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Homosexuality: The Biblical-Christian View

I. Introduction

Homosexuality is a controversial issue in many societies. For some it has become an equal rights issue to legalize same-sex marriage. For many it is also a religious and moral issue because it is addressed within the Bible. Debates, discussions, arguments, and, very sadly, sometimes even violence occurs from interactions on this issue.

For some this issue of the Biblical perspective on homosexuality has a merely academic attraction. This would perhaps be the person who is neither a Christian, nor a homosexual. The topic might not personally affect them, but since it is a current issue it is of interest. For others this is very personal. This would perhaps be the person identifying as a Christian, as a homosexual, or as a homosexual Christian. Regardless, this article is intended to be a gracious, loving, and truthful resource. In that manner then, this article will detail the Biblical-Christian view of homosexuality.1

It will not take long for the reader to uncover that the direction of this article will move towards the conclusion that homosexuality is a sin. With this designation a couple things need to be clearly stated to prevent any misunderstanding.

1. This author, all Christians, and all non-Christians have sinned and are sinners. Sadly this is one equality that all are fully involved in. It is not a unique situation.

2. This article presents the logical conclusions on how Christians should respond to this Biblical teaching on homosexuality. While it does not deal with every situation it does present the attitude and heart from which every response should come: grace and love. There is no room for any violence, insults, or mistreatment by Christians toward any other person. It is with genuine love and care for all my fellow human beings that this article has been written.

With that in mind, this article will look at homosexuality in the Old Testament, homosexuality in the New Testament, and Jesus’ teaching on sexuality –before finishing with some personal remarks. Each point will have its own concluding section. An additional question/answer section may be found after the main article. Likewise, further resources are provided for your consideration at the end of the article. See the table of contents below to quickly jump to a specific location.

I. Introduction

II. Homosexuality in the Old Testament

III. Homosexuality in the New Testament

IV. Jesus on Sexuality

V. Conclusion: Loving in Truth—My Background

VI. Questions and Answers

VII. Resources

VIII. Detailed Table of Contents

II. Homosexuality in the Old Testament

In the Old Testament homosexuality is most explicitly discussed in four passages. Two are prohibitions in the law against homosexual activity. The other two are historical events: Sodom/Gomorrah and Gibeah. We will not attempt to answer every issue that could be raised about each text. This has already been done in a number of resources that will be referenced. However time will be taken to clearly establish the Bible’s viewpoint, and therefore the perspective that the Christian should hold. In our discussion we will begin by looking at the treatment of homosexuality in the Law. Then we will look at the two narrative accounts.

A. Leviticus 18:22, Prohibition of Homosexuality in the Law

Lev 18:22 You must not have sexual intercourse with a male as one has sexual intercourse with a woman; it is a detestable act.

This straightforward law prohibits all homosexual acts. It makes no distinctions as to whether or not they were consensual. It comes in the midst of a section of laws related to sexual relationships. No consequence is given here in each verse for the individual laws, but rather they are all listed as things that must not be done. All of the items in this chapter’s list are said to “defile” (Lev. 18:24) and are called “abominations” (Lev. 18:27, 30). In balance, homosexuality here is not singled out from among the rest of the sexual sins (which themselves are being highlighted), but is included with the rest. Likewise, those who break any of these laws are to be “cut off from the midst of their people” (Lev. 18:29). These various sexual activities are ones which brought about the punishment of God upon the previous inhabitants of the land (Lev. 18:24). Thus in the law homosexuality was an offense against God. It, along with the other sexual sins, was not to exist in Israel at all.

B. Leviticus 20:13, Punishment of Homosexuality in the Law

Lev 20:13 If a man has sexual intercourse with a male as one has sexual intercourse with a woman, the two of them have committed an abomination. They must be put to death; their blood guilt is on themselves.

This straightforward law gives the consequences for homosexual acts as they were to be carried out under Israel’s theocratic government. It comes in the midst of a section detailing crime and punishment lists. This particular section deals with sexual offenses and their judgments. The punishment for homosexual acts was to be death for both participants. This seems to clarify what was meant by being “cut off from the midst of their people” in the earlier discussion of sexual sins in Leviticus 18. Thus in the law homosexuality was a sin against God that required capital punishment.2

C. Genesis 19:1-11, Sodom and Gomorrah

In Genesis 18:20-21 God declared that He was going to destroy Sodom and Gomorrah because the “outcry…is so great and their sin so blatant.” When two angels went to see “if they are as wicked as the outcry suggests,” they were inhospitably treated by all of the inhabitants except Lot. Indeed all the men of the city tried desperately to rape them. Attempts have been made to see the sin here as only inhospitality, or of unnatural relations with angels. However the text nowhere points out that anyone in the city knew they were angels—instead they are called “men” by both the citizens and Lot (Gen. 19:5, and Gen. 19:8 respectively). Similarly, the face value reading that the sin of Sodom and Gomorrah included not only inhospitality but also the homosexual activity is the best interpretation.3 Jude 1:7 corroborates this:

Jude 1:7 So also Sodom and Gomorrah and the neighboring towns, since they indulged in sexual immorality and pursued unnatural desire in a way similar to these angels, are now displayed as an example by suffering the punishment of eternal fire.

While aspects of this verse (unnatural desires similar to angels) may raise questions, it definitely extends the sinful conduct beyond hospitality to sexual immorality. 4 The only sexual immorality that we are told of in Sodom and Gomorrah is the attempted homosexual acts against the angels (indeed, they scorned the effort to mollify them through the offer of heterosexual immorality—Gen. 19:9).

Thus, before the giving of the law, God considered this attempt at homosexual rape—which continued even after the men were blinded— to be part of the great wickedness that resulted in the wholesale destruction of these towns.

D. Judges 19:22ff, Gibeah

In Judges 19 another example of inhospitality and attempted homosexual rape occurs. In this instance it is not all of the men of the city, but rather “some good-for-nothings.” Here, however, they were pacified with the man’s concubine who was sent out to them in his place. She died after their treatment of her.

These actions led to the first civil war in Israel’s history, and the near extinction of the tribe of Benjamin. This war was sanctioned by God’s approval after Gibeah refused to hand over the offending men for judgment (Judges 20:18; 20:23; 20:28; 20:35).

Like many real life issues today, the sin that resulted in all this seems to have been an array of actions. First, these men attempted to do a “wicked thing” and “know” these men sexually (19:22-23a).5 Secondly, to compound that, it was attempted on a person who was under the hospitality of another—a “disgraceful thing” (Judges 19:23b). Thirdly, they raped and abused the traveler’s concubine all night and caused her death (Judges 19:25-30). Fourthly, the rest of the tribe of Benjamin refused to turn these men over to punishment (Judges 20:13).

The brief re-telling of the story to the tribes (Judges 20:5) does not focus on the sexual side of the intent towards the traveler like the original event does (Judges 19:22-24). In the re-telling it seems that there was more of a focus on the actual offenses rather than on the intended ones. However, the attempt is included in the longer record of the event and distinctly labeled as wrong. Consequently, it is fully appropriate to see it as part of the events being judged. For further consideration of this incident see Bob Deffinbaugh’s article on this passage.6

Thus, after the giving of the law, attempted homosexual rape was part of the sin that resulted in a God-sanctioned civil war.

Conclusion to Homosexuality in the Old Testament

Both before the law was given and then under the law, homosexuality was considered to be sin for Israelites and non-Israelites. This was true for consensual and non-consensual cases. It resulted in God’s judgment and death.

Before the law was given this was not the only incident of God directly judging the sinfulness of man on a large scale (cf. the far greater judgment of the flood in Genesis 6— which incidentally makes no mention of homosexual activity). Likewise, after the law was given, God’s acts of judgment occurred for other sins (cf. God’s judgment for idolatry and related sins: on Israel in 2 Kings 17, on the Assyrians in 2 Kings 19, and on Judah in 2 Kings 24-25).

Far from minimizing (or maximizing) any particular sin, this shows that God is active both in declaring many deeds to be sin and in punishing them all. There is no injustice with God. His actions were not limited to one particular sin, and many other examples from the Old Testament could be cited showing His involvement in dealing with sin. This emphasis on judgment for idolatry, homosexuality, and other sins should not surprise us since part of the purpose of the law was to reveal sin as sin, and God’s righteous standard as determinative (Rom. 7:7-14). It is possible, though, that the variety of sexual sins and their subsequent connection with idolatry may have been more strictly punished and warned against as a whole (cf. Lev. 18:24-30, and the judgments listed above).

However this is not where the story ends in the Old Testament. Many examples could likewise be cited of God’s grace: Noah and his family, Lot and his family, Abraham, Isaac, Jacob, Joseph, Moses and Aaron, David (a prime example of grace to one whose sins deserved death under the law), the remnant of Israel and Judah, the giving of the sacrificial system, Jonah and Nineveh etc. Though God’s righteous standard is set, His gracious provision is also constant.

III. Homosexuality in the New Testament

In the New Testament many passages generally prohibit “sexual immoral” activity (cf. Acts 15:20; 15:29, 1 Thess. 4:3, Heb. 13:4, Rev. 21:8; 22:15). These commands would include homosexuality. However, homosexuality is most explicitly discussed in three passages. The first of these three discusses homosexuality at length. Whereas the last two are in lists of sins. Like the discussion in the Old Testament section this will not be an attempt to discuss every possible issue arising from these texts. Rather the goal will be to express the Biblical and Christian view on homosexuality that these verses teach. As before, further resources will be noted for those desiring a deeper investigation.

A. Romans 1:20-32

Rom 1:20-32 For since the creation of the world his invisible attributes — his eternal power and divine nature — have been clearly seen, because they are understood through what has been made. So people are without excuse. (21) For although they knew God, they did not glorify him as God or give him thanks, but they became futile in their thoughts and their senseless hearts were darkened. (22) Although they claimed to be wise, they became fools (23) and exchanged the glory of the immortal God for an image resembling mortal human beings or birds or four-footed animals or reptiles. (24) Therefore God gave them over in the desires of their hearts to impurity, to dishonor their bodies among themselves. (25) They exchanged the truth of God for a lie and worshiped and served the creation rather than the Creator, who is blessed forever! Amen.

(26) For this reason God gave them over to dishonorable passions. For their women exchanged the natural sexual relations for unnatural ones, (27) and likewise the men also abandoned natural relations with women and were inflamed in their passions for one another. Men committed shameless acts with men and received in themselves the due penalty for their error. (28) And just as they did not see fit to acknowledge God, God gave them over to a depraved mind, to do what should not be done. (29) They are filled with every kind of unrighteousness, wickedness, covetousness, malice. They are rife with envy, murder, strife, deceit, hostility. They are gossips, (30) slanderers, haters of God, insolent, arrogant, boastful, contrivers of all sorts of evil, disobedient to parents, (31) senseless, covenant-breakers, heartless, ruthless. (32) Although they fully know God’s righteous decree that those who practice such things deserve to die, they not only do them but also approve of those who practice them.

This text discusses homosexuality more extensively than any other New Testament passage. However, homosexuality is not the overarching theme of this section. Paul wants to clearly explain the gospel. To do that though, it is necessary to show that all people are under God’s judgment and condemnation—and thus in need of the gospel. He starts by declaring that because the testimony of God is visible in nature all are without excuse for their rebellion against Him. The just wrath of God is on all ungodliness (Rom. 1). Then he shows that in condemning the sin of others we actually condemn ourselves (Rom. 2). Likewise even the Jewish people with the law are still fully under God’s condemnation for their sin. Furthermore they are incapable of remedying the situation (Rom. 2-3). Thus it does not matter whether one is apart from the law or under it. All people stand condemned without partiality. This paves the way for explaining God’s grace in Jesus—which is the good news of the gospel. There is indeed one way of deliverance from this predicament.

So this section on homosexuality occurs in the portion showing why God’s wrath is upon humanity, and how humanity is inexcusable before Him. Before moving to the negative, Paul starts with the positive good news that he is intent on sharing. The righteousness of God is revealed in the gospel which is received by faith (Rom. 1:17). By contrast the wrath of God is revealed as being upon the ungodliness of mankind (Rom. 1:18). Where is this ungodliness seen? Where is this suppressing of the truth seen? It is seen in the inexcusable idolatry of humanity. All have seen in creation the invisible attributes of God, His eternal power and nature (Rom. 1:19-20). However instead of worshipping the true creator, humanity moved to idolatry and worshipping creation (Rom. 1:23-25). The existence of nature demands that there be a designer. This truth is suppressed and turned to the worship of self or some other created thing. One of God’s judgments for this behavior is the turning over of humanity to their own sinful desires (Rom. 1:24). This giving over to sinfulness and its consequences specifically includes homosexuality (Rom. 1:26-28). It also includes a whole list of other sins more briefly mentioned (Rom. 1:29-32).

An objection has been proposed against this text’s discussion of homosexuality. It states that this passage only refers to heterosexuals committing homosexual acts (or the “abuses” of homosexuality), and that this would not apply if one’s “natural” desire was for the same sex and carried on monogamously (or in some kind of “marriage”). This does not hold up under examination. Paul is not talking about what is or has become “natural” desire. He is talking about function. God has designed men and women with functional capabilities. According to this text these capabilities are rebelled against through homosexual acts.7

From this text then, we see that homosexuality is an example of God having delivered people over to the consequences of having rebelled against Him. It is not the only sin listed, but is indeed the highlighted one. It seems that this example is given because homosexuality diametrically opposes the clear design of God. God made people in His image (Gen. 1:27) with a built in complementary design in the marriage of a male to a female (Gen. 2:22-25). To commit actions clearly opposite God’s plan at the nature level distinctly declare the reality of rebellion. It declares that God’s very design and plan were wrong and inadequate. As it is listed here, homosexuality and the rest of the sins listed, are a part of God’s immediate (though not final) judgment. Sin is a judgment upon itself—in that it reaps what it sows.8 Additionally, the willful exchange of the truth of God for a lie can result in God delivering people over to a depraved mind. One’s ability to reason or view things in an accurate moral way can be seriously impaired (Rom. 1:28).

However, lest any become self-righteous, Paul immediately moves on to showing that all are condemned under sin. Indeed, condemning the sin of others condemns oneself (Rom. 2:1-5). The only reason Paul can share any of this in a worthwhile way is because he is not relying on his own righteousness. He is relying on the righteousness of God. This has been given to him in Christ Jesus by the grace of God. He himself has been forgiven of his sin. The point was not to condemn others in order to justify himself. The point was to make clear the existence of sin for every individual so that the grace of God that had rescued him could be shared with fellow humans who needed deliverance just like he had needed it.

The same purpose and point that Paul had here in the book of Romans remains for Christians to share today. We too are fellow sinners. We too were under God’s full and immense wrath. I too am a sinner condemned by these truths. By God’s grace we may be forgiven. Yet even with that grace, in ourselves we are not any better than anyone else. We have nothing of which to boast. This shows God’s work to be that much more amazing. That He would love and redeem us while we were His enemies in such a deep rebellion against Him is almost incomprehensible. This same grace that has changed and is changing our lives and that will bring us eternity with God in a perfected existence is available to the whole world. No person, gender, race, nationality, ethnic group, class, or any other possible division is excluded from this offer of the gift of grace. This is the grace Christians should be offering, because it is the true grace of God.

B. 1 Corinthians 6:9-11, Inheriting the Kingdom of God

1 Cor. 6:9-11 Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived! The sexually immoral, idolaters, adulterers, passive homosexual partners, practicing homosexuals, (10) thieves, the greedy, drunkards, the verbally abusive, and swindlers will not inherit the kingdom of God. (11) Some of you once lived this way. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God.

Some have raised questions about the two Greek words for homosexual activity in this verse. They would interpret them as referring only to a moral softness (μαλακος), and to a male prostitute (αρσενοκοιτης). However this kind of translation disagrees with the premier Biblical Greek Lexicon (BDAG).9 Beyond that it essentially disagrees with most (if not all) the other standard English lexicons and is not a good translation for these words here.10 Thus these words in context do refer to the two different roles in homosexual relationships.

Unequivocally then this is a strong and definitive statement about sin and its consequences as well as about the one way to be rescued from them. In this context Paul is powerfully reminding the Corinthian church that these kinds of behavior are not compatible with the kingdom of God. In this portion of the book Paul has been dealing with quite a number of behavioral and ethical problems that have been plaguing the church. Their former behaviors were influencing their lives presently in a completely inappropriate way. Apparently it had gotten so bad that Paul even challenged them in a following letter to examine themselves to see whether they had truly become believers (2 Cor. 13:5).

These sins in and of themselves were nothing that would keep them from truly accepting the grace of God and becoming children of God. However a continuation in them as a manner of life11 would be an indication that they were not truly believers and not going to inherit the kingdom of God (cf. 1 John 3). Quite helpfully for us today, this is a clear statement that some of the Corinthians had become believers out of that manner of life. This should lead us to at least two conclusions:

1. Like other sins, homosexual behavior may be forgiven. God’s grace is not limited by this or any other sin. As Romans 5:20 states:

Moreover the law entered, that the offence might abound. But where sin abounded, grace did much more abound: (21) That as sin hath reigned unto death, even so might grace reign through righteousness unto eternal life by Jesus Christ our Lord. (KJV)

2. Since Christians have come out of such sins, they should be the ones most desirous to share God’s love with others. As 2 Corinthians 5:17-21 states:

So then, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; what is old has passed away — look, what is new has come! (18) And all these things are from God who reconciled us to himself through Christ, and who has given us the ministry of reconciliation. (19) In other words, in Christ God was reconciling the world to himself, not counting people’s trespasses against them, and he has given us the message of reconciliation. (20) Therefore we are ambassadors for Christ, as though God were making His plea through us. We plead with you on Christs behalf, Be reconciled to God!” (21) God made the one who did not know sin to be sin for us, so that in him we would become the righteousness of God. (NET Bible, emphasis added)

C. 1 Timothy 1:8-15, The Worst of Sinners-- Paul

1 Tim. 1:8-15 But we know that the law is good if someone uses it legitimately, (9) realizing that law is not intended for a righteous person, but for lawless and rebellious people, for the ungodly and sinners, for the unholy and profane, for those who kill their fathers or mothers, for murderers, (10) sexually immoral people, practicing homosexuals, kidnappers, liars, perjurers — in fact, for any who live contrary to sound teaching. (11) This accords with the glorious gospel of the blessed God that was entrusted to me. (12) I am grateful to the one who has strengthened me, Christ Jesus our Lord, because he considered me faithful in putting me into ministry, (13) even though I was formerly a blasphemer and a persecutor, and an arrogant man. But I was treated with mercy because I acted ignorantly in unbelief, (14) and our Lord’s grace was abundant, bringing faith and love in Christ Jesus. (15) This saying is trustworthy and deserves full acceptance: “Christ Jesus came into the world to save sinners” — and I am the worst of them!

In this list Paul points out the purpose of the law in contrast to the view of others who were misusing it (1 Tim. 1:6-7). The law reveals sinfulness and the need to be “saved.” In the examples that Paul then gives, homosexuality is clearly included as being unrighteous.12 As far as the hypothetical “righteous person” here (v. 9) it should be noted that Jesus was the only righteous person (Heb. 4:15, Rom. 3:10-24).

Some people may try to appear as if they were righteous. However this should not be confused with truly being righteous. They will receive the judgment of God, because it is His holy standard that is the measuring line. The only thing that they will accomplish with this attempt is that they will have in their own minds mentally removed themselves from the offer of God’s grace. How could it apply to them if they will not acknowledge their need?

This list of sinful activity includes homosexuality and many sins that might be considered by people to be the “worse” ones: killing parents, sexual immorality, kidnapping, profanity, and lawlessness. It is highly interesting that at the end of this list Paul says the bottom line is that Christ Jesus came into the world to save sinners and that he (Paul) was the worst of them. From what we know of Paul elsewhere in Scripture he was blameless in front of the righteousness of the law (Phil. 3:6).13 Paul may not have committed certain sins that to others or to the letter of the law would be the most heinous. Yet he knew that before God they were indeed still the most wicked. No doubt I too am the worst of sinners. Thanks be to God through the Lord Jesus Christ that in Him I no longer have any condemnation. Nor need you.

Conclusion to Homosexuality in the New Testament

Homosexuality is indeed sin. It is not okay. It is not moral. It, along with all other sins, reaps the judgment of God. These Scriptures confirm that. Yet that is not where it stops. Nor should we as we discuss the Biblical view of homosexuality. The Biblical and Christian view of homosexuality is that it is wrong, but Gods grace—just like it did for us—offers freedom from sin to all people. God’s grace can bring new life and help every step of the way. As Jesus said in His first coming:

John 3:16-21 For this is the way God loved the world: He gave his one and only Son, so that everyone who believes in him will not perish but have eternal life. (17) For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world should be saved through him. (18) The one who believes in him is not condemned. The one who does not believe has been condemned already, because he has not believed in the name of the one and only Son of God. (19) Now this is the basis for judging: that the light has come into the world and people loved the darkness rather than the light, because their deeds were evil. (20) For everyone who does evil deeds hates the light and does not come to the light, so that their deeds will not be exposed. (21) But the one who practices the truth comes to the light, so that it may be plainly evident that his deeds have been done in God. (NET Bible, emphasis added)

Since I have seen the power of sin in my life, when I see Scripture call something sin, or an abomination, or that people committing certain actions will not inherit the kingdom of God I can instantly relate to that. My sin too is an abomination to God:

Proverbs 6:16-19 There are six things that the LORD hates, even seven things that are an abomination to him: (17) haughty eyes, a lying tongue, and hands that shed innocent blood, (18) a heart that devises wicked plans, feet that are swift to run to evil, (19) a false witness who pours out lies, and a person who spreads discord among family members. (NET, emphasis added)

I remember the pain, anguish, emptiness, and despair that I experienced.14 I cannot help but want everyone else in these circumstances to know the grace and love of God that so changed my life. I want that freedom for you.

Jesus experienced the struggles of this life. He can truly sympathize with our weakness—He was tempted in every way just as we are, yet without sin (Heb. 4:15). He alone has the power to overcome all sin and walk with us through this life. While I have of course not experienced every situation, I have seen enough of sin in my own life to want three things for you:

1.      I want no one else to experience the pain and results of sin like I did.

2.      I want everyone to experience the grace, love, and forgiveness of Jesus that gives new, eternal life.

3.      I want to continue to grow in my similarities to Jesus through His enablement. This alone will enable me to better express His truth in love—in both my words and my actions.

Will you walk alongside of me in this?

Likewise, if you have truly received this same grace will you lovingly share it and live it?

IV. Jesus on Sexuality

When discussions of Jesus and homosexuality or the LGBT15 lifestyle come up some might try to claim that Jesus never dealt with the issue. However that is not really accurate. Jesus, as God, was a unique teacher. He often dealt authoritatively with the principles that were behind not just one action, but a whole host of possible ones. He often discerned through to the heart and intent of people and exposed both our sinful hearts, and His holy standard. The following two examples carefully show us that we all fall short and are desperately in need of God’s grace.

A. Matthew 5:27-28, A Maximized Definition of Sin

Mat 5:27-28 “You have heard that it was said, ‘Do not commit adultery.’ But I say to you that whoever looks at a woman to desire her has already committed adultery with her in his heart.

Jesus made clear that God’s standard of right and wrong did not simply stop with an external act, but rather included our thoughts and heart. It is wrong to even fantasize immorally.16

Most directly this deals with married people and the sin of both physical and mental adultery. However it goes much further than this when the principle of what Jesus was teaching is seen. Jesus was pointing out to the religious leaders and the society that sin goes beyond just what they do to what they allow themselves to think and dwell on. In His discussion of murder in the section immediately prior to this one (Matt. 5:21-26) He points out that being angry with or insulting a brother will also bring God’s judgment—not just the actual deed of murdering. Clearly God’s standard goes deeper than mere actions, and clearly (contrary to the self-righteous perspectives of those religious leaders) it was impossible for them to keep. That is one of the chief points of the law: to point out our sin—and then drive us to faith in God and His provision of grace.

Sexual sins go much further than just adultery or a physical act. Sins of anger and broken relationships go much further than that between brothers. These are examples and specific cases in which sin goes beyond the mere “letter of the law.” People might try to restrict the applicability of the law to make themselves appear to be holy and righteous. Regardless, God is not deceived. Whether it is the minimizing of lying, cheating, stealing, envy, covetousness, adultery, witchcraft, pornography, fornication, swindling, drunkenness, homosexuality, or any other unrighteousness—Jesus here intentionally shows that He would not be in agreement with such a handling of God’s Word. If anything His definition of these sins is broader than we would like to think. Jesus’ ethic would thus clearly apply to homosexuality as part of the law (Lev. 18:22, 20:13) which would not become void (Luke 16:17).

B. Matthew 19:3-9, A Specified Definition of Marriage

Mat 19:3-9 Then some Pharisees came to him in order to test him. They asked, “Is it lawful to divorce a wife for any cause?” (4) He answered, “Have you not read that from the beginning the Creator made them male and female, (5) and said, ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and will be united with his wife, and the two will become one flesh’? (6) So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.” (7) They said to him, “Why then did Moses command us to give a certificate of dismissal and to divorce her?” (8) Jesus said to them, “Moses permitted you to divorce your wives because of your hard hearts, but from the beginning it was not this way. (9) Now I say to you that whoever divorces his wife, except for immorality, and marries another commits adultery.”

Here Jesus was very specific on God’s plan for men and women and marriage. The basis for Jesus’ answer to one question about relationships was to go back to God’s original plan and design. That plan and design has been warped and twisted by our sinfulness and hardness of heart in almost every possible manner. In this specific case it was divorce, immorality, and adultery. However all other possible variants from God’s original design would equally be against God’s plan—which Jesus reiterates here. By affirming God’s creational plan Jesus undermines, invalidates, and declares wrong any other activity which is in opposition to that design. The one divorce exception seems to be in light of the discontinuation of theocratic punishment of death upon adulterers (which would have freed the unoffending member).17 Immorality, like divorce, declares that God’s provision and design were insufficient. Homosexuality does the same thing.

In most societies this standard of right and wrong would have far more implications (by sheer numbers) for those people involved in general immorality, living together, one night stands, adultery, divorce, child abuse, pornography, etc. than those in the LGBT community. However, God’s Word and God’s standards to us are not comparative with how other people are doing. It is all wrong before God. Indeed, those situations all need to be truthfully and loving addressed. It is all contrary to God’s original designed plan. It is all deserving of His judgment. We have all failed meeting God’s standard. All are at fault, whether it is in thought or in deed. The one good that may come out of this strong pronouncement of Jesus is recognizing like I did (and do) that I am wicked, I am desperate, I cannot fix this, I am ruined. Then we must let it point us to the amazing grace, love, forgiveness, and life transforming power of Jesus Christ. Through faith in His work in taking our penalty on the cross there can be new life (John 10:9-11).

Conclusion to Jesus on Sexuality

From these teachings of Jesus we see that none of us escape from being included in His teaching on God’s standards of sexuality and marriage. Jesus Himself taught a sexual and marital ethic that more clearly and strictly emphasized God’s original plan for pure monogamous heterosexual relationships alone. Nothing else was valid—not even lustful thoughts in any other direction.

For those involved with any heterosexual or homosexual interactions outside of a man/woman marriage these truths have wide reaching implications. Jesus’ pronouncement is that these relationships are not valid and are sin.

Even for those who may no longer be involved with any of these kinds of sins externally, these truths still have implications. The fact is you and I probably struggle with it internally in one way or another and will until the day we die. I have had enough insightful conversations with lucid 90+ year olds to know that some things do not change while still in these sin corrupted bodies. If we, as Christians, are depending on the grace of God day by day, then we will want to try to lovingly share it with others. If we are not depending on that grace then we are living a lie and pretending to be holier than we are. The only holiness that we have is the holiness that we are given in Jesus Christ and that He works within us. There is no room for personal pride or boasting.

It does not matter whether our sin is from external or internal actions, whether heterosexual or homosexual in nature, or whether other people can see it or not. If we continue in this behavior, the result is that we will slowly but surely destroy our lives through these sins. We cannot live up to God’s plan and standard with this kind of behavior. The grace of God in Jesus Christ is the only answer. (Acts 4:12, Titus 3:3-7)

V. Conclusion: Loving in Truth—My Background

The Bible is realistic about human nature. It tells us that we all fall short of God’s standard of righteousness, and thus none are righteous before Him (Rom. 3:10-23). All other religions of the world somehow offer the hope that by self-effort heaven may be achieved. The Bible does not do that. Instead the Bible gives us God’s humanly-impossible-to-attain standard.

I18 have personally found these standards impossible to keep, and that resulted in the worst period of my life. I was in my early teens, and had grown up hearing the Bible taught. Previously I had asked Jesus to save me from my sins through what He did on the cross to take my place. Yet as I grew older, I let pride and self-sufficiency take over. I began struggling intensely with a particular sin. I knew it was wrong. I knew what the Bible said. My school work began to suffer. I knew there was nothing more important in life than my relationship with the one who created me. Yet my heart was too cold for more than empty prayers. As time wore on the only reason I did not commit suicide was because I knew that would be sin too. The despair and emptiness in my life at this time were the worst experience I have ever had. Sin had control over my life. I knew it was empty and destructive. I knew there was something better. But I could not fix my thoughts. I could not stop my sinning. I could try to ignore it for a while, but the haunting thoughts and reality were always lurking. The truth was that I was not keeping God’s standards. I was not holy. I deserved nothing but God’s judgment.

But then God intervened. While it was impossible for me to overcome, it was not impossible for God. He used a combination of His Word that I was reading, and of messages that I heard on the radio to open my eyes to the rest of the truth.

My journal at this time goes from records of my continual failures each day, of my heart being so hard against God, of my struggling anguish, of the realities of my sinfulness, of knowing that I needed to repent yet could not in my cold-heartedness— to all of a sudden ecstatically thanking God for His amazing love.

What happened? Over time I had realized my sinfulness in its awful self-destroying reality. I realized fully my incapability. I could not fix my life on my own. I could not earn God’s love, approval, or forgiveness. In my pride and self-sufficiency I needed to see the realities of my situation before I would or could humble myself enough to throw myself entirely on God’s grace. But as I did see those realities and surrendered myself to Him, He opened my eyes to also truly realize His love and grace.

God’s grace, mercy, and help extended beyond just a one-time experience as a child to an every day reality as a young man. Only by God’s enablement and grace could I be initially and eternally saved from my sin. Likewise, only by continuing to walk in that grace could I daily live out the manner of life that God desired. This is the radical nature of the life-transforming power of the work of God. It could change my evil, proud, sinful life into something that could reflect more and more the “impossible” manner of life of Jesus.

Since this time I have strongly desired to share this with other people. I do not want anyone to ever go through what I went through in those torturous days of anguish and despair while I walked in bondage to my sin. I did not “do” something to earn God’s love or to receive it. I have no magic formula. Somehow God helped me see my sin for what it truly was, somehow I admitted it before Him truthfully, and somehow I received His overwhelming love, grace, forgiveness, and help to overcome my sin. I knew the facts long before that though. Yet God brought them to a reality in my heart and life at this time. I gave up, and in simple faith I entrusted my life to Him. Just like He overcame sin in His death, burial, and resurrection, He overcame my sin. From that time on I knew that there was victory over my sin. I would be fine. He would be with me and help me daily with my life-long struggles. As I continued relying on Him He would be faithful. And He has.

So what does that have to do with the Biblical or Christian view of Homosexuality? Just like my sin initially prevented me from the kingdom of God, and just like my sin and pride enslaved me and nearly destroyed my life as I continually gave in to it: so too will any and every other sin do to you.

From the beginning of my struggle I was convinced of my sin from Scripture. Maybe that is not the case for you. Maybe there are still some questions in your mind. The resources listed in the footnotes and at the end of this article would be highly recommended for your consideration.

For those convinced of the truth of what the Bible teaches about this and other sins, then maybe the best thing you could do would be to read the gospels. (Romans could also be helpful to the detail oriented.) There you will read what Christ has done to free us from our sin. May the love of God that has changed my life overtake yours too.

For those for whom this issue of homosexuality is just an academic question about what the Bible says, remember: all sin will enslave you and make you worthy of Gods just condemnation just like it did to me. There is no socially acceptable sin before God. There is however forgiveness, redemption, and freedom in Jesus Christ.

Regardless of what situation you find yourself in, I would plead with you. Jesus Christ offers you the same freedom that I could not earn and that I was too proud to accept for way too long. Please do not put yourself through the torture that I went through. Please do not wait until it is too late. If God could raise Jesus from the dead, forgive my sin, overcome my struggle, and help me daily, then He can free you. In Him our condemnation for sin is removed (Romans 8).

Lastly, for those of you who are believers in Jesus Christ, I would encourage you to think about this issue through the eyes of the Word of God. Then follow the Master in daily letting Him deal with your sin and transform your life. As we do that we will be prepared to follow our Lord in reaching out to others suffering from this same plight of sin. For more information on this see the short article: “https://bible.org/article/homosexuality-and-church.

VI. Questions and Answers

Q1. What is homosexuality?

Homosexuality is the expression of sexuality towards a person of the same gender.

Q2. How does one determine if the practice of homosexuality is right or wrong?

