).

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The Helmet of Salvation: The helmet protects the soldier’s head. No soldier would go into a war without a helmet. It protects his head from a crushing blow. Likewise, we would never stand a chance against the devil without first having salvation. Salvation is being saved from death and separation from God. The only way for us to have salvation is by placing our trust in Jesus’ payment for our sins on the cross.

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The Sword of the Spirit: Here we come to a weapon that is offensive. That means that the soldier uses it to strike his enemy. The Bible says that the sword of the Spirit is the Word of God. This is the Bible. Did you know that one of the wonderful things that the Holy Spirit does is that He reminds us of Bible verses that we have learned? When you are in a situation where the devil is trying to attack you with doubts or lies, the Holy Spirit will tell you the truth, and remind you of verses that you know (John 14:26, 16:13). The Bible calls that your spiritual sword! The more we study God’s word, the more ammunition we put in our arsenal.

The word of God is living and active. It is sharper than any sword that has two edges. It cuts deep enough to separate soul from spirit. It can separate joints from bones. It judges the thoughts and purposes of the heart. - Hebrews 4:12

Prayer: Our last weapon might not seem like a weapon at all, but it certainly is! The Bible tells us to pray by the power of God’s Holy Spirit. How powerful is the Spirit of God? When the prophet Micah talked about being filled with power from the Holy Spirit, he used a word that means “warlike energy” (Micah 3:8). The apostle Paul uses the word dunamis to describe the power of God’s Holy Spirit within us (Ephesians 3:16). This is the same word that we get the word dynamite from. Now, tell me, would the power of dynamite help you fight a battle? Every person who believes in Jesus is given the same power that performed miracles and raised Jesus from the dead! (Ephesians 1:19-20) We are told to tap into this power to pray at all times and on every occasion. We are instructed to use this amazing power to pray for believers everywhere.

Notice that we need to wear the FULL armor of God (Ephesians 6:13). All of these pieces are linked with one another, and they are all ours because God gave His Son for us.

Application: Because this is a spiritual war, we cannot expect that the devil will attack us with weapons we can see, like a sword (2 Corinthians 10:4). We can’t see spiritual things. The devil attacks us by tempting us to sin, deceiving us, discouraging us, and accusing us. If he can get us to sin, he puts us on the path of destruction (Isaiah 59:7). If he can deceive us or discourage us, we will not serve God and we will not share God's good news with others.

If we don’t put on God’s armor, by putting on Jesus and remaining with Him (Romans 13:14), the devil’s evil plans will terrify us, just as Goliath scared the Israelites. However, when we remain with Jesus, we can rest in His power and strength and know that nothing stands a chance against a God so powerful that even His voice controls all of creation.

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Main Point: Through Jesus, God has provided everything we need to stand against the devil’s plans.

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Key Verse: Put on all of God's armor. Then you can stand firm against the devil's evil plans. - Ephesians 6:11


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4. David & Jonathan (1 Samuel 18-20)

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Main Point: God will always be with those who trust in Him.

Key Verse: The Lord himself will go ahead of you. He will be with you. He will never leave you. He'll never desert you. So don't be afraid. Don't lose hope. - Deuteronomy 31:8

Props: Three pieces of thick yarn or rope, about 18 inches long (three different colors, if possible); Pillows, a wig (or scrap of “fur” fabric), clothes or a blanket

Background/Review

Say: We learned the story of how David struck down the huge Philistine warrior named Goliath. David didn’t wear physical armor made of metal. Instead he wore the armor of God, trusting that the battle belonged to the Lord. Ask: Who can remember the name of the King of Israel at that time? Saul. Say: Saul was still the King, though God had privately promised that David would one day be the King. Saul did not know that God made this promise about David. Ask: Who can tell me why Saul didn’t fight Goliath himself? He was afraid. Say: Even though Saul was the biggest Israelite, Goliath was still bigger than him, and he was afraid just like all the other soldiers were.

Good Friends And A Jealous King (1 Samuel 18)

Say: After the battle with Goliath, Saul decided to keep David in his service full-time. David became very close friends with Saul’s son Jonathan. The Bible says they became one in spirit. Teacher: Show your three pieces of yarn. Say: In this friendship, there were really three people. There was David, Jonathan, and the Lord. Tie the pieces together with a knot at one end. Ask a volunteer to come up and hold the knot. Start braiding the three pieces together as you talk. Say: God knitted these two young men’s hearts together, sort of like this. David and Jonathan loved each other, and they both loved and respected the Lord. A friendship of two people that centers around a love for God will be strong and will last a long time. These kind of friends don’t think about what is best for ME, but what is best for each other, and how to glorify God. Hold up the braided pieces. Thank your volunteer.

Jonathan made a covenant with David because he loved him just as he loved himself. Jonathan took off the robe he was wearing and gave it to David. He also gave him his military clothes. He even gave him his sword, his bow and his belt. - 1 Samuel 3-4

Note to Teacher: It is possible that Jonathan’s gifts to David were a symbolic gesture. He may have suspected that David was God’s chosen successor to the thrown of Israel. By giving David his robe, Jonathan may have been indicating that he was willing to give his authority to David, and therefore relinquishing his claim to the thrown.

Jonathan’s covenant with David was like a promise to be best friends forever. He was saying, “What’s mine is yours.” We will see that this friendship lasted throughout both of their lifetimes. These men would risk their lives for one another. It was a friendship based on trust and obedience to God.

Application: Some of you may have a best friend that you love as much as you love yourself. That is awesome. But some of you may not have found a friend like this yet. Let me encourage you to pray and ask God for such a friend. The Bible says that every good and perfect gift is given to us from our heavenly Father (James 1:17). A great friend who loves you and encourages you to be godly is a wonderful thing. God wants to pour out the blessing of friendship on you. Don’t be afraid to pray for this. The Bible says that God is happy to give good gifts to those who ask Him! (Matthew 7:11)

Say: After the last Philistine had fallen, and the Israelite men returned home from the long battle, the women ran out to greet them. They were so excited that their husbands and son were finally home. They began to dance and sing praises. They sang, “Saul has killed thousands of men. David has killed tens of thousands.”

For younger children: Lead the students in singing this verse several times to the tune of “Mary Had a Little Lamb.”

Saul has killed his thousands of men, thousands of men, thousands of men,

Saul has killed his thousands of men, But David has killed ten thousand.

In other words, everyone in town was saying David was a greater warrior than Saul. Ask: Can anyone guess how this song made Saul feel? Jealous, angry. The Bible says:

That song made Saul very angry. It really upset him. He said to himself, "They are saying David has killed tens of thousands of men. But they are saying I've killed only thousands. The only thing left for him to get is the kingdom itself." From that time on, Saul became very jealous of David. So he watched him closely. - 1 Samuel 18:8-9

The next day, the spirit that made Saul sad and upset came to torment Saul again. David came to sooth him by playing his harp as he usually did. While David played, Saul grabbed a spear and threw it at David, but David got away from him two times.

