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Female Sexuality: Step 8

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Abstract:

If men respond to sight, then women respond to touch. If men tend to heat up quickly, then women tend to heat up slowly. If men are in it for the destination, then women are in it for the journey. God has programmed us with these differences. It doesn’t mean that men and women are incompatible because of our differences; it simply means we have to become better students of one another in order to enjoy our differences. As men, our natural inclinations run contrary to pleasing our wives physically. But when we learn how God has wired our wives and strive to accommodate them, then we learn a new level of intimacy in the bedroom that creates an experience far superior to the one we would have had by following our natural inclinations.

Reflection Questions:

List three truths concerning how God has wired women sexually, noting how they differ from the way God wired men sexually.

Why did God wire us in different ways sexually? Why should men strive to sexually accommodate our wives instead of expecting our wives to always sexually accommodate us?

Meditation verse:

2:4 Each of you should be concerned not only about your own interests, but about the interests of others as well. (Philippians 2:4)

Related Topics: Sexual Purity