To determine if anything is right or wrong one must have a standard by which the questionable action may be measured. The only one with the full authority to set such a standard is the creator and sovereign of all things. Since God has given humankind His Word in the Bible that is the source of determining if anything, including homosexuality, is morally right or wrong. Cultural and personal preferences vary, however the standard of the creator who made all things does not.

Q3. What explicitly does the Bible teach about homosexuality?

The Bible explicitly teaches that homosexuality is a sin in both the Old and New Testaments. It also explicitly teaches that God offers His grace to redeem and reconcile every kind of sinner to Himself at His own expense through the death, burial, and resurrection of Jesus Christ. The conclusion of the New Testament section succinctly states it this way: “The Biblical and Christian view of homosexuality is that it is wrong, but God’s grace, just like it did for us, offers freedom from sin to all people.” (See above for details.)

Q4. Is it true that all of the times homosexuality is referenced in the Bible it is bundled with false worship, rape, prostitution, or abuses, and that this combination was the problem/sin before God?

It is true that the main references to homosexuality in the Bible do mention other sins in the immediate context (reading the passages discussed above will allow one to note this quite easily). However, as far as the rest of the claim that it was homosexuality mixed with other activity that made it sinful this is completely inaccurate. If one simply reads the passages talking about homosexuality one will note that the specific acts of homosexuality are explicitly described as being wrong. For instance, in Romans 1 “natural relations” are exchanged and abandoned (Rom. 1:26-27). “Shameless acts” are committed (Rom. 1:27). Homosexuality is contrary to God’s creational design. Since all sin is idolatry and rebellion against God it should come as no surprise that those elements are seen in the context. See the resources footnoted in the Romans 1 section of this article for further discussion of this issue. Particularly note Guenther Haas’s article entitled, “Hermeneutical Issues In The Use Of The Bible To Justify The Acceptance Of Homosexual Practice” Global Journal of Classical Theology, Vol 1, No. 2 (2/99), http://phc.edu/gj_haas_hermen.php

Q5. Does committing a homosexual act automatically mean one is going to hell?

No. Jesus came to bear the penalty of sin upon Himself and offer forgiveness to all who trust in His work on their behalf. Any who do truly trust in Him will not go to hell. In this way homosexual sin is the same as any other sin. It can be forgiven. Conversely, like every other sin, it too needs forgiveness, and it too needs to be overcome by the grace of God. See the biblical discussion above for more details.

Q6. Are homosexual acts worse sins than other sins in the Bible?

Scripture does not give the clearest “grading” of sins. That makes this a hard question to answer. On the one hand Jesus said that if the works that had been done in Capernaum had been done in Sodom it would have remained to that day (would not have been judged because it would have repented). Additionally, He said that it would be more tolerable for Sodom in the day of judgment than for Capernaum (Matt. 11:23-24). This seems to indicate that the severity of Gods judgment will vary depending upon the knowledge and witness of God: those who should know better “more so” will be judged more strongly. On the other hand Romans 1 does specifically point out homosexuality as an example of persistent rebellion against God and as being an example of the judgment of God. Interestingly, in this passage it does seem like there is a strong knowledge of the sinfulness of their activities. It is despite their knowledge of God and His judgment that they pursue their course and encourage others to do the same. From these examples we can see that Scripture does not really answer this question directly. However it does seem to indicate that the more willful a sin is the worse will be Gods judgment—regardless of what the practice of the sin is. Even more clearly than that though, and more importantly Scripture answers a different question about homosexuality. The question it answers is whether God’s grace is sufficient to rescue and deliver from this sin. It is.

Q7. How do you explain marriage ceremonies in which two persons of the same sex are united by an officiating clergyman or justice of the peace?

Governments in a number of regions have legalized this practice and officially recognize these unions as a marriage. This does give legal authority to them and to many it also gives the appearance of moral sanction. However, only God can truly give moral approval. He has declared homosexuality to be sin. Christians should respond to this like they should respond to all other sins: with truth and love. Some clergy and denominations claiming to be Christian allow for same sex marriages. Their actions are without sanction of the Bible or God. This is readily apparent from the contradiction between their actions and the truths of Scripture seen in this article.

Q8. Why should two people who sincerely love each other not be allowed to get married just because they are of the same gender?

The answer to this is controversial in many circles today both politically and religiously. The short answer seems to boil down to one’s definition of love, marriage, and how one views morals. True love does what is best for another person regardless of the expense to oneself. By God’s design for humanity marriage was to be between a man and a woman (Gen. 1:26-28; 2:18-25.). Woman was the God-given companion who was suitable for man. Morals are determined by God’s standards and what He has set as right and wrong. By these definitions then, it would not be the most loving thing to marry someone when it violated God’s moral standards, when that is not the design for what marriage should be, and when one would not be the most suitable kind of companion.

Since most non-believers would not acknowledge God’s standard of morals or design this viewpoint is mostly irrelevant to them. For the Christian, however, questions of “should” and morals are to be determined by the one who determines right and wrong. Indeed, not just for Christians, but for all who talk about “rights” this needs to be a consideration. “Rights” only exist if one acknowledges moral standards endowed with creation by a creator. A naturalistic system has no place for rights.19

Politically in America, other belief systems with a creator might have a different code of morality which could be followed as the basis for redefining marriage beyond its traditional definition. However seeking a rare or newer religious system based on this criteria seems to be an example of the tail wagging the dog and not true moral conviction.

Trying to define marriage by the often vague term “love” is not a safe means for expanding its definition.20 Indeed people “love” all sorts of things. This does not make it necessary or right for all of sorts of behaviors to be carried out. Nor does it mean government must promote all of those behaviors. Likewise, since same sex marriage is indeed different than opposite sex marriage it is not an issue of equality.21

Q9. Is homosexuality genetic? If it is genetic or “natural” does that make it morally okay?

The issue of whether homosexuality is genetic is an interesting one. Due to the changing nature of scientific studies and the intricacies of the issue this article would soon become outdated if a discussion were entered upon at any length. For those interested, as of 2013, no genetic or DNA links have been found for homosexuality.22 However it should be strongly stressed that whether or not it is genetic in some way is not a deciding factor on whether something is moral or not. Theoretically someone might have a genetic disposition towards drug or alcohol abuse, or towards lying,23 or kleptomania. This does not change the morality of those issues.

Two of Greg Koukl’s articles helpfully discuss this issue of whether something “natural” is necessarily moral. The first approaches the issue from a logical and philosophical angle: Homosexuality Is Unnatural: The Is-Ought Fallacy? http://bible.org/article/homosexuality-unnatural-ought-fallacy The second approaches the issue more directly from a look at the teaching of Scripture: Paul, Romans, and Homosexuality, http://bible.org/article/paul-romans-and-homosexuality. Whether something is genetic or not does not necessarily follow that it is natural (a designation of design). Likewise, even if it is natural it does not necessarily follow that it is moral (David Hume Is-Ought fallacy).

Q10. Are there contributing factors to homosexuality for which a homosexual might not be responsible?

We all have contributing factors towards different activity that we engage in. These definitely make it easier to see how one would be more likely to conduct oneself in a particular way. However we retain responsibility for our actions. We may not be responsible for those things which are done to us, but we are responsible for our choices.

We all have our own propensities or orientation towards specific sins. The question for all of us is: what will we do with them? 24 For way too long I held onto mine. To be quite honest I am tempted every day to go back to them. Sometimes new ones crop up. This is and will be a lifelong process of learning my identity in Christ, of growing in resisting temptations and walking in truth. I cannot overcome my sin. Faith in Jesus is the victory that overcomes sin and the world (1 John 3:2-3; 5:4). With these kinds of intense struggles there is no room to underestimate the struggles of each other. With the commonality of sin there is no room to look down upon one another.

There is a sense of needing to just “get over it” in that we need to recognize sins as sins, and we need to decide to begin doing what is right by God’s grace and provision. That, however, is just the beginning. The daily walking with and helping one another to apply our identity in Christ is one that must be sustained. It is then a “get on with it in grace” issue. So let’s “get over it” by God’s grace and then “get on with it” in His grace! Without His grace neither will happen.

Q11. How should Christians treat people in same sex relationships?

We should treat them with the same love and grace that God has shown to us. All of us are sinners. Our sins may vary, but it is all rebellion against God. We have been and are being rescued from sin. That should allow us of all people to be able to relate with compassion and true care. The love of Jesus did not leave people where they were, but it did meet them there.

Christians should not expect those who are not believers in Jesus to live like they were followers of Him (1 Cor. 5:9-11). While we may not condone sin or become involved with it (whether sexual or other), we should pursue friendships with all people like Christ did. There is no room for partiality, disdain, disrespect, or unkindness. There is only plenty of room for showing the same grace of God that we are receiving.

Christians should help those who are believers to live like followers of Him. Growth is a lifelong process. The kinds of issues believers struggle with varies from person to person and at different times in life. Regardless, we should continually be available to assist, disciple, encourage, counsel, challenge, and rebuke as needed. This availability should be throughout the course of our lives and involvements with each other. For the one claiming to be a Christian and persisting in living this way the normal process of church discipline should be exercised (Matthew 18:15-22). In this way, homosexuality is no different than any other persistent sin. In all of this our actions must be done with humility and in love (Gal. 6:1).

For those who struggle with the same sin caution should be exercised in any relationship. The kindness and grace of God should always be shown. However care must be taken that the kinds of involvements present do not lead one into sin oneself.

Q12. How can we help Christians who get involved in the practice of homosexuality? Or who become Christians and have had these kinds of experiences? Or have same sex attraction?

Addictions rewire the brain, whether it is pornography, alcoholism, or smoking. People get into patterns and habits that are hard to break and leave a permanent deep-seated impact. Sexual activities make a lasting impact on who we are. God’s grace forgives and cleanses. God forgives. Yet being Jesus’ disciple is a life-long pursuit. We all have come through different experiences, and have different struggles. Regardless of what the struggles are Christians must be committed to life-long ministry with one another.

Remaining mentally and morally pure to one’s spouse is a lifelong intentional battle for heterosexual people. Sexual issues are deep ones because they go to the core of our beings as humans. Why should we expect it would be any different for those encountering same-sex attraction issues? Some may have a more immediate, complete victory over this. Most will probably be like you and me. They will have victory over temptations one day at a time through God’s grace. This will come for us all as we grow in understanding our identity in Christ. This is not simply a sin-management attempt, but a walk in knowing and becoming like Christ.

VII. Resources

(Free unless otherwise noted)

A. Audio Resources

Dallas Theological Seminary (Audio + Video)
Homosexuality in the Context of Christian Sexual Ethics, Podcast http://www.dts.edu/thetable/play/discussing-homosexuality-sexuality-together/
Controversial Same-Sex Texts In The Bible, Podcast, http://www.dts.edu/thetable/play/queen-james-passages-old-testament/
Engaging with Sexual Identity Issues: Engaging with LGBT Persons, Podcast http://www.dts.edu/thetable/play/engaging-lgbt-persons/
Engaging with Sexual Identity Issues: Ministering to People Wrestling with Sexual Identity, Podcast http://www.dts.edu/thetable/play/ministering-to-people-wrestling-sexual-identity/

Greg Koukl (Audio for purchase)
Setting the Record Straight: The Bible and Homosexuality http://store.str.org/ProductDetails.asp?ProductCode=CD121

John MacArthur (Audio + Manuscripts)
Answering Key Questions About Homosexuality, http://www.gty.org/resources/sermons/GTY89/answering-key-questions-about-homosexuality
Homosexuality and the Bible (Selected Scriptures, 2 messages), http://www.gty.org/resources/sermon-series/12
God’s Plan for the Gay Agenda, http://www.gty.org/resources/articles/A170/Gods-Plan-for-the-Gay-Agenda

John Piper (Audio + Manuscripts + some Video)
Why is Homosexuality Wrong?, (Some gracious thoughts on the brokenness of us all) http://www.desiringgod.org/resource-library/ask-pastor-john/why-is-homosexuality-wrong
Discerning the Will of God Concerning Homosexuality and Marriage (Romans 12:1-2), http://www.desiringgod.org/resource-library/sermons/discerning-the-will-of-god-concerning-homosexuality-and-marriage
The Other Dark Exchange: Homosexuality, Part 1 (Romans 1:24-28), (http://www.desiringgod.org/resource-library/sermons/the-other-dark-exchange-homosexuality-part-1
The Other Dark Exchange: Homosexuality, Part 2 (Romans 1:24-28), http://www.desiringgod.org/resource-library/sermons/the-other-dark-exchange-homosexuality-part-2
Bethlehem’s Position on Homosexuality (a sample of a church's attempt to practically live out a Biblical view of homosexuality), http://www.desiringgod.org/resource-library/taste-see-articles/bethlehems-position-on-homosexuality

Frank Turek
March 16th podcast from his radio show dealing with same sex marriage issues, equality, and reason: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/feelings-or-reason-march-16/id337782458?i=136358756&mt=2.

B. Article Resources

Wayne Grudem
The Bible and Homosexuality, reprinted in World Magazine with permission from Crossway. Original article is from the ESV Study Bible. http://www.worldmag.com/2013/04/the_bible_and_homosexuality

Stanton Jones
Sexual Orientation and Reason: On the Implications of False Beliefs about Homosexuality. Text version: http://www.wheaton.edu/CACE/Hot-Topics PDF Download: http://www.wheaton.edu/CACE/CACE-Print-Resources/Articles

Bible.org Articles:

Sue Bohlin
Homosexuality: Questions and Answers, http://bible.org/article/homosexuality-questions-and-answers
Can Homosexuals Change?, http://bible.org/article/can-homosexuals-change
Answers to Questions Most Asked by Gay-Identifying Youth, https://bible.org/article/answers-questions-most-asked-gay-identifying-youth
When Someone in Your Congregation Says “I’m Gay”, http://bible.org/article/when-someone-your-congregation-says-im-gay
Keys to Recovery from Same-Sex Attractions, http://bible.org/article/keys-recovery-same-sex-attractions

Bob Deffinbaugh
Israel’s Sodom and Gomorrah (Judges 19-21) http://bible.org/seriespage/israel%E2%80%99s-sodom-and-gomorrah-judges-19-21

Daniel Wallace
Review of Mel White’s ‘What the Bible Says—and Doesn’t Say—about Homosexuality’ (deals with Romans 1:26-27), http://bible.org/article/review-mel-white%E2%80%99s-what-bible-says%E2%80%94and-doesn%E2%80%99t-say%E2%80%94about-homosexuality

Christian Apologetics Research Ministry Articles:

Matt Slick
On "There is nothing wrong with two homosexuals getting married if they love each other", http://carm.org/love-homosexual-marriage

Stand To Reason Articles:

Greg Koukl
Paul, Romans, and Homosexuality, http://bible.org/article/paul-romans-and-homosexuality
Homosexuality Is Unnatural: An Is-Ought Fallacy?, http://bible.org/article/homosexuality-unnatural-ought-fallacy
Homosexuality: Giving Your Point of View, http://www.str.org/site/News2?page=NewsArticle&id=5302

Alen Shlemon
Homosexuality: Know the Truth and Speak it with Compassion, http://www.str.org/site/News2?id=8779

Cross Examined Articles: 

Frank Turek (Articles + Radio show podcast)
The Case Against “Equality” Part 1 and 2 (Deals with the political issue of marriage and the claim of inequality in its not being applied to homosexual relationships.) http://townhall.com/columnists/frankturek/2013/02/28/the-case-against-equality-n1521881/page/full/ and http://townhall.com/columnists/frankturek/2013/03/01/the-case-against-equality-part-2-n1523048/page/full/

C. Theological Journal Resources (All may be accessed for monthly fee or purchased through the Theological Journals Library http://www.galaxie.com//)

Gary R. Gromacki
Why Be Concerned about Same-Sex Marriage? Journal of Ministry and Theology, 09:2 (Fall/05)

Guenther Haas
Hermeneutical Issues In The Use Of The Bible To Justify The Acceptance Of Homosexual Practice, Global Journal of Classical Theology, Vol 1, No. 2 (2/99), http://phc.edu/gj_haas_hermen.php

David E. Malick
The Condemnation of Homosexuality in 1 Corinthians 6:9, Bibliotheca Sacra, 150:600 (10/93)

Mark McGinniss
The Church’s Response To The Homosexual, Journal of Ministry and Theology, 14:2 (Fall/10)

P. Michael Ukleja
Homosexuality and the Old Testament, Bibliotheca Sacra, 140:559 (07/83)
The Bible and Homosexuality Part 2: Homosexuality in the New Testament, Bibliotheca Sacra, 140:560 (10/83)

D. Blog Resources

Darrell Bock

http://blogs.bible.org/search/apachesolr_search/homosexuality?filters=tid%3A2789

Tim Challies

http://www.challies.com/search/google?cx=006311167884800022839%3Ajcs6rz6z3lw&cof=FORID%3A11&query=homosexuality&op=Search&form_build_id=form-acb816b66500dbffbe20717127db5612&form_id=google_cse_searchbox_form

Michael Patton

http://www.reclaimingthemind.org/blog/2013/03/is-limiting-marriage-to-unions-of-a-man-and-a-woman-discrimination/

E. Ministry Resources

Living Hope Ministries http://livehope.org/

Outpost Ministries http://www.outpostministries.org/home.htm

VIII. Detailed Table of Contents

I. Introduction

II. Homosexuality in the Old Testament

A. Leviticus 18:22, Prohibition of Homosexuality in the Law
B. Leviticus 20:13, Punishment of Homosexuality in the Law
C. Genesis 19:1-11, Sodom and Gomorrah
D. Judges 19:22ff, Gibeah
Conclusion to Homosexuality in the Old Testament

III. Homosexuality in the New Testament

A. Romans 1:20-32
B. 1 Corinthians 6:9-11, Inheriting the Kingdom of God
C. 1 Timothy 1:8-15, The Worst of Sinners-- Paul
Conclusion to Homosexuality in the New Testament

IV. Jesus on Sexuality

A. Matthew 5:27-28, A Maximized Definition of Sin
B. Matthew 19:3-9, A Specified Definition of Marriage
Conclusion to Jesus on Sexuality

V. Conclusion: Loving in Truth—My Background

VI. Questions and Answers

Q1. What is homosexuality?
Q2. How does one determine if the practice of homosexuality is right or wrong?
Q3. What explicitly does the Bible teach about homosexuality?
Q4. Is it true that all of the times homosexuality is referenced in the Bible it is bundled with false worship, rape, prostitution, or abuses, and that this combination was the problem/sin before God?
Q5. Does committing a homosexual act automatically mean one is going to hell?
Q6. Are homosexual acts worse sins than other sins in the Bible?
Q7. How do you explain marriage ceremonies in which two persons of the same sex are united by an officiating clergyman or justice of the peace?
Q8. Why should two people who sincerely love each other not be allowed to get married just because they are of the same gender?
Q9. Is homosexuality genetic? If it is genetic or “natural” does that make it morally okay?
Q10. Are there contributing factors to homosexuality for which a homosexual might not be responsible?
Q11. How should Christians treat people in same sex relationships?
Q12. How can we help Christians who get involved in the practice of homosexuality? Or who become Christians and have had these kinds of experiences? Or have same sex attraction?

VII. Resources

A. Audio Resources
B. Article Resources
C. Theological Journal Resources
D. Blog Resources
E. Ministry Resources

VIII. Detailed Table of Contents

 


1 The goal of this article is three-fold.

1. To provide a Biblical expression of the Scripture’s teaching on homosexuality in a loving way.

2. To build the church (a) by clearly showing the grace of God, (b) by promoting Christians to love in truth those identifying as LGBT (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender), and (c) by removing misconceptions about the Bible, Jesus, and the Church.

3. To provide resources for further study (a) on the Scripture texts on homosexuality, as well as (b) on how Christians may best express the truth in love as they try to truly live like Christ.

2 For a discussion of the these texts in the law as being moral prohibitions rather than simple religious ones (that might somehow be disregarded) see P. Michael Ukleja, Homosexuality and the Old Testament, Bibliotheca Sacra, 140:559 (07/83). This article also finishes with a helpful discussion of the continued relevance of the law to Christians today.

3 See P. Michael Ukleja, Homosexuality and the Old Testament, Bibliotheca Sacra, 140:559 (07/83).

4 See the NET Bible notes on Jude 1:7, as well as the article referenced in footnote #1 for further discussion of all aspects of the interpretation of this verse and its relation to the Genesis account.

5 For a discussion of this term “know” and its clear meaning here see the section discussing this in P. Michael Ukleja, Homosexuality and the Old Testament, Bibliotheca Sacra, 140:559 (07/83). Also note that in the context they were not simply wanting to be acquainted with the man. The owner of the house knew that (Judges 19:23). Likewise the way they treated the traveler’s concubine is a very clear indicator of their intentions. Thus it is concluded that these men had clear male-to-male sexual intentions.

6 Bob Deffinbaugh, Israel’s Sodom and Gomorrah (Judges 19-21) http://bible.org/seriespage/israel%E2%80%99s-sodom-and-gomorrah-judges-19-21.

7 For a more detailed discussion of this objection and its lack of tenability see Greg Koukl, Paul, Romans, and Homosexuality, http://bible.org/article/paul-romans-and-homosexuality, and Homosexuality Is Unnatural: An Is-Ought Fallacy?, http://bible.org/article/homosexuality-unnatural-ought-fallacy.

Also from a more hermeneutical perspective see Guenther Haas, Hermeneutical Issues In The Use Of The Bible To Justify The Acceptance Of Homosexual Practice, Global Journal of Classical Theology, Vol 1, No. 2 (2/99), http://phc.edu/gj_haas_hermen.php and P. Michael Ukleja, The Bible and Homosexuality Part 2: Homosexuality in the New Testament, Bibliotheca Sacra, 140:560 (10/83).

For a more expositional perspective on this text see John Piper, The Other Dark Exchange: Homosexuality, Part 1 (Romans 1:24-28) (http://www.desiringgod.org/resource-library/sermons/the-other-dark-exchange-homosexuality-part-1 and The Other Dark Exchange: Homosexuality, Part 2 (Romans 1:24-28), http://www.desiringgod.org/resource-library/sermons/the-other-dark-exchange-homosexuality-part-2

8 This is not always recognized, but is insightfully pointed out by Bob Deffinbaugh in his series: Romans: The Righteousness of God. http://bible.org/seriespage/present-wrath-god-romans-115-32

9 Walter Bauer, A Greek-English Lexicon of the New Testament and Other Early Christian Literature, rev. and ed. Frederick W. Danker, 3rd ed. (Chicago: University of Chicago Press, 2000), 135, and 613.

10 P. Michael Ukleja, The Bible and Homosexuality Part 2: Homosexuality in the New Testament, Bibliotheca Sacra, 140:560 (10/83). For a further discussion of these words, and other issues, such as pederasty, see David E. Malick, The Condemnation of Homosexuality in 1 Corinthians 6:9, Bibliotheca Sacra, 150:600 (10/93). The NET Bible notes on 1 Corinthians 6:9 are also instructive. They are accessible for free online: https://net.bible.org/#!bible/1+Corinthians+6.

11 Here we are not speaking of a life-long struggle— which we all have as residents in a sinful world and sinful body. In these we can be conquerors through Jesus Christ and faith (1 John 5:3-5).

12 For a discussion of the particular word used here, note the resources referenced in the discussion of 1 Corinthians 6:9-11. The same Greek word, αρσενοκοιτης, is used in both 1 Corinthians 6:9 and 1 Timothy 1:10.

13 With what he says here, and with the teachings of Jesus that we will see further down in this article he must have recognized his intense guiltiness before God. (cf. What he says about himself in Romans 7:7-25.)

14 See the conclusion for a further discussion of my own experience.

15 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender

16 For a careful discussion of this text see Bob Deffinbaugh: http://bible.org/seriespage/avoiding-sin-adultery-matthew-527-30

17 For further discussion of this text and the salient discussions see, William F. Luck, Sr.’s discussion in his book on Bible.org: http://bible.org/series/divorce-and-re-marriage-recovering-biblical-view

18 The author works with Bible.org, and holds a ThM. from Dallas Theological Seminary. He may be contacted here through the website.

19 See Greg Koukl, http://bible.org/article/homosexuality-unnatural-ought-fallacy for a discussion of the is-ought fallacy and the teleological argument’s relationship to rights. Also see Fred Turek’s helpful 2 part column, http://townhall.com/columnists/frankturek/2013/02/28/the-case-against-equality-n1521881/page/full/ and http://townhall.com/columnists/frankturek/2013/03/01/the-case-against-equality-part-2-n1523048/page/full/. These columns deal with the political issue of marriage and the false claim of inequality in its not being applied to homosexual relationships. For an audio discussion of the issue see Turek’s March 16th podcast from his radio show: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/feelings-or-reason-march-16/id337782458?i=136358756&mt=2

20 See Matt Slick’s article on love and homosexual marriage for a brief discussion on this topic at Christian Apologetics & Research Ministry: http://carm.org/love-homosexual-marriage.

21 See the resources by Fred Turek listed under footnote 17. Dr. Turek’s book on the topic would also no doubt be a helpful resource for those wanting to investigate the topic further: Correct, NOT Politically Correct: How Same-Sex Marriage Hurts Everyone.

22 According to a Dec. 2012 Time web article “despite intensive investigations” scientists have failed so far to find “gay genes.” A researcher cited in the article emphatically states that “It’s not genetics. It’s not DNA. It’s not pieces of DNA. It’s epigenetics.” He states this as he puts forth a new theory that homosexuality is caused by “epi-marks” that relate to hormones in the womb. Thus at this stage nothing remains scientifically proven—other than no genetic or DNA links have been found. Theories are continuing to be discussed. This article was accessed 4/5/2013: http://healthland.time.com/2012/12/13/new-insight-into-the-epigenetic-roots-of-homosexuality/ This data will of course be outdated in some way within a few years, however it is more important to reiterate that even if it is genetic in some way it does not necessarily follow logically that it is moral. See the other articles referenced in the main body of the question for a fuller discussion.

Dr. Stanton Jones also has a very helpful analysis of the latest in scientific studies in his article entitled “Sexual Orientation and Reason: On the Implications of False Beliefs about Homosexuality.” Text version: http://www.wheaton.edu/CACE/Hot-Topics PDF Download: http://www.wheaton.edu/CACE/CACE-Print-Resources/Articles. (Accessed 4/15/2013)

23 Whether there is a genetic connection for lying might not be determined, but there are indeed some differences in the brains of chronic liars. See http://bjp.rcpsych.org/content/187/4/320.abstract (Accessed 4/16/2013)

24 See John Piper’s brief essay/video on “Why Homosexuality is sin?” for a gracious reminder of these truths. http://www.desiringgod.org/resource-library/ask-pastor-john/why-is-homosexuality-wrong

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同性恋:按圣经教导的基督教观点

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I. 导言

在许多社会中,同性恋问题引起争议。对于一些社会来说,同性婚姻合法化已成为平等权利问题;对于很多社会来说,它也是一个宗教和道德的问题,因为圣经有相关的教导。这个问题引发了辩论、讨论、争论,有时在互动中甚至出现暴力,非常可悲。

有些人纯粹从学术角度看待圣经对同性恋的观点,这些人也许既不是基督徒、也不是同性恋者。这课题不会直接影响他们,只因它是当前的问题而产生兴趣。对于另外一些人,却很可能是切身问题,他们或许是一名基督徒、一名同性恋者或一名同性恋的基督徒。不管是那种情况,这篇文章旨在提供一个满有恩典、爱和充满真理的资源。因此,这篇文章将详细按圣经的教导讨论基督教对同性恋的观点。1

不需多久,读者便会发现这篇文章会朝着同性恋是罪这个结论前进。因以此为终点,有两件事情需要先清楚说明,以避免任何误解。

1. 作者、所有基督徒和非基督徒都犯罪,并且是罪人。这是所有人都充分平等地参与的可悲情况,它并不是独特情况。

2. 这篇文章提出了「基督徒应如何回应圣经有关同性恋的教导」的逻辑结论。虽然它并不处理每一种情况,但却提出回应这问题时应有的态度和心态:恩典和爱。基督徒对任何人都没有使用暴力、侮辱或虐待的余地。这篇文章是为了人与人之间以真正的爱与关怀而写。

以此为目标,这篇文章会看看在旧约和新约有关同性恋的教导,耶稣关於性罪行的教导,每部分会有自己的总结,文章完结前有个人的评论。在文章后,还有发问与回应部份。此外,在这文章的末后,还提供了进一步资源。只要点击下表,便可跳到相关的内容。

I. 导言

II. 旧约关于同性恋的教导

III. 新约关于同性恋的教导

IV. 耶稣对于性罪行的教导

V. 结论: 真诚的爱 - 我的背景

VI. 发问与回应

VII. 资源

VIII. 详细目录

II. 旧约关于同性恋的教导

在旧约中有四篇经文明确地讨论同性恋。两篇是律法书禁止同性恋活动,另外两篇是历史事件:所多玛 / 蛾摩拉和基比亚事件。在这篇文章里,我们不会尝试回答每个因应经文的文本而提出的问题,因这已经在引用或列出的资源中处理了,但会清晰地确定圣经的观点,那是基督徒应该持有的观点。我们的讨论从律法怎样处理同性恋作开始,然后再看那两篇叙事经文。

A. 利未记 18:22:律法禁止同性恋

利未记 18:22 :你不可与男人同睡交合,像与女人同睡交合一样,这是可憎的事。

这律法直接禁止所有同性恋行为。不管他们是否两厢情愿,也没有区别。经文出于和性相关的律法,律法条文之后,虽然没有列出后果,但这一张列表列出绝对不可以做的事。利未记第十八章所列出的事情,都被称为「玷污」的事(利未记18:24),也称为「可憎」的事(利未记18:27, 30)。中肯来说,经文并没有把同性恋从其它的性罪行挑出来(有些性罪行被突显),不过,同性恋却被包括在内。不论犯同性恋,或是别的性罪行,这人「必从自己的族人中剪除」(利未记18:29)。原本居住在迦南的各族,因为犯了各式各样性罪行,被神惩罚赶离该地(利未记18:24)。按律法,同性恋是对上帝的亵渎。它和其它性罪行,都绝对不可在以色列存在。

B. 利未记 20:13: 律法对同性恋的惩罚

利未记 20:13 :人若与男人茍合,像与女人一样,他们二人行了可憎的事,总要把他们治死,罪要归到他们身上。

在神权管治下的以色列,这律法直接指出犯同性恋所造成的后果。这章经文是关于犯了性罪行的审判和刑罚;而这节则详细列出犯了同性恋罪行,二人都被判死刑。这似乎澄清了在利未记第十八章「必从自己的族人中剪除」是甚么意思。故此,按律法,同性恋是犯罪得罪神,需要判处极刑。2

C. 创世记19:1-11:所多玛和蛾摩拉

在创世记 18:20-21 ,神宣告祂要毁灭所多玛和蛾摩拉,因为 「所多玛和蛾摩拉的罪恶甚重,声闻于我。」当两名天使前往察看「他们所行的,果然尽像那达到我(耶和华)耳中的声音一样么? 」可是除了罗得外,城中所有人都没有好好款待他们。事实上,全城的男人拼命想㚻奸(鸡奸)他们。有人尝试将这经文解作只是没有好好款待,或与天使进行不自然关系。然而,经文并没有指出城内有任何人知道他们是天使,相反,他们被城中各人和罗得称为「男人」(创世记19:5, 8)(译者注:中文圣经没有明显译作「 男人」);同样地,按经文字面的最佳解释,所多玛和蛾摩拉的罪,不止是没有好好接待,还包括同性恋行为。3 犹大书1:7证实这点:

犹大书 1:7 :又如所多玛、蛾摩拉和周围城邑的人也照他们一味的行淫,随从逆性的情欲,就受永火的刑罚,作为鉴戒。

这节经文(对天使)逆性的情欲方面可能引起一些问题,但它一定超出待客和奸淫罪行。4 它告诉我们在所多玛和蛾摩拉的唯一性罪行是企图㚻奸天使(事实上,他们鄙视主动为他们提供异性替代者作为缓和–创世记 19:9 )。

因此,在赐下律法以前,神认为企图㚻奸(那些人就是在 眼都昏迷时仍想继续 )的行为是大恶,而导致这些城镇完全毁灭。

D. 士师记 19:22 – 基比亚

在士师记第 19 章还有另一个没有好好款待客人的例子,当中亦出现企图㚻奸行为。在这事件中,虽然并非全城的男人都参与,却「全然不管用」。在这里,那群匪类接受那人的妾取代那人作为安抚,但那妾却被他们凌辱至死。

这些行动导致以色列历史上首次内战,便雅悯支派更差点儿灭绝。因基比亚人拒绝交出犯事的人而受审判,神允许这场战争作为制裁。(士师记20:18; 20:23; 20:28; 20:35)

就像今天许多的生活实况,导致这一切的罪,似有一连串的行动。首先,这些人试图「作恶」和「知道」这些人的性别(19:22-23a)5。第二,,因为它试图要对正接受别人款待的客人进行「丑事」,使情况变得更复杂(士师记19:23下)。第三,他们整夜强奸和虐待那人的妾,使她死亡(士师记19:25-30)。第四,便雅悯支派其余的人拒绝把犯事的人交出来接受处罚(士师记 20:13 )。