It’s hard to imagine how David might have reacted to this. He must have thought that the evil spirit was making Saul act crazy. But in fact, Saul knew what he was doing. He was trying to get rid of David. Saul was afraid of David because the Lord had left Saul, and was with David (1 Samuel 18:12).

Then Saul sent David away from him and made him the commander of 1,000 men in his army. All the soldiers loved being led by David. Listen to what the Bible tells us about David:

In everything he did, he was very successful. That's because the Lord was with him. - 1 Samuel 18:14

David’s success and popularity made Saul even angrier with David. He came up with another plan. He offered to let David marry his oldest daughter, if David would continue to fight his wars. Saul hoped the Philistines would kill David in battle. But very humbly, David said the he was not important enough to marry the King’s daughter. So Saul let another man marry her.

Then Saul found out that his other daughter, Michal, was in love with David. He wanted to try his plan again. Saul had his attendants talk to David about marrying Michal. Again, David said he was not important enough to be the King’s son-in-law. Since David felt unworthy to marry the King’s daughter, Saul told him he could “earn” the right to join the royal family by killing 100 Philistines. David agreed to this. He went out and killed 200 Philistines, and Saul gave David his daughter to marry.

Saul realized that the Lord was with David. He also realized that his daughter Michal loved David. So Saul became even more afraid of him. He remained David's enemy as long as he was king. The Philistine commanders kept on going out to battle. Every time they did, David had more success against them than the rest of Saul's officers. So his name became well known. - 1 Samuel 18:28-30

Michal Helps David Escape (1 Samuel 19)

Say: Saul would not give up trying to kill David.

Saul told his son Jonathan and all of the attendants to kill David. But Jonathan liked David very much. So Jonathan warned him, "My father Saul is looking for a chance to kill you. Be very careful tomorrow morning. Find a place to hide and stay there. My father and I will come and stand in the field where you are hiding. I'll speak to him about you. Then I'll tell you what I find out."

Jonathan told his father Saul some good things about David. He said to him, "Please don't do anything to harm David. He hasn't done anything to harm you. And what he's done has helped you a lot. He put his own life in danger when he killed Goliath. The Lord used him to win a great battle for the whole nation of Israel. When you saw it, you were glad. So why would you do anything to harm a man like David? He isn't guilty of doing anything to harm you. Why would you want to kill him without any reason?" - 1 Samuel 19:1-5

So Saul promised Jonathan that he wouldn’t harm David. Ask: Do you think Saul is telling the truth? Listen for answers. Say: We’ll have to listen and see about that!

David went back to serving Saul. Once again he battled the Philistines bravely. And again, David went to sooth Saul with music when a terrible spirit was making him very upset. But just as he had done before, Saul threw a spear at David. David ran away. A-ha! So Saul wasn’t telling the truth to Jonathan. Saul sent men to David’s house and told hem to kill him in the morning.

But David's wife Michal warned him. She said, "You must run for your life tonight. If you don't, tomorrow you will be killed." So Michal helped David escape through a window. He ran and got away. - 1 Samuel 19:11b-12

Then she did something very clever. She took a statue and put it in David’s bed, and covered it with clothes. She even took some goat hair and put it at the top where his head would have been. Teacher: Use props to show what this might have looked like. When Saul’s men came looking for David, Michal told them that he was sick in bed. When the men reported this to Saul, he said, “Bring him up here to me in his bed. Then I'll kill him.” Can you imagine that?! So the men went to get David, bed and all, and they realized it was a statue in the bed. They had been tricked.

Saul asked his Daughter, Michal, why she had done this. She told him that David made her help him. David had run to see Samuel, God’s prophet who had anointed him. Saul heard where David was and he sent men to capture him. But when the men arrived, God’s spirit came upon them, and instead of grabbing David, they spoke messages from the Lord. So Saul sent more men after David. But when those men got to where David and Samuel were, they started speaking messages from God also. So Saul went to capture David himself. But when Saul got there, the Spirit of God even fell on him! He took off his royal robes and he, also, spoke messages from God all day and night.

Jonathan Helps David Escape (1 Samuel 20)

So David escaped and ran to where Jonathan was. David told Jonathan that Saul really was trying to kill him. He said, “What have I done? What crime have I committed? I haven't done anything to harm your father. So why is he trying to kill me?” (1 Samuel 20:1) Jonathan wondered why his father would try to hide his plans from him. But David knew it was because of Jonathan’s close friendship with David. Jonathan vowed that he would never let Saul kill David. The two men came up with a way to be sure of Saul’s plans.

So David said, "Tomorrow is the time for the New Moon Feast. I'm supposed to eat with the king. But let me go and hide in the field. I'll stay there until the evening of the day after tomorrow. Your father might miss me. If he does, then tell him, 'David begged me to let him hurry home to Bethlehem. A yearly sacrifice is being offered there for his whole family group.' Your father might say, 'That's all right.' If he does, it will mean I'm safe. But he might become very angry. If he does, you can be sure he's made up his mind to harm me. - 1 Samuel 20:5-7

The New Moon festival was celebrated every month, at the sighting of the new moon. Jonathan promised David that he would find out what his father was planning, and let David know what it was. Then the two young men made a vow that they would always be kind to one another, doing good even to their children and grandchildren, as long as they both lived.

Jonathan came up with a secret code in which to tell David if he was in danger or not. He told David to go out to a nearby field and wait by a certain stone. After the feast, when he would find out about Saul’s plans, he would shoot three arrows near the large stone. Then he would send his servant boy out to get his arrows. If Saul was not planning to harm David, Jonathan would shout, “The arrows are on this side of you!” But if Saul was planning to kill David, Jonathan would shout, “Go farther! The arrows are ahead of you!” Then David would have to run far away.

So David hid before the festival began. On the first night of the New Moon, Saul noticed that David was missing, but he didn’t say anything. On the second night, he noticed David’s place was empty again. Saul asked Jonathan where David was. Jonathan told his father the story that David had made up about going home to see his family.

Saul burned with anger against Jonathan. He said to him, "You are an evil son. You have refused to obey me. I know that you are on the side of Jesse's son. You should be ashamed of that. And your mother should be ashamed of having a son like you. You will never be king as long as Jesse's son lives on this earth. And you will never have a kingdom either. So send for the son of Jesse. Bring him to me. He must die!" - 1 Samuel 20:30-31

When Jonathan asked what David had done to deserve Saul’s death threat, Saul threw his spear at Jonathan, his own son! Jonathan was very angry with his father. He left the feast. The next morning he went out to the field and shot his arrows, just as he had promised he would do. He called out to his young helper, “The arrow went far beyond you! Hurry, run fast!” This was the signal to David that Saul wanted to kill him. The boy retrieved his arrows, and Jonathan sent him home. Then David came out from behind the rock. The two friends hugged and cried together.