这故事握要地向各支派重述(士师记 20:5 ),但却没有将焦点放在原本企图 㚻 奸那人(士师记 19:22-24 )。重述似乎聚焦在实际发生的罪行,而不是那起初的企图。可是那企图占较长的篇幅,并明显标记为错误。因此,将它视为这事件被审判的部份原因是完全合适的。若要进一步研究此事件,参 Bob Deffinbaugh 相关的文章。6

由此可见,神赐予律法后,企图强奸同性别的人(㚻奸),导致神以内战作为制裁的原因之一。

旧约关于同性恋教导的结论

在神赐予律法以先或在律法之下,以色列人和外邦人(非以色列人),不管在自愿或非自愿的情况, 同性恋都 被视为 罪,会带来神的审判和死亡。

在赐予律法以前,这并非神唯一因人的罪进行直接和大规模的审判(参创世记第六章洪水事件,是 更重的审判,它不经意地没有提及同性恋活动 )。赐予律法后,神同样地审判其它罪行(参列王纪下17章,神审判拜偶像和相关的罪;第19章审判亚述;第24-25章审判犹大)。

这表明神绝对不矮化(或扩大)任何罪,并不断地宣告很多行为是罪,而且施予惩罚,当中并没有不公义。神的行动并不限于某一种罪行,我们可以从旧约举出很多的例子,显示祂参与处理罪。这些强调偶像崇拜、同性恋和其它的罪的审判,不会使我们感到惊讶,因为律法其中一个目的,便是要清楚揭示罪就是罪,并以神的公义标准作判断(罗马书7:7-14)。虽然,拜偶像的罪相对各式各样的性罪行和它们背后的拜偶像行为,可能受到更严厉的惩罚和警告(参利未记18:24-30和上述列出的审判)。

旧约故事并不在这里完结 ,因为还 可以举出许多神赐下恩典的例子:挪亚和他的家人、罗得和他的家人、亚伯拉罕、艾萨克、 雅各布、 约瑟、 摩西和亚伦、大卫(恩典的典型例子,在律法下, 他犯了该死的罪 )、以色列和犹大的余民、赐下祭祀制度、约拿和尼尼微等。虽然神已定下公义的标准,但祂的恩慈也是不变的。

III. 新约关于同性恋的教导

在新约有多处经文总体上禁止「不道德性行为」(参使徒行传 15:20; 15:29 ;帖撒罗尼迦前书 4:3 ;希伯来书 13:4 ;启示录 21:8 , 22:15 )。这些命令都包括同性恋在内。不过,其中三篇经文明确地谈论同性恋。第一篇对同性恋详加探讨,而另外两篇却把同性恋和其它的罪一起列出来。如旧约部分的讨论,这里不会试图讨论因文本可能所产生的每个问题,而将目标放在这些经文对同性恋的教导和基督教基于这些经文对同性恋的观点。如前,那些渴望深入了解的读者,可参考文末所列出来的资源。

A. 罗马书 1:20-32

罗马书 1:20-32 : 20 自从创造天地以来,神的永能和神性是明明可知的,虽不是眼见,但藉着所造之物就可以晓得,叫人无可推诿。21 因为他们虽然知道神,却不当作神荣耀他,也不感谢他,他们的思想反而变为虚妄,麻木的心昏暗了。22 他们自以为聪明,反成了愚拙, 23 将不能朽坏之神的荣耀,换成必朽坏的人、飞禽、 走兽和爬虫的形像。

24 所以神任凭他们随着心里的情欲行污秽的事,彼此玷辱自己的身体。25 他们以虚谎代替神的真实,去敬拜事奉受造之物,不敬拜那造物的主。主乃是可称颂的,直到永远。阿们。

26 为这缘故,神任凭他们放纵可羞耻的情欲。他们的女人,把顺性的用处变为逆性的用处; 27 男人也是如此,弃了与女人顺性的交往,欲火攻心,男和男彼此贪恋行可羞耻的事,就在自己身上受这过失当得的刑罚。

28 他们既然故意不承认神,神就任凭他们存邪僻的心行那些不该行的事。29 他们就装满了各样不义、邪恶、贪婪、恶毒;满心是嫉妒、凶杀、争竞、诡诈、毒恨;又是谗毁的、 30 说是非的、 怨恨神的,侮慢人的、高傲的、自夸的、捏造各样恶事的、违背父母的、 31 麻木的、背约的、无情的、无恻隐之心的。32 他们虽知道神公义的判定:行这样事的人是该死的,然而他们不但自己去行,还赞同别人去行。

这段经文比新约其他经文更广泛地讨论同性恋,然而同性恋却不是本段经文的首要主题。保罗的重点是要清楚地解释福音,为了做到这一点,它需要显示所有人都在神的审判和谴责下,故此需要福音。保罗的声明从神的永能和神性,可藉着所造之物就可以晓得,叫人无可推诿。神的义怒在一切不虔不义的人身上(罗马书第一章)。接着,他指出当我们指摘别人的罪的时候,我们就是定自己的罪(罗马书第二章)。就是拥有神的律法的犹太人,因他们所犯的罪,同样在神的审判之下。此外,他们没有能力纠正这种情况(罗马书第二至三章)。因此,不管一个人是不是在律法之下,都没有分别,所有人都在神不偏不倚的审判下。这解释为神在基督里的恩典铺路,这是福音的好信息。这确是我们从这种困境中被拯救的方法。

故此同性恋和别的罪在这段经文一起出现,显示为甚么神向人发怒,为何人在神面前 难辞其咎。在转往反面论证以先,保罗刻意从好信息开始分享。神的公义从福音显明出来,这福音需要凭着信来接受(罗马书1:17)。相反,神的愤怒则在不虔不义的人显示出来(罗马书1:18)。在那里可以见到这些不虔不义的人? 被抑制的真理又可以在那里见到呢? 它们在不可饶恕的偶像崇拜中显示出来。所有人都可以透过受造之物,看到那原本看不到的神的属性、神的大能和本质(罗马书1:19-20),可是人不敬拜创造主,却敬拜偶像和受造之物(罗马书1:23-25)。大自然的存在需要一位设计者,这真理被抑压,并且转移敬拜个人和受造之物。神对这些行为的其中一个审判,就是任由他们随着心里的情欲而行(罗马书1:24),让他们受这过失当得的刑罚,当中特别提到同性恋(罗马书1:26-28),这里还简要地列出其它的罪(罗马书1:29-32 )。

有人反对使用这段经文来讨论同性恋,指这段经文只能用于异性恋的人犯了同性茍合的行为(或「滥用」了同性恋这词 ),它不可以应用于「天生」有同性恋倾向和只有一个同性伴侣的人身上(或某种形式的「婚姻」),若加以检视,这并不成立。保罗在这里并不是谈「自然」倾向,他说的是功能:神设计了男性和女性的功能。按这段经文,人透过同性恋行为反抗这些功能。7

我们可以从这段经文看到,神将同性恋列为叛逆祂的其中一个例子,他们需要承担后果。在这里,虽然同性恋并不是唯一被列出来的罪,但却被突显出来。看来这个例子被突显出来是因为它截然违反了神明确的设计。神按自己的形像造人(创世记1:27),一男一女的婚姻是神的配套设计(创世记2:22-25)。同性恋行为清晰地违反了神的计划,那是从本质层面明显地宣告叛逆神。它宣告神的设计和计划是错误的、是不足够的。如经文所列,同性恋和别的罪都会得到神即时的(纵使不是终极的)刑罚。罪为自己带来刑罚,种的是甚么,收的也是甚么。8 此外,刻意将神的真理换作谎言,于是神将他们交给他们自己邪僻的心。一个人原有分辨道德是非对错的能力,可能因而严重受损(罗马书1:28)。

为免任何人变得自义,保罗即时表明这一切都在被谴责的罪恶之下。事实上,谴责别人的罪即谴责自己(罗马书2:1-5)。保罗可以用这有意义的方式分享,唯一的原因是他不倚靠自己的义,他倚靠神的义;这义,是神的恩典在基督里已经加给他,他的罪已经被赦免了。他提出这点并不是要指摘他人以表明自己有义;他清楚地表明在每个人里,罪确实存在,神的恩典救了他,所以他能够和那些需要被拯救的人分享,让他们同样得到神的恩典。

保罗在罗书表达的目的和论点,基督徒在今天仍然适合和别人分享。我们同样是罪人,我们都在神的盛怒之下。我也是个罪人,同样被这些真理审判。透过神的恩典,我们可以得到赦免。即使我们有这恩典,在我们里头,并不比别人好一些。我们没有甚么可夸口的,这显示出神的工作令人惊叹,当我们还极力地敌对祂的时候,祂却爱我们,救赎我们,祂的爱和救赎是无法言喻的。这恩典改变了我们,还继续改变我们的生命,这将使我们永恒地与神同在。这恩典是给所有人的,不分性别、种族、国籍、族裔、阶层、或其它分野的群体,没有人被排除在这恩典以外。基督徒应将这恩典宣扬给其他人,因为这是神的真恩。

B. 哥林多前书 6:9-11,继承神的国

哥林多前书 6:9-11 : 9 你们岂不知,不义的人不能承受神的国? 不要被骗,无论是淫乱的、拜偶像的、奸淫的、作娈童的、同性恋的、10 偷窃的、贪婪的、醉酒的、辱骂的、勒索的,都不能承受神的国。11 你们中间也有人从前是这样,但如今你们奉主耶稣基督的名,并藉着我们神的灵,已经洗净,成圣称义了。

有人质疑这经文里两个使用于同性恋的希腊文。他们将这两个字解释作温和的不道德行为(μαλακος)和男妓(αρσενοκοιτης)。可是,这样翻译和权威的圣经希腊辞典(BDAG)有分歧。9 除此以外,它基本上和大多数 (如果不是全部 )标准英语词典并不一致,这样的翻译不好。10 这两个希腊文,按上下文,确指同性恋关系中两个不同的角色。

这无疑是一个强烈、明确和毫不含糊的声明,这声明包括甚么是罪和罪的后果,以及从这些罪中唯一得救的途径。经文中,保罗强烈地提醒哥林多教会,这样的行为并不符合神的国的要求。在这卷书和这段经文,保罗处理好些困扰着教会的行为和道德问题。他们过往的行为,完全不恰当地影响着他们目前的生命。显然,情况已经变得很糟糕,保罗在下一封信甚至质疑他们,要求他们作自我反省,看看它们是否已成真正的信徒(哥林多后书13:5)。

他们不会因这些罪本身,或在这些罪里,而不可以真正接受神的恩典,成为神的儿女。只是继续在这些罪中,作为生命的方式,11 则显明他们并非真信徒,不能承受神的国(参约翰壹书第三章)。从这段经文,我们可以明确地看到有些哥林多信徒,他们在这样的生命方式中成为基督徒,这对我们今天很有用。我们可从中得出两个结论:

1. 和其它的罪一样,同性恋行为可以得到神的赦免。神的恩典并不限于这罪或那罪。就如罗马书5:20-21所写:

20 律法的加入,叫过犯显多;只是罪在那里显多,恩典就更倍增了。21 就如罪以死掌权,照样恩典也以义掌权,使人藉我们的主耶稣基督得永生。

2. 有些基督徒离开这些罪,他们应该是最渴望和别人分享神的恩典的人。就如哥林多后书5:17-21所述:

17 因此,若有人在基督里,他就是新造的人,旧事已过,看哪,新的已经来临了。18 一切都是出于神,他藉着基督使我们与他和好,又将劝人与他和好的职分赐给我们; 19 换句话说, 神在基督里叫世人与自己和好,不将他们的过犯归到他们身上,并且将这和好的道理给了我们。20 所以我们是基督的使者,就好像神藉我们劝你们一般。我们替基督求你们「与神和好」21 神使那无罪的替我们成为罪,好叫我们在他里面成为神的义。

C. 提摩太前书 1:8-15,最糟糕的罪人 — 保罗

提摩太前书 1:8-15 : 8 但我们知道律法是好的,只要人用得合宜, 9 了解到律法不是为义人设立的,乃是为不法和叛逆的,不虔诚和犯罪的,不圣洁和亵渎的,弒父母的,谋杀的, 10 淫荡的,同性恋的,绑票的,说谎话的,并起假誓的,就是为不依从真道而活的人设立的。11 这话是遵照可称颂之神交托我的荣耀的福音。

12 我感谢那给我力量的,我们的主基督耶稣,因他以我有忠心,派我职份。13 虽然我从前是亵渎神的,逼迫人的,和傲慢的,然而我还蒙了怜悯,因那些是我不信、无知的时候作的。14 并且我主的恩是格外丰盛,使我在基督耶稣里有信心和爱心。15 「基督耶稣降世,为要拯救罪人。」这话是可信的,是配得完全接受的。在罪人中我是个罪魁!

保罗在这段经文指出律法的目的,与误用律法的人的看法形成对比(提摩太前书 1:6-7 ),律法把人的罪和人需要「救恩」显示出来。保罗所列出的这些例子中,同性恋清晰地被列入不义之中。12 有别于这里虚假的「义人」(第9节),我们必须留意耶稣是唯一的义人(希伯来书4:15,罗马书3:10-24)。

有些人尝试让他们看来像正义的人,这不应与真正的正义混淆。他们会得到神的审判,因为神按照祂圣洁的标准和准绳来审判。他们的尝试,只能在他们的脑子里把自己从神的恩典抽离。他们若不承认他们的需要,神的恩典又怎能适用在他们身上呢?

被列出的罪行包括同性恋和许许多多被人认为是「最糟糕」的罪:弒父母的,谋杀的,淫荡的,同性恋的,绑票的,亵渎和目无法纪。有趣的是保罗列出这些罪后,他说底线是耶稣基督降生来到这个世界拯救罪人,而他(保罗)却是罪魁。我们从别的经文知道保罗按律法是无可指摘的(腓立比书3:6) 13,保罗并没有犯某些罪行或律法中最小的一条,以致他十恶不赦;然而,他知道他在神的面前诚然是最坏。毫无疑问,我也是罪人中最糟糕的一个。感谢神透过基督,让我在祂里面,不再受审判。你不也需要吗?

新约关于同性恋的教导总结

诚然,同性恋是罪;它并非没有问题,它是不道德的。它和别的罪一样,结出受到神审判的果子,上面提及的经文已经确认这点。可是这并未完结,我们讨论同性恋的基督教观点同样不应这样完结。圣经和基督教对同性恋的观点是同性恋是错误的,但神有恩典,那恩典与神给我们的是相同的,使所有人从罪中得释放。神的恩典能给人带来新生命,并且在向前行的每一步得到帮助。就如耶稣第一次来到世上时所说:

约翰福音 3:16-21 : 16 神爱世人,甚至将他的独生子赐给他们,叫一切信他的,不至灭亡,反得永生。17 因为神差他的儿子到世上来,不是要定世人的罪,乃是要叫世人藉他得救。18 信他的人,不被定罪;不信的人,罪已经定了,因为他不信神独生子的名。19 光来到世间,世人因自己的行为邪恶,不爱光,反而爱黑暗,这就是他们被定罪的理由。20 凡作恶的便恨光,不肯接近光,因为恐怕他们的行为被显露出来。21 但行真理的必爱接近光,这就显出他所行的是靠神而行。

因我曾看见我生命中罪的威力,所以每当我看到圣经称某些东西为罪、或可憎恶的、或某人做了些甚么不能承受神的国时,我会立即想到我生命中的罪。我的罪同样是神所厌恶的:

箴言 6:16-19 : 16 耶和华所恨恶的有六样,连他憎恶的共有七样:17 就是高傲的眼 ,撒谎的舌,流无辜人血的手,18 图谋恶计的心,飞跑行恶的脚, 19 吐谎言的假见证,并家庭中布散不睦的人。

我经常记起我曾经历的痛苦、愤怒、空虚和绝望。14 我无法控制自己,但我却希望其他在这种处境的人,能够认识神的爱和恩典。神的爱和恩典大大改变了我的生命,我亦希望你能得释放。

耶稣在地上生活时曾经历挣扎,祂能够真正了解和同情我们的弱点;因祂像我们一样,凡事受过试探,可是祂却没有犯罪(希伯来书 4:15 );只有祂能胜过所有的罪,并在我们这生命的道路上伴着我们一起往前走。当然我并没有经历各种不同的处境,但我也在我的生命中看到足够的罪。以下是我对你的三个愿望:

  1. 我希望没有任何一个人有像我的经历 – 罪所产生的痛苦与苦果。
  2. 我希望所有人都能经历基督的恩典、爱与赦免,并得着基督所赐永恒的新生命。
  3. 我希望透过基督所加添给我的能力,我能够继续成长、更像主耶稣。只有这样才能使我在爱中,用我的语言和行动,向你更好地表达祂的真理。

你会在我旁边与我一起走吗 ?

同样地如果你已经真真正正接受这恩典,你会把它活出来,与及在爱中和别人分享吗?

IV. 耶稣对于性罪行的教导

当讨论耶稣有关同性恋或LGBT(同性恋)15 的生活方式时,总有人尝试宣称耶稣从来没有处理这个问题。然而这并不准确。耶稣(和神一样)是一位独特的老师,祂时常权威性地处理事件背后的原则,这些原则并不是为了单一事件,而是在整个范畴内可能发生的各种情况。祂经常透过辨别人的心思意念与企图,揭穿我们罪恶的心,并揭示祂圣洁的标准。以下两个例子给我们详细表明我们都亏缺了神的荣耀,并且迫切需要神的恩典。

A. 马太福音 5:27-28:罪最广阔的定义

马太福音 5:27-28 : 27 「你们听见有话说:『不可奸淫。』 28 只是我告诉你们,凡看见妇女就动淫念的,这人心里已经与她犯奸淫了。」

耶稣清楚指出神的标准,对与错并不单单按外在的行为评定,神察看我们的心思意念。甚至幻想不道德的事,也是错误的。16

耶稣的教导直接处理已婚人士在肉体和思想上犯奸淫。可是当我们深入了解耶稣教导的原则,便会看到耶稣实际涉及更广阔的范畴。耶稣向社会和宗教领袖指出,罪恶超出他们允许自己在思想和行为上所定的界限。在前一段经文,耶稣讨论谋杀(马太福音5:21-26),祂指出向弟兄动怒或侮辱弟兄,都会带来神的审判,无需实际杀人。明显地,神的标准远超出只按行动作判断,同时亦清楚地显示(与宗教领袖自义的观点明显形成对比)他们无法遵守。律法首要指出我们的罪,并驱使我们信靠神,和接受祂为我们提供的恩典。

性罪行远远超出犯奸淫或实际的行动;愤怒和关系破裂的罪,也远远超出兄弟之间的问题。这些例子和具体案例亦远远超出「律法的条文」。人会限制律法的应用范围,让他们看起来圣洁公义。尽管如此,神是不会受骗的。尽管我们淡化不同的罪如:说谎、作弊、偷窃、嫉妒、贪婪、通奸、巫术、色情、淫乱、诈骗、醉酒、同性恋或任何其他不义的行为。耶稣对罪的定义比我们所愿意接纳的广阔多了,祂刻意表明祂不会同意我们处理神的道的方式。耶稣的伦理观,是律法的一部份,明显适用于同性恋行为(利未记18:22, 20:13),这些律法不会是无效的(路加福音16:17)。

B. 马太福音 19:3-9, 婚姻的明确定义

马太福音 19:3-9 : 3 有几个法利赛人来试探耶稣说:「人因任何原因和妻子离婚都合法吗? 」 4 耶稣回答:「那起初造人的,是造男造女5 并且说:『 因此,人要离开父母,与妻子连合,二人成为一体。』这经你们没有念过吗? 6 既然如此,夫妻不再是两个人,乃是一体的了。所以神配合的,人不可分开。」 7 法利赛人又说:「这样,为甚么摩西吩咐只要给妻子一张离婚书,就可以和她离婚呢? 」 8 耶稣说:「摩西因为你们的心硬,所以才准你们和妻子离婚,但起初并不是这样。9 只是我告诉你们,若不是因淫乱的缘故,离婚再娶的就是犯奸淫了。」

在这里,耶稣明确地表明了神对男人、女人和婚姻的计划。耶稣回答关系问题的基础,是回到神起初的计划与设计。神的计划与设计被我们充满罪恶的心和心里刚硬,尽力将它遮蔽和扭曲。这段经文谈论离婚、不道德行为和奸淫。耶稣在这里重申各种可能改变神起初的设计,同样是对抗神的计划。透过肯定神的造物计划,耶稣声明任何与这设计不乎的活动,是破坏、无效,并错误的。唯一豁免死罪的情况是另一方犯奸淫(这使安分守己的一方不再受约束)17 。例如离婚这类不道德的行为,是宣告神的提供和设计不足;同性恋亦然。

在大多数社会中,这对与错的标准对那些涉及不道德、同居、一夜情、通奸、离婚,虐待儿童、色情等,比那些同性恋的群体有更深远的影响(以数量而言)。可是神的道和神的标准,并不是将我们与其他人的行为作比较,在神面前,它们都是错的。事实上,这些情况都需要如实和在爱心中面对。它们完全违反了神起初的设计与计划,它们都应受到神的审判。按神的标准,我们都是失败者,所有人不论是在思想或行为上都有罪,未能达到神的标准。耶稣如此强烈的声明,它的好处就像我认识到我所做的(仍在做的)是邪恶的,我绝望了,我不能解决这个问题,我被毁坏。我们必须让它引导我们往奇异恩典、爱、宽恕和耶稣基督转化生命的大能,通过耶稣基督在十字架上的救赎工作,将我们的刑罚也钉在十字架上,在那里,我们可以得到新的生命(约翰福音10:9-11)。

耶稣对性罪行的教导的结论

耶稣的教导,让我们看到我们没有一个人可以从这些按神标准所订立有关性罪行与婚姻的规管之下逃脱。耶稣亲自教导性与婚姻的伦理,它更清楚和更严谨地强调神原本的计划只接受一夫一妻的异性结合,除此以外,其它的都无效,甚至带有情欲的思想也不能接受。

对于那些在一男一女的夫妻制度这真理以外参与异性恋或同性恋的人,有广泛和深远的影响;耶稣宣告这些关系无效,并且是罪。

纵使有些人已不再参与这些罪行,但这些真理仍有影响力。事实是你和我在内里可能以某种方式与它斗争,直到我们离世的那天。我和很多清醒的九十后对话,从中察觉到当我们仍在这个被罪败坏的身体时,有些事情是不会改变的。作为基督徒,如果我们每日倚靠神的恩典,我们希望亲切地与其他人分享这恩典。如果我们不是倚靠那恩典,我们是活在谎言中,并且假装比我们的实况圣洁。我们拥有的唯一的圣洁是耶稣基督在我们里面工作,我们的圣洁是祂给我们的,我们没有自傲或夸口的余地。

不管我们的罪是外在的,还是内在的;不管我们的本性是双性恋,还是同性恋;不管我们所犯的能看见,还是不能看见,如果我们继续这种行为,可以肯定这些罪恶将慢慢地摧毁我们的生命。这些行为使我们无法活出神的计划或达到祂的标准。要解决这问题,神在基督耶稣里的恩典是唯一的答案。(使徒行传 4:12,提多书 3:3-7)

V. 结论: 真诚的爱 - 我的背景

圣经对人本质的描述是真实的。圣经告诉我们,我们都没有达到神公义的标准;在神面前,我们全都不义(罗马书3:10-23)。世上其它宗教为人提供通过某种方式,让人可以靠自我的努力实现到达天堂的希望。圣经却没有这样做,相反,圣经告诉我们神的标准是人不可能达到的。

18 曾亲自发现这些标准不可能遵守,它导至我生命中最糟糕的时期,那时我正值青少年期。我从小学习圣经,并曾经因耶稣在十字架上的代赎,我求祂拯救我。可是,当我渐长,我竟让骄傲和自满胜过了我,我开始为某特定的罪挣扎;我明白我是错的,我清楚知道圣经说的是甚么。接着,我的学业开始受影响,我亦知道没有甚么比我的创造主和我的关系更重要,可是我的心太冷,只有空洞的祷告,时间就这样消逝。我没有自杀的唯一理由是因为我知道自杀也是罪。这时期的空虚与绝望,是我生命中最糟糕的经历。罪控制了我的生活。我知道它是空虚的,而且具破坏性;虽然我知道有美好的事,可是,我无法解决我的心思意念,我无法停止犯罪。有一段时期,我曾尝试不理它,但那挥之不去的思想与现实,总是潜伏着。真相是我没有遵守神的标准、我并不圣洁,我应得的只有神的审判。

幸而神介入我的生命。对我来说无法克服的事,对神来说却不是不可能。祂透过我当时所读的经文和我从收音机听到的信息,打开了我的眼睛,让我看到其余的真理。

这段日子,我日记所记载的,是我每天的失败、我的心对神是怎样的刚硬、我的挣扎、我的愤怒、我罪性的实况。我知我应当悔改,但我冰冷的心使我无法做到...... 突然间我却欣喜若狂地感谢神,因祂使人惊叹的爱而感谢祂。

发生了什么事? 随着时间的推移,我意识到我的罪,并且正在自我毁灭的情况下,我完全明白我无能为力,我无法单靠自己的能力处理我生命中的问题。我不能赚取神的爱、神的认可或宽恕。在我的骄傲与自满中,我需要看到我的真实境况,以至我能够虚己,把自己完全投入和依靠神的恩典。当我看到了实情,并把自己完完全全向神降服,祂开了我的眼睛,让我确切地明白祂的爱与恩典。

神的恩典、怜悯和帮助超越儿时的一次性经历,延伸至一个年轻男子每日实实在在的经历。只有在神的加力和恩典下,我初尝从罪中得拯救和永远的拯救。同样,只有持续在这恩典中,我才可以每天活出合神心意的生活方式。神工作的大能将我的生命完全转化。它能把我的邪恶、骄傲和充满罪的生活,转化成愈来愈像主耶稣那「不可能」的生活方式。

自此,我强烈地渴望和别人分享。我不想任何人重蹈我的覆辙- 那被罪捆绑,受愤怒和绝望折磨的痛苦日子。我并没有「做」什么来赚取神的爱或「做」什么来得到它,亦没有神奇公式。不知神使用甚么方法帮我看见我的罪的真面目,不知甚么缘故我坦率地在祂面前承认我的罪和接受了祂无法抗拒的爱、恩典和宽恕,祂并帮助我克服我的罪。虽然我早就知道这些事实,但神在那个时候把它们放在我的心和生活中,我降服了,凭着单纯的信心,我把生命托付祂。就如祂的死亡、埋葬与复活战胜了罪,祂战胜了我的罪。自那时起,我知道我的罪已被战胜,我会好起来。在我这生,祂会每日与我一起,帮助我面对每天的挣扎;我只要继续依靠祂,祂会以信实待我。祂确实如此。

这和 按圣经教导的基督教同性恋观点有甚么关系呢? 情况好像我的罪,最初阻碍我进神的国;好像我的罪和骄傲奴役我,因我不断向我的罪屈服,差点儿就毁了我的生命。任何别的罪也会对你做成相同的伤害

在我挣扎的初期,圣经已使我明白我的罪;或许你的情况并不相同。或许在你的脑海中,你还有一些疑问。在附注、资源和文章末端所列出的文章,我极力建议你阅读它们。

至于那些已接受圣经真理,并已明白这罪和别的罪的人,最理想就是读福音书(罗马书对那些注重细节的人也可能有帮助)。你会读到基督为我们做了甚么,使我们从罪中得释放。愿神的爱也降临在你的身上;也给你的生命带来如给我的改变。

对于那些以圣经怎样看同性恋作为一个学术性问题的人,请记着:所有罪都会奴役你,使你得到神公义的审判,就如罪对我所作的一样。在神面前,社会能接纳的罪依然是罪;然而,神却为我们预备了在基督里的宽恕、救赎和自由。

不管你发现自己在那一种情况,我也会与你一起向神祈求:祈求耶稣基督把赐给我的自由,也赐给你。那自由我不是赚取的,因我过于高傲,以至我太晚才接受。请你不要把自己陷于我曾经历的苦楚,也不要等待以至为时已晚。若神能叫耶稣从死里复活,宽恕我的罪,胜过我的挣扎和每天加给我帮助,那么,祂同样能使你得释放。在祂里面,我们的罪所当受的审判得以移除。(罗马书第八章)

最后,那些相信耶稣基督的信徒,我鼓励你从圣经的角度来思考这个问题,并每天追随主,让祂处理你的罪和转化你的生命。当我们这样做,我们将会被预备好,向同样在罪的困境中的人分享。需要详细信息,请参阅短文: https://bible.org/article/homosexuality-and-church.

VI. 发问与回应

Q1. 甚么是同性恋?

同性恋是向同一性别的人性欲的表达。

Q2. 如何确定同性恋行为是对还是错?

要确定任何事情的做法是对或错,需要一个标准来衡量。唯一的权威是那位拥有万物主权的造物主。神已将祂的道透过圣经赐给人,可作为任何事情作准则,包括:同性恋、道德的对与错...... 文化和个人喜好各不相同,但创造万物之主所定立的准则,给所有人相同的标准。

Q3. 圣经对同性恋有甚么明确的教导?

旧约和新约圣经都明确教导同性恋是罪。圣经亦明确教导神救赎的恩典是神自己付赎价,透过耶稣基督的受死、埋葬、复活使各种各样的罪人与神自己复和。上文在新约部份的结论已简要地指出这点。「圣经和基督教的观点都认为同性恋是错误的,但神的恩典,给所有人提供从罪的捆绑中得自由的途径,和加给我们的恩典相同。」(详情请参看上文)

Q4. 在圣经中同性恋常和偶像敬拜、强奸、卖淫或侵犯捆绑在一起,这是说这种组合在神面前被视为有问题或罪吗?

在圣经中有关同性恋的参考经文,确与其它的罪一起谈论(按上文讨论所引用经文的讨论,很容易发现这一点);但若说同性恋与其它罪行混合而使同性恋是罪则不正确。就是单单阅读有关同性恋的经文,就会发现同性恋行为被确定是错误的。例如:罗马书第一章「顺性」被变作和舍弃(罗马书1:26-27)、做出「羞耻的事」(罗马书1:27),同性恋违反神创造时的设计。因为所有的罪恶都是偶像崇拜和叛逆神,所以它们在文本中被放在一起并不足为奇。参看这篇文章罗马书第一章的附注,为这议题作进一步讨论。请特别留意 Guenther Haas 出自《Global Journal of Classical Theology, Vol 1, No. 2 (2/99), http://phc.edu/gj_haas_hermen.php》的文章《Hermeneutical Issues In The Use Of The Bible To Justify The Acceptance Of Homosexual Practice》。

Q5. 曾参与同性恋行为便会下地狱吗?

不,耶稣来到世上为人的罪承担刑罚,为那些愿意相信祂所作的工的人提供赦免。任何真心相信祂的人不会进地狱,同性恋和其它的罪的情况相同,可得到赦免;从反面来看,同性恋和别的罪一样,需要宽恕,需要透过神的恩典来克服。细节请参看上文相关经文的讨论。

Q6. 同性恋的罪比圣经中其它的罪更坏吗?

圣经并没有明显地把罪分「等级」,因此这是一条很难回答的问题。另一方面,耶稣曾说若在迦百农所行的神迹,如果行在所多玛,那城还会存留到今天(因她会悔改,就不会被审判)。耶稣还说在审判的日子,所多玛所受的,比迦百农还轻呢(马太福音11:23-24)。这似乎显示神审判的严厉程度,取决于对神的知识和所看见的见证而有所不同。那些知道「更多」的人,会受更重的刑罚。在另一方面,罗马书第一章确实刻意将同性恋作为持久悖逆神和被审判的例子。有趣的是,这段经文似述说那些人十分理解同性恋行为的罪性,纵使他们认识神和神的审判,他们仍追求他们所做的,还鼓励别人也这样做。从这些例子,我们可以看到圣经并没有直接回答这问题,但它却显示不管你犯的是甚么罪,愈是刻意犯罪,神的审判愈严厉。然而,圣经清晰地回答了比这更重要的另一个有关同性恋的问题 – 神的恩典是否足以拯救和使人脱离这种罪孽。答案是肯定足够的。

Q7. 你怎样解释婚姻仪式中主礼的神职人员或地方治安法官为两个同性别的人证婚?

有很多地区的政府已经把这种做法合法化,并正式承认同性婚姻。这确实给予他们法律上的权限,而对于很多人来说,这使它看来得到道德上的认可。然而,只有神能够真正给予道德上的准许,神宣告同性恋是罪,基督徒应以真理和爱心回应,好像回应所有别的罪一般。有些神职人员和教派宣称基督徒应容许同性婚姻,他们的行动并没有得到圣经或神的认可。显而易见,他们的行动与这篇文章看到的圣经真理相违。

Q8. 为何两个真心相爱的人,只因他们的性别相同就不能容许他们结婚?