Jonathan said to David, "Go in peace. In the name of the Lord we have taken an oath. We've promised to be friends. We've said, 'The Lord is a witness between you and me. He's a witness between your children and my children forever.' "

Then David left, and Jonathan went back to the town. - 1 Samuel 20:42

Application: David was chosen by God to become the next King of Israel. David loved God and trusted Him completely. David was right where God wanted him to be. But I want you to notice something here. Even though David was obedient and had a heart for God, did he still have trouble in his life? Yes! Say: David was surrounded by trouble because of Saul’s sin. Sin always affects innocent people. And here is the other thing I want you to notice: God did not leave David. God was with David, protecting him, in the middle of this trouble. God worked in amazing ways to protect David. God worked circumstances to favor David, he gave him a loyal wife, He sent His spirit at just the right times. And another wonderful way God protected David was by sending Jonathan as his helper. He was the perfect friend for David. He was godly, loyal and brave. And he also was Saul’s son, so he could find out things from Saul that David needed to know. God worked all things together for the good of David (Romans 8:28).

How does this apply to our lives? Remember that even though you may be right where God wants you to be, trouble can still come into your life. Sometimes this trouble is caused by the sins of others (as in David’s case); sometimes it comes because God is planning to show us something amazing about Himself (as was the case when Jesus raised Lazarus from the dead). In any case, God will not abandon you. He will NEVER leave those who trust in Him.

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Key Verse: The Lord himself will go ahead of you. He will be with you. He will never leave you. He'll never desert you. So don't be afraid. Don't lose hope. - Deuteronomy 31:8

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Main Point: God will always be with those who trust in Him.


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5. David Blesses Mephibosheth (2 Samuel 9)

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Main Point: God pours His grace out on those who accept His gift.

Key Verse: Give praise to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ. He has blessed us with every spiritual blessing. Those blessings come from the heavenly world. They belong to us because we belong to Christ. - Ephesians 1:3

Props: A plate of delicious food (as from a king’s banquet table); Small crust of bread

Background/Review

Say: Last week we talked about Saul’s overwhelming jealousy of David. It seemed at every turn, Saul was trying to set another trap for David. Last week, we just scratched the surface of Saul’s hatred for David. Saul and his men hunted for David (1 Samuel 24:11). David hid from Saul in the desert and even in a cave. But God always remains with those who trust Him. The Lord was with David, and He spoiled all of Saul’s attempts to kill David (1 Samuel 23:14).

One of the ways God protected David was by sending him the wonderful friendship of Saul’s son, Jonathan. God knit these two men’s hearts together. Jonathan encouraged David to be brave and trust in the Lord (1 Samuel 23:16-17). They made a promise to be loyal to each other for all of their days. Part of this promise included David taking care of Jonathan’s family. David promised to accept and care for Jonathan’s family because of his relationship with Jonathan. He knew Jonathan was faithful and righteous before God, and David wanted to honor the family of Jonathan on Jonathan’s behalf. We are going to see that David kept his word, because he was a faithful friend and a man after God’s own heart.

Say: Near the end of 1 Samuel, we read something very sad. Saul and Jonathan died in the battle against the Philistines. Saul did not live a life of faith. He turned his back on God and refused to worship Him. One of the things that we see in the Bible is that when people choose to disobey God, they actually bring hurt and ruin upon themselves! Saul’s sin caused ruin and destruction for him and the entire nation of Israel. Perhaps it isn’t so surprising that his family died tragically in this battle. Remember, sin spoils everything. It may sometimes be hard to lead a righteous life, but when we look at how the life of Saul ends, we see that it’s even harder to lead a sinful, rebellious life (Proverbs 13:15).

Ask: How do you think David responded when he heard the news that Saul, the King who was determined to kill him, was dead? Listen for answers. Ask: If someone were trying to kill you for several years, would you be glad that he was no longer a threat to your life? Would you be happy that you were safe at last? Say: Let’s read how David responded when he heard that Saul and Jonathan were dead.

Then David took hold of his clothes and tore them. All of his men did the same thing. All of them were filled with sadness. They sobbed over the whole nation of Israel. They didn't eat anything until evening. That's because Saul and Jonathan and the Lord's army had been killed with swords. - 2 Samuel 1:11-12

Say: Of course we would expect that David mourned for Jonathan. But can you believe that he also mourned for Saul? Even though David had been hurt, threatened, and chased by Saul, he didn’t rejoice when the King died. David didn’t treat Saul as Saul treated him. David treated Saul with honor and respect. Why did David do this? David was a man after God’s heart. David was saddened that the King of God’s people had died so tragically. David knew that God had intended to bless Saul as King of Israel, and David was sad that Saul chose disobedience that led to death. If Saul had chosen to obey, he would have experienced many blessings of a faithful life. Sin spoiled Saul’s life, the life of his son Jonathan, and deeply hurt the heart of David.

Note to Teacher: This is a sobering passage to those of us who are parents. It has been said, “The blessings of the child are linked to the obedience of the parent.” See also Exodus 20:5-6.

David Becomes King (2 Samuel 2)

David chose not to follow Saul down the path of sin and death. After he mourned the loss of Saul and Jonathan, he made a choice to continue to listen to God.

After Saul and Jonathan died, David asked the Lord for advice. "Should I go up to one of the towns of Judah?" he asked.

The Lord said, "Go up."

David asked, "Where should I go?"

"To Hebron," the Lord answered. - 2 Samuel 2:1

Application: David talked to God, listened to God, and then followed God. After a painful experience like losing a best friend, we are sometimes tempted to run from God in our sadness and anger. But David didn’t. He believed that God had a plan, and he wanted to follow it with his whole heart. Just like David, when we are sad, we should turn to God. When you need to know what step to take next, turn to God.

Say: David took his family and friends and settled in Hebron. The men of Hebron came and anointed David as King of Israel (2 Samuel 2:4, 5:3). As David began his reign as King over Israel, there was only one thing that kept him from following Saul’s path to disobedience, destruction, and death. There was only one thing that made David a great king.

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David became more and more powerful. That's because the Lord God who rules over all was with him. - 2 Samuel 5:10

Say: David didn’t become powerful because he was the best warrior. His power didn’t come because he was the celebrated hero that killed Goliath as a young man. David became more powerful because the Lord was with him. David listened to the Lord God Almighty, and the Almighty Lord was with him.

David Blesses Mephibosheth (2 Samuel 9:1-7)

Shortly after David became king, he remembered his covenant with Jonathan to show kindness to his family. David promised Jonathan that he would show loving kindness to his family forever (1 Samuel 20:14-17). David vowed to Saul that he would not kill any of the children that came after him (1 Samuel 24:21-22). Now that Saul and Jonathan were dead, and David was king, it would have been easy for David to forget his commitment. But David not only remembered his commitment to Saul, he went far beyond it.

David asked, "Is anyone left from the royal house of Saul? If there is, I want to be kind to him because of Jonathan." - 2 Samuel 9:1

David called one of the servants who used to serve Saul. His name was Ziba.

The King then asked him, “Is anyone still alive from Saul’s family? If so, I want to show God’s kindness to them.”

Ziba replied, “Yes, one of Jonathan’s sons is still alive. He is crippled in both feet.”

“Where is he?” the king asked.

“In Lo-debar,” Ziba told him, “at the home of Makir son of Ammiel.”

So David sent for him and brought him from Makir’s home. His name was Mephibosheth; he was Jonathan’s son and Saul’s grandson. When he came to David, he bowed low to the ground in deep respect. David said, “Greetings, Mephibosheth.”

Mephibosheth replied, “I am your servant.”

“Don’t be afraid!” David said. “I intend to show kindness to you because of my promise to your father, Jonathan. I will give you all the property that once belonged to your grandfather Saul, and you will eat here with me at the king’s table!” - 2 Samuel 9:3-7

Say: This is such a beautiful demonstration of love and acceptance, but it’s even more beautiful when we understand the culture in which David and Mephibosheth lived. During this time in history, when one King took over another King’s throne, the new King would kill the entire family of the former King. This was to insure that the family of the old King would not try to regain the power they once had. This explains why Mephibosheth bowed down out of fear. This also explains why David comforted him and told him not to be afraid. The tradition of the time would have called for David to kill Mephibosheth. But David treated Mephibosheth as an honored guest. David didn’t follow tradition. He didn’t follow culture. He followed God.

Mephibosheth had not done anything to earn this kindness and blessing from David. He was not a mighty warrior who had fought a great battle for the King. He had never gone to war because both of his feet were crippled from the time he was a young boy (2 Samuel 4:4). He was not courageous. In fact, he was deeply afraid to even appear before David. No, Mephibosheth did not earn the King’s favor. David did not bless Mephibosheth because of anything he had done. These blessings were freely given to him as a gift. And they were a gift that he could never repay.

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Ask: Does anyone know the word for blessings that are given to someone who has not earned them? Grace. (You may want to hint that it is a 5-letter word that begins with “G”.) Say: Grace is “extending special favor to someone who doesn’t deserve it, who hasn’t earned it, and can never repay it...Grace is a demonstration of love that is undeserved, unearned, and unrepayable.” (Chuck Swindoll)

But why Mephibosheth? David made a promise with Jonathan to protect his family. David showed grace, or unearned favor, to Mephibosheth because of Jonathan’s worth and faithfulness. David offered to take all the blessings, honor and acceptance earned by Jonathan and shower them on Mephibosheth. This crippled man would be blessed because of the faithfulness of his father.

The Offer Of A King (2 Samuel 9:8-13)

Say: This reminds me of another story. It involves you, God, and a man named Jesus.

Every person in this room was born with a disability like Mephibosheth. You may look down at your feet, think about what a fast runner you are, and try to argue this point. But we are all disabled in a way much worse than our feet. Our hearts are imperfect. Our souls and spirits are imperfect. Our minds are imperfect.

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Romans 5:12 says, “Sin entered the world because one man sinned. And death came because of sin. Everyone sinned, so death came to all people.” We may not be physically disabled, but we are all spiritually disabled.

Say: When God created Adam and Eve, he wanted one thing from them - He wanted them to trust Him. But they chose to trust the devil, and they turned away from God. This made them spiritually crippled. In that instant, they changed from being pure to being contaminated by sin. It also caused the entire human race to be disabled by sin. When we think bad thoughts, it’s because we have an impure, sinful mind. When we desire bad things, it’s because we have an impure, sinful heart.

Mephibosheth’s crippled feet kept him from running and playing as a child. His handicap kept him from being free to walk wherever he wanted to go. He was bound to beg for food because he couldn’t work. Our sin-nature keeps us from entering God’s kingdom. Our sin-nature keeps us separated from God, and sentenced to eternal punishment.

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But God loves us, and He provided the way for us to “eat at his table.” God extends this grace, this unearned favor that we can’t pay back, because of someone else. And it’s not David, Jonathan, or Mephibosheth. God accepts His impure children because of his faithful Son, Jesus Christ. God gives us grace - blessings that we did not earn - because of Jesus’ worth and faithfulness. God takes all the blessings and honor of Jesus and showers them down on his imperfect children.

When the world and everything in it became contaminated by sin, God sent his perfect Son to live among sinful people. Jesus lived with them, but He never became sinful like them. His thoughts, desires, and actions were always perfect. He lived a perfect life, yet He was sentenced to die in place of imperfect people. Jesus died in the sinner’s place, proving that He was a faithful Son, Friend, and Savior. He rose from the dead three days later, proving that God has power over death.

Say: And this opened the door for us to receive God’s grace through the faithfulness of Jesus. But how do we receive this grace?

Let’s go back to the story of David and Mephibosheth.

When Mephibosheth came before David, he bowed down low and said, "What is your servant, that you should notice a dead dog like me?" (2 Samuel 9:8)

Just as Mephibosheth bowed before David, we must bow our hearts before God. We must realize that He is perfect and we are sinful. We must recognize we are spiritually broken. We must understand that we don’t deserve this grace that God offers to us.

David promised to give Mephibosheth all of the land that once belonged to Saul. David even provided servants to farm the land so that Mephibosheth would be provided for. Then David said, “And Mephibosheth will always eat at my table.” (2 Samuel 9:10)

What a wonderful offer for the undeserving, imperfect Mephibosheth. Notice that in this deal, Mephibosheth did not have to do anything but accept the blessings! Now Mephibosheth had a choice to make. He could say, “No. I like my life the way it is. Yes, every day is a struggle. I have to beg for food because I can’t work. But I’m not sure I trust this King David. I would rather run my own life. I don’t want to be near the King, eat at the king’s table, or receive the good gifts he is offering. Take me back to my dismal little house.” OR, He could give up his life of struggling and accept what the King offered him. Ask: What do you think he did? Let’s read:

And Mephibosheth, who was crippled in both feet, lived in Jerusalem and ate regularly at the king’s table. - 2 Samuel 9:13

Mephibosheth trusted David. He accepted the blessings that the King offered him! He traded in the crusts of bread that he once begged for, and received the rich food of the King’s feast! Teacher: hold up the bread, and compare to the plate of delicious food.