这个问题的答案,在今天的政治和宗教圈子里,都引起很多争议。简单来说,答案似乎都归结到一个人对爱情、婚姻,和道德定义。真正的爱情,会不惜一切为对方做到最好,按神对人的婚姻设计,是一男一女的结合(创世记1:26-28; 2:18-25)。女人是神赐给男人合适的伴侣。道德必须按神的标准订立,错与对也要按神的标准。按这些定义,若与另一人的结合违反神的道德标准、不符合婚姻的设计、并非最适合的伴侣,这不会是爱最高的表达。

因非信徒不承认神的道德标准和设计,因此,这观点对他们来说是不相关的。但对基督徒而言,甚么是「应该」和道德的问题,则是由那位决定对与错的来断定。实际上,这不单是对基督徒说的,而是当人论及甚么是「对的」时,必须考虑的。「对」只有在承认创造主赋予受造物的道德标准时才存在。自然主义没有资格决定甚么是对的。19

在美国的政治角度和其他信仰体系的造物主可能有不同的道德准则,若按这些不同的准则重新为婚姻作定义,超出了传统的定义基础。然而,寻求以这些罕见或新的宗教系统标准,是喧宾夺主,不是真实的道德信念。

试图透过好像「爱」这类模糊的术语定义婚姻,透过扩大其定义,并不是一个安全的方式。20 事实上人们「爱」各种各样的东西,我们实在没有需要因为爱便允许进行各种行为,因这也是不合适的;这也不意味政府必须因有人爱这样或爱那样就促进所有行为。同样地,同性婚姻有别于异性婚姻,这并不关乎平等的问题。21

Q9. 同性恋是遗传的吗? 如果它是遗传或是「自然」的,它在道德上便可接受吗?

同性恋是否遗传是一个有趣的问题。由于科学研究在性质上不断产生变化,这个问题也错综复杂,若这篇文章加入任何篇幅的讨论,这篇文章很快便会过时。对这问题有兴趣的人,我只可以说直至2013年,没有同性恋遗传或 DNA链被发现。22 但是,我必须强调不管否有某种遗传方式不是决定某事情是否合乎道德的因素。理论上有人可能有某些遗传,例如:对药物或酒精滥用、说谎 23 或盗窃癖等, 但却不会 改变这些问题是否合乎的道德标准。

有两篇 Greg Koukl 的著作对于 讨论「自然」是否合乎道德这个问题很有帮助,头一篇从一个逻辑和哲学的角度探讨问题: Homosexuality Is Unnatural: The Is-Ought Fallacy? http://bible.org/article/homosexuality-unnatural-ought-fallacy;第二篇是较直接从圣经的教导看这问题: Paul, Romans, and Homosexuality , http://bible.org/article/paul-romans-and-homosexuality. 遗传不一定是自然的(从指定的设计角度来说),同样地,天然的也不一定是合乎道德的( David Hume Is-Ought fallacy )。

Q10. 可有导致同性恋的因素,可使同性恋者无须负责任吗?

不同的因素导致我们从事不同的活动。这帮助我们较容易看到一个人为何以自己特定的方式进行某活动。可是,我们必须为我们的行动负责。别人向我们所做的,我们或许没有责任,但我们需要为我们的选择负责。

我们对某特定的罪出现倾向或取向。所有人面临的问题是我们怎样面对呢? 24 对我来说,我不肯放开我倾向的罪的时间过长,实况是我每天都受试探要留在那罪之中,无法脱离;有时还有新的罪出现。我需要终生学习我在基督里的身份、抵挡罪的诱惑和行在真理中,我无法胜过我的罪。透过信靠基督可胜过罪和胜过世界(约翰壹书3:2-3; 5:4)。这是激烈的斗争,我们实不可低估我们都在这样的斗争中。罪很普及,我们并没有瞧不起别人的余地。

有人只感到要「克服它」。要克服它,我们必须承认罪就是罪,我们亦需要下决心按神的恩典和供应做正确的事。不过这仅是个开始,我们还需要每日互相同行和协助,必须持续肯定我们在基督里的身份。这是「持续在神恩典中」的课题,让我们透过神的恩典「克服它」,在神的恩典中「持续克服它」!没有神的恩典,我们无法做到。

Q11. 基督徒应如何对待同性恋者?

我们应该以神向我们显示的爱和恩典对待他们。我们都是罪人,我们所犯的罪可能并不相同,但我们都悖逆神。我们已经、也持续从罪中得拯救,这应使我们能理解、真正关心和同情所有的人。耶稣的爱没有因人身处的境况离开他们;而是与基督的爱相遇。

基督徒不应期望那些不信的人,能像基督的追随者一般生活(哥林多前书 5:9-11 ),虽然我们不能纵容罪或参与罪(不管是性罪行或别的罪),但我们却应像基督一般,与所有的人推进友谊。没有空间容让我们偏袒、蔑视、不尊重或不仁;却有很多空间向他们展示我们正从神所领受的恩典。

基督徒应该协助那些相信的人活出基督追随者的样式。成长是一个终身的过程,信徒在生命旅程的不同时刻,都面对不同的挣扎,不管怎麽样,我们应按需要不断提供协助,门徒训练,鼓励、辅导、挑战和责备。

在我们的一生和与人相交的过程中,都应提供这种协助。一位自称基督徒的人,应坚持这种正常教会纪律的生活方式(马太福音18:15-22)。按此,同性恋和别的持久性的罪没有什么不同。这一切我们都必须以谦卑和爱的态度进行(加拉太书6:1)。

对于那些持续在同一罪中挣扎的人,应谨慎处理当中的关系。应时常以神的仁慈和恩典对待他们;然而,我们必须小心,任何的接触不要导致自己犯罪。

Q12. 我们如何帮助那些卷入同性恋行为的基督徒? 或怎样帮助那些曾经有同性恋经历,但决志成为基督徒的信徒? 或怎样帮助那些正面对同性引诱的人?

无论是色情、酗酒或吸烟成瘾,都会影响我们的头脑,使我们上瘾,使人陷入难以打破的模式和恶习,留下永不磨灭的影响。性活动持久地影响我们身份的认同。神的恩典给人赦免和洁净,神宽恕我们。但作为耶稣的门徒,需要终身追求。我们都有不同的经验、不同的挣扎,更不消说基督徒终身互相服事的挣扎了。

对伴侣维持在心思意念和道德上的纯洁是异性婚姻者终生在意识形态上的争战。性是一个深层次的问题,因它关乎我们作为一个人的核心问题。为何我们期望它与那些被同性相吸的人所面对的有分别呢? 有些人或许能立即、并完全地胜过它;大部分人可能像你或我,他们在某一天透过神的恩典才能胜过试探。当我们渐次明白我们在基督里的身份,这天将会来临。这并不是单单尝试管理罪便可,而是认识基督、效法基督之路。

VII. 资源

(这些资源除了特别声名的以外,是免费的)

A. 视听资源

Dallas Theological Seminary (音频+ 录像)
Homosexuality in the Context of Christian Sexual Ethics, Podcast http://www.dts.edu/thetable/play/discussing-homosexuality-sexuality-together/
Controversial Same-Sex Texts In The Bible, Podcast, http://www.dts.edu/thetable/play/queen-james-passages-old-testament/
Engaging with Sexual Identity Issues: Engaging with LGBT Persons, Podcast http://www.dts.edu/thetable/play/engaging-lgbt-persons/
Engaging with Sexual Identity Issues: Ministering to People Wrestling with Sexual Identity, Podcast http://www.dts.edu/thetable/play/ministering-to-people-wrestling-sexual-identity/

Greg Koukl (供购买音频)
Setting the Record Straight: The Bible and Homosexuality http://store.str.org/ProductDetails.asp?ProductCode=CD121

John MacArthur (音频 + 手稿)
Answering Key Questions About Homosexuality, http://www.gty.org/resources/sermons/GTY89/answering-key-questions-about-homosexuality
Homosexuality and the Bible (Selected Scriptures, 2 messages), http://www.gty.org/resources/sermon-series/12
God’s Plan for the Gay Agenda, http://www.gty.org/resources/articles/A170/Gods-Plan-for-the-Gay-Agenda

John Piper (音频 + 手稿 + 部份录像)
Why is Homosexuality Wrong?, (Some gracious thoughts on the brokenness of us all) http://www.desiringgod.org/resource-library/ask-pastor-john/why-is-homosexuality-wrong
Discerning the Will of God Concerning Homosexuality and Marriage (Romans 12:1-2), http://www.desiringgod.org/resource-library/sermons/discerning-the-will-of-god-concerning-homosexuality-and-marriage
The Other Dark Exchange: Homosexuality, Part 1 (Romans 1:24-28), (http://www.desiringgod.org/resource-library/sermons/the-other-dark-exchange-homosexuality-part-1
The Other Dark Exchange: Homosexuality, Part 2 (Romans 1:24-28), http://www.desiringgod.org/resource-library/sermons/the-other-dark-exchange-homosexuality-part-2
Bethlehem’s Position on Homosexuality (a sample of a church's attempt to practically live out a Biblical view of homosexuality), http:// www.desiringgod.org/resource-library/taste-see-articles/bethlehems-position-on-homosexuality

Frank Turek
March 16th podcast from his radio show dealing with same sex marriage issues, equality, and reason: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/feelings-or-reason-march-16/id337782458?i=136358756&mt=2 .

B. 文章资源

Wayne Grudem
The Bible and Homosexuality, reprinted in World Magazine with permission from Crossway. Original article is from the ESV Study Bible. http://www.worldmag.com/2013/04/the_bible_and_homosexuality

Stanton Jones
Sexual Orientation and Reason: On the Implications of False Beliefs about Homosexuality. Text version: http://www.wheaton.edu/CACE/Hot-Topics PDF Download: http://www.wheaton.edu/CACE/CACE-Print-Resources/Articles

Bible.org 网上文章:

Sue Bohlin
Homosexuality: Questions and Answers, http://bible.org/article/homosexuality-questions-and-answers
Can Homosexuals Change?, http://bible.org/article/can-homosexuals-change
Answers to Questions Most Asked by Gay-Identifying Youth, https://bible.org/article/answers-questions-most-asked-gay-identifying-youth
When Someone in Your Congregation Says “I’m Gay”, http://bible.org/article/when-someone-your-congregation-says-im-gay
Keys to Recovery from Same-Sex Attractions, http://bible.org/article/keys-recovery-same-sex-attractions

Bob Deffinbaugh
Israel’s Sodom and Gomorrah (Judges 19-21) http://bible.org/seriespage/israel%E2%80%99s-sodom-and-gomorrah-judges-19-21

Daniel Wallace
Review of Mel White’s ‘What the Bible Says—and Doesn’t Say—about Homosexuality’ (deals with Romans 1:26-27), http://bible.org/article/review-mel-white%E2%80%99s-what-bible-says %E2%80%94and-doesn%E2%80%99t-say%E2%80%94about-homosexuality

Christian Apologetics Research Ministry 文章:

Matt Slick
On "There is nothing wrong with two homosexuals getting married if they love each other", http://carm.org/love-homosexual-marriage

Stand To Reason 文学:

Greg Koukl
Paul, Romans, and Homosexuality, http://bible.org/article/paul-romans-and-homosexuality
Homosexuality Is Unnatural: An Is-Ought Fallacy?, http://bible.org/article/homosexuality-unnatural-ought-fallacy
Homosexuality: Giving Your Point of View, http://www.str.org/site/News2?page=NewsArticle&id=5302

Alen Shlemon
Homosexuality: Know the Truth and Speak it with Compassion, http://www.str.org/site/News2?id=8779

Cross Examined 文章:

Frank Turek (Articles + Radio show podcast)
The Case Against “Equality” Part 1 and 2 (Deals with the political issue of marriage and the claim of inequality in its not being applied to homosexual relationships.) http://townhall.com/columnists/frankturek/2013/02/28/the-case-against-equality-n1521881/page/full/ and http://townhall.com/columnists/frankturek/2013/03/01/the-case-against-equality-part-2-n1523048/page/full/

C. 神学期刊资源(需付月费,可点击这网站http://www.galaxie.com// 订阅)

Gary R. Gromacki
Why Be Concerned about Same-Sex Marriage? Journal of Ministry and Theology, 09:2 (Fall/05)

Guenther Haas
Hermeneutical Issues In The Use Of The Bible To Justify The Acceptance Of Homosexual Practice, Global Journal of Classical Theology, Vol 1, No. 2 (2/99), http://phc.edu/gj_haas_hermen.php

David E. Malick
The Condemnation of Homosexuality in 1 Corinthians 6:9, Bibliotheca Sacra, 150:600 (10/93)

Mark McGinniss
The Church’s Response To The Homosexual, Journal of Ministry and Theology, 14:2 (Fall/10)

P. Michael Ukleja
Homosexuality and the Old Testament, Bibliotheca Sacra, 140:559 (07/83)
The Bible and Homosexuality Part 2: Homosexuality in the New Testament, Bibliotheca Sacra, 140:560 (10/83)

D. 网志资源

Darrell Bock

http://blogs.bible.org/search/apachesolr_search/homosexuality?filters=tid%3A2789

Tim Challies

http://www.challies.com/search/google?cx=006311167884800022839%3Ajcs6rz6z3lw&cof=FORID%3A11&query=homosexuality&op=Search&form_build_id= form-acb816b66500dbffbe20717127db5612&form_id=google_cse_searchbox_form

Michael Patton

http://www.reclaimingthemind.org/blog/2013/03/is-limiting-marriage-to-unions-of-a-man-and-a-woman-discrimination/

E. 事工资源

Living Hope Ministries http://livehope.org/

Outpost Ministries http://www.outpostministries.org/home.htm

VIII. 详细目录

I. 导言

II. 旧约关于同性恋的教导

A. 利未记 18:22:律法禁止同性恋

B. 利未记 20:13: 律法对同性恋的惩罚

C. 创世记19:1-11:所多玛和蛾摩拉

D. 士师记 19:22 – 基比亚

旧约关于同性恋教导的结论

III. 新约关于同性恋的教导

A. 罗马书 1:20-32

B. 哥林多前书 6:9-11,继承神的国

C. 提摩太前书 1:8-15,最糟糕的罪人 — 保罗

新约关于同性恋的教导总结

IV. 耶稣对于性罪行的教导

A. 马太福音 5:27-28:罪最广阔的定义

B. 马太福音 19:3-9, 婚姻的明确定义

耶稣对性的教导的结论

V. 结论: 真诚的爱 - 我的背景

VI. 发问与回应

Q1. 甚么是同性恋?

Q2. 如何确定同性恋行为是对还是错?

Q3. 圣经对同性恋有甚么明确的教导?

Q4. 在圣经中同性恋常和偶像敬拜、强奸、卖淫或侵犯捆绑在一起,这是说这种组合在神面前被视为有问题或罪吗?

Q5. 曾参与同性恋行为便会下地狱吗?

Q6. 同性恋的罪比圣经中其它的罪更坏吗?

Q7. 你怎样解释婚姻仪式中主礼的神职人员或地方治安法官为两个同性别的人证婚?

Q8. 为何两个真心相爱的人,只因他们的性别相同就不能容许他们结婚?

Q9. 同性恋是遗传的吗? 如果它是遗传或是「自然」的,它在道德上便可接受吗?

Q10. 可有导致同性恋的因素,可使同性恋者无须负责任吗?

Q11. 基督徒应如何对待同性恋者?

Q12. 我们如何帮助那些卷入同性恋行为的基督徒? 或怎样帮助那些曾经有同性恋经历,但决志成为基督徒的信徒? 或怎样帮助那些正面对同性引诱的人?

VII. 资源

A. 视听资源

B. 文章资源

C. 神学期刊资源(需付月费,可点击这网站http://www.galaxie.com// 订阅)

D. 网志资源

E. 事工资源

VIII. 详细目录


1 这篇文章有三重目标:

  1. 在爱心中提供圣经对同性恋的教导。
  2. 建立教会: ( a ) 清楚展示神的恩典; (b) 提倡基督徒诚心去爱那些被识别为by LGBT 的人(女同性恋,男同性恋,双性恋,变性人);和(c)移除对圣经、耶稣和教会的错误观念。
  3. 提供进一步研究的数据 (a) 圣经和同性恋相关的经文,和(b)尝试真正活像基督的基督徒,怎样以最理想的方法在爱中表达真理。

2从道德禁令而不是简单的宗教规条来 讨论这些圣经的律法( 这可能以某种方式被忽视 ), 参看 P. Michael Ukleja, Homosexuality and the Old Testament, Bibliotheca Sacra, 140:559 (07/83). 这篇文章在结束时有一个很有帮助的讨论,这些律法对今天的基督徒继续适用。

3参 P. Michael Ukleja, Homosexuality and the Old Testament, Bibliotheca Sacra, 140:559 (07/83).

4参 NET Bible 犹大书 1:7注释;也参看这篇文章附注一作进一步讨论这节经文的全面诠释,与及这节经文和创世记的关连。

5有关「知道」这用语的讨论和它在这里清晰的意思,参看P. Michael Ukleja, Homosexuality and the Old Testament, Bibliotheca Sacra, 140:559 ( 07/83 )相关的讨论。 请注意,按上下文,他们并非单单想认识那人,屋主清晰知道他们的企图(和合本已翻译作「交合」)(士师记19:23)。 按他们对待那人的妾的方式,他们的意图昭然若揭。 这可得出那些人明确地有奸的意图。

6 Bob Deffinbaugh, Israel’s Sodom and Gomorrah (Judges 19-21) http://bible.org/seriespage/israel%E2%80%99s-sodom-and-gomorrah-judges-19-21.

7有关反对意见的 更详细的讨论和它欠缺可持续性, 参: Greg Koukl, Paul, Romans, and Homosexuality, http://bible.org/article/paul-romans-and-homosexuality, 和 Homosexuality Is Unnatural: An Is-Ought Fallacy?, http://bible.org/article/homosexuality-unnatural-ought-fallacy.

较从释经学的角度讨论,可参看: Guenther Haas, Hermeneutical Issues In The Use Of The Bible To Justify The Acceptance Of Homosexual Practice, Global Journal of Classical Theology, Vol 1, No. 2 (2/99), http://phc.edu/gj_haas_hermen.php 和 P. Michael Ukleja, The Bible and Homosexuality Part 2: Homosexuality in the New Testament, Bibliotheca Sacra , 140:560 (10/83).

从较着重诠释学的角度讨论,参看 : John Piper, The Other Dark Exchange: Homosexuality, Part 1 (Romans 1:24-28) (http://www.desiringgod.org/resource-library/sermons/ the-other-dark-exchange-homosexuality-part-1 and The Other Dark Exchange: Homosexuality, Part 2 (Romans 1:24-28), http://www.desiringgod.org/resource-library/sermons/ the-other-dark-exchange-homosexuality-part-2

8这观点不常被察觉,但在Bob Deffinbaugh的罗马书系列: Romans: The Righteousness of God. http://bible.org/seriespage/present-wrath-god-romans-115-32 中有洞见地提出。

9 Walter Bauer, A Greek-English Lexicon of the New Testament and Other Early Christian Literature, rev. and ed. Frederick W. Danker, 3rd ed. (Chicago: University of Chicago Press, 2000), 135, and 613.

10 P. Michael Ukleja, The Bible and Homosexuality Part 2: Homosexuality in the New Testament, Bibliotheca Sacra, 140:560 (10/83). 有关这些话和其他问题,如鸡奸,进一步讨论,请参: David E. Malick, The Condemnation of Homosexuality in 1 Corinthians 6:9, Bibliotheca Sacra, 150:600 (10/93). The NET Bible notes on 1 Corinthians 6:9 也很有启发,可点击: https://net.bible.org/#!bible/1+Corinthians+6.

11在这里我们指的不是终身的争斗 — 我们都居住在一个充满罪恶的世界和充满罪的肉身之中,我们可以透过耶稣基督和信仰征服它(约翰壹书5:3-5)。

12讨论在这里所使用的特定的词汇,请参看哥林多前书6:9-11的讨论,同一个希腊文用语「αρσενοκοιτης」用于哥林多前书6:9-11 和提摩太前书1:10。

13从他所说的和下面关于耶稣的教导,当我们继续看这篇文章,我们将看到他必已承认他在神面前的严重罪孽。 (参看他在罗马书 7:7-25关于自己的陈述。 )

14看结论所作出有关,我自己经验的进一步讨论。

15女同性恋、 男同性恋、 双性恋、 变性

16对这内客的审慎讨论,参看 Bob Deffinbaugh: http://bible.org/seriespage/avoiding-sin-adultery-matthew-527-30

17进一步讨论和重要的讨论,参看William F. Luck, Sr.在他书中的讨论: Bible.org: http://bible.org/series/ divorce-and-re-marriage-recovering-biblical-view

18作者在 Bible.org工作,持有达拉斯神学院神学硕士学位,你可点击这里与他联络。

19参看 Greg Koukl, http://bible.org/article/homosexuality-unnatural-ought-fallacy 有关实然、应然(is-ought )讨论的谬误,与及目的论(teleological)的论点与权利的关系。 另参看 Fred Turek’s 极有帮助的 2 part column, http://townhall.com/columnists/frankturek/2013/02/28/the-case-against-equality-n1521881/page /full/ and http://townhall.com/columnists/frankturek/2013/03/01/the-case-against-equality-part-2-n1523048/page/full/. 它们处理婚姻的政治议题和不平等地应用在同性恋关系的虚假宣称。 讨论这议题的声档,参Turek’s 在三月十六日的电台广播:https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/feelings-or-reason-march-16/id337782458 ?i=136358756&mt=2

20参看Matt Slick’s 在Christian Apologetics & Research Ministry 一篇浅谈爱和同性恋婚姻的文章: http:// carm.org/love-homosexual-marriage.

21参看脚注第十七点 Fred Turek 的资源列表。 Dr. Turek和这课题相关的书,对那些希望进一步研究这课题的人,无疑是很有帮助的资源:Correct, NOT Politically Correct: How Same-Sex Marriage Hurts Everyone .

22 按在Time.com 在2012年12月的一篇文章:despite intensive investigations ,到那时为止 ,科学家尚未能成功找到「同性恋遗传基因」。研究者在这篇文章中强调「它不是遗传学、不是 DNA、不是DNA 片段;它是表观遗传学。 」他提出了一种新理论,同性恋是由子宫里的激素附因子(epi-marks)相关。因此在这一阶段,除了没有发现遗传基因和没有DNA的关连,也没有什么得到科学证明。不同的理论正继续被讨论,点击网上文章http://healthland.time.com/2012/12/13/new-insight-into-the-epigenetic-roots-of-homosexuality/可连接一篇4/5/2013, 这个资料当然在几年内就会过时,然而它郑重地重申:纵使它以某种方式遗传,从逻辑上来说它未必是道德的。 参看文章别的参考资料,可以看到更全面的讨论。

Dr. Stanton Jones 在他科学研究最新的文章 “Sexual Orientation and Reason: On the Implications of False Beliefs about Homosexuality” ,有一个非常有用的分 析,连接他的文章,可点击 http://www.wheaton.edu/CACE/Hot-Topics ( PDF 档)或点击 http://www.wheaton.edu/CACE/CACE-Print-Resources/Articles (连接 4/15/2013 )

23说谎和遗传是否有关无法确定,但长期说谎者的大脑中确实有一些差异。 参http://bjp.rcpsych.org/content/187/4/320.abstract (连接 4/16/2013)

24参 John Piper’s 短文 / 频 “Why Homosexuality is sin?” 满有恩典地提醒我们这些真理。 http://www.desiringgod.org/resource-library/ask-pastor-john/why-is-homosexuality-wrong

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同性戀:按聖經教導的基督教觀點

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I. 導言

在許多社會中,同性戀問題引起爭議。對於一些社會來說,同性婚姻合法化已成為平等權利問題;對於很多社會來說,它也是一個宗教和道德的問題,因為聖經有相關的教導。這個問題引發了辯論、討論、爭論,有時在互動中甚至出現暴力,非常可悲。

有些人純粹從學術角度看待聖經對同性戀的觀點,這些人也許既不是基督徒、也不是同性戀者。這課題不會直接影響他們,只因它是當前的問題而產生興趣。對於另外一些人,卻很可能是切身問題,他們或許是一名基督徒、一名同性戀者或一名同性戀的基督徒。不管是那種情況,這篇文章旨在提供一個滿有恩典、愛和充滿真理的資源。因此,這篇文章將詳細按聖經的教導討論基督教對同性戀的觀點。1

不需多久,讀者便會發現這篇文章會朝著同性戀是罪這個結論前進。因以此為終點,有兩件事情需要先清楚說明,以避免任何誤解。

1. 作者、所有基督徒和非基督徒都犯罪,並且是罪人。這是所有人都充分平等地參與的可悲情況,它並不是獨特情況。

2. 這篇文章提出了「基督徒應如何回應聖經有關同性戀的教導」的邏輯結論。雖然它並不處理每一種情況,但卻提出回應這問題時應有的態度和心態:恩典和愛。基督徒對任何人都沒有使用暴力、侮辱或虐待的餘地。這篇文章是為了人與人之間以真正的愛與關懷而寫。

以此為目標,這篇文章會看看在舊約和新約有關同性戀的教導,耶穌關於性罪行的教導,每部分會有自己的總結,文章完結前有個人的評論。在文章後,還有發問與回應部份。此外,在這文章的末後,還提供了進一步資源。只要點擊下表,便可跳到相關的內容。

I. 導言

II. 舊約關於同性戀的教導

III. 新約關於同性戀的教導

IV. 耶穌對於性罪行的教導

V. 結論: 真誠的愛 - 我的背景

VI. 發問與回應

VII. 資源

VIII. 詳細目錄

II. 舊約關於同性戀的教導

在舊約中有四篇經文明確地討論同性戀。兩篇是律法書中禁止同性戀活動,另外兩篇是歷史事件:所多瑪 / 蛾摩拉和基比亞的事件。在這篇文章裡,我們不會嘗試回答每個因應經文的文本而提出的問題,因這已經在引用或列出的資源中處理了。但會清晰地確定聖經的觀點,那是基督徒應該持有的觀點。我們的討論從律法怎樣處理同性戀作開始,然後再看那兩篇敘事經文。

A. 利未記 18:22:律法禁止同性戀

利未記18:22:你不可與男人同睡交合,像與女人同睡交合一樣,這是可憎的事。

這律法直接禁止所有同性戀行為。不管他們是否兩廂情願,也沒有區別。經文出於和性相關的律法,在律法條文之後,雖然沒有列出後果,但這一張清單列出絕對不可以做的事。利未記第十八章所列出的事情,都被稱為「玷污」的事(利未記18:24),也稱為「可憎」的事(利未記18:27, 30)。中肯來說,經文並沒有把同性戀從其它的性罪行挑出來(有些性罪行被突顯),不過,同性戀卻被包括在內。不論犯同性戀,或是別的性罪行,這人「必從自己的族人中剪除」(利未記18:29)。原本居住在迦南的各族,因為犯了這些不同的性罪行,被神懲罰趕離該地(利未記18:24)。按律法,同性戀是對上帝的褻瀆。它和其它性罪行,都絕對不可在以色列存在。

B. 利未記 20:13: 律法對同性戀的懲罰

利未記 20:13:人若與男人茍合,像與女人一樣,他們二人行了可憎的事,總要把他們治死,罪要歸到他們身上。

在神權管治下的以色列,這律法直接指出犯同性戀所造成的後果。這章經文是關於犯了性罪行的審判和刑罰;而這節則詳細列出犯了同性戀罪行,二人都被判死刑。這似乎澄清了在利未記第十八章「必從自己的族人中剪除」是甚麼意思。故此,按律法,同性戀是犯罪得罪神,需要判處極刑。2

C. 創世記19:1-11:所多瑪和蛾摩拉

在創世記18:20-21,神宣告祂要毀滅所多瑪和蛾摩拉,因為「所多瑪和蛾摩拉的罪惡甚重,聲聞於我。」當兩名天使前往察看「他們所行的,果然盡像那達到我(耶和華)耳中的聲音一樣麼?」可是除了羅得外,城中所有人都沒有好好款待他們。事實上,全城的男人拼命想㚻姦(雞姦)他們。有人嘗試將這經文解作只是沒有好好款待,或與天使進行不自然關係。然而,經文並沒有指出城內有任何人知道他們是天使,相反,他們被城中各人和羅得稱為「男人」(創世記19:5, 8)(譯者註:中文聖經沒有明顯譯作「男人」);同樣地,按經文字面的最佳解釋,所多瑪和蛾摩拉的罪,不止是沒有好好接待,還包括同性戀行為。3 猶大書1:7證實這點:

猶大書1:7:又如所多瑪、蛾摩拉和周圍城邑的人也照他們一味的行淫,隨從逆性的情慾,就受永火的刑罰,作為鑑戒。

這節經文(對天使)逆性的情慾方面可能引起一些問題,但它一定超出待客和姦淫罪行。4 它告訴我們在所多瑪和蛾摩拉的唯一性罪行是企圖㚻姦天使(事實上,他們鄙視主動為他們提供異性替代者作為緩和 – 創世記19:9)。

因此,在賜下律法以前,神認為企圖㚻姦(那些人就是在眼都昏迷時仍想繼續)的行為是大惡,而導致這些城鎮完全毀滅。

D. 士師記 19:22 – 基比亞

在士師記第19章還有另一個沒有好好款待客人的例子,當中亦出現企圖㚻姦行為。在這事件中,雖然並非全城的男人都參與,卻「全然不管用」。在這裡,那群匪類接受那人的妾取代那人作為安撫,但那妾卻被他們凌辱至死。

這些行動導致以色列歷史上首次內戰,便雅憫支派更幾近滅絕。因基比亞人拒絕交出犯事的人而受審判,神允許這場戰爭作為制裁。(士師記20:18; 20:23; 20:28; 20:35)

就像今天許多的生活實況,導致這一切的罪,似有一連串的行動。首先,這些人試圖「作惡」和「知道」這些人的性別(19:22-23a)5 。第二,,因為它試圖要對正接受別人款待的客人進行「醜事」,使情況變得更複雜(士師記19:23下)。第三,他們整夜強姦和虐待那人的妾,使她死亡(士師記19:25-30)。第四,便雅憫支派其餘的人拒絕把犯事的人交出來接受處罰(士師記 20:13 )。

這故事握要地向各支派重述(士師記20:5),但卻沒有將焦點放在原本企圖㚻姦那人(士師記19:22-24)。重述似乎聚焦在實際發生的罪行,而不是那起初的企圖。可是那企圖佔較長的篇幅,並明顯標記為錯誤。因此,將它視為這事件被審判的部份原因是完全恰當的。若要進一步研究此事件,參 Bob Deffinbaugh 相關的文章。6

由此可見,神賜予律法後,企圖強姦同性別的人(㚻姦),導致神以內戰作為制裁的原因之一。

舊約關於同性戀教導的結論

在神賜予律法以先或在律法之下,以色列人和外邦人(非以色列人),不管在自願或非自願的情況,同性戀都被視為罪,會帶來神的審判和死亡。

在賜予律法以前,這並非神唯一因人的罪進行直接和大規模的審判(參創世記第六章洪水事件,是更重的審判,它不經意地沒有提及同性戀活動)。賜予律法後,神同樣地審判其它罪行(參列王紀下17章,神審判拜偶像和相關的罪;第19章審判亞述;第24-25章審判猶大)。

這表明神絕對不矮化(或擴大)任何罪,並不斷地宣告很多行為是罪,而且施予懲罰,當中並沒有不公義。神的行動並不限於某一種罪行,我們可以從舊約舉出很多的例子,顯示祂參與處理罪。這些強調偶像崇拜、同性戀和其它的罪的審判,不會使我們感到驚訝,因為律法其中一個目的,便是要清楚揭示罪就是罪,並以神的公義標準作判斷(羅馬書7:7-14)。雖然,拜偶像的罪相對各樣的性罪行和它們背後的拜偶像行為,可能受到更嚴厲的懲罰和警告(參利未記18:24-30和上述列出的審判)

舊約故事並不在這裡,因為還可以舉出許多神賜下恩典的例子:挪亞和他的家人、羅得和他的家人、亞伯拉罕、以撒、 雅各、 約瑟、 摩西和亞倫、大衛(恩典的典型例子,在律法下,他犯了該死的罪)、以色列和猶大的餘民、賜下祭祀制度、約拿和尼尼微等。雖然神已定下公義的標準,但祂的恩慈也是不變的。

III. 新約關於同性戀的教導

在新約有多處經文總體上禁止「不道德性行為」(參使徒行傳15:20; 15:29;帖撒羅尼迦前書4:3;希伯來書13:4;啟示錄21:8, 22:15)。這些命令都包括同性戀在內。不過,其中三篇經文明確地談論同性戀。第一篇對同性戀詳加探討,而另外兩篇卻把同性戀和其它的罪一起列出來。如舊約部分的討論,這裡不會試圖討論文本可能所產生的每個問題,而將目標放在這些經文對同性戀的教導和基督教基於這些經文對同性戀的觀點。如前,那些渴望深入了解的讀者,可參考文末所列出來的資源。

A. 羅馬書 1:20-32

羅馬書1:20-32:  20 自從創造天地以來,神的永能和神性是明明可知的,雖不是眼見,但藉着所造之物就可以曉得,叫人無可推諉。 21 因為他們雖然知道神,卻不當作神榮耀他,也不感謝他,他們的思想反而變為虛妄,麻木的心昏暗了。 22 他們自以為聰明,反成了愚拙, 23 將不能朽壞之神的榮耀,換成必朽壞的人、飛禽、走獸和爬蟲的形像。