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Application: We must trust that God is a good and faithful King, and we must choose to believe that He is the only way to cure imperfect, sinful people. When we accept what Jesus did for us, we will receive the blessings of peace, joy, righteousness, and eternal life. After we accept the grace He offers us because of His faithful Son, His plan is for us to become His faithful disciples. We are called to eat at His table as His sons and daughters. This means we stay close to Him, remain with Him, abide with Him, learn from Him, and enjoy His presence!

You may notice that Mephibosheth’s feet remained crippled. Once we accept the grace of God, He no longer sees us as crippled. Instead, He sees His Son. He has forgiven our sins, and given us new life. As we live each day, we still choose to sin. But the longer we sit at the table with God, and the more we listen to Him, the more we learn what a blessing it is to trust and obey Him. When we trust Him more, we sin less. However, there are parts of us that will always be crippled. That is until we meet God face to face, and sit with Him at the table in heaven and enjoy a fabulous feast together. Then we will be completely healed.

But until that day, isn’t it a blessing to be like Mephibosheth? We are undeserving, yet we are loved and accepted by a King - because of His faithful Son. What a privilege to eat daily at our king’s table, crippled feet and all!

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Key Verse: Give praise to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ. He has blessed us with every spiritual blessing. Those blessings come from the heavenly world. They belong to us because we belong to Christ. - Ephesians 1:3

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Main Point: God pours His grace out on those who accept His gift.


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6. Solomon (1 Kings 1 - 3)

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Main Point: God gives wisdom to those who ask for it.

Key Verse: If any of you need wisdom, ask God for it. He will give it to you. God gives freely to everyone. He doesn't find fault. - James 1:5

Props: Two clear empty glasses, a clear pitcher full of water, and a large plastic bin

Background/Review

Say: David was the King that ruled over God’s people, the Israelites. He was not perfect; he made many heart-breaking decisions during his reign. But David loved and trusted God. He was a man after God’s own heart. David’s first wife was Saul’s daughter Michal. David and Michal did not have any children together. David married several other women, as most kings did at that time. (This was never God’s plan. God has designed marriage for one man and one woman forever.) His last wife was named Bathsheba. David loved her very much. Their youngest son was named Solomon. In all, David had over 20 sons and one daughter.

Adonijah Tries To Become King (1 Kings 1:1-27)

Usually, the oldest son would become King after his father either died or stepped down from the throne. But in this case, David promised Bathsheba that their son, Solomon, would be the next King of Israel. When David had become an old man, unable to do much of anything, his oldest living son, Adonijah, decided he would take the throne. Adonijah was handsome and spoiled. Here is one of the heart-breaking mistakes that David made. He did not discipline his sons. The Bible says, “His father had never tried to stop him from doing what he wanted to. His father had never asked him, ‘Why are you acting the way you do?’” (1 Kings 1:6) So when Adonijah knew that his father was old and weak, he announced, “I’m going to be king.” (1 Kings 1:5) He even gathered lots of people together and started to throw a party in his own honor. He sacrificed animals and invited all the royal officials and all of his brothers - except Solomon.

Some the people closest to David did not go to Adonijah’s party. The prophet Nathan went to Solomon’s mother, Bathsheba, and told her what Adonijah was up to. Nathan told her that she must go tell David what was going on. Nathan knew that Adonijah would kill Bathsheba and Solomon once he was king, because he didn’t want his little brother to ever challenge him.

So Bathsheba went to David and bowed before him. She reminded him that he had promised that Solomon would be the next king. She told David that Adonijah was already saying that he was the King.

“And now, my lord the King, all Israel is waiting for you to announce who will become King after you. If you do not act, my son Solomon and I will be treated as criminals as soon as my lord the King has died.” - 1 Kings 1:20-21

Right away, the prophet Nathan entered and told David that Bathsheba was telling the truth.

Solomon Becomes King (1 Kings 1:28-53)

Say: King David responded, “Call Bathsheba!” So she came back in and stood before the King. And the King repeated his vow: “As surely as the Lord lives, who has rescued me from every danger, your son Solomon will be the next King and will sit on my throne this very day, just as I vowed to you before the Lord, the God of Israel.” - 1 Kings 1:28-30

David commanded his bodyguards, Nathan the prophet, and one of the priests to take Solomon to a special place and anoint him as the new King over Israel. After the priest anointed Solomon with oil, they blew a loud horn and shouted, “Long live King Solomon!”

And all the people followed Solomon into Jerusalem, playing flutes and shouting for joy. The celebration was so joyous and noisy that the earth shook with the sound. Adonijah and his guests heard the celebrating and shouting just as they were finishing their banquet. When Joab heard the sound of the ram’s horn, he asked, “What’s going on? Why is the city in such an uproar?” - 1 Kings 1:40-41

The entire city celebrated the new King. A messenger went to Adonijah’s feast and told him that Solomon was the new King. Ask: How do you think he took this news? Listen for answers. Say: He was gripped with fear. He was afraid that Solomon would have him killed. Adonijah went from being cocky and full of himself to being scared to death in a matter of seconds! All of his guests were also panic-stricken. They took off to their homes. They didn’t want to be known as the people who were enemies of the new King!

Adonijah ran to the tabernacle and pleaded for the Lord to spare his life. When Solomon heard about his brother cowering in fear, he sent a message to him.

Solomon replied, “If he proves himself to be loyal, not a hair on his head will be touched. But if he makes trouble, he will die.” So King Solomon summoned Adonijah, and they brought him down from the altar. He came and bowed respectfully before King Solomon, who dismissed him, saying, “Go on home.” - 1 Kings 1:52-53

David’s Charge To Solomon (1 Kings 2)

Say: Some of David’s last words were spoken as advice to his son, King Solomon.

"I'm about to die, just as everyone else on earth does. So be strong. Show how brave you are. Do everything the Lord your God requires. Live the way he wants you to. Obey his orders and commands. Keep his laws and rules. Do everything that is written in the Law of Moses. Then you will have success in everything you do. You will succeed everywhere you go.

"The Lord will keep the promise He made to me. He said, 'Your sons must be careful about how they live. They must be faithful to Me with all their heart and soul. Then you will always have a man sitting on the throne of Israel.' - 1 Kings 2:2-4

Application: Wow. That is wonderful advice. You know, our life is made up of decisions. Some decisions seem so small that you hardly even notice them. These are decisions like what to eat for breakfast, when to go outside and play, and who to sit next to at lunch. Some decisions are big and you may think about them for a long time. These might be things like whether or not you’ll run for class president. As you get older you’ll face more of these decisions. You’ll have to decide where to go to college and what job you’ll want to do. But here’s the thing: every decision you make should be based on what God wants you to do. This is true of the big and the small decisions. You may think that is going overboard, but what could be better than God’s best for you? Go to the Lord in every decision, lean on Him for every step you take (Proverbs 3:5). Then you will always be right where He wants you to be. This is truly abiding in Him.