24 所以神任憑他們隨着心裏的情慾行污穢的事,彼此玷辱自己的身體。 25 他們以虛謊代替神的真實,去敬拜事奉受造之物,不敬拜那造物的主。主乃是可稱頌的,直到永遠。阿們。

26 為這緣故,神任憑他們放縱可羞恥的情慾。他們的女人,把順性的用處變為逆性的用處; 27 男人也是如此,棄了與女人順性的交往,慾火攻心,男和男彼此貪戀行可羞恥的事,就在自己身上受這過失當得的刑罰。

28 他們既然故意不承認神,神就任憑他們存邪僻的心行那些不該行的事。 29 他們就裝滿了各樣不義、邪惡、貪婪、惡毒;滿心是嫉妒、兇殺、爭競、詭詐、毒恨;又是讒毀的、 30 說是非的、怨恨神的,侮慢人的、高傲的、自誇的、捏造各樣惡事的、違背父母的、 31 麻木的、背約的、無情的、無惻隱之心的。 32 他們雖知道神公義的判定:行這樣事的人是該死的,然而他們不但自己去行,還贊同別人去行。

這段經文比新約其他經文更廣泛地討論同性戀,然而同性戀卻不是本段經文的首要主題。保羅的重點是要清楚地解釋福音。為了做到這一點,它需要顯示所有人都在神的審判和譴責下,故此需要福音。保羅的聲明從神的永能和神性,可藉着所造之物就可以曉得,叫人無可推諉。神的義怒在一切不虔不義的人身上(羅馬書第一章)。接著,他指出當我們指摘別人的罪的時候,我們就是定自己的罪(羅馬書第二章)。就是擁有神的律法的猶太人,因他們所犯的罪,同樣在神的審判之下。此外,他們沒有能力糾正這種情況(羅馬書第二至三章)。因此,不管一個人是不是在律法之下,都沒有分別,所有人都在神不偏不倚的審判下。這解釋為神在基督裡的恩典鋪路,這是福音的好信息。這確是我們從這種困境中被拯救的方法。

故此同性戀和別的罪在這段經文一起出現,顯示為甚麼神向人發怒,為何人在神面前難辭其咎。在轉往反面論證以先,保羅刻意從好信息開始分享。神的公義從福音顯明出來,這福音需要憑著信來接受(羅馬書1:17)。相反,神的憤怒則在不虔不義的人顯示出來(羅馬書1:18)。在那裡可以見到這些不虔不義的人?被抑制的真理又可以在那裡見到呢?它們在不可饒恕的偶像崇拜中顯示出來。所有人都可以透過受造之物,看到那原本看不到的神的屬性、神的大能和本質(羅馬書1:19-20),可是人不敬拜創造主,卻敬拜偶像和受造之物(羅馬書1:23-25)。大自然的存在需要一位設計者,這真理被抑壓,並且轉移敬拜個人和受造之物。神對這些行為的其中一個審判,就是任由他們隨著心裡的情慾而行(羅馬書1:24),讓他們受這過失當得的刑罰,當中特別提到同性戀(羅馬書1:26-28),這裡簡要地列出其它的罪(羅馬書1:29-32)。

有人反對使用這段經文來討論同性戀,指這段經文只能用於異性戀的人犯了同性茍合的行為(或 「濫用」了同性戀這詞),它不可以應用於「天生」有同性戀傾向和只有一個同性伴侶的人身上(或某種形式的「婚姻」),若加以檢視,這並不成立。保羅在這裡並不是談「自然」傾向,他說的是功能:神設計了男性和女性的功能。按這段經文,人透過同性戀行為反抗這些功能。7

我們可以從這段經文看到,神將同性戀列為叛逆祂的其中一個例子,他們需要承擔後果。在這裡,雖然同性戀並不是唯一被列出來的罪,但卻被突顯出來。看來這個例子被突顯出來是因為它截然違反了神明確的設計。神按自己的形像造人(創世記1:27),一男一女的婚姻是神的配套設計(創世記2:22-25)。同性戀行為清晰地違反了神的計劃,那是從本質層面明顯地宣告叛逆神。它宣告神的設計和計劃是錯誤的、是不足夠的。如經文所列,同性戀和別的罪都會得到神即時的(縱使不是終極的)刑罰。罪為自己帶來刑罰,種的是甚麼,收的也是甚麼。8  此外,刻意將神的真理換作謊言,於是神將他們交給他們自己邪僻的心,一個人原有分辨道德是非對錯的能力,可能嚴重受損(羅馬書1:28)。

為免任何人變得自義,保羅即時表明這一切都在被譴責的罪惡之下。事實上,譴責別人的罪即譴責自己(羅馬書2:1-5)。保羅可以用這有意義的方式分享,唯一的原因是他不倚靠自己的義,他倚靠神的義;這義,是神的恩典在基督裡已經加給他,他的罪已經被赦免了。他提出這點並不是要指摘他人以表明自己有義;他清楚地表明在每個人裡罪確實存在,神的恩典救了他,所以他能夠那些需要被拯救的人分享,讓他樣得到神恩典。

保羅在羅馬書表達的目的和論點,基督徒在今天仍然適合和別人分享。我們同樣是罪人,我們都在神的盛怒之下。我也是個罪人,同樣被這些真理審判。透過神的恩典,我們可以得到赦免。即使我們有這恩典,在我們裡頭,並不比別人好一些。我們沒有甚麼可誇口的這顯示出神的工作就是那麼人驚歎,當我們還極力地敵對祂的時候,祂愛我們,救贖我們,祂的愛和救贖是無法言喻。這恩典改變了我們,還繼續改變我們的生命,這將使我們永恆地與神同在。這恩典是給所有人的,不分性別、 種族、 國籍、 族裔、階層、或其它分野的群體,沒有人被排除在這恩典以外。基督徒應將這恩典宣揚給其他人,因為這是神的真恩。

B. 哥林多前書 6:9-11,繼承神的國

哥林多前書 6:9-11:9 你們豈不知,不義的人不能承受神的國?不要被騙,無論是淫亂的、拜偶像的、姦淫的、作孌童的、同性戀的、 10 偷竊的、貪婪的、醉酒的、辱罵的、勒索的,都不能承受神的國。 11 你們中間也有人從前是這樣,但如今你們奉主耶穌基督的名,並藉着我們神的靈,已經洗淨,成聖稱義了。

有人質疑這經文裡兩個使用於同性戀的希臘文。他們將這兩個字解釋作溫和的不道德行為(μαλακος)和男妓(αρσενοκοιτης)。可是,這樣翻譯和權威的聖經希臘辭典(BDAG)有分歧。9   除此以外,它基本上和大多數 (如果不是全部 )標準英語詞典並不一致,這樣的翻譯不好。10  這兩個希臘文,按上下文,確指同性戀關係中兩個不同的角色。

這無疑是一個強烈、明確和毫不含糊的聲明,這聲明包括甚麼是罪和罪的後果,以及從這些罪中唯一得救的途徑。經文中,保羅強烈地提醒哥林多教會,這樣的行為並不符合神的國的要求。在這卷書和這段經文,保羅處理好些困擾著教會的行為和道德問題。他們過往的行為,完全不恰當地影響著他們目前的生命。顯然,情況已經變得很糟糕,保羅在下一封信甚至質疑他們,要求他們作自我反省,看看它們是否已成真正的信徒(哥林多後書13:5)。

他們不會因這些罪本身,或在這些罪裡,而不可以真正接受神的恩典,成為神的兒女。只是繼續在這些罪中,作為生命的方式,11  則顯明他們並非真信徒,不能承受神的國(參約翰壹書第三章)。從這段經文,我們可以明確地看到有些哥林多信徒,他們在這樣的生命方式中成為基督徒,這對我們今天很有用。我們可從中得出兩個結論:

1. 和其它的罪一樣,同性戀行為可以得到神的赦免。神的恩典並不限於這罪或那罪。就如羅馬書5:20-21所寫:

20 律法的加入,叫過犯顯多;只是罪在那裏顯多,恩典就更倍增了。21 就如罪以死掌權,照樣恩典也以義掌權,使人藉我們的主耶穌基督得永生。

2. 有些基督徒離開這些罪,他們應該是最渴望和別人分享神的恩典的人。就如哥林多後書5:17-21所述:

17 因此,若有人在基督裏,他就是新造的人,舊事已過,看哪,新的已經來臨了。 18 一切都是出於神,他藉着基督使我們與他和好,又將勸人與他和好的職分賜給我們; 19 換句話說,神在基督裏叫世人與自己和好,不將他們的過犯歸到他們身上,並且將這和好的道理給了我們。 20 所以我們是基督的使者,就好像神藉我們勸你們一般。我們替基督求你們「與神和好」 21 神使那無罪的替我們成為罪,好叫我們在他裏面成為神的義。

C. 提摩太前書 1:8-15,最糟糕的罪人 — 保羅

提摩太前書 1:8-15:8 但我們知道律法是好的,只要人用得合宜, 9 瞭解到律法不是為義人設立的,乃是為不法和叛逆的,不虔誠和犯罪的,不聖潔和褻瀆的,弒父母的,謀殺的, 10 淫蕩的,同性戀的,綁票的,說謊話的,並起假誓的,就是為不依從真道而活的人設立的。 11 這話是遵照可稱頌之神交託我的榮耀的福音。

12 我感謝那給我力量的,我們的主基督耶穌,因他以我有忠心,派我職份。 13 雖然我從前是褻瀆神的,逼迫人的,和傲慢的,然而我還蒙了憐憫,因那些是我不信、無知的時候作的。 14 並且我主的恩是格外豐盛,使我在基督耶穌裏有信心和愛心。 15 「基督耶穌降世,為要拯救罪人。」這話是可信的,是配得完全接受的。在罪人中我是個罪魁!

保羅在這段經文指出律法的目的,與誤用律法的人的看法形成對比(提摩太前書1:6-7),律法把人的罪和需要「救恩」顯明出來。保羅所列出的這些例子中,同性戀清晰地被列入不義之中。12  有別於這裡虛假的「義人」(第9節),我們必須留意耶穌是唯一的義人(希伯來書4:15,羅馬書3:10-24)。

有些人嘗試讓他們看來像正義的人,這不應與真正的正義混淆。他們會得到神的審判,因為神按照祂聖潔的標準和準繩來審判。他們的嘗試,只能在他們的腦子裡把自己從神的恩典抽離。他們若不承認他們的需要,神的恩典又怎能適用在他們身上呢?

被列出的罪行包括同性戀和許許多多被人認為是「最糟糕」的罪:弒父母的,謀殺的,淫蕩的,同性戀的,綁票的,褻瀆和目無法紀。有趣的是保羅列出這些罪後,他說底線是耶穌基督降生來到這個世界拯救罪人,而他(保羅)卻是罪魁。我們從別的經文知道保羅按律法是無可指摘的(腓立比書3:6)13,保羅並沒有犯某些罪行或律法中最小的一條,以致他十惡不赦;然而,他知道他在神的面前誠然是最壞。毫無疑問,我也是罪人中最糟糕的一個。感謝神透過基督,讓我在祂裡面,不再受審判。你不也需要嗎?

新約關於同性戀的教導總結

誠然,同性戀是罪;它並非沒有問題,它是不道德的。它和別的罪一樣,結出受到神審判的果子,上面提及的經文已經確認這點。可是這並未完結,我們討論同性戀的基督教觀點同樣不應這樣完結。聖經和基督教對同性戀的觀點是同性戀是錯誤的,但神有恩典,那恩典就如神給我們的一樣,使所有人從罪中得釋放。神的恩典能給人帶來新生命,並且在向前行的每一步得到幫助。就如耶穌第一次來到世上時所說:

約翰福音3:16-21:16 神愛世人,甚至將他的獨生子賜給他們,叫一切信他的,不至滅亡,反得永生。 17 因為神差他的兒子到世上來,不是要定世人的罪,乃是要叫世人藉他得救。 18 信他的人,不被定罪;不信的人,罪已經定了,因為他不信神獨生子的名。 19 光來到世間,世人因自己的行為邪惡,不愛光,反而愛黑暗,這就是他們被定罪的理由。 20 凡作惡的便恨光,不肯接近光,因為恐怕他們的行為被顯露出來。 21 但行真理的必愛接近光,這就顯出他所行的是靠神而行。

因我曾看見我生命中罪的威力,所以每當我看到聖經稱某些東西為罪、或可憎惡的、或某人做了些甚麼不能承受神的國時,我會即時想到我生命中的罪。我的罪同樣是神所厭惡的:

箴言 6:16-19: 16 耶和華所恨惡的有六樣,連他憎惡的共有七樣:17 就是高傲的眼,撒謊的舌,流無辜人血的手,18 圖謀惡計的心,飛跑行惡的腳,19 吐謊言的假見證,並家庭中佈散不睦的人。

我經常記起我曾經歷的痛苦、憤怒、空虛和絕望。14  我無法控制自己,但我卻希望其他在這種處境的人,能夠認識神的愛和恩典。神的愛和恩典大大改變了我的生命,我亦希望你能得釋放。

耶穌在地上生活時曾經歷掙扎,祂能夠真正瞭解和同情我們的弱點;因祂像我們一樣,凡事受過試探,可是祂卻沒有犯罪(希伯來書4:15);只有祂能勝過所有的罪,並在我們這生命的道路上伴著我們一起往前走。當然我並沒有經歷各種不同的處境,但我也在我的生命中看到足夠的罪。以下是我對你的三個願望:

  1. 我希望沒有任何一個人像我經歷罪所產生的痛苦與苦果。
  2. 我希望所有人都能經歷基督的恩典、愛與赦免,並得著基督所賜永恆的新生命。
  3. 我希望透過基督所加添給我的能力,我能夠繼續成長、更像主耶穌。只有這樣才能使我在愛中,用我的語言和行動,向你更好地表達祂的真理。

你會在我旁邊與我一起走嗎?

同樣地,如果你已經真真正正接受這恩典,你會把它活出來,與及在愛中和別人分享嗎?

IV. 耶穌對於性的教導

當討論耶穌有關同性戀或LGBT(同性戀)15 的生活方式時,總有人嘗試宣稱耶穌從來沒有處理這個問題。然而這並不準確。耶穌(和神一樣)是一位獨特的老師,祂時常權威性地處理事件背後的原則,這些原則並不是為了單一事件,而是在整個範疇內可能發生的各種情況。祂經常透過辨別人的心思意念與企圖,揭穿我們罪惡的心,並揭示祂聖潔的標準。以下兩個例子給我們詳細表明我們都虧缺了神的榮耀,並且迫切需要神的恩典。

A. 馬太福音 5:27-28:罪最廣闊的定義

馬太福音5:27-28: 27 「你們聽見有話說:『不可姦淫。』 28 只是我告訴你們,凡看見婦女就動淫念的,這人心裏已經與她犯姦淫了。」

耶穌清楚指出神的標準,對與錯並不單單按外在的行為評定,神察看我們的心思意念。甚至幻想不道德的事,也是錯誤的。16

耶穌的教導直接處理已婚人士在肉體和思想上犯奸淫。可是當我們深入了解耶穌教導的原則,便會看到耶穌實際涉及更廣闊的範疇。耶穌向社會和宗教領袖指出,罪惡超出他們允許自己在思想和行為上所定的界限。在前一段經文,耶穌討論謀殺(馬太福音5:21-26),祂指出向弟兄動怒或侮辱弟兄,都會帶來神的審判,無需實際殺人。明顯地,神的標準遠超出只按行動作判斷,同時亦清楚地顯示(與宗教領袖自義的觀點明顯形成對比)他們無法遵守。律法首要指出我們的罪,並驅使我們信靠神,並接受祂為我們提供的恩典。

性罪行遠遠超出犯奸淫或實際的行動;憤怒和關係破裂的罪,也遠遠超出兄弟之間的問題。這些例子和具體案例亦遠遠超出「律法的條文」。人會限制律法的應用範圍,讓他們看起來聖潔公義。儘管如此,神是不會受騙的。儘管我們淡化不同的罪如:說謊、作弊、偷竊、嫉妒、貪婪、通姦、巫術、色情、淫亂、詐騙、醉酒、同性戀或任何其他不義的行為。耶穌對罪的定義比我們所願意接納的廣闊多了,祂刻意表明祂不會同意我們處理神的道的方式。耶穌的倫理觀,是律法的一部份,明顯適用於同性戀行為(利未記18:22, 20:13),這些律法不會是無效的(路加福音16:17)。

B. 馬太福音 19:3-9, 婚姻的明確定義

馬太福音 19:3-9: 3 有幾個法利賽人來試探耶穌說:「人因任何原因和妻子離婚都合法嗎?」 4 耶穌回答:「那起初造人的,是造男造女5 並且說:『因此,人要離開父母,與妻子連合,二人成為一體。』這經你們沒有念過嗎? 6 既然如此,夫妻不再是兩個人,乃是一體的了。所以神配合的,人不可分開。」 7 法利賽人又說:「這樣,為甚麼摩西吩咐只要給妻子一張離婚書,就可以和她離婚呢?」 8 耶穌說:「摩西因為你們的心硬,所以才准你們和妻子離婚,但起初並不是這樣。 9 只是我告訴你們,若不是因淫亂的緣故,離婚再娶的就是犯姦淫了。」

在這裡,耶穌明確地表明了神對男人、女人和婚姻的計劃。耶穌回答關係問題的基礎,是回到神起初的計劃與設計。神的計劃與設計被我們充滿罪惡的心和心裡剛硬,盡力將它遮蔽和扭曲。這段經文談論離婚、不道德行為和奸淫。耶穌在這裡重申各種可能改變神起初的設計,同樣是對抗神的計畫。透過肯定神的造物計畫,耶穌聲明任何與這設計不乎的活動,是破壞、 無效,並錯誤的。唯一豁免死罪的情況是另一方犯奸淫(這使安分守己的一方不再受約束)17。例如離婚這類不道德的行為,是宣告神的提供和設計不足;同性戀亦然。

在大多數社會中,這對與錯的標準對那些涉及不道德、 同居、一夜情、通姦、離婚,虐待兒童、色情等,比那些同性戀的群體有更深遠的影響(以數量而言)。可是神的道和神的標準,並不是將我們與其他人的行為作比較,在神面前它們都是錯的。事實上,這些情況都需要如實和在愛心中面對。它們完全違反了神起初的設計與計畫,它們都應受到神的審判。按神的標準,我們都是失敗者,所有人不論是在思想或行為上都有罪,未能達到神的標準。耶穌如此強烈的聲明,它的好處就像我認識到我所做的(仍在做的)是邪惡的,我絕望了,我不能解決這個問題,我被毀壞。我們必須讓它引導我們往奇異恩典、愛、寬恕和耶穌基督轉化生命的大能,通過耶穌基督在十字架上的救贖工作,將我們的刑罰也釘在十字架上,在那裡,我們可以得到新的生命(約翰福音10:9-11)。

耶穌對性罪行的教導的結論

耶穌的教導讓我們看到我們沒有一個人,可以從這些按神的標準所作有關性與婚姻的教導的規管之下逃脫。耶穌親自教導性與婚姻的倫理,它更清楚和更嚴謹地強調神原本的計劃只接受一夫一妻的異性結合,除此以外,其它的都無效,甚至帶有情慾的思想也不接受。

對於那些在一男一女的夫妻制度這真理以外參與異性戀或同性戀的人,有廣泛和深遠的影響;耶穌宣告這些關係無效,並且是罪。

縱使有些人已不再參與這些罪行,但這些真理仍有影響力。事實是你和我在內裡可能以某種方式與它鬥爭,直到我們離世的那天。我和很多清醒的九十後對話,從中察覺到當我們仍在這個被罪敗壞的身體時,有些事情是不會改變的。作為基督徒,如果我們每日倚靠神的恩典,我們希望親切地與其他人分享這恩典。如果我們不是倚靠那恩典,我們是活在謊言中,並且假裝比我們的實況聖潔。我們擁有的唯一聖潔是耶穌基督在我們裡面工作,我們的聖潔是祂給我們的,我們沒有自傲或誇口的餘地。

不管我們的罪是外在的,還是內在的;不管我們的本性是雙性戀,還是同性戀;不管我們所犯的能看見,還是不能看見,如果我們繼續這種行為,可以肯定這些罪惡將慢慢地摧毀我們的生命。這些行為使我們無法活出神的計劃或達到祂的標準。要解決這問題,神在基督耶穌裡的恩典是唯一的答案。(使徒行傳 4:12,提多書 3:3-7)

V. 結論: 真誠的愛 - 我的背景

聖經對人本質的描述是真實的。聖經告訴我們,我們都沒有達到神公義的標準;在神面前,我們全都不義(羅馬書3:10-23)。世上其它宗教為人提供通過某種方式,讓人可以靠自我的努力實現到達天堂的希望。聖經卻沒有這樣做,相反,聖經告訴我們神的標準是人不可能達到的。

18 曾親自發現這些標準不可能遵守,它導至我生命中最糟糕的時期,那時我正值青少年期。我從小學習聖經,並曾經因耶穌在十字架上的代贖,我求祂拯救我。可是,當我漸長,我竟讓驕傲和自滿勝過了我,我開始為某特定的罪掙扎;我明白我是錯的,我清楚知道聖經說的是甚麼。接著,我的學業開始受影響,我亦知道沒有甚麼比我的創造主和我的關係更重要,可是我的心太冷,只有空洞的禱告,時間就這樣消逝。我沒有自殺的唯一理由是因為我知道自殺也是罪。這時期的空虛與絕望,是我生命中最糟糕的經歷。罪控制了我的生活。我知道它是空虛的,而且具破壞性;雖然我知道有美好的事,可是,我無法解決我的心思意念,我無法停止犯罪。有一段時期,我曾嘗試不理它,但那揮之不去的思想與現實,總是潛伏著。真相是我沒有遵守神的標準、我並不聖潔,我應得的只有神的審判。

幸而神介入我的生命。對我來說無法克服的事,對神來說卻不是不可能。祂透過我當時所讀的經文和我從收音機聽到的信息,打開了我的眼睛,讓我看到其餘的真理。

這段子,我日記所記載的,是我每天的失敗、我的心對神是怎樣的剛硬、我的掙扎、我的憤怒、我罪性的實況。我知我應當悔改,但我冰冷的心使我無法做到……突然間我卻欣喜若狂地感謝神,因祂使人驚歎的愛而感謝祂。

發生了什麼事?隨著時間的推移,我意識到我的罪,並且正在自我毀滅的情況下,我完全明白我無能為力,我無法單靠自己的能力處理我生命中的問題。我不能賺取神的愛、神的認可或寬恕。在我的驕傲與自滿中,我需要看到我的真實境況,以至我能夠虛己,把自己完全投入和依靠神的恩典。當我看到了實情,並把自己完完全全向神降服,祂開了我的眼睛,讓我確切地明白祂的愛與恩典。

神的恩典、憐憫和幫助超越兒時的一次性經歷,延伸至一個年輕男子每日實實在在的經歷。只有在神的加力和恩典下,我初嚐從罪中得拯救和永遠的拯救。同樣,只有持續在這恩典中,我才可以每天活出合神心意的生活方式。神工作的大能將我的生命完全轉化。它能把我的邪惡、驕傲和充滿罪的生活,轉化成愈來愈像主耶穌那「不可能」的生活方式。

自此,我強烈地渴望和別人分享。我不想任何人重蹈我的覆轍 -那被罪捆綁,受憤怒和絕望折磨的痛苦日子。我並沒有「做」什麼來賺取神的愛或「做」什麼來得到它,亦沒有神奇公式。不知神使用甚麼方法幫我看見我的罪的真面目,不知甚麼緣故我坦率地在祂面前承認我的罪和接受了祂無法抗拒的愛、恩典和寬恕,祂並幫助我克服我的罪。雖然我早就知道這些事實,但神在那個時候把它們放在我的心和生活中,我降服了,憑著單純的信心,我把生命託付祂。就如祂的死亡、埋葬與復活戰勝了罪,祂戰勝了我的罪。自那時起,我知道我的罪已被戰勝,我會好起來。在我這生,祂會每日與我一起,幫助我面對每天的掙扎;我只要繼續依靠祂,祂會以信實待我。祂確實如此。

這和按聖經教導的基督教同性戀觀點有甚麼關係呢?情況好像我的罪,最初阻礙我進神的國;好像我的罪和驕傲奴役我,因我不斷向我的罪屈服,差點兒就毀了我的生命。任何別的罪也會對你做成相同的傷害

在我掙扎的初期,聖經已使我明白我的罪;或許你的情況並不相同。或許在你的腦海中,你還有一些疑問。在附註、資源和文章末端的詳細目錄所列出的文章,我極力建議你閱讀它們。

至於那些已接受聖經真理,並已明白這罪和別的罪的人,最理想就是讀福音書(羅馬書對那些注重細節的人也可能有幫助)。你會讀到基督為我們做了甚麼,使我們從罪中得釋放。願神的愛也降臨在你的身上;也給你的生命帶來如給我的改變。

對於那些以聖經怎樣看同性戀作為一個學術性問題的人,請記著:所有罪都會奴役你,使你得到神公義的審判,就如罪對我所作的一樣。在神面前,社會能接納的罪依然是罪;然而,神卻為我們預備了在基督裡的寬恕、救贖和自由。

不管你發現自己在那一種情況,我也會與你一起向神祈求:祈求耶穌基督把賜給我的自由也賜給你。那自由我不是賺取的,因我過於高傲,以至我太晚才接受。請你不要把自己陷於我曾經歷的苦楚,也不要等待以至為時已晚。若神能叫耶穌從死裡復活,寬恕我的罪,勝過我的掙扎和每天加給我幫助,那麼,祂同樣能使你得釋放。在祂裡面,我們的罪所當受的審判得以移除。(羅馬書第八章)

最後,那些相信耶穌基督的信徒,我鼓勵你從聖經的角度來思考這個問題,並每天追隨主,讓祂處理你的罪和轉化你的生命。當我們這樣做,我們將會被預備好,向同樣在罪的困境中的人分享。需要詳細資訊,請參閱短文: https://bible.org/article/homosexuality-and-church.

VI. 發問與回應

Q1. 甚麼是同性戀?

同性戀是向同一性別的人性慾的表達。

Q2. 如何確定同性戀行為是對還是錯?

要確定任何事情的做法是對或錯,需要一個標準來衡量。唯一的權威是那位擁有萬物主權的造物主。神已將祂的道透過聖經賜給人,可作為任何事情作準則,包括:同性戀、道德的對與錯……文化和個人喜好各不相同,但創造萬物之主所定立的準則,卻無差異。

Q3. 聖經對同性戀有甚麼明確的教導?

舊約和新約聖經都明確教導同性戀是罪。聖經亦明確教導神救贖的恩典是神自己付贖價,透過耶穌基督的受死、埋葬、復活使各種各樣的罪人與神自己復和。上文在新約部份的結論已簡要地指出這點。「聖經和基督教的觀點都認為同性戀是錯誤的,但神的恩典,給所有人提供從罪的綑綁中得自由的途徑,就如加給我們的恩典相同。」(詳情請參看上文)

Q4. 在聖經中同性戀常和偶像敬拜、強姦、賣淫或侵犯綑綁在一起,這是說這種組合在神面前被視為有問題或罪嗎?

在聖經中有關同性戀的參考經文,確與其它的罪一起談論(按上文所引用經文的討論,很容易發現這一點);但若說同性戀與其它罪行混合而使同性戀是罪則不正確。就是單單閱讀有關同性戀的經文,就會發現同性戀行為被確定是錯誤的。例如:羅馬書第一章「順性」被變作和捨棄(羅馬書1:26-27)、做出「羞恥的事」(羅馬書1:27),同性戀違反神創造時的設計。因為所有的罪惡都是偶像崇拜和叛逆神,所以它們在文本中被放在一起並不足為奇。參看這篇文章羅馬書第一章的附註,為這議題作進一步討論。請特別留意 Guenther Haas 出自《Global Journal of Classical Theology, Vol 1, No. 2 (2/99), http://phc.edu/gj_haas_hermen.php》的文章《Hermeneutical Issues In The Use Of The Bible To Justify The Acceptance Of Homosexual Practice》。

Q5. 曾參與同性戀行為便會下地獄嗎?

不,耶穌來到世上為人的罪承擔刑罰,為那些願意相信祂所作的工的人提供赦免。任何真心相信祂的人不會進地獄,同性戀和其它的罪的情況相同,可得到赦免;從反面來看,同性戀和別的罪一樣,需要寬恕,需要透過神的恩典來克服。細節請參看上文相關經文的討論。

Q6. 同性戀的罪比聖經中其它的罪更壞嗎?

聖經並沒有明顯地把罪分「等級」,因此這是一條很難回答的問題。另一方面,耶穌曾說若在迦百農所行的神蹟,如果行在所多瑪,那城還會存留到今天(因她會悔改,就不會被審判)。耶穌還說在審判的日子,所多瑪所受的,比迦百農還輕呢(馬太福音11:23-24)。這似乎顯示神審判的嚴厲程度,取決於對神的知識和所看見的見證而有所不同。那些知道「更多」的人,會受更重的刑罰。在另一方面,羅馬書第一章確實刻意將同性戀作為持久悖逆神和被審判的例子。有趣的是,這段經文似述說那些人十分理解同性戀行為的罪性,縱使他們認識神和神的審判,他們仍追求他們所做的,還鼓勵別人也這樣做。從這些例子,我們可以看到聖經並沒有直接回答這問題,但它卻顯示不管你犯的是甚麼罪,愈是刻意犯罪,神的審判愈嚴厲。聖經卻清晰地回答了比這更重要的另一個有關同性戀的問題 – 神的恩典是否足以拯救和使人脫離這種罪孽。答案是肯定足夠的。

Q7. 你怎樣解釋婚姻儀式中主禮的神職人員或地方治安法官為兩個同性別的人證婚?

有很多地區的政府已經把這種做法合法化,並正式承認同性婚姻。這確實給予他們法律上的權限,而對於很多人來說,這使它看來得到道德上的認可。然而,只有神能夠真正給予道德上的准許,神宣告同性戀是罪,基督徒應以真理和愛心回應,好像回應所有別的罪一般。有些神職人員和教派宣稱基督徒應容許同性婚姻,他們的行動並沒有得到聖經或神的認可。顯而易見,他們的行動與這篇文章看到的聖經真理相違。

Q8. 為何兩個真心相愛的人,只因他們的性別相同就不能容許他們結婚?

這個問題的答案,在今天的政治和宗教圈子裡,都引起很多爭議。簡單來說,答案似乎都歸結到一個人對愛情、 婚姻,和道德定義。真正的愛情,會不惜一切為對方做到最好,按神對人的婚姻設計,是一男一女的結合(創世記1:26-28; 2:18-25)。女人是神賜給男人合適的伴侶。道德必須按神的標準訂立,錯與對也要按神的標準。按這些定義,若與另一人結合違反神的道德標準、不符合婚姻的設計、並非最適合的伴侶,這不會是愛最高的表達。

因非信徒不承認神的道德標準和設計,因此,這觀點對他們來說是不相關的。但對基督徒而言,甚麼是「應該」和道德的問題,則是由那位決定對與錯的來斷定。實際上,這不單是對基督徒說的,而是當人論及甚麼是「對的」時,必須考慮的。「對」只有在承認創造主賦予受造物的道德標準時才存在。自然主義沒有資格決定甚麼是對的。19

在美國的政治角度和其他信仰體系的造物主可能有不同的道德準則,若按這些不同的準則重新為婚姻作定義,超出了傳統的定義基礎。然而,尋求以這些罕見或新的宗教系統標準,是喧賓奪主,不是真實的道德信念。

試圖透過好像「愛」這類模糊的術語定義婚姻,透過擴大其定義,並不是一個安全的方式。20   事實上人們「愛」各種各樣的東西,我們實在沒有需要因為愛便允許進行各種行為,因這也是不合適的;這也不意味政府必須因有人愛這樣或愛那樣就促進所有行為。同樣地,同性婚姻有別於異性婚姻,這並不關乎平等的問題。21

Q9. 同性戀是遺傳的嗎?如果它是遺傳或是「自然」的,它在道德上便可接受嗎?

同性戀是否遺傳是一個有趣的問題。由於科學研究在性質上不斷產生變化,這個問題也錯綜複雜,若這篇文章加入任何篇幅的討論,這篇文章很快便會過時。對這問題有興趣的人,我只可以說直至2013年,沒有同性戀遺傳或 DNA鏈被發現。22 但是,我必須強調不管否有某種遺傳方式不是決定某事情是否合道德的因素。理論上有人可能有某些遺傳,例如:對藥物或酒精濫用、說謊23 或盜竊癖等, 但卻不會改變這些問題是否合乎的道德標準。

有兩篇Greg Koukl的著作對於討論「自然」是否合乎道德這個問題很有幫助,頭一篇從一個邏輯和哲學的角度探討問題:Homosexuality Is Unnatural: The Is-Ought Fallacy? http://bible.org/article/homosexuality-unnatural-ought-fallacy;第二篇是較直接從聖經的教導看這問題:Paul, Romans, and Homosexuality, http://bible.org/article/paul-romans-and-homosexuality. 遺傳不一定是自然的(從指定的設計角度來說),同樣地,天然的也不一定是合乎道德的(David Hume Is-Ought fallacy)。

Q10. 可有導致同性戀的因素,可使同性戀者無須負責任嗎?

不同的因素導致我們從事不同的活動。這幫助我們較容易看到一個人為何以自己特定的方式進行某活動。可是,我們必須為我們的行動負責。別人向我們所做的,我們或許沒有責任,但我們需要為我們的選擇負責。

我們對某特定的罪出現傾向或取向。所有人面臨的問題是我們怎樣面對呢? 24 對我來說,我不肯放開我傾向的罪的時間過長,實況是,我每天都受試探要留在那罪之中,無法脫離;有時還有新的罪出現。我需要終生學習我在基督裡的身份、抵擋罪的誘惑和行在真理中,我無法勝過我的罪。透過信靠基督可勝過罪和勝過世界(約翰壹書3:2-3; 5:4)。這是激烈的鬥爭,我們實不可低估我們都在這樣的鬥爭中。 罪很普及,我們並沒有瞧不起別人的餘地。

有人只感到要「克服它」。要克服它,我們必須承認罪就是罪,我們亦需要下決心按神的恩典和供應做正確的事。不過這僅是個開始,我們還需要每日互相同行和協助,必須持續肯定我們在基督裡的身份。這是「持續在神恩典中」的課題,讓我們透過神的恩典「克服它」,在神的恩典中「持續克服它」!沒有神的恩典,我們無法做到。

Q11. 基督徒應如何對待同性戀者?

我們應該以神向我們顯示的愛和恩典對待他們。我們都是罪人,我們所犯的罪可能並不相同,但我們都悖逆神。我們已經、也持續從罪中得拯救,這應使我們能理解、真正關心和同情所有的人。耶穌的愛沒有因人身處的境況離開他們;而是與基督的愛相遇。

基督徒不應期望那些不信的人,能像基督的追隨者一般生活(哥林多前書5:9-11),雖然我們不能縱容罪或參與罪(不管是性罪行或別的罪),但我們卻應像基督一般,與所有的人推進友誼。沒有空間容讓我們偏袒、蔑視、不尊重或不仁;卻有很多空間向他們展示我們正從神所領受的恩典。

基督徒應該協助那些相信的人活出基督追隨者的樣式。成長是一個終身的過程,信徒在生命旅程的不同時刻,都面對不同的掙扎,不管在甚麼情況下,我們應按需要不斷提供協助,門徒訓練,鼓勵、 輔導、 挑戰和責備。

在我們的一生和與人相交的過程中,都應提供這種協助。一位自稱基督徒的人,應堅持這種正常教會紀律的生活方式(馬太福音18:15-22)。按此,同性戀和別的持久性的罪沒有什麼不同。這一切我們都必須以謙卑和愛的態度進行(加拉太書6:1)。

對於那些持續在同一罪中掙扎的人,應謹慎處理當中的關係。應時常以神的仁慈和恩典對待他們;然而,我們必須小心,任何的接觸不要導致自己犯罪。

Q12. 我們如何幫助那些捲入同性戀行為的基督徒?或怎樣幫助那些曾經有同性戀經歷,但決志成為基督徒的信徒?或怎樣幫助那些正面對同性引誘的人?

無論是色情、 酗酒或吸煙成癮,都會影響我們的頭腦,使我們上癮,使人陷入難以打破的模式和惡習,留下永不磨滅的影響。性活動持久地影響我們身份的認同。神的恩典給人赦免和潔淨,神寬恕我們。但作為耶穌的門徒,需要終身追求。我們都有不同的經驗、不同的掙扎,更不消說基督徒終身互相服事的掙扎了。

對伴侶維持在心思意念和道德上的純潔是異性婚姻者終生在意識形態上的爭戰。性是一個深層次的問題,因它關乎我們作為一個人的核心問題。為何我們期望它與那些被同性相吸的人所面對的有分別呢?有些人或許能即時、並完全地勝過它;大部分人可能像你或我,他們在某一天透過神的恩典才能勝過試探。當我們漸次明白我們在基督裡的身份,這天將會來臨。這並不是單單嘗試管理罪便可,而是認識基督、效法基督之路。

VII. 資源

(這些資源除了特別聲名的以外,是免費的)

A. 視聽資源

Dallas Theological Seminary (音訊+ 錄像)
Homosexuality in the Context of Christian Sexual Ethics, Podcast http://www.dts.edu/thetable/play/discussing-homosexuality-sexuality-together/
Controversial Same-Sex Texts In The Bible, Podcast, http://www.dts.edu/thetable/play/queen-james-passages-old-testament/
Engaging with Sexual Identity Issues: Engaging with LGBT Persons, Podcast http://www.dts.edu/thetable/play/engaging-lgbt-persons/
Engaging with Sexual Identity Issues: Ministering to People Wrestling with Sexual Identity, Podcast http://www.dts.edu/thetable/play/ministering-to-people-wrestling-sexual-identity/

Greg Koukl (供購買音訊)
Setting the Record Straight: The Bible and Homosexuality https://secure2.convio.net/str/site/Ecommerce/1202380276?VIEW_PRODUCT=true&product_id=3981&store_id=1161

John MacArthur (音訊 + 手稿)
Answering Key Questions About Homosexuality, http://www.gty.org/resources/sermons/GTY89/answering-key-questions-about-homosexuality
Homosexuality and the Bible (Selected Scriptures, 2 messages), http://www.gty.org/resources/sermon-series/12
God’s Plan for the Gay Agenda, http://www.gty.org/resources/articles/A170/Gods-Plan-for-the-Gay-Agenda

John Piper (音訊 + 手稿 + 部份錄像)
Why is Homosexuality Wrong?, (Some gracious thoughts on the brokenness of us all) http://www.desiringgod.org/resource-library/ask-pastor-john/why-is-homosexuality-wrong
Discerning the Will of God Concerning Homosexuality and Marriage (Romans 12:1-2), http://www.desiringgod.org/resource-library/sermons/discerning-the-will-of-god-concerning-homosexuality-and-marriage
The Other Dark Exchange: Homosexuality, Part 1 (Romans 1:24-28), (http://www.desiringgod.org/resource-library/sermons/the-other-dark-exchange-homosexuality-part-1
The Other Dark Exchange: Homosexuality, Part 2 (Romans 1:24-28), http://www.desiringgod.org/resource-library/sermons/the-other-dark-exchange-homosexuality-part-2
Bethlehem’s Position on Homosexuality (a sample of a church's attempt to practically live out a Biblical view of homosexuality), http://www.desiringgod.org/resource-library/taste-see-articles/bethlehems-position-on-homosexuality

Frank Turek
March 16th podcast from his radio show dealing with same sex marriage issues, equality, and reason: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/feelings-or-reason-march-16/id337782458?i=136358756&mt=2.

B. 文章資源

Wayne Grudem
The Bible and Homosexuality, reprinted in World Magazine with permission from Crossway. Original article is from the ESV Study Bible. http://www.worldmag.com/2013/04/the_bible_and_homosexuality

Stanton Jones
Sexual Orientation and Reason: On the Implications of False Beliefs about Homosexuality. Text version: http://www.wheaton.edu/CACE/Hot-Topics PDF Download: http://www.wheaton.edu/CACE/CACE-Print-Resources/Articles

Bible.org 網上文章:

Sue Bohlin
Homosexuality: Questions and Answers, http://bible.org/article/homosexuality-questions-and-answers
Can Homosexuals Change?, http://bible.org/article/can-homosexuals-change
Answers to Questions Most Asked by Gay-Identifying Youth, https://bible.org/article/answers-questions-most-asked-gay-identifying-youth
When Someone in Your Congregation Says “I’m Gay”, http://bible.org/article/when-someone-your-congregation-says-im-gay
Keys to Recovery from Same-Sex Attractions, http://bible.org/article/keys-recovery-same-sex-attractions

Bob Deffinbaugh
Israel’s Sodom and Gomorrah (Judges 19-21) http://bible.org/seriespage/israel%E2%80%99s-sodom-and-gomorrah-judges-19-21

Daniel Wallace
Review of Mel White’s ‘What the Bible Says—and Doesn’t Say—about Homosexuality’ (deals with Romans 1:26-27), http://bible.org/article/review-mel-white%E2%80%99s-what-bible-says%E2%80%94and-doesn%E2%80%99t-say%E2%80%94about-homosexuality

Christian Apologetics Research Ministry 文章:

Matt Slick
On "There is nothing wrong with two homosexuals getting married if they love each other", http://carm.org/love-homosexual-marriage

Stand To Reason 文學:

Greg Koukl
Paul, Romans, and Homosexuality, http://bible.org/article/paul-romans-and-homosexuality
Homosexuality Is Unnatural: An Is-Ought Fallacy?, http://bible.org/article/homosexuality-unnatural-ought-fallacy
Homosexuality: Giving Your Point of View, http://www.str.org/site/News2?page=NewsArticle&id=5302

Alen Shlemon
Homosexuality: Know the Truth and Speak it with Compassion, http://www.str.org/site/News2?id=8779

Cross Examined 文章:

Frank Turek (Articles + Radio show podcast)
The Case Against “Equality” Part 1 and 2 (Deals with the political issue of marriage and the claim of inequality in its not being applied to homosexual relationships.) http://townhall.com/columnists/frankturek/2013/02/28/the-case-against-equality-n1521881/page/full/ and http://townhall.com/columnists/frankturek/2013/03/01/the-case-against-equality-part-2-n1523048/page/full/

C.神學期刊資源(需付月費,可點擊這網頁http://www.galaxie.com//訂閱)

Gary R. Gromacki
Why Be Concerned about Same-Sex Marriage? Journal of Ministry and Theology, 09:2 (Fall/05)

Guenther Haas
Hermeneutical Issues In The Use Of The Bible To Justify The Acceptance Of Homosexual Practice, Global Journal of Classical Theology, Vol 1, No. 2 (2/99), http://phc.edu/gj_haas_hermen.php

David E. Malick
The Condemnation of Homosexuality in 1 Corinthians 6:9, Bibliotheca Sacra, 150:600 (10/93)

Mark McGinniss
The Church’s Response To The Homosexual, Journal of Ministry and Theology, 14:2 (Fall/10)

P. Michael Ukleja
Homosexuality and the Old Testament, Bibliotheca Sacra, 140:559 (07/83)
The Bible and Homosexuality Part 2: Homosexuality in the New Testament, Bibliotheca Sacra, 140:560 (10/83)

D. 網誌資源

Darrell Bock

http://blogs.bible.org/search/apachesolr_search/homosexuality?filters=tid%3A2789

Tim Challies

http://www.challies.com/search/google?cx=006311167884800022839%3Ajcs6rz6z3lw&cof=FORID%3A11&query=homosexuality&op=Search&form_build_id=form-acb816b66500dbffbe20717127db5612&form_id=google_cse_searchbox_form

Michael Patton

http://www.reclaimingthemind.org/blog/2013/03/is-limiting-marriage-to-unions-of-a-man-and-a-woman-discrimination/

E. 事工資源

Living Hope Ministries http://livehope.org/

Outpost Ministries http://www.outpostministries.org/home.htm

VIII. 詳細目錄

I. 導言

II. 舊約關於同性戀的教導

A. 利未記 18:22:律法禁止同性戀

B. 利未記 20:13: 律法對同性戀的懲罰

C. 創世記19:1-11:所多瑪和蛾摩拉

D. 士師記 19:22 – 基比亞

舊約關於同性戀教導的結論

III. 新約關於同性戀的教導

A. 羅馬書 1:20-32

B. 哥林多前書 6:9-11,繼承神的國

C. 提摩太前書 1:8-15,最糟糕的罪人 保羅

新約關於同性戀的教導總結

IV. 耶穌對於性罪行的教導

A. 馬太福音 5:27-28:罪最廣闊的定義

B. 馬太福音 19:3-9, 婚姻的明確定義

耶穌對性的教導的結論

V. 結論: 真誠的愛 - 我的背景

VI. 發問與回應

Q1. 甚麼是同性戀?

Q2. 如何確定同性戀行為是對還是錯?

Q3. 聖經對同性戀有甚麼明確的教導?

Q4. 在聖經中同性戀常和偶像敬拜、強姦、賣淫或侵犯綑綁在一起,這是說這種組合在神面前被視為有問題或罪嗎?

Q5. 曾參與同性戀行為便會下地獄嗎?

Q6. 同性戀的罪比聖經中其它的罪更壞嗎?

Q7. 你怎樣解釋婚姻儀式中主禮的神職人員或地方治安法官為兩個同性別的人證婚?

Q8. 為何兩個真心相愛的人,只因他們的性別相同就不能容許他們結婚?

Q9. 同性戀是遺傳的嗎?如果它是遺傳或是「自然」的,它在道德上便可接受嗎?

Q10. 可有導致同性戀的因素,可使同性戀者無須負責任嗎?

Q11. 基督徒應如何對待同性戀者?

Q12. 我們如何幫助那些捲入同性戀行為的基督徒?或怎樣幫助那些曾經有同性戀經歷,但決志成為基督徒的信徒?或怎樣幫助那些正面對同性引誘的人?

VII. 資源

A. 視聽資源

B. 文章資源

C.神學期刊資源(可透過付月費或透過神學期刊圖書館訂閱http://www.galaxie.com//

D. 網誌資源

E. 事工資源

VIII. 詳細目錄


1這篇文章有三重目標:

  1. 在愛心中提供聖經對同性戀的教導。
  2. 建立教會: (a) 清楚展示神的恩典; (b) 提倡基督徒誠心去愛那些被識別為by LGBT 的人(女同性戀,男同性戀,雙性戀,變性人);和 (c)移除對聖經、耶穌和教會的錯誤觀念。
  3. 提供進一步研究的資料 (a) 聖經和同性戀相關的經文,和(b)嘗試真正活像基督的基督徒,怎樣以最理想的方法在愛中表達真理。

2從道德禁令而不是簡單的宗教規條來討論這些聖經的律法(這可能以某種方式被忽視), 參看 P. Michael Ukleja, Homosexuality and the Old Testament, Bibliotheca Sacra, 140:559 (07/83). 這篇文章在結束時有一個很有幫助的討論,這些律法對今天的基督徒繼續適用。

3 參 P. Michael Ukleja, Homosexuality and the Old Testament, Bibliotheca Sacra, 140:559 (07/83).

4 參 NET Bible 猶大書 1:7註釋;也參看這篇文章附註一 作進一步討論這節經文的全面詮釋,與及這節經文和創世記的關連。

5 有關「知道」這用語的討論和它在這裡清晰的意思,參看P. Michael Ukleja, Homosexuality and the Old Testament, Bibliotheca Sacra, 140:559 (07/83)相關的討論。請注意,按上下文,他們並非單單想認識那人,屋主清晰知道他們的企圖(和合本已翻譯作「交合」)(士師記19:23)。 按他們對待那人的妾的方式,他們的意圖昭然若揭。這可得出那些人明確地有姦的意圖。

6 Bob Deffinbaugh, Israel’s Sodom and Gomorrah (Judges 19-21) http://bible.org/seriespage/israel%E2%80%99s-sodom-and-gomorrah-judges-19-21.

7有關反對意見的更詳細的討論和它欠缺可持續性, 參: Greg Koukl, Paul, Romans, and Homosexuality, http://bible.org/article/paul-romans-and-homosexuality, 和 Homosexuality Is Unnatural: An Is-Ought Fallacy?, http://bible.org/article/homosexuality-unnatural-ought-fallacy.

較從釋經學的角度討論,可參看:Guenther Haas, Hermeneutical Issues In The Use Of The Bible To Justify The Acceptance Of Homosexual Practice, Global Journal of Classical Theology, Vol 1, No. 2 (2/99), http://phc.edu/gj_haas_hermen.php 和 P. Michael Ukleja, The Bible and Homosexuality Part 2: Homosexuality in the New Testament, Bibliotheca Sacra, 140:560 (10/83).

從較著重詮釋學的角度討論,參看:John Piper, The Other Dark Exchange: Homosexuality, Part 1 (Romans 1:24-28) (http://www.desiringgod.org/resource-library/sermons/the-other-dark-exchange-homosexuality-part-1 and The Other Dark Exchange: Homosexuality, Part 2 (Romans 1:24-28), http://www.desiringgod.org/resource-library/sermons/the-other-dark-exchange-homosexuality-part-2

8 這觀點不常被察覺,但在Bob Deffinbaugh的羅馬書系列: Romans: The Righteousness of God. http://bible.org/seriespage/present-wrath-god-romans-115-32中有洞見地提出。

9 Walter Bauer, A Greek-English Lexicon of the New Testament and Other Early Christian Literature, rev. and ed. Frederick W. Danker, 3rd ed. (Chicago: University of Chicago Press, 2000), 135, and 613.

10 P. Michael Ukleja, The Bible and Homosexuality Part 2: Homosexuality in the New Testament, Bibliotheca Sacra, 140:560 (10/83). 有關這些話和其他問題,如雞奸,進一步討論,請參: David E. Malick, The Condemnation of Homosexuality in 1 Corinthians 6:9, Bibliotheca Sacra, 150:600 (10/93). The NET Bible notes on 1 Corinthians 6:9 也很有啟發,可點擊: https://net.bible.org/#!bible/1+Corinthians+6.

11 在這裡我們指的不是終身的爭鬥 — 我們都居住在一個充滿罪惡的世界和充滿罪的肉身之中,我們可以透過耶穌基督和信仰征服它(約翰壹書5:3-5)。

12 討論在這裡所使用的特定的詞彙,請參看哥林多前書6:9-11的討論,同一個希臘文用語「αρσενοκοιτης」用於哥林多前書6:9-11和提摩太前書1:10。

13 從他所說的和下面關於耶穌的教導,當我們繼續看這篇文章,我們將看到他必已承認他在神面前的嚴重罪孽。(參看他在羅馬書 7:7-25關於自己的陳述。)

14 看結論所作出有關,我自己經驗的進一步討論。

15 女同性戀、 男同性戀、 雙性戀、 變性

16 對這內客的審慎討論,參看 Bob Deffinbaugh: http://bible.org/seriespage/avoiding-sin-adultery-matthew-527-30

17 進一步討論和重要的討論,參看William F. Luck, Sr.在他書中的討論: Bible.org: http://bible.org/series/divorce-and-re-marriage-recovering-biblical-view

18 作者在 Bible.org工作,持有達拉斯神學院神學碩士學位,你可點擊這裡與他聯絡。

19 參看 Greg Koukl, http://bible.org/article/homosexuality-unnatural-ought-fallacy 有關實然、應然(is-ought)討論的謬誤,與及目的論(teleological)的論點與權利的關係。另參看 Fred Turek’s 極有幫助的 2 part column, http://townhall.com/columnists/frankturek/2013/02/28/the-case-against-equality-n1521881/page/full/ and http://townhall.com/columnists/frankturek/2013/03/01/the-case-against-equality-part-2-n1523048/page/full/. 它們處理婚姻的政治議題和不平等地應用在同性戀關係的虛假宣稱。討論這議題的聲檔,參Turek’s 在三月十六日的電台廣播:https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/feelings-or-reason-march-16/id337782458?i=136358756&mt=2

20 參看Matt Slick’s 在Christian Apologetics & Research Ministry 一篇淺談愛和同性戀婚姻的文章: http://carm.org/love-homosexual-marriage.

21 參看註腳第十七點 Fred Turek 的資源列表。 Dr. Turek和這課題相關的書,對那些希望進一步研究這課題的人,無疑是很有幫助的資源:Correct, NOT Politically Correct: How Same-Sex Marriage Hurts Everyone.

22 按在Time.com 在2012年12月的一篇文章:despite intensive investigations ,到那時為止,科學家尚未能成功找到「同性戀遺傳基因」。研究者在這篇文章中強調「它不是遺傳學、不是 DNA、不是 DNA 片段;它是表觀遺傳學。」他提出了一種新理論,同性戀和子宮裡的激素附因子(epi-marks)相關。因此在這一階段,除了沒有發現遺傳基因和沒有DNA的關連,也沒有什麼得到科學證明。不同的理論正繼續被討論,點擊網上文章http://healthland.time.com/2012/12/13/new-insight-into-the-epigenetic-roots-of-homosexuality/可連接一篇4/5/2013,這個資料當然在幾年內就會過時,然而它鄭重地重申:縱使它以某種方式遺傳,從邏輯上來說它未必是道德的。參看文章別的參考資料,可以看到更全面的討論。

Dr. Stanton Jones 在他科學研究最新的文章 “Sexual Orientation and Reason: On the Implications of False Beliefs about Homosexuality”,有一個非常有用的分析,連接他的文章,可點擊http://www.wheaton.edu/CACE/Hot-Topics (PDF檔)或點擊http://www.wheaton.edu/CACE/CACE-Print-Resources/Articles(連接4/15/2013)

23 說謊和遺傳是否有關無法確定,但長期說謊者的大腦中確實有一些差異。參http://bjp.rcpsych.org/content/187/4/320.abstract (連接 4/16/2013)。

24參 John Piper’s短文/頻 “Why Homosexuality is sin?” 滿有恩典地提醒我們這些真理。 http://www.desiringgod.org/resource-library/ask-pastor-john/why-is-homosexuality-wrong

Related Topics: Cultural Issues, Discipleship, Ecclesiology (The Church), Engage, Equip, Ethics, Evangelism, Fellowship, Forgiveness, Grace, Hamartiology (Sin), Heaven, Hell, Homosexuality, Lesbianism, Issues in Church Leadership/Ministry, Love, Marriage, Sanctification, Soteriology (Salvation), Spiritual Life, Temptation, Worldview

21. Hindrances to Prayer

(1) Sin in the life. Not walking in fellowship (John 4:22-23; Jude 20; Eph. 6:18; Ps. 66:18; Eph. 4:30; 1 John 1:9)

(2) Failure to spend time in the Word of God (Prov. 28:9; John 15:7; Ps. 119)

(3) Failure to pray in faith (Matt. 21:22; 1 John 5:14-15; James 1:5-7; Heb. 11:6)

(4) Failure to ask because of a spirit of self-dependence (James 4:2)

(5) Failure to ask from the right motives, without concern for God’s will (James 4:3, 15; 1 Cor. 4:19; Matt. 6:10; 26:42).

(6) Failure to endure, fainting under pressure (Luke 18:1; cf. 1 Sam. 27:1-3 with Isa. 40:31)

(7) Wrong relations with people, an unforgiving spirit (Mark 11:25-26)

(8) Pretentious praying, praying to impress people (Matt. 6:5-8)

(9) Religious zeal in the form of vain repetitions and cultic ritual (Matt. 6:7; 1 Kings 18:26-29; Rom. 10:2-3)

(10) Domestic breakdown in the home (1 Pet. 3:7)

Related Topics: Character Study, Prayer

Lesson 19: Why Christians Must be Truthful (Colossians 3:9-11)

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April 3, 2016

A minister noticed a group of boys standing around a small stray dog. “What are you doing, boys?” “Telling lies,” said one of the boys. “The one who tells the biggest lie gets the dog.”

The minister was shocked. “Why, when I was your age,” he said, “I never thought of telling a lie.” The boys looked at one another, a little crestfallen. Finally one of them shrugged and said, “I guess he wins the dog.”

The truth is, we all struggle with telling the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth. In our text, Paul explains why we must be truthful:

As Christians, we must be truthful because we’re new creatures in Christ and we’re members of the same body.

Our text is parallel to, but shorter than Ephesians 4:22-25, where Paul uses the same analogy of putting off the old man and putting on the new. He follows that with (Eph. 4:25), “Therefore, laying aside falsehood, speak truth each one of you with his neighbor, for we are members of one another.” The concept of putting off the old man and putting on the new is not only an individual matter. It also includes a corporate sense in which we as members of Christ have put off what we were in Adam and have put on Christ, the new Adam. Since Christ is the head of His body, the church, putting on Christ means that we are now members of the same body. Thus, we must be truthful because we’re new creatures in Christ and are members of His body, the church.

1. As Christians, we must be truthful in love.

Most of us would probably be offended if someone called us a liar or questioned our truthfulness. We’d say, “I know I have some problems, but lying is not one of them.” But, be careful or you’ll join that minister in lying about your truthfulness!

The truth is, we all struggle constantly to be truthful. If you’re not struggling, then you’re not truthful, because our human default mode is to bend the truth to our own advantage. Think of some of the ways that we easily can fall into lying. There’s the half-truth. You tell the truth as far as you go, but you just don’t tell the whole truth, so that you convey a false impression. Abraham did this when he said of Sarah, “She’s my sister.” True, she was his half-sister; but he concealed the relevant point that she was also his wife. Similar to the half-truth is the lie of omission, which tempts us all at tax season. You “forget” to report extra cash income you earned. Or, a cashier gives you too much change or leaves an item off your bill, but you don’t say anything to correct the situation.

Then there’s exaggeration—you stretch the truth a bit to make yourself look better or worse than you really are. Former Mayor Richard Daley of Chicago said (in “No Matter How Thin You Slice It, It’s Still Baloney” [Quill], ed. by Jean Arbeiter p. 93), “They have vilified me, they have crucified me, yes, they have even criticized me.”

There are so-called “white lies,” little untruths that supposedly don’t hurt anyone. You could work, but you have other things to do, so you use a mild headache as an excuse to call in sick. Or, you tell your doctor that you’ve obeyed his orders when you know you didn’t. There are lies to cover for someone else, perhaps your boss or an alcoholic family member. Writing letters of recommendation for a former employee can be difficult. You want to put the person in a good light and you don’t want to say anything for which you could get sued, but you must be truthful. One guy came up with a Lexicon of Intentionally Ambiguous Recommendations—LIAR for short (Reader’s Digest [12/87], p. 110). For example, to describe an unproductive candidate, you can say, “I can assure you that no person would be better for the job.”

As Christians, we easily fall into lies of hypocrisy, where we try to make others think that we are more spiritual than we really are. You say, “The other morning in my quiet time, …” making it sound as if you have a quiet time every day, when the truth is, it was the only quiet time you’ve had in weeks. Then there are silent lies, where someone says something complimentary about you that isn’t true, but you let it go by without correcting it. There are evasive lies, where you change the subject without answering the question, but you leave a false impression. There are polite lies, where you say something nice (but untrue) to avoid hurting the other person’s feelings. A pastor whose family couldn’t stand fruitcake told the lady who gave them one, “Fruitcake like that doesn’t last long around our house!”

And, as often comes out with government officials, there are cover-up lies, where the liar rationalizes that to tell the truth would hurt people or might compromise our government’s security. The entire Watergate scandal that brought down President Nixon was a web of cover-up lies. So was the attempt to blame the Benghazi attacks that killed our ambassador and three others on an anti-Islamic movie, when the President and Secretary of State knew full well that that was not the cause.

But the entire Bible, including our text, make it plain that we must be truthful. That doesn’t mean that we must share all of our thoughts or be brutally honest. We must speak the truth in love (Eph. 4:15). Love covers a multitude of sins (1 Pet. 4:8), which implies that we should not broadcast everything we know about someone. And, the Bible acknowledges that there are rare ethical dilemmas, such as the Hebrew midwives lying to protect the Hebrew baby boys from Pharaoh’s murderous edict (Exod. 1:15-22), or Rahab lying to protect the Hebrew spies (Josh. 2:4-6). When the Lord told Samuel to anoint David as king, Samuel was afraid that King Saul would kill him. So the Lord told Samuel to tell David’s family that he had come to offer a sacrifice, which he did, although it wasn’t his real reason for coming (1 Sam. 16:1-5).

But those kinds of situations are infrequent. What Paul says hits us all: “Do not lie to one another.” We should not dodge the plain application of that! Our God is the God of truth; as His people, we must speak the truth in love, and be honest before God in all our behavior.

But, why must we be truthful? We must be truthful to be like our Savior, who is the truth. If we’re in Him, members of His body, then we must represent Him by being truthful.

2. As Christians, we must be truthful because we are new creatures in Christ.

In the parallel passage in Ephesians, Paul says that his readers were taught to put off the old man and to put on the new, whereas here he states that they have already put off the old and put on the new. F. F. Bruce (The Epistles to the Colossians, to Philemon, and to the Ephesians [Eerdmans], p. 357) explains, “This tension between the indicative and the imperative, between the ‘already’ and the ‘not yet,’ is common in the Pauline letters; it is summed up in the admonition: ‘Be what you are!’—Be in practice what the calling of God has made you.” We’re now in Christ, so we should act like it.

The old man (NASB, ESV, NIV = “self”) is what we were by nature as fallen children of Adam, ruled by sin. God doesn’t improve that old man—Paul says (Eph. 4:22) that it is “being corrupted in accordance with the lusts of deceit.” But its power was broken through the cross, so that we do not need to yield to its influence. The picture Paul uses is that we have laid aside this old man as you would take off dirty clothes, and we have put on the new man, which refers to all that we now are in Christ.

Because Paul says (Rom. 6:6) that the old man was crucified with Christ and (Col. 3:9) that we have in fact laid it aside, some contend that believers do not have two natures, an old and a new, but only the new. As Paul says (2 Cor. 5:17), “Therefore if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creature.”

But clearly, even in mature Christians, there is an inclination toward sin that remains (Rom. 7:14-25). You can call it “the flesh,” or “the old nature,” or “indwelling sin,” but saying that it no longer exists is contrary both to experience and to the Scriptures. While at the point of conversion we positionally put off the old man and put on the new man, in practice we must learn to put off the old and put on the new every time we are tempted to sin. In other words, we must be in practice what we are in God’s sight by virtue of our union with the risen Savior (Col. 3:3). As Paul puts it (Rom. 6:8-11), because we died with Christ, we must now reckon ourselves to be dead to sin, but alive to God in Christ Jesus. Paul says three things in our text about the new man:

A. The new man is created by God, not by human effort.

The new man which we have put on “is being renewed to a true knowledge according to the image of the One who created him” (Col. 3:10). Paul is referring to Genesis 1:27, where God created Adam and Eve in His own image. But that image was marred by their fall into sin. But Christ is the new Adam (1 Cor. 15:45), creating a new people through the new birth (John 1:12-13). As Jesus told Nicodemus (John 3:6-7), “That which is born of the flesh is flesh, and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit. Do not be amazed that I said to you, ‘You must be born again.’” The flesh has no ability to resurrect itself from spiritual death. The Spirit of God must cause us to be born again (1 Pet. 1:3).

So becoming a Christian and living as a Christian is not a moral improvement project, where you resolve to turn over a new leaf. It requires nothing less than God powerfully imparting new life to you. Without that new life, you are in the flesh (or the old man), and Paul says (Rom. 8:8), “Those in the flesh cannot please God.” So if you have never repented of your sins and trusted in Christ and His death on the cross to save you, you must begin there. To put it another way, a life of truthfulness is not the result of determining to become truthful; it is the fruit of the new man.

B. The new man is in the process of being renewed.

Paul says (Col. 3:10) that the new man “is being renewed ….” This points to the process of growth, similar to what takes place in physical life. The cells of our bodies are constantly being renewed as we grow from infancy to adulthood. Of course, due to death, stemming from the fall, our physical bodies eventually stop being renewed and start falling apart. (I resemble that remark!) But Paul says (2 Cor. 4:16) that even though our physical bodies are decaying, our inner man is being renewed day by day.

This process occurs by the renewing of our minds (Rom. 12:2; Eph. 4:23), which happens through God’s Word, which is the truth (John 17:17). His Word sanctifies and revives us (Ps. 19:7-14; Ps. 119:25, 50, 93, 107, 149, 154, 156). As a new creature in Christ, you should crave God’s Word like a newborn baby craves its mother’s milk, so that you will grow in respect to salvation (1 Pet. 2:2). But the point is, it doesn’t happen instantly. It takes time to grow the fruit of righteousness, which includes truthfulness. But it won’t happen if you’re not feeding on God’s Word.

C. The new man is growing in the knowledge of God to become like Christ.

Paul says (Col. 3:10) that this new man which we have put on “is being renewed to a true knowledge according to the image of the One who created him.” “Knowledge” refers to the knowledge of Christ, “in whom are hidden all the treasures of wisdom and knowledge” (Col. 2:3). This includes the academic knowledge of what the Bible teaches about God and Christ, which is also called “theology.” The fact is, you are a theologian! The only question is, “Is your theology biblically based or is it a conglomerate of the Bible combined with cultural ideas and personal preferences?” But beyond correct theology, you must grow to know God personally, just as you grow to know your mate or a good friend. You must grow to know His ways, as revealed in His Word.

God is the God of truth (Isa. 65:16). As the Creator, He is the measure of reality by which all else is measured. Jesus said that God’s word is truth (John 17:17). Titus 1:2 says that God cannot lie. Jesus claimed not merely to speak the truth and bear witness to the truth, but that He is the truth (John 8:45; 18:37; 14:6). The Holy Spirit is the Spirit of truth (John 14:17; 15:26; 16:13; 1 John 5:7).

By way of contrast, Satan is a liar and the father of lies (John 8:44). When you lie, you are being satanic (scary thought)! Because of that, God hates a lying tongue and a false witness who utters lies (Prov. 6:16-19). “Lying lips are an abomination to the Lord” (Prov. 12:22). So as new creatures in Christ, created by God, growing to be more like Him, we must put aside all lying and falsehood. We must be growing to become people marked by truth.