Ask: Where did David tell Solomon to find God’s rules? In the Law of Moses. Say: Did you know that those of us who believe in Jesus have something even better than the Law of Moses? We have the Holy Spirit living inside of us. The very Spirit of God is inside of you and He will guide your every step if you’ll simply listen to Him. As we continue, take notice of the decisions Solomon made.

Say: Next, David warned Solomon about his enemies, and reminded him who had been loyal friends of His. Then David died, after ruling over Israel for 40 years. After David died, Solomon did all the things his father had instructed. He destroyed his enemies and rewarded those who were trustworthy.

Solomon Asks God For Wisdom (1 Kings 3:1-15)

Say: Here we come to a very important moment in Solomon’s life. But first, I have a question for you. Ask: If I could grant any wish for you, what would it be? Call on several students to answer. Say: Those are great wishes, but unfortunately, I can’t grant those wishes. Well, one night, God appeared to Solomon in a dream and said, “What do you want? Ask, and I will give it to you!” Wow! That was some offer! And it came from the only One who could really grant it. Of all the things in the whole world he could have asked for, let’s see what Solomon said:

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“Now, O Lord my God, You have made me king instead of my father, David, but I am like a little child who doesn’t know his way around. And here I am in the midst of Your own chosen people, a nation so great and numerous they cannot be counted! Give me an understanding heart so that I can govern Your people well and know the difference between right and wrong. For who by himself is able to govern this great people of Yours?”

The Lord was pleased that Solomon had asked for wisdom. So God replied, “Because you have asked for wisdom in governing My people with justice and have not asked for a long life or wealth or the death of your enemies - I will give you what you asked for! I will give you a wise and understanding heart such as no one else has had or ever will have! And I will also give you what you did not ask for - riches and fame! No other king in all the world will be compared to you for the rest of your life! And if you follow Me and obey My decrees and My commands as your father, David, did, I will give you a long life.” - 1 Kings 3:7-14 NLT

Solomon woke up, went to Jerusalem and offered sacrifices to the Lord. Then he threw a big banquet for his officials.

Solomon chose very well by asking for wisdom. Wisdom is knowing what is true and right, and having good judgment when making decisions.

God’s plan for Solomon was to rule over God’s people. Solomon knew that he could not rule well without God’s wisdom. Riches and earthly things would not make him better able to rule. Only God’s wisdom would make him able to live out God’s plan. Not only did God give great wisdom to Solomon, but He also added every other blessing that he did not ask for. God gives abundantly to those who have a heart that trusts in Him! (Genesis 24:35)

Teacher: Hold up your empty glass, making sure the large plastic bin is directly beneath it. Say: Solomon knew that he lacked wisdom. He asked God to fill him with wisdom. Hold up your pitcher of water and begin slowly pouring into the cup as you speak. (Do not stop pouring. Let it overflow and spill down into the bin below.) Say: God was very pleased with Solomon’s request. Generously, God began to pour wisdom into the young King. He poured and poured and poured. God gave not just a little wisdom, but a LOT of wisdom. Then He added wealth and fame. Hold up the overflowing cup. Was Solomon wise now? Yes! God said there would never be another king like him. Now he had what he needed to accomplish God’s plan. (Of course God’s pitcher of wisdom will never dry up! In actuality, this pitcher would be more like a fire hose drawing water from the ocean!)

Application: It is the same for each of us. How can we know what’s true and right, and be able to make good decisions without wisdom from God? Left to our own thoughts, we would hardly ever do the right thing. The Bible says that if we rely on our own thoughts and feelings, we are FOOLISH (Proverbs 26:12). But God is HAPPY to fill us with His wisdom. James 1:5 says:

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If any of you need wisdom, ask God for it. He will give it to you. God gives freely to everyone. He doesn't find fault.

Now what kind of person do you want to be? Hold up the empty cup. A person that lacks what they need to accomplish God’s plan, or, (hold up the full cup) a person overflowing with wisdom and blessings simply because you asked God for it?

Solomon Acts Wisely (1 Kings 3:16-28)

Say: Some time later, Solomon had an opportunity to put his wisdom into practice. Two women came to him to have him settle a big argument between them. The two women lived in the same house. They had each had a baby. The first woman told Solomon that the other woman’s baby had died in the night, so she came and took the first woman’s baby and laid the baby that had died beside her. But the other woman argued that it was the other way around. She said it was the first woman’s baby who had died. The two women argued back and forth about the babies.

Then the King said, “Let’s get the facts straight. Both of you claim the living child is yours, and each says that the dead one belongs to the other. All right, bring me a sword.” So a sword was brought to the King.

Then he said, “Cut the living child in two, and give half to one woman and half to the other!”

Then the woman who was the real mother of the living child, and who loved him very much, cried out, “Oh no, my lord! Give her the child - please do not kill him!”

But the other woman said, “All right, he will be neither yours nor mine; divide him between us!”

Then the king said, “Do not kill the child, but give him to the woman who wants him to live, for she is his mother!”

When all Israel heard the king’s decision, the people were in awe of the king, for they saw the wisdom God had given him for rendering justice. - 1 Kings 3:23-27 NLT

Say: Solomon was indeed very wise. He never intended to kill the innocent baby! He knew that the real mother would never allow her own child to be killed. The other mother was probably so terribly sad that her baby had died that she was not thinking clearly and said to go ahead and kill the living baby. Solomon’s wisdom became known throughout the land. This is just a glimpse of the fame that God had promised!

Ask: Who can name some of the smartest and creative people who ever lived - scientists, inventors, composers, or artists? Albert Einstein, Thomas Edison, Beethoven, Leonardo da Vinci. Say: Solomon was pretty much like all those people rolled into one! He wrote thousands of songs and proverbs, he wrote books and textbooks to teach other people. People came from all the nations to hear him teach because of his wisdom (1 Kings 4:29-34).

But remember, Solomon’s wisdom did not come from Solomon. Where did his wisdom come from? From God! Say: God promised to give Solomon wisdom, and God ALWAYS keeps His promises. God makes this same promise to us! Let’s read James 1:5 together:

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Key Verse: If any of you need wisdom, ask God for it. He will give it to you. God gives freely to everyone. He doesn't find fault. - James 1:5

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Main Point: God gives wisdom to those who ask for it.