But this is more than an individual process. Paul shows that…

3. As Christians, we must be truthful because we are members of the same body.

Paul says (Col. 3:11) that in this new man there is “no Greek and Jew, circumcised and uncircumcised, barbarian, Scythian, slave and freeman, but Christ is all and in all.” While Paul makes similar statements elsewhere (Gal. 3:28; 1 Cor. 12:13), he probably uses these categories here because they related to the situation in Colossae (J. B. Lightfoot, Saint Paul’s Epistles to the Colossians and to Philemon [Zondervan], pp. 216-219). The proud, national Judaism of the Colossian false teachers is countered by Paul’s assertion that there is “no Greek and Jew.” Their legalism is met with the words, no “circumcised and uncircumcised.” Their pride in knowledge is confronted with, no “barbarian, Scythian.” The barbarian was originally one who didn’t speak Greek, whose language sounded like “bar-bar.” It came to refer to an uneducated, uncultured foreigner. The Scythians were known as a savage, cruel people, the lowest type of barbarian. Paul probably included no “slave and freeman” because he was sending back the runaway slave, Onesimus, to his owner, Philemon, in Colossae.

Paul is saying that all such national, former religious, racial, and cultural distinctions are false for those in Christ. They are not in accordance with the truth of the one new man, which consists of Christ the head and His body, the church (see Eph. 2:15). Obviously, we can’t cease to be racially or ethnically what we are, but these differences should not matter in the church. Unless there’s a language barrier, there should not be separate ethnic churches in the same locale. In fact, the glory of the church is when people who would naturally be separated from one another in the world by race or culture come together as one body in Christ. The world can’t explain it, because it’s due to the new birth.

Sadly, this truth is being deliberately undermined by church growth advocates. They study growing churches and conclude that people like to go to churches made up of “their kind of people.” Older folks want to be with other older folks, so offer a “traditional” service that caters to their preferences. Millennials want to be around other young people in a church with loud, contemporary music. Cater to their world, speak their language, dress as they do, and you’ll see your church grow.

The problem is, while your church may grow if you market it to a certain cultural “niche,” it’s completely unbiblical because it undermines a key purpose for the church. It brings glory to Christ and is a vital part of our witness in the world when young and old and rich and poor representing every local race and culture worship and work together because of the gospel. It brings glory to Christ when an older couple comes alongside a younger couple and helps them understand how to have a Christlike marriage or to rear their children in the Lord. The younger people in the church need the older folks for their experience and wisdom, and the older folks need the young for their youthful zeal. That’s why I’ve refused to have separate “traditional” and “contemporary” services.

Paul caps it off with a brief phrase that sums up both the letter of Colossians and the entire Christian life and church: “Christ is all, and in all.” I’m going to devote the message next week to this profound statement, but for now note that Christ is the substance and the center of the Christian life: He is all. As Paul says (1 Cor. 1:30), Christ “… became to us wisdom from God, and righteousness and sanctification, and redemption.” Understanding that our life “is hidden with Christ in God” and that He Himself is our life (Col. 3:3-4) is the basis for all the moral commands that Paul gives in Colossians. Christ is our all-sufficient Savior (2 Pet. 1:3)!

Also, Christ is “in all, which is the basis for true Christian unity (Eph. 2:14; 4:3). While we must grow to attain the unity of the faith which comes from knowing Christ more deeply (Eph. 4:13), if someone else truly knows Christ as Savior and Lord, we are one because we’re both members of His body (1 Cor. 12:13). I may not agree with a brother or sister in Christ about some point of doctrine, and it’s legitimate to discuss or debate these differences in a spirit of love. But I’m not free to reject or attack a person who has Christ dwelling in him, even if he needs correction. (We’ll see how Christian relationships should function in Col. 3:12-4:1.)

Conclusion

All relationships depend on the truth. You can’t know God and be rightly related to Him if you ignore the truth about who He is or the truth about who you are, as revealed in His Word. He is holy and we all have sinned. But He offers forgiveness of all our sins when we believe in Christ (Col. 1:14; 2:13). When you come to know and believe the truth about God, you enter into a personal relationship with Him.

And your relationships with others depend on the truth. Getting to know another person more deeply involves getting to know the truth about him or her and revealing the truth about yourself. If there is deception or withholding of the truth, there will be a corresponding distance in that relationship. Not every relationship, of course, can be deeply intimate. We can only be very close with a few. But there must be truth in love so that we can properly relate to one another as God’s people, helping each other to become all that God wants us to be. Truth is at the heart of being rightly related to one another.

So I ask, “Are you walking truthfully before God?” He knows everything about you, of course. But you must walk in the light with Him, opening all of your life to Him. You have to open all your dirty closets to Him for cleaning! Hiding your sin from God is a sure way to drift away from Him.

And I ask, “Are you walking truthfully with your family and with the family of God?” It’s easier to be superficial and hide behind a mask. It’s easier not to clear up relational problems by going to the person and speaking the truth in love. But if we don’t make the effort to relate truthfully, we don’t reflect the new man which we’ve put on in Christ.

Someone observed, “The most striking contradiction of our civilization is the fundamental reverence for truth which we profess and the thoroughgoing disregard for it which we practice” (Vilhjalmur Stefansson, in Laurence J. Peter, Peter’s Quotations [Bantam Books], p. 500). May that not be true of us as Christians! I encourage you to be truthful in your relationship with God and in your relationships with God’s people, because we are new creatures in Christ and we’re members of the same body.

Application Questions

  1. Where do you find it the most difficult to be truthful? Is it wrong to be politely untruthful? Why/why not?
  2. How should we determine how much truth about ourselves to reveal to someone else? How vulnerable should we be?
  3. Where is the balance between truthfulness and maintaining proper confidences?
  4. Does Colossians 3:11 prohibit denominationalism? Why/why not?

Copyright, Steven J. Cole, 2016, All Rights Reserved.

Unless otherwise noted, all Scripture Quotations are from the New American Standard Bible, Updated Edition © The Lockman Foundation

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I Met God in the Morning

I met God in the morning,
When my day was at its best
And His presence came like sunrise,
Like a glory in my breast.

All day long the Presence lingered;
All day long He stayed with me;
And we sailed in perfect calmness
O’er a very troubled sea.

Other ships were blown and battered,
Other ships were sore distressed,
But the winds that seemed to drive them
Brought to us a peace and rest.

Then I thought of other mornings,
With a keen remorse of mind.
When I too had loosed the moorings
With the Presence left behind.

So, I think I know the secret,
Learned from many a troubled way;
You must seek Him in the morning
If you want Him through the day.

Ralph Spaulding Cushman

Lesson 20: Christ is All and in All (Colossians 3:11)

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April 10, 2016

In 1990, I was wrestling with a difficult matter that related to the current and future direction of my ministry. An associate pastor wanted to help believers with deep emotional problems by starting some programs based on The Twelve Steps for Christians [RPI Publishing], Henry Cloud’s When Your World Makes No Sense [Oliver Nelson], and some other materials on co-dependency that integrated psychology with the Christian faith. At first, I was open to this, since I myself had used and promoted books by James Dobson, Norm Wright, and other Christian psychologists. So I asked if I could look over the materials that he wanted to use.

The more I read, the more alarmed I became with the way that these books misused Scripture, if they even used it at all. It came to a head when I read Henry Cloud’s contention (pp. 16-17) that the “standard Christian answers,” including faith, obedience, and God’s Word, were, in his words, “worthless medicine”! He proceeds to present a “baptized” version of developmental psychology as the solution to difficult emotional problems such as depression, anxiety, panic, addictions, guilt, and other psychological maladies. I’m ashamed to admit that I was so influenced by “Christian psychology” at the time that my initial response to the book was favorable overall, although his comment about “worthless medicine” really troubled me!

Then early in 1991, I read J. C. Ryle’s classic, Holiness [James Clarke & Co.], with its profound final chapter, “Christ is All.” (I’m heavily indebted to that chapter for this message.) I followed that book with John MacArthur’s, Our Sufficiency in Christ [Word], which confronts the problems of psychology, pragmatism, and mysticism, which have infiltrated the church. He shows how Christ is all-sufficient for us as believers in dealing with life’s problems.

That same year, I read for the first time John Calvin’s Institutes of the Christian Religion [Westminster], which begins with the profound sentence (1.1.1), “Nearly all the wisdom we possess, that is to say, true and sound wisdom, consists of two parts: the knowledge of God and of ourselves.” He elaborates (1:1.2), “Again, it is certain that man never achieves a clear knowledge of himself unless he has first looked upon God’s face, and then descends from contemplating him to scrutinize himself.” He goes on to confront the pride that is “innate in us all.” After finishing that life-changing book, I wrote an article, “How John Calvin Led Me to Repent of Christian Psychology.”

The cumulative impact of those books was to convict me that by endorsing so-called “Christian psychology,” I had been directing people with problems to worldly “wisdom,” rather than to “the unfathomable riches of Christ” (Eph. 3:8). Although I caught a lot of flak then and since then because of my opposition to integrating psychology with the Christian faith, over the past 25 years I have grown more certain that my repenting was the right decision.

I also have realized how far short I myself am from knowing and enjoying the all-sufficiency of Jesus Christ for my every need. That realization was reinforced last year, when I read twice Tony Reinke’s wonderful, Newton on the Christian Life [Crossway], which points out (p. 51) that one of Newton’s favorite biblical phrases was that of our text: “Christ is all and in all.”

The great British preacher, C. H. Spurgeon, preached at least four sermons on this text. In one of them (Metropolitan Tabernacle Pulpit [Pilgrim Publications], 17:460), he cites the advice of an aged tutor to a young student not to take too magnificent a text. Spurgeon says that he was sounding that warning in his own ears as he attempted to preach on these profound words. He adds that if he were to try to give all the meaning of this boundless text, it would take all time and eternity, and even then he would fall short. So my attempt here will be woefully inadequate. I encourage you to read some of the sources I have mentioned to dig deeper than I can take you! Paul is saying:

Since Christ is all and in all, we must be Christ-centered in our personal lives and in our church life.

Paul’s words are really a summary of the entire Bible, but I’m going to limit myself mainly to Colossians (and parallels in Ephesians) as we think through its implications.

1. Since Christ is all and in all, we must be Christ-centered in our personal lives.

A. Christ is all in God’s eternal purpose.

Everything that God is doing in His eternal purpose centers in the Lord Jesus Christ. Before He created the world, Jesus shared the glory of the Father (John 17:5). Paul sums up Christ as the center of God’s eternal purpose in Ephesians 1:3-12:

Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places in Christ, just as He chose us in Him before the foundation of the world, that we would be holy and blameless before Him. In love He predestined us to adoption as sons through Jesus Christ to Himself, according to the kind intention of His will, to the praise of the glory of His grace, which He freely bestowed on us in the Beloved. In Him we have redemption through His blood, the forgiveness of our trespasses, according to the riches of His grace which He lavished on us. In all wisdom and insight He made known to us the mystery of His will, according to His kind intention which He purposed in Him with a view to an administration suitable to the fullness of the times, that is, the summing up of all things in Christ, things in the heavens and things on the earth. In Him also we have obtained an inheritance, having been predestined according to His purpose who works all things after the counsel of His will, to the end that we who were the first to hope in Christ would be to the praise of His glory.

Note six ways from Colossians in which Christ is all in God’s eternal purpose:

1) Christ is the image of the invisible God, the fullness of deity in bodily form.

Paul states (Col. 1:19), “For it was the Father’s good pleasure for all the fullness to dwell in Him.” He adds (Col. 2:9), “For in Him all the fullness of Deity dwells in bodily form.” This means that our only way to know the God who “dwells in unapproachable light, whom no man has seen or can see” (1 Tim. 6:16), is to know Him through Jesus Christ. As Jesus told Philip when Philip asked Him to show them the Father (John 14:9), “Have I been so long with you, and yet you have not come to know Me, Philip? He who has seen Me has seen the Father; how can you say, ‘Show us the Father’?” To know God, you must come to Him through faith in Jesus Christ (John 14:6; 1 Tim. 2:5).

2) Christ created all that exists.

Paul states (Col. 1:15-16),

He is the image of the invisible God, the firstborn of all creation. For by Him all things were created, both in the heavens and on earth, visible and invisible, whether thrones or dominions or rulers or authorities—all things have been created through Him and for Him.

Although the Jehovah’s Witnesses blasphemously interpret “firstborn” to mean that Jesus was the first being whom God created, verse 16 refutes that. If “all things have been created through Him and for Him,” then clearly He Himself is not created. John 1:3 makes the same point: “All things came into being through Him, and apart from Him nothing came into being that has come into being.” As the creator, Christ is sovereign over all that exists. He is the only rightful Lord of your life and of all that you have.

3) Christ is eternal and in Him all things hold together.

Colossians 1:17: “He is before all things, and in Him all things hold together.” “Before” refers to priority in time. As Jesus told the Jews who were attacking Him (John 8:58), “Before Abraham was, I am.” He did not say, “I was before Abraham,” but rather, “I am.” He was referring to Exodus 3:14, where God tells Moses, “I am who I am.” The Jews understood what Jesus meant, because they picked up stones to stone Him. “In Him all things hold together” means that Christ is the power that holds every atom together. If He were to “let go,” the entire universe would disintegrate! This shows that we are totally dependent on Him for our very existence and our every need.

4) Christ is the beginning, the firstborn from the dead.

Colossians 1:18: He is the beginning, the firstborn from the dead ….” In the context, “the beginning” means that Christ originated the church. As Colossians 3:10 states, He created the new man, which refers to Christ the head and His body the church. By “firstborn from the dead,” Paul means that Jesus’ resurrection was the first of its kind. Although there are other resurrections in the Bible that precede Jesus’ resurrection, the others were temporary. Those people died a second time and now await their final resurrection. Jesus alone has been raised with an indestructible resurrection body that is a type of the bodies that believers will receive at His second coming. So He Himself is our hope that we will receive new bodies that will not be subject to disease, aging, or death.

5) Christ will come to have first place in everything.

Colossians 1:18: “He Himself will come to have first place in everything.” In Ephesians 1:10, Paul says that God will sum up “all things in Christ, things in the heavens and things on the earth.” Because He was willing to humble Himself and go to the cross, Paul says (Phil. 1:9-11), “For this reason also, God highly exalted Him, and bestowed on Him the name which is above every name, so that at the name of Jesus every knee will bow, of those who are in heaven and on earth and under the earth, and that every tongue will confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.” This means that we must seek daily to put Christ in first place and exalt Him in every aspect of our lives.

6) Through Christ the entire creation will be reconciled to God.

Colossians 1:20: “And through Him to reconcile all things to Himself, having made peace through the blood of His cross; through Him, I say, whether things on earth or things in heaven.” By “all things,” Paul is probably referring to the new heavens and new earth, which will be restored to the glory that the first creation had before sin entered this world (Rom. 8:18-23). So in Christ, we can look forward to that glorious future! Christ is all in God’s eternal purpose and we are in Him!

B. Christ is all in God’s plan of salvation.

As we saw (Eph. 1:3-4), God blessed us with every spiritual blessing in Christ and chose us in Him “before the foundation of the world.” In Colossians, Paul shows us that…

1) In Christ we have redemption, the forgiveness of all our sins.

Colossians 1:14: “in whom we have redemption, the forgiveness of sins.” Colossians 2:13: “When you were dead in your transgressions and the uncircumcision of your flesh, He made you alive together with Him, having forgiven us all our transgressions.” Christ is the answer to the problem of guilt! If Christ is all in the sense of forgiving us all our transgressions, then you can’t add anything of your own to what He supplies.

The Jews thought that they were superior to the Gentiles when it came to spiritual matters, but Paul says that there is “no Greek or Jew … but Christ is all, and in all.” The Jews also thought that they could be right with God by keeping the law, especially the ritual of circumcision. But Paul says that there is “no circumcised and uncircumcised … but Christ is all, and in all.” The Greeks thought that they were a superior race over the barbarians and Scythians, and the Jews thought that they were superior over the Gentiles. But Paul says that there is “no barbarian or Scythian … but Christ is all, and in all.” Those who were born free in the Roman world thought that clearly they were higher than slaves, who were viewed as property, not as humans. But Paul says that there is “no slave and freeman, but Christ is all, and in all.”

The Puritan Jeremiah Burroughs put it (puritansermons.com/pdf/burrou1.pdf): “As far as God sees Christ in anyone He accepts them. If Christ is not there, no matter what they have, He does not regard them.” To be right with God, you can’t come through religion or rituals or race or moral improvement. You can only come through Jesus Christ and Him crucified. Make sure that you are in Him through faith in His shed blood!

2) In Christ we are complete.

Paul states (Col. 2:10), “In Him you have been made complete.” But in Colossians 1:28, he says that his aim is to “present every man complete in Christ.” This is the tension that we often see in Paul between what God has made us positionally and what we must strive to become practically as we walk with Him. We have all spiritual blessings in Christ (Eph. 1:3), but it takes all of life and all of eternity to discover what those blessings are (Eph. 2:7). But the point is, if we have Christ and are complete in Him, why do we need the world’s wisdom to deal with our problems?

3) In Christ, we have all the treasures of wisdom and knowledge.

Colossians 2:3: “in whom are hidden all the treasures of wisdom and knowledge.” “Hidden treasures” implies that we need to dig and seek out these riches. They aren’t all lying on the surface. “Knowledge” refers to the knowledge of God and of ourselves, as revealed in Scripture, as Calvin states in his opening sentence of The Institutes. “Wisdom” refers to the skill of applying God’s revealed truth to our daily lives. The Bible is all about wise living, especially as it pertains to our relationships. All the commandments are summed up by “love God” and “love your neighbor.” We learn how to do both from the Lord Jesus Christ.

That all treasures of wisdom and knowledge are found in Christ means that He is all in God’s revealed Word of truth. All of the Old Testament speaks of Christ and points to Him (Luke 24:27, 44; John 5:46). All of the New Testament shows how He fulfilled all that the Old Testament prophesied of Him. As you read God’s Word over and over, ask the Spirit of Truth to reveal Christ and His treasures of wisdom to your soul.

4) In Christ, we have the hope of eternal glory.

Colossians 1:27: “to whom [the saints] God willed to make known what is the riches of the glory of this mystery among the Gentiles, which is Christ in you, the hope of glory.” Colossians 3:4: “When Christ, who is our life, is revealed, then you also will be revealed with Him in glory.” If that is our eternal hope and destiny, then we must seek to make Christ our only hope in every trial and difficulty of this life. We can have His comfort in our trials, knowing that they are nothing compared to the “eternal weight of glory” (2 Cor. 4:17) that awaits us with Him throughout the ages.

Thus, since Christ is all in God’s eternal purpose and all in God’s plan of salvation …

C. Christ must be all in our personal lives.

Practically, this begins when you trust Him as your Savior and Lord. If you haven’t done that, you can’t go any farther. But then, it’s a lifelong walk of “seeking the things above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God” (Col. 3:1). It’s the daily discipline of setting “your mind on the things above, not on the things that are on earth” (Col. 3:2). It requires “taking every thought captive to the obedience of Christ” (2 Cor. 10:5). It means daily casting off the dirty clothes of the old life and putting on the clean clothes of new life in Christ (Col. 3:9-10). It’s a lifelong process that happens as you look daily to Christ as your all. As Paul states (2 Cor. 3:18): “But we all, with unveiled face, beholding as in a mirror the glory of the Lord, are being transformed into the same image from glory to glory, just as from the Lord, the Spirit.” (See, also, Heb. 12:1-2.)

Far more could be said, but I want to consider briefly:

2. Since Christ is all and in all, we must be Christ-centered in our church life.

When Paul says that there is no Greek or Jew, barbarian, Scythian, slave or freeman, he does not mean that God obliterates our personalities or ethnicity or culture when He saves us. But he does mean that these things must no longer be a source of pride for us. Before salvation, we all took pride in things like race or background or education or in various cultural advantages. But now, none of that should matter. As Paul told the arrogant Corinthians (1 Cor. 4:7), “What do you have that you did not receive? And if you did receive it, why do you boast as if you had not received it?” God has freely given us everything, including salvation. The external things that divide worldly people should be set aside. Christ must be our unifying center.

As Paul has shown us (Col. 1:18), Christ is the head of His body the church. We are only members of His body because God chose us in Christ (Col. 3:12), “rescued us from the domain of darkness, and transferred us to the kingdom of His beloved Son” (Col. 1:13). If He had not done that by His grace, we’d all still be alienated from Him and His people, “having no hope and without God in the world” (Eph. 2:12).

Thus being a member of His body, the church, is a tremendous privilege! We’re now members of His family. We all serve a common Lord, under His headship. We all hope for His coming. We’re all seeking to grow to know Him better. And thus, we all need to work at Christ-centered relationships. Paul spells out what this means (Col. 3:12-14):

So, as those who have been chosen of God, holy and beloved, put on a heart of compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience; bearing with one another, and forgiving each other, whoever has a complaint against anyone; just as the Lord forgave you, so also should you. Beyond all these things put on love, which is the perfect bond of unity.

He goes on to show how to make Christ our all in our church, our homes, and our work relationships (Col. 3:15-4:1). The fact that he exhorts us to patience, forgiveness, and bearing with one another shows that harmonious relationships are not automatic! We have to work at loving one another, making Christ central in our relationships because He dwells in all who truly know Him.

Conclusion

Some of you who are struggling with serious problems may listen to this message and think, “Steve has his head in the clouds! He doesn’t understand the deep problems that I’m wrestling with!” Like the Christian psychologist I mentioned, you may think that I’m doling out “worthless medicine.” But I hope not!

Paul said that our heads should be in the clouds: We should “keep seeking the things above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God” (Col. 3:1). We should set our minds “on the things above, not on the things that are on earth” (Col. 3:2). Problems, difficulties, and trials should cause us to seek Christ as our all-sufficient Savior even more than we do. When we’re depressed, we should seek Him as our joy. When we’re anxious, we seek Him as our peace. When we’re empty and emotionally drained, we seek Him as our fullness. When we lack wisdom, we seek Him and His Word for the insight we need. Whatever you lack, go to Christ!

The Puritan Thomas Watson wrote (gracegems.org/Watson /christ_all_in_all) “If a man has sunshine, he does not complain that he lacks the light of a candle. Has he not enough, who has ‘the unsearchable riches of Christ?’” When you face problems, lean on Him, trust in Him, and know more of Him, than you ever have before. Make sure, above all else, that you have Christ and seek Christ, because when you have Him, you have all!

Application Questions

  1. What problems are you now facing? How could you appropriate Christ as your all in dealing with those problems?
  2. People argue: We use doctors for physical illness; why not use psychologists for emotional problems? Your response?
  3. Someone says, “I tried Bible study, prayer, and obedience, but it didn’t help me overcome the emotional pain from my childhood. If psychology helps, why not use it?” Your reply?
  4. Read and discuss with others my online articles: “How John Calvin Led Me to Repent of Christian Psychology” and “Christians and Psychology, Some Common Questions Answered.”

Copyright, Steven J. Cole, 2016, All Rights Reserved.

Unless otherwise noted, all Scripture Quotations are from the New American Standard Bible, Updated Edition © The Lockman Foundation

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Lesson 21: Healthy Relationships (Colossians 3:12-13)

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April 17, 2016

What do you want most out of life? Most of us would rank healthy relationships high on the list. Except for knowing Christ and having eternal life, healthy relationships make life enjoyable perhaps more than anything else. Even if your health isn’t the best, if you have loving relationships, you can enjoy life. You can make a pile of money, but if your relationships are broken or shallow, your life will be empty. A poor man with a loving family and good friends is far richer than a rich man who is poor relationally.

The Bible ranks healthy relationships as the most important thing in life. A Jewish religious expert asked Jesus (Matt. 22:36), “Teacher, which is the great commandment in the Law?” Jesus replied (Matt. 22:37-40):

“‘You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind.’ This is the great and foremost commandment. The second is like it, ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ On these two commandments depend the whole Law and the Prophets.”

A loving relationship with God is of first importance; but loving relationships with others is second. The Bible is all about these two important relationships.

Because the Bible emphasizes healthy relationships so highly, it’s sad that there are so many believers who have hurting or broken relationships. Many Christian homes have been shattered by divorce. Some who stay married are unhappy. Their homes are a tense battle ground, not a loving refuge. Many Christian parents are at odds with their kids and the kids with their parents. On the church level, some bounce from church to church, leaving a trail of damaged relationships behind. I know of Christians who won’t speak to other Christians because of misunderstandings, hurt feelings, and wrongs that have taken place. Sadly, the loving families, genuine friendships, and healthy relationships that we want most out of life often elude us.

In our text, Paul gives the prescription for healthy relationships. If you’ll consistently practice these qualities, you’ll have healthy relationships. But maybe you’re thinking, “But healthy relationships also depend on others, don’t they? It’s virtually impossible to have a good relationship with some people!” True. Paul acknowledged this when he wrote (Rom. 12:18), “If possible, so far as it depends on you, be at peace with all men.” Sometimes, no matter what you do, some people are hard to get along with. But often if you treat a difficult person with the qualities that Paul enumerates in our text, he will change for the better in how he relates to you. But even if some relationships never improve, if you relate to others as Paul describes here, most of your relationships will be healthy.

But this isn’t easy medicine to take, because to develop these qualities, you’ve got to kill all immorality, impurity, passion, evil desire, and greed (Col. 3:5). You’ve got to put aside all anger, wrath, malice, slander, abusive speech, and lying (Col. 3:8-9). And, you’ve got to put on “a heart of compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience; bearing with one another, and forgiving each other” (Col. 3:12b-13). The reason you should do this is because God has graciously chosen and loved you. Paul is saying,

God’s gracious, loving treatment of us is the basis for our treatment of others.

Paul first gives the basis for the commands which follow, namely, how God has treated us:

1. God has graciously chosen us in love to be set apart to Himself.

Colossians 3:12a: “So, as those who have been chosen of God, holy and beloved….” “So” (or, “therefore”) shows that verse 12 follows from what came before. The flow of thought is: Because we have laid aside the old man (what we were in Adam) and have put on the new man (what we now are in Christ, both individually and corporately), and because in this new corporate man old differences no longer matter, but Christ is all and in all, therefore, we should put on the qualities listed here.

Paul begins by stating that God has graciously chosen us. This means that if you’re a Christian it’s not because you first chose God, but because He chose you before the foundation of the world (Eph. 1:4-5). That truth should be a great comfort for every believer, but I realize that it causes problems for many. They don’t like it because it seems to deny our “free will.” It seems unfair of God to choose some, but not others. It seems to go against God’s love for the world (John 3:16) and His desire for all to be saved (1 Tim. 2:4). So, these Christians explain election as God’s choosing those whom he foreknew would believe in Him.

But if that were true, then our salvation would not be based on God’s grace alone, but on something good (our faith) that God saw in us. It also presumes that sinners have the ability to believe in Christ, which contradicts many Scriptures. For example, Jesus said (John 6:44), “No one can come to Me unless the Father who sent Me draws him.” (See, also, Luke 10:21-22; John 6:65; 8:43; Rom. 8:7-8; 9:16-18; 1 Cor. 2:14; 2 Cor. 4:4). Saving faith is a gift from God, not something that any sinner can do on his own (Eph. 2:8-9; Phil. 1:29). If God chose us based on foreseen faith, then it means that He made up His eternal plan based on what sinful people decided to do, rather than on His will (Eph. 1:11). It makes us sovereign, with God subservient to our will—a horrible thought!

There are solid biblical answers to the objections raised against the truth of election, which I don’t have time to present here. The main thing is to let God be God and submit to the truth and the balance of His Word. The truth is, if you believe in Christ, it’s because God appointed you to eternal life (Acts 13:48). He chose you for salvation (1 Cor. 1:27-31). The balance is, God’s sovereignty never negates the human responsibility to repent and believe (see my sermon, “God’s Sovereignty, Our Responsibility,” on Gen. 17:1-27, 9/15/96). They’re both true.

When I quit fighting what God’s Word clearly teaches and submitted to it, the doctrine of election became a source of great comfort for me. It’s a comfort because God’s sovereign purpose to save those whom He has chosen cannot fail (see, Rom. 8:28-39). It assures me, as Paul said (Phil. 1:6), “He who began a good work in you will perfect it until the day of Christ Jesus.”

“Holy and beloved” further describe what it means to be chosen by God. To be holy means to be set apart unto God, separate from the world. Beloved means that we’re the special objects of God’s love, just as a wife is to her husband. We often think of holiness negatively, as telling us what we can’t do. But it’s a positive concept. Picture a wife who is set apart from others for her husband who loves her. She delights to keep herself from others and to give herself exclusively to him because of his love. So we too should keep ourselves pure from this evil world and be exclusively devoted to Christ, who loved us and chose us as His bride.

But why does Paul mention that we are chosen by God, holy and beloved, in the context of talking about healthy relationships? For at least two reasons. First, it’s not easy to kill my selfishness and anger and to practice these Christlike qualities toward others, especially toward difficult people. But it’s easier when I remember how God loved me and chose me when I was not very lovely.

Second, seeing myself as the object of God’s gracious, sovereign love, set apart unto Him, frees me to love even those who are difficult to love. If I’m dependent on the other person’s response for my sense of security, I won’t risk loving someone who might reject me. But if I’m secure in God’s love for me, I’m free to love those who may not return my love. If someone insults me, I’ll feel hurt, but I don’t need to retaliate. I can give a blessing instead (1 Pet. 3:9), because I’m secure in God’s love for me.

That’s what Paul is saying here: God’s treatment of us is the basis for our treatment of others. God has chosen us in love to be set apart to Himself when we weren’t worthy of His love. Secure in His gracious, unfathomable love, we’re able to treat one another with the qualities listed here.

2. We should treat others with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, patience, forbearance, and forgiveness.

Actually, there are five nouns: compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience, which are probably set in contrast to the five sins in verse 5 and the five other sins in verse 8. “Bearing with one another and forgiving each other” describe the way in which those five virtues are put into practice. But I’m going to treat forbearance and forgiveness as two additional qualities that help our relationships be healthy.

Before we look at these qualities, I have two observations. First, every Christian should have these character qualities, but there is freedom for different personality types. In other words, all mature Christians aren’t going to have the same generic personality. These qualities will take one form with a Barnabas, another with a Paul, and another with a Peter. Part of the glory of God’s creation is the variety of personalities which He has given us and that He has a special purpose for each one. While He knocks the rough edges off each type of personality, He doesn’t erase the differences. Whether you’re hard-driving or laid back, extrovert or introvert, people-oriented or task-oriented, God wants you to have these character qualities.

Second, all these character qualities are modeled in Jesus Christ. He was compassionate and kind (Matt. 9:36; 14:14), humble and gentle (Matt. 11:29), patient, forbearing, and forgiving (1 Pet. 2:23; Luke 23:34). He is our great example of how to relate to others. As we learn to put on these qualities, we’re really putting on the Lord Jesus Christ (Rom. 13:14) and becoming more like Him.

A. We should treat others with compassion.

The King James Version translates this, “bowels of mercy.” The closest English equivalent is what we mean when we say “heart.” So, “a heart of compassion” captures the idea. The main thing to grasp is that this is an emotional term. Being moved to compassion involves the feelings, not just the head. It means being touched by the needs of people so that we respond with appropriate action to help them.

Jesus used this word to describe the good Samaritan, who felt compassion for the wounded traveler and was moved to help him (Luke 10:33). He used it of the father of the prodigal son, who saw his wayward son returning, felt compassion for him, ran to him, embraced him and kissed him (Luke 15:20). He was stirred emotionally when he saw his son coming home.

Jesus felt compassion for the widow of Nain who had lost her only son (Luke 7:13). When Jesus saw the multitudes, He felt compassion for them (Matt. 9:36). On another occasion, Jesus and His disciples withdrew to a lonely place for some much needed rest. When they arrived by boat, they discovered that the crowd had arrived by land before them. Jesus saw them, felt compassion for them and healed their sick. The disciples saw them and said (as I would have said!), “Send them away!” (Matt. 14:14-15).

If you lack compassion, you’re too focused on yourself and not enough on others’ needs. Jesus saw the multitude and felt compassion because He saw that they were like sheep without a shepherd (Mark 8:34). The disciples saw the same multitude and didn’t feel compassion because they were focused on their own need to get away and rest. It all depends on your focus.

When you encounter a difficult person and you’re inclined to be irritated rather than to have compassion for him, ask him to share his story. Often, when you find out what the person has gone through, it helps you to overlook his irritating behavior and show the Lord’s compassion to him.

B. We should treat others with kindness.

To be kind means to be free from all which is harsh, rough, and bitter. This word was used to describe wine that had mellowed (Luke 5:39). It didn’t bite or leave a bitter taste. A kind person is not demanding and pushy. He gives others room to be imperfect without crawling all over them.

Joseph is a great example of kindness. His brothers had hated him and sold him into slavery. After being falsely accused of impropriety with Potiphar’s wife and imprisoned for several years, he finally rose to the top as prime minister of Egypt. He easily could have taken vengeance on his brothers, but instead, he forgave them and was generous with them. After their father, Jacob, died, the brothers became afraid because they thought that perhaps Joseph would now pay them back for what they had done to him. But when Joseph heard it, he wept and spoke kindly to his brothers, assuring them of his continuing love and care for them and their children (Gen. 50:15-21).