Note to Teacher: Of course, Solomon’s reign did not end as well as it started. Solomon was given every single advantage that a man could be given. He overflowed with God’s wisdom, and he even had the privilege of being used by God to build His Temple (1 Kings 5:5).

In 1 Kings 9:6-9, God once again made a personal plea to Solomon not to turn away from the Lord and worship other gods. He warned Solomon that if he or his sons turned from worshipping the One true God, ruin was sure to follow. Sadly, 1 Kings 11 details Solomon’s unfaithful heart toward the Lord. Solomon loved many foreign women from nations that God had warned His people about (see Deuteronomy 17:17). In all, Solomon married 700 wives, and had 300 concubines. “As Solomon grew old, his wives turned his heart after other gods, and his heart was not fully devoted to the LORD his God, as the heart of David his father had been.” (1 Kings 11:4) Foolishly, he built altars to the gods of all of his many wives, and even joined them in worshipping there. And because of this, the rule of the kingdom did not remain in the hands of Solomon’s sons.

Let this be a sobering warning to us. Though we may be right where God wants us today, there is no guarantee that we will remain there. We must abide in the Lord - remain in Him day by day, minute by minute. We must lean on His understanding for each decision that we make. Then we, like Paul can say, “I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith.” (2 Timothy 4:7)

As for the people of Israel, they demanded a king to lead them into peace and prosperity (1 Samuel 8:20), but no human king could deliver. No human king could reign in righteousness and truth. Only one Man could fulfill the promises that God had made about the Messiah who would come through the line of David: “For to us a Child is born, to us a Son is given, and the government will be on His shoulders. And He will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.” (Isaiah 9:6) Jesus was the fulfillment of all God’s promises. “But the angel said to her, ‘Do not be afraid, Mary, you have found favor with God. You will be with Child and give birth to a Son, and you are to give Him the name Jesus. He will be great and will be called the Son of the Most High. The Lord God will give Him the throne of His father David, and He will reign over the house of Jacob forever; His kingdom will never end.’” (Luke 1:30-33) Let us put our trust only in Jesus, the King of kings!


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1. “Come die with us”

“Come die with us”

 

“Come die with us.” What a thing to put on a big digital church sign by the freeway. Not exactly what church consultants would recommend to entice the seeker. Most followers of Jesus would have an idea of what the statement means, but they would dare not make it part of their public persona. It sounds out of touch, too frontal, too costly, too everything. Wouldn’t it be better to say, “Come live with us?” or “Come have an adventure with us?” People don’t like to think morbid thoughts, especially when it’s about them. But then again it would depend on what one thinks is at the heart of the Christian experience. “Come and die with us” is the most apt way of calling upon anyone to join in following Jesus, for the dying comes before the living. A church with such a slogan requires the right pastor. Ah, I know who that pastor should be. Dietrich Bonhoeffer, who knows a little bit about dying. He was born in Berlin in 1906 to a large prestigious family. As a boy he was prettier than his twin sister Sabina, sitting there in his lederhosen with his nearly shoulder length blond hair. Dietrich was not a religious boy, and his family was not church going. He surprised everyone when at age fourteen he decided to study theology. Many thought it was for the purpose of sorting out his confusion over his older brother’s death. Walter had died in battle during the Great War. Dietrich did become a pastor and a brilliant theologian. His Doctorial Thesis, “The Communion of the Saints” was praised by Karl Barth as a theological miracle. It was Bonhoffer who said it out loud and to everyone in his classic work, The Cost of Discipleship, “When Christ calls a man, he bids him come and die.” [1]

 

In 1939, Bonhoeffer moved to New York City as a teaching fellow at Union Theological Seminary. His friends had convinced him that he was important to the future of Germany, and therefore, he needed to be safe from the Nazis. He walked the streets and strolled through the parks of Manhattan asking only one question, the only one that counts for a dead man walking, “What is the will of God?” His soul was not at rest; he needed to know. God impressed upon him to return to Germany. Bonhoeffer thought that he would not have any credibility in Germany after the war if he were not willing to risk his life to resist Hitler during the war. He participated in a plot to assassinate Hitler; when the plot failed he was found out and was imprisoned. He spent two years in prison, then he and several more political prisoners were moved in the waning days of the war. On April 9 in the prison yard at Flossenburg, Bonhoeffer was marched naked to the gallows; his last words were ones for the ages. “This is the end, for me the beginning of life”

 

For a person who has answered the call to die to self and follow Christ, “what is the will of God?” is the only important question. A disciple lives for others. In this case the Holy Other is God. When one lives for God, then God’s will is what will advance the Kingdom and give him the greatest glory. It is not about our lives and our ministries and our careers. Bonhoeffer lived only 39 years. It was a short life, but it was God’s will for him. Therefore, Bonhoeffer’s life got maximum impact; it was a life that we still benefit from today. It is probable that if Bonhoeffer had stayed in New York and lived a long life that we might know of him, but it is very unlikely that we would revere him as we do or that the many books and films about him would have been made. I am quite sure this short article would not have been written about him or that this author would have been inspired and changed by his example.



[1] Bonhoeffer, Dietrich The Cost of Discipleship page 7 , Macmillan Publishing, NY 1937

2. Gene Ring is Dead

Gene Ring is Dead

A few days ago I learned that my High School basketball coach Gene Ring had died four years ago. I was so disappointed that I was not able to attend his funeral to pay tribute to his impact on my life. The first time I laid eyes on Gene Ring, it was a meeting in the Broad Ripple High School gym. He was our new basketball coach; thirty to forty boys sat on the bleachers, eager to hear from this Indiana legend. He spoke with passion as he paced back and forth, “We’re going to play fast break basketball. We’re going to work harder, run faster and jump higher than our opponents.” Then we got our first taste of an idiosyncrasy that would become part of knowing him. “We’re going to get up in there, get up in there. We’re going to play hard, defend hard, get up in there, get up in there.” The more excited he became, the more he would repeat himself and start his stucco exhortations. He had a look in his eye that at the same time excited you and made you want to wet your pants. I was fourteen years old and a lowly freshman, so he didn’t pay much attention to me. The next year I was still a freshman, I was academically ineligible, I was 6-3, and he pulled me aside. “You could be a good player boy, but you are screwing up. Go to class, study, do your homework. Come on boy, get up in there.” I wanted his approval. I sensed he believed in me. Not many did. I was a classic underachiever. On the basketball court I was confident, but in the classroom I was a lost. I missed school too much and even got suspended for leaving the school grounds. I chose to change. I started to get passing grades and I kept growing in stature and I became very focused. Fast forward to my senior year. I am 6-6 and a lot is expected from my teammates and me. Coach Ring called me into his office for a pre-season pep talk. He had nick-named me “Hoss.” (This was 1964, and Bonanza was the number one program on television.) He started his now familiar pacing in front of me, “Hoss, this is going to be a big year, a big year for you, for the team, for our school. We are going to win a lot of games, and you are going to make that happen. And Hoss, whenever we lose a game, if ever we lose a game, its your fault, its your fault.” Once again those conflicting feelings of excitement and fear were mixing up inside me.

 

A few weeks later we were playing one of our most fierce rivals. My legs were cramping. They reeked of liniment, the only known treatment for cramps in those days of canvas converse sneakers and short basketball shorts. At half time I had four points. Ring was fuming. I heard him rumbling down the hall way to the locker room. He burst into the room, took one look at me and lunged for me. I think that time I did wet my pants. The assistant coach pulled him into another room. The second half I scored twenty-five points. Now, that’s coaching. That’s discipleship. I had a great year, we lost more games than we had planned, but we were playing very well going into the Indiana State Tournament. Ring had a special speech he would give at tournament time. “Listen up boys. It’s tournament time. It’s tournament time.” “We know that coach,” we would think to our selves having heard it before. He continued, “I want your complete focus. First, throw those books out the window. I don’t want you distracted by books. Second, no skirts. I don’t want you thinking about skirts, talking to them, and if I see you walking down the hall holding hands with one of them, it’s Katie barred the door boys, Katie barred the door.” We never new what Katie barred the door meant, but we didn’t want to find out.

 

Our first game in the State Tournament was against the other best team in the sectional. In those days there was no seeding of teams, it was catcher’s catch can. I don’t know that that means either, but I know you know just like I know. The other team gets way ahead, and then in the middle of the second half, we pull even and then go slightly ahead. Ring is going crazy, “Don’t let this be your last game, Hoss. Do you want this to be your last game?” I think it was a rhetorical question. The game went down to the wire. We got a couple of controversial calls that went against us, and we lost. Ring chased some of the officials to their locker room. I don’t know what happened, but they ran for their lives. I sat in front of my locker in tears because we lost. We lost in our last chance, and it was my fault. Ring comes into the locker room, walks over, and sits down beside me. “ Hoss, you played great tonight. That wasn’t your fault.” It was amazing how affirmed I felt at that moment. He had used the pressure to get my best. When it no longer was needed; he let me off the hook.

 

Gene Ring loved me, and I loved him. I still love him. Jesus said, “When a disciple is fully taught, he will be like his teacher.”[1] I did become somewhat like him: focused, passionate, an over achiever. He taught me that determination and discipline pays off, and as a leader, pastor and writer, I have benefited from his influence.

 

I don’t advocate being as wild and wooly as Gene Ring, but I do recommend you being as passionate and caring. Remember, what you do with others makes a difference for a lifetime. I never met my father. He died, and I found out for years. Coach Ring rescued me from a droll life. I was headed for a life of disappointment, but I have lived a life of joy and achievement. Thousands of people have heard about Gene Ring. They know what an impact he had on me. His impact has been multiplied and used for the advancement of the kingdom. God used Coach Ring. I am not sure if he was a man of faith. I do know that he had faith in me, and for that I am thankful.



[1] Luke 6:40

3. Grace Is Not a Blue-Eyed Blonde

Grace Is Not a Blue-Eyed Blonde was one of the first Christian books I read. The title claims that there is some confusion about grace. Almost everyone admires the gracious. A gracious person is kind, classy; they know when to speak and how to say something uplifting. A gracious person also knows when to be quiet, when a hand on the shoulder or smile is just right. At Christmas our family stenciled the word “Grace” on the sidewalk in front of our house. There it was to see for the many people who walk by everyday. Children try to sound it out; they ask their parents what it means. One mother said, “It means to be nice.” Others have said, “It’s about forgiveness.” The newest definition is tolerance; grace is when anything goes, when you don’t interfere in other people’s business. Christians are the ones who should know what grace means, but there seems to be some fuzzy thinking even among the biblically astute.

Grace Is About Forgiveness Only

God’s grace certainly applies to the forgiveness of sin. Paul put it plainly, “God saved you by his grace when you believed. And you can’t take credit for this; it is a gift from God.”[1] Eternal life is a gift; no one in his or her right theological mind would question this. People tell others, “Back in 1984 I was saved by God’s grace.” There is a tendency to think of grace as a big shot of God’s mercy at the point of salvation. I would liken it to an artist taking a big dap of blue paint on the end of a huge stick and slapping it onto a white canvas. Some paint would dot the edges; the residue would slide down the canvass, but it would be periphery to (or a side-effect of) the big splat. At salvation we get the big splat of grace; the rest of our life we get little residual doses. This thinking blocks God’s grace from my everyday experience. Spiritual birth is the starting line; God’s grace is his continual gift of himself to us everyday we are on this earth.

Grace Is Passive

Since salvation is a gift and we can’t do anything to earn it, we must simply pray and wait for God to give us more. Dallas Willard put it best, “Not only have we been saved by grace, we have been paralyzed by it.” [2] There is a tendency to think of grace as the opposite of works. This is a mistake, though it is understandable. The phrase in Ephesians, “saved by grace, not by works” has given works a bad name. The word “work” has suffered from guilt by association. We understand that “works” in Ephesians 2:8 means we cannot earn favor with God through effort. There is no effort or work that can be good enough or effective enough to purchase our lives and satisfy God’s requirements. If we read on, however, Paul weds works to grace in a way that is vital to living for Christ. “For we are God’s masterpiece. He created us anew in Christ Jesus, so we can do the good things [works] he planned for us long ago.”[3] I put works in brackets because most translations use it. God’s grace is the gift of being able to perform the works that He has planned for us. Grace is active; it empowers us. Grace is that quality that comes from the Holy Spirit that teaches, convicts, reminds, discerns, and gives us the gifts needed to work for God.

Passive Grace Is Cheap Grace

When you think that grace is something that is done to you and you can’t do anything to activate it, you cheapen God’s grace because being passive leads to either a tepid response or no response. God’s grace, his empowerment, his ability to work in us lays dormant. Jesus held nothing back, he was active, and he did something. He gave us his all; his gift of grace had sweat on it, tears on it, blood running from it. So what is our answer, our response? It is to unleash all his grace as we give back to him our lives. God’s grace cost God everything, His life. Now it costs us everything, our lives. Let’s drive a stake through the heart of passive grace, cheap grace. Effort is good, effort is of God, effort is of the Holy Spirit, and effort is full of grace.


[1] Ephesians 2:8 NLT

[2] Mark Galli, “Interview with Dallas Willard and Dieter Zander,” Leadership Journal (Summer 2005)

[3] Ephesians 2:10 NLT

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