Jesus said that God Himself is kind to ungrateful and evil men (Luke 6:35). Paul said that the kindness of God leads us to repentance (Rom. 2:4) Peter said that tasting God’s kindness should motivate us to long for the sincere milk of the word, that we may grow in respect to salvation (1 Pet. 2:1-3). If we’ll show kindness to those who are not kind to us, it will often motivate them to repentance and growth.

C. We should treat others with humility.

It’s often said that if you think you’re humble, you’re not. But I find that neither helpful nor correct. It’s not helpful because how can I obey the command to be humble if I can’t know when I am humble? And it’s not correct because Moses, Jesus, and Paul all claimed to be humble (Num. 13: 3; Matt. 11:29; Acts 20:19). So I think that we can know when we’re being humble so that we can obey this command.

Humility does not mean that when someone pays you a compliment, you look down and say, “It really wasn’t much!” Humility is not to dump on yourself. But then what does it mean? Literally, the Greek word means “lowliness of mind.” The Greeks did not see it as a virtue, but as a weakness. Biblically, there are three sides to it:

First, a humble person is Christ-sufficient, not self-sufficient. A humble person consciously relies on the Lord and recognizes that God has given him all that he has (1 Pet. 5:5-7; 1 Cor. 4:7). He knows that he is weak in himself, but he is strong when he trusts in God’s strength (2 Cor. 12:9-10; Phil. 4:13).

Second, a humble person has a proper evaluation of himself. Paul said (Rom. 12:3), “For through the grace given to me I say to everyone among you not to think more highly of himself than he ought to think; but to think so as to have sound judgment, as God has allotted to each a measure of faith.” He goes on to talk about using the gifts that God has given us to serve one another. A humble person doesn’t think that he’s indispensable in God’s program, nor does he think so lowly of himself that he neglects the gifts God has given him to use (Matt. 25:14-30; 2 Tim. 1:6-8).

Third, a humble person esteems others more highly than himself. As Paul said (Phil. 2:3-4), “Do nothing from selfishness or empty conceit, but with humility of mind regard one another as more important than yourselves; do not merely look out for your own personal interests, but also for the interests of others.” He goes on to cite the example of Jesus, who laid aside His glory in heaven to take on the form of a servant and go to the cross for our salvation. He esteemed us more highly than himself.

D. We should treat others with gentleness.

The King James Version translates it “meekness.” There is no good single English word to translate the concept of the Greek word. It does not mean to be a mild-mannered, compliant milquetoast. The main idea is, “strength under submission.” It was used in classical Greek of trained animals, such as a horse which was strong and powerful in battle, but totally submissive to the warrior who rode him. The gentle person is not self-willed, but surrendered to do God’s will. Plato used the word of a gentle doctor who used only enough force (as in setting a broken bone) to bring healing. So the gentle person will sometimes be strong to confront sin, but only strong enough to bring healing (Gal. 6:1; 2 Tim. 2:25).

E. We should treat others with patience.

Kindness, gentleness, and patience are listed in the fruit of the Spirit (Gal. 5:22-23). The Greek word for patience literally means, “long-tempered.” It’s the opposite of having a short fuse. It means being tolerant of imperfections, differences and faults in others. The patient person gives others time to change and room to make mistakes in the process. It’s a virtue that’s especially difficult for those of us who are perfectionists!

F. We should treat others with forbearance.

This means putting up with someone’s faults and idiosyncrasies. We need to recognize that being different doesn’t necessarily mean being wrong. Let’s face it, a lot of areas aren’t black and white. Just because I’ve always done something a certain way doesn’t mean that everyone else has to do it my way. We must never be forbearing when it comes to biblical moral absolutes. But we must bear with others when it comes to things the Bible doesn’t clearly command.

G. We should treat others with forgiveness.

Rather than holding a grudge or harboring bitterness and resentment, we must forgive those who wrong us. Did you notice that many of these qualities are needed only when you have a complaint against someone? So you can’t excuse yourself by saying, “I’d treat him right if he would treat me better.” You wouldn’t need patience, forbearance, or forgiveness if everyone treated you well!

We are to forgive “just as the Lord forgave you.”  That’s a lot, isn’t it! The Greek word used here for “forgiveness” has the nuance of undeserved favor. We didn’t deserve God’s forgiveness, but He provided for it and granted it freely in Christ at great cost to Himself. God didn’t say, “Don’t worry about it; it’s no big deal.” He paid the price, but He doesn’t make us pay. God’s forgiveness means that He will never bring up our sins as evidence to condemn us. He never hauls out our past as leverage against us. Even though He legitimately could, the Lord doesn’t make us feel put down because He was so magnanimous as to forgive us. His forgiveness means total acceptance and restored fellowship with us.

While compassion involves our feelings, forgiveness is primarily a decision. You choose to absorb the wrong and not allow it to be a barrier between you and the other person. The feelings may follow. If you struggle with feeling forgiving after you’ve granted it, do something kind for the one who wronged you. While God never extends forgiveness until there is repentance, He showers those who have wronged Him with repeated kindnesses until they come to repentance. We must do the same, hard as it is to do.

Conclusion

So, because God graciously chose us in love to be set apart to Himself, we should treat others with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, patience, forbearance, and forgiveness. His gracious, loving treatment of us is the basis for our treatment of others.

Maybe you’re wondering, “Where do I start?” You may need to begin by focusing on your relationship with God. Have you trusted in Christ as your Savior so that you’ve truly experienced His forgiveness, mercy, and love? You can’t love others as you should until you’re rightly related to God.

Then, write these verses on a card and read them over every day. Take stock of which quality you most need to work on and put it on your prayer list: “Lord, make me a patient man.” That’s a dangerous prayer, because the Lord will give you some difficult people to practice being patient with! Act obediently, not on feelings. When you blow it, confess it to the Lord and ask the forgiveness of those you’ve wronged. You may need to begin by going to those you’ve already wronged to make things right. Make a habit of putting on these “new clothes” and you’ll enjoy the blessing, not of perfect relationships, but of substantially healthy relationships.

Application Questions

  1. Does the doctrine of election give you comfort or cause you grief? If grief, how can you resolve this for God’s glory?
  2. Are some Christian couples so incompatible that they never can have a satisfying relationship? Should they divorce?
  3. Which of the seven qualities do you most need to work on? How will you work on it? What’s your plan?
  4. Is it ever right to distance yourself from a person who has offended you, rather than trying to work things out? If so, when?

Copyright, Steven J. Cole, 2016, All Rights Reserved.

Unless otherwise noted, all Scripture Quotations are from the New American Standard Bible, Updated Edition © The Lockman Foundation

Related Topics: Christian Life, Forgiveness, Relationships

Is there a difference between the Vision and the Mission of a local church?

I suppose that in a very technical sense, both of these terms – ‘vision’ and ‘mission’ – are more contemporary than they are biblical. That is, neither of these terms is used biblically in the same sense it is used today in Christian literature.

I must first confess to you that I’m not one who reads a whole lot of books on “the church,” “church growth,” etc. that are not deeply rooted in the Bible (though they may say they are). In saying this I’m warning you that the way I might understand these terms may differ significantly from the way some contemporary authors may use them.

Having said this, I would be inclined to view the “mission” of the church in this way:

The mission of the church is that which our Lord has commanded it to do. It is that which we see the apostles teaching, and the New Testament churches practicing. The mission of “the church” is the mission of the universal church, and of every local church, without exception. Some primary biblical texts (in my opinion) would be Matthew 28:18-20; Acts 2:42; and 1 Corinthians 11-14. The church should be practicing holy living, carrying on the work which Christ began in His earthly ministry (we are His body), proclaiming the gospel and making disciples, and worshipping the risen Lord as a body (e.g. Acts 2:42; 1 Corinthians 11-13; Hebrews 10:25).

 

The “mission of the church” as I understand it is to do those things which our Lord and His apostles have commanded the church to do. No church has the option of setting any aspect of this mission aside.

I would suppose that the term “vision” has a different focus. It would be any one particular church’s sense of calling above and beyond its mission, or in terms of how it sees God has equipped it to carry out its mission.

Let me illustrate this on an individual basis. Every Christian has clearly defined duties and obligations as a Christian. We are to gather together with other Christians and encourage one another (Hebrews 10:25); we are to show compassion to those in need; we are to forsake sin, etc. In addition to this, every Christian has unique gifts, and a unique contribution to make to the body of Christ (1 Corinthians 12). I would say that the individual’s duties are his “mission,” and that his particular ministry should be his or her “vision.” I am inclined to say the same for every local church.

Our church, for example, is located in Dallas, Texas. We have a number of gifted teachers who are a part of our church body. Over the years we had a “vision” to capture some of the teaching of our church, and to preserve it for the edification of others, free of charge. When the Internet came into existence, we then made these messages available. Not every church may be able to do this, but each and every church has a unique role to play in the body of Christ. I would call each church’s definition of that role its “vision.”

I’m not sure this helps to explain these terms as they are used in contemporary Christian literature, but by whatever terms, I think we should ponder, as a church, what we are commanded to do (our mission) and what God may have uniquely gifted us to do (our vision).

I fear that the term “vision” may be used in a more limited way – in terms of size, buildings, etc. This may not be bad, but I would tend not to limit the church’s vision to such things. These also happen to be the very things that spell “success” in this world.

Related Topics: Ecclesiology (The Church), Terms & Definitions

15. The War Without and the War Within—Part 1 (Galatians 5:13-26)

Introduction

World War II provided us with some tragic illustrations of theological truth. When Nazi Germany attacked Poland the battle was essentially won within a week and was virtually over in a month. Winston Churchill described the valiant effort of the poorly armed Poles:

They were heavily outclassed in artillery, and had but a single armoured brigade to meet the nine German Panzers, as they were already called. Their horse cavalry, of which they had twelve brigades, charged valiantly against the swarming tanks and armoured cars, but could not harm them with their swords and lances.99

Shirer sensed this same futility when he wrote:

Horses against tanks! The cavalryman’s long lance against the tank’s long cannon! Brave and valiant and foolhardy though they were, the Poles were simply overwhelmed by the German onslaught. This was their—and the world’s— first experience of the blitzkrieg: the sudden surprise attack; the fighter planes and bombers roaring overhead, reconnoitering, attacking, spreading flame and terror; the Stukas screaming as they dove; the tanks, whole divisions of them, breaking through and thrusting forward thirty or forty miles a day; self-propelled, rapid-firing heavy guns rolling forty miles an hour down even the rutty Polish roads; the incredible speed of even the infantry, of the whole vast army of a million and a half men on motorized wheels, directed and co-ordinated through a maze of electronic communications consisting of intricate radio, telephone and telegraphic networks. This was a monstrous mechanized juggernaut such as the earth had never seen. … Within forty-eight hours the Polish Air Force was destroyed. … In one week the Polish Army had been vanquished.100

The victory of Germany over Poland can be principally explained by their superiority in weapons. Shirer described the rapid arms buildup of the Third Reich:

… the Army of the Third Reich had jumped from seven to fifty-one divisions in just four years. Among them were five heavy armored divisions and four light ones, a “modern battle cavalry” such as no other nation possessed. The Navy had built up from practically nothing. … From absolutely nothing, the Luftwaffe had built up a force of twenty-one squadrons with a personnel of 260,000 men. The armament industry, General Thomas said, was already producing more than it had during the peak of the last war and its output in most fields far exceeded that of any other country. In fact, total German rearmament, the General declared, was “probably unique in the world.”101

The weapons of Germany’s warfare played a significant part in the victories she won on the battlefield. One can only shudder at what might have happened if German technology had produced some of the weapons which were still in the developmental stages.

Having described the tremendous buildup of military weapons, Shirer makes a very interesting comment about the possibility of German victory: “Formidable as German military power was becoming at the beginning of the summer of 1939, the prospect of success in the war which Hitler was planning for the early fall depended on what kind of a war it was.”102

Allow me to paraphrase and apply Shirer’s words to our passage in Galatians 5: the kind of war which is waged determines the success of the weapons employed. This same principle explains the failure of the legalism of the Judaizers to subdue the sins of the pagan Gentiles. The weapon of the Law was ineffective because of the nature of the war. In Ephesians 6, Paul demonstrates the need for spiritual weapons, based upon the fact that we are engaged in a spiritual warfare. Galatians 5 also describes a spiritual warfare, but it is a war within the soul of the saint, rather than the external war found in Ephesians. In Ephesians 6, spiritual weapons are needed because of the fallen angelic forces who are resisting the saints. In Galatians 5, grace is needed because of the fallen nature which is still within us, waging war against the Spirit.

The Judaizers erred in that they were attempting to fight the spiritual war with the weapons of the flesh. They erroneously believed that the only way to overcome the evils of the heathen society of that day was to arm themselves with the Old Testament Law. To seek to subdue sin by means of the flesh is like trying to put out a grease fire with water—it only makes matters worse. Paul’s argument in our text is intended to show that the nature of the spiritual war which is being waged within the saint is such that the Law promotes sin, while grace alone prevents it.

The purpose of this message is to expound this passage as a whole, especially in the light of the context. We shall then seek to find its application to our own lives. The next message will cover the same passage, focusing on the principles regarding the spiritual life. We will then survey some of the major views of the spiritual life in contemporary evangelism and evaluate them in the light of Scripture.

The context of our passage is crucial to our understanding of Paul’s words. Chapter 5 begins a new section. Chapters 1 and 2 are primarily written as a defense of Paul’s apostleship and his authority. Chapters 3 and 4 are intended to prove the superiority and priority of grace over the Law by developing the priority and superiority of the Abrahamic Covenant to the Mosaic. Paul shows in chapters 3 and 4 that the Law cannot produce righteousness, while chapters 5 and 6 show how righteousness is produced by grace through the Holy Spirit.

The first 12 verses of chapter 5 concentrate on the subject of freedom, the goal of our salvation (cf. 5:1). To be circumcised was to submit oneself to the Old Testament Law, thus exchanging freedom for bondage. In verses 13 and following, the goal of this freedom in Christ is expounded. Galatians 5:1-12 explains what the Christian is free from, and the remainder of the chapter expounds on what the Christian is free for.

If the broad context is that of the freedom of the Christian, the narrower context is that of the contention and strife which exists within the Galatian churches. You will notice that our passage is encircled, as it were, by strife and contention. In verse 15 we learn that the Galatian saints were “biting and devouring” each other. In verse 26, there is a final exhortation not to “become boastful, challenging one another, envying one another.” The freedom which was granted at salvation was a freedom from servitude to servanthood. The Galatian saints were made free to serve one another. The practical problem was that they were so divided by friction and strife that serving one another was greatly hindered. The situation is similar to having a beautiful and expensive automobile, with a lifetime supply of gasoline, but without any oil for lubrication. Even the most precision engine (or perhaps I should say, especially the most precision engine) cannot function without oil. The unity and harmony of the Galatian churches was disrupted by strife.

Paul claims that such strife was the result of walking in the flesh, rather than of walking in the Spirit. Walking in the flesh was the direct result of the Galatians’ turning to another gospel, a gospel which added law-keeping to grace. Paul seeks to solve the practical problem of disunity by exposing its roots: legalism. He further attempts to convince his readers that legalism will only promote sin, rather than prevent it, because of the war which is being waged within the soul.

Freedom for Service
(5:13-15)

13 For you were called to freedom, brethren; only do not turn your freedom into an opportunity for the flesh, but through love serve one another. 14 For the whole Law is fulfilled in one word, in the statement, “You shall love your neighbor as yourself.” 15 But if you bite and devour one another, take care lest you be consumed by one another.

Initially I viewed verses 13-15 as somewhat incidental, compared to the more important truths of “walking in the Spirit.”103 These verses, however, are vital to understanding the realm in which “walking in the Spirit” is to take place. Paul is not discussing spirituality in a vacuum, but in a very practical context as described in verses 13-15.

For you were called to freedom, brethren; only do not turn your freedom into an opportunity for the flesh, but through love serve one another. For the whole Law is fulfilled in one word, in the statement, “You shall love your neighbor as yourself.” But if you bite and devour one another, take care lest you be consumed by one another.104

Paul begins chapter 5 with the words, “It was for freedom that Christ set us free.” Verse 13 takes up the same theme but in a more precise way. Paul uses the term “only” to introduce a more restrictive view of the purpose of our freedom. The Judaizers reacted to Paul’s teaching because they feared that freedom would lead to license. A brief description of the evils of the Gentile world will help you understand the fears of the Judaizers.

The sexual life of the Graeco-Roman world in NT times was a lawless chaos. J. J. Chapman, describing the time in which Lucian lived, in the first half of the second century, writes: “Lucian lived in an age when shame seems to have vanished from the earth.” Demosthenes writes … “We keep mistresses for pleasure, concubines for the day-to-day needs of the body, but we have wives in order to produce children legitimately and to have a trustworthy guardian of our homes” (Against Neaera, quoted, Athenaeus, Deipnosophistae 573 B). … It is hardly possible to mention a great Greek figure who had not his hetaira, his mistress, and often these mistresses were the most beautiful and the most cultured women of their day. Alexander the Great had his Thais, … Aristotle had his Herpyllia, Plato his Archeaenassa, Pericles his Aspasia, Sophocles his Archippe. … “Chastity is simply a proof of ugliness” (Seneca, On Benefits 3.16.1-3). Innocence, says Seneca, is not rare, it is non-existent (On Anger 2,8). Juvenal paints the picture of the Roman woman passing the altar of Modesty with a cynical smile (Juvenal, Satires 6.308). “The greater the infamy, the wilder the delight,” said Tacitus (Tacitus, Annals 11.26).105

This kind of depravity I would call “red-blooded Gentile immorality.” The unnatural vices, Barclay writes, were running rampant:

Still worse was the unnatural vice which was rampant. It began in the imperial household. Caligula notoriously lived in habitual incest with his sister Drusilla, and the lust of Nero did not even spare his mother Agrippina (Suetonius, Caligula 34; Nero 28).106

The sin of homosexuality was even more prevalent in Paul’s day than it is today.

From the highest to the lowest society was riddled with homosexuality. This was a vice which Rome learned from Greece. J. J. Dollinger calls it “the great national disease of Greece” (J. J. Dollinger, The Gentile and the Jew, II, p. 239). … In one of his dialogues Lucian makes Lycinus relate: ‘It were better not to need marriage, but to follow Plato and Socrates and to be content with the love of boys’ (Lucian, The Lapiths 39). … Plato’s Symposium ranks as one of the great works of literature. Its subject is love, but it is homosexual love. Phaedrus begins the subject. “I know not,” he says, “any greater blessing to a young man who is beginning life than a virtuous lover, or to the lover than a beloved boy” (Plato, Symposium 178 D).

Gibbon writes: “Of the first fifteen Emperors, Claudius was the only one whose taste in love was entirely correct. Julius Caesar was notoriously the lover of King Nicomedes of Bithynia. ‘The queen’s rival,’ they called him and his passion was the subject of the ribald songs the soldiers sang. Nero ‘married’ a castrated youth called Sporus and went in marriage procession with him throughout the streets of Rome, and he himself was ‘married’ to a freedman called Doryphorus.”107

Barclay draws the following conclusion: “It has been said that chastity was the one completely new virtue which Christianity introduced into the pagan world.”108 With the prevalence of such immorality in the Gentile culture, it is easy to understand the apprehension of the Jewish legalist. To prevent such corruption they felt that the rigors and restrictions of the Law were best imposed upon the Gentile saint.

Nevertheless, the Judaizers were wrong. Paul’s words in verse 13 make it clear that the freedom which the gospel gives is not the freedom to sin, but freedom from sin. Biblical freedom does not cater to the flesh, but crucifies it (cf. v. 24). Indulging the flesh is merely slavery to it, and thus is not freedom at all (cf. John 8:34; Rom. 7:16). Whenever one is a servant of the flesh, one is in bondage to it. Paul asserts that there is freedom from bondage to sin. Biblical freedom is not freedom to serve sin. It is not a license to immorality and all of the Gentile paganisms of the day. Paul’s word to the Judaizers is “the liberty of the gospel produces what you want—freedom from sin. The Law can never have this result.” Rather than being an opportunity to sin, freedom is a call to love. Paul urges the Galatian believers to “through love serve one another” (v. 13). Thus servanthood is the goal of freedom. We are free from sin. We are free for service to one another; service that is in love, not sensuality.

Verse 14 further destroys the argumentation of the Judaizers. The Judaizers taught that men needed to keep the Law. Paul has been contending that anyone who places himself under the Law by submitting to circumcision is only destined for failure, because it is impossible to perfectly keep the Law. However, even though the Law is wrong as a means to obtain righteousness, it is a commendable goal. This point is of vital importance. The readers of Galatians assume that the Law has no value because they have misinterpreted statements about being free from the Law and having died to the Law. Paul corrects this misunderstanding and states that the Law, in terms of a standard of righteousness, is valid. The righteousness which the Law describes is still a standard for today. While Law is a valid standard it cannot be a source of righteousness. The Judaizers incorrectly taught that the Law was a source of righteousness. They assumed that they could be righteous by keeping the Law. The Law’s standard will be fulfilled by those who walk in the Spirit as Paul makes clear in Romans 8.

For the law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus has set you free from the law of sin and death. For what the Law could not do (as a source), weak as it was through the flesh, God did sending His own son in the likeness of sinful flesh as an offering for sin. He condemned sin in the flesh in order that the requirement of the Law might be fulfilled in us who do not walk according to the flesh but according to the Spirit (Rom. 8:2).

Men fulfill the Law, not by submitting to it as the Judaizers advocated but rather by walking in the Spirit. Paul does not discard the Law. Instead he views it as God intended it—a standard of righteousness.

The goal of the Law, “You shall love your neighbor as yourself” (v. 14b) is rather ironic in light of verse 15. Paul summarizes the requirement of the Law in this way because of the conflict within the Galatian church. The readers of this epistle may have been somewhat perplexed at Paul’s crystallization of the Law in light of the teaching of Christ. Why does Paul not refer to “the great and foremost commandment” (Matt. 22:38)?

“Teacher, which is the great commandment in the Law?” And He said to him “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind” (Matt. 22:36-37).

Paul has been talking about devotion to Christ. His theme in these verses has not changed. Devotion to Christ is impossible without love for the brethren.

If someone says, “I love God and hates his brother, he is a liar; for the one who does not love his brother whom he has seen, cannot love God whom he has not seen. And this commandment we have from Him, that one who loves God should love his brother also” (1 John 4:20-21).

The great summary of the Law with regard to others was also stated by Christ, “The second is like it, you shall love your neighbor as yourself” (Matt. 22:31). Paul refers to this condensation of the Law because of the conflict in the church. Ironically, the Law under which the Gentiles placed themselves condemned them. The goal of the Law is brotherly love, yet verse 15 clearly indicates their failure in keeping this aspect of the Law. When the Law is promoted as the source of righteousness it has a boomerang effect. Instead of producing righteousness, it leads to selfishness. Rather than unity and harmony, rather than service one to another, the Galatians were biting and devouring each other. Like cats and dogs the Galatians were continually fighting with each other. Paul warned them that such action would eventually destroy them, “Take care lest you be consumed.” Rather than serving one another, they were sacrificing one another.

Initially I viewed verses 13-15 as a parenthesis, something to quickly read so that I could address the walk in the Spirit. After further reflection I am inclined to take these verses as the introduction. In fact, we will not understand the walk in the Spirit that Paul describes unless we understand as well the problem in Galatia. The church was riddled with strife and contention because they placed themselves under the Law, rather than fulfilling it by loving their neighbor as themselves. Thus walking in the Spirit is commanded in light of the goal of freedom, which is to serve one another in love.

Walking by the Spirit
(5:15-26)

15 But if you bite and devour one another, take care lest you be consumed by one another. 16 But I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not carry out the desire of the flesh. 17 For the flesh sets its desire against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh; for these are in opposition to one another, so that you may not do the things that you please. 18 But if you are led by the Spirit, you are not under the Law. 19 Now the deeds of the flesh are evident, which are: immorality, impurity, sensuality, 20 idolatry, sorcery, enmities, strife, jealousy, outbursts of anger, disputes, dissensions, factions, 21 envying, drunkenness, carousing, and things like these, of which I forewarn you just as I have forewarned you that those who practice such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God. 22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, 23 gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law. 24 Now those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires. 25 If we live by the Spirit, let us also walk by the Spirit. 26 Let us not become boastful, challenging one another, envying one another.

Verses 16 and 17 are vitally important. Paul writes, “But I say, …” which I take to be a contrast to the biting and devouring one another in verse 15. “But I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not carry out the desire of the flesh” (v. 16).

Paul previously argues in verse 13 that we are not freed in order to serve the flesh. However, in verse 15, Paul describes the Galatians as doing precisely this. They were serving themselves; that is to say, they were serving the flesh. They were not serving one another. Thus in verse 16, Paul capsulizes the solution to their selfishness. He asserts that fleshly desires are combatted by walking in the Spirit. Walking in the Spirit results in serving one another through love.

Verse 17 explains the crux of the conflict by describing the nature of the war within. “For the flesh sets its desire against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh; for these are in opposition to one another, so that you may not do the things that you please.” Within us rages a battle between the flesh and the Spirit. It is critical to have a correct understanding of “the flesh.” The ancient Greeks believed that the real problem was a battle between the mind and the body. Thus some have incorrectly identified “the flesh” with the body. It is not entirely true and is an error still propagated today. One misguided teacher has called the body the “carton,” and he says it is the source of evil. This identification is incorrect because the body is to be presented to God as a holy, living sacrifice. We do not present something evil to God. The body is something which is to be transformed. As a matter of fact, our body will be transformed and glorified (Phil. 3:21). The body is not evil; the flesh is evil. The flesh does refer to our bodily appetites. The flesh is our fallen humanity, our fallen humanness. It is what we are apart from Christ.

We received the Spirit as a result of faith in Christ, and the Spirit is opposed to the flesh. Paul laid this foundation for the Galatians previously in chapter 3.

You foolish Galatians, who has bewitched you, before whose eyes Christ Jesus was publicly portrayed as crucified? This is the only thing I want to find out from you: did you receive the Spirit by the works of the Law, or by hearing with faith? (Gal. 3:1-2).

In the above verses, Paul refers to the initial reception of the Holy Spirit that comes at conversion. He asked, “How did the Spirit come? Did the Spirit come by law-works? Did it come by submitting yourself to the Law? Did it come, so to speak, when you were circumcised?” No. The Spirit came by faith alone, as found in the example of Abram. Paul continues: “Are you so foolish? Having begun by the Spirit, are you now being perfected by the flesh?” (Gal. 3:3).

Do you notice that those are two opposing forces—flesh and spirit? The following verses continue the dichotomy between the flesh and the Spirit. “Did you suffer so many things in vain—if indeed it was in vain? Does He then, who provides you with the Spirit and works miracles among you, do it by the works of the Law or by hearing with faith?” (Gal. 3:4-5).

A distinct relationship is revealed, the relationship between faith and the Spirit, the Law and the flesh. Faith is related to the Spirit. Faith receives the Spirit of God, the agent of both salvation and sanctification. Law-keeping relies upon the flesh. When Paul speaks about the flesh and Spirit being at war one with another he writes, “For these things are in opposition to one another so that you may not do the things that you please” (v. 17b).

What exactly does Paul mean when he says, “… you may not do the things that you please”? In the light of Romans 7, I believe that Paul means we are unable to do the things that we want to do, that is, the things that we know are good. In other words, I believe it is those things which the Law requires, the standard of righteousness. Thus we are unable to do righteousness because the flesh and the Spirit are opposed to one another. The Galatians had opted to resist sin by submitting to the Law. However, Paul has demonstrated that submitting to the Law and adopting works results in surrendering faith. When the Law is not only the standard but the source of righteousness, there is only one means through which to keep it; that is, through the flesh. Since the flesh and the Spirit are opposed to one another, the Spirit doesn’t empower men who are under Law. The Spirit empowers men who live by faith. Thus Paul reasons, you cannot do the things which the Law requires. You cannot keep the standards of the Law in the power of the flesh because the flesh is opposed to the Spirit, and the Spirit is opposed to the flesh. Consequently, if you are under Law your only power is the flesh, yet walking in the Spirit is the only means to serve one another in love. Men are defeated in their good intentions by submitting to the Law. To place oneself under the Law is to place oneself in a position where only the power of the flesh and the desires of the flesh are operative. Trying to overcome sin with Law is something like trying to put out a grease fire with water. All it does is multiply the problem. It makes sin grow rather than reducing it.

In verses 18 and following Paul characterizes the man who walks in the Spirit as a man who is not under the Law. “But if you are led by the Spirit, you are not under the Law” (v. 18). The elaborate description of the works of the flesh and the fruit of the Spirit are given to demonstrate that if you are led by the Spirit you are not under the Law. We will address further the deeds of the flesh and the fruit of the Spirit in my next message. But I do want you to notice that the things which are described as the deeds of the flesh and the works of the Spirit are not all inclusive. These are not all of the things which are the works of the flesh, nor are they all of the things which are the fruit of the Spirit. Most of us probably assume these lists are complete and use them to assess our spiritual condition. Notice the wording of verse 21, “Those who practice such things …” Thus the works of the flesh that are listed are a mere sampling. Again, notice the wording in verse 23 in reference to the fruit of the Spirit: “against such things there is no law.” The fruits of the Spirit which Paul lists are mere examples.

The fruits of the Spirit and the works of the flesh which Paul has listed, were chosen because of the particular problem of the Galatians. The church was beset with strife, described as biting and devouring one another. When Paul recounted the deeds of the flesh, immorality, impurity, sensuality, I honestly believe that the Galatians were saying “Preach it brother, preach it! Oh, that’s the Gospel! Wow, look at him, coming down on sin!” It must have really tickled the ears of the Galatians because Judaism despised immorality, impurity, sensuality, idolatry, and sorcery (vv. 19b-20a). Those were the “filthy five.”

They agreed with Paul that the “filthy five” shouldn’t be practiced. What they weren’t ready to hear was the rest of the list: “enmities, strife, jealousy, outbursts of anger, disputes, dissensions, factions, envying, drunkenness, carousing, and things like these …” (vv. 20-21a). Paul grouped them together as from the same source. Paul categorizes the Galatians “socially acceptable” sins with those that they would abhor committing. He wants to impress upon the Galations that they are acting in the flesh. Jesus severely dealt with the scribes and the Pharisees because of the same issue. The scribes and the Pharisees were basically law-abiding citizens. With, or around whom would you rather live? In what town would you rather live? A Pharisees’ town or a Gentile pagan town? I would choose the Pharisee town any day. However, the Lord reprimanded the scribes and Pharisees, “You white-washed sepulchres, you blind leaders of the blind, you snakes!” Yet He counseled the woman caught in the act of adultery, “Go and sin no more” (John 8:11). Their socially acceptable sin is abominable in God’s sight because it comes out of a self-righteous heart. In our churches today we sometimes tolerate “socially acceptable” sin, while condemning those which are unacceptable (to us, at least).

Just as the deeds of the flesh were selected to address the problem in the Galatian church, the fruits of the Spirit are also samples relating to this strife. I see a relationship between the gifts of the Spirit and the fruit of the Spirit. Let’s call the gifts of the Spirit charisma and the fruit of the Spirit character. They are both manifestations of grace. Is not the source of the fruit of the Spirit grace and not works? The word for spiritual gifts, charismata, is derived from the word for grace, charis. Let us compare spiritual gifts to gasoline and the fruit of the Spirit to oil. Even though gasoline makes a car run, without oil to lubricate the engine it would go nowhere. In the same way, spiritual gifts are a manifestation of God’s grace in the life of a believer, but without the fruit of the Spirit such gifts accomplish nothing.

An unbelieving psychiatrist, Victor Frankel, has given me further insight into this text, although his subject matter vastly differs. He describes the pursuit of happiness in the following words: “As for the pleasure principle I would go even farther in my criticism. It is my contention that in the final analysis that the pleasure is self-defeating.109

Victor Frankel is talking about the pursuit of pleasure as a goal. “The more one aims at pleasure, the more his aim is missed.”110 In other words, the very pursuit of happiness is what thwarts it. Then he continues: “And that is why one need not pursue happiness, one need not care for it once there is a reason for it. But even more, one cannot pursue it. To the extent to which one makes happiness the objective of his motivation, he necessarily makes it the object of his attention.”111

Later in the book he addresses the topic of the status drive. He gives the illustration of himself seeking something selfishly. He had published sixteen books, however one book was written anonymously. In an agreement with the publisher the German translation would be published anonymously. He purposely wrote it anonymously to conceal his identity, and the book turned out to be his bestseller.

Let me relate Victor Frankel’s theory about the pursuit of happiness to the message of the book of Galatians. The primary reason that the Galatians were deceived into pursuing legalism was because “being spiritual” became their goal. I believe that spirituality is never a legitimate goal. Take for example, the life and ministry of our Lord and the disciples. The disciples were concerned about spiritual status. In my estimation, in Christian circles today we attempt to become “spiritual” to attain status in the church. In the world, wealth gives prestige, in the church spirituality gives status. Do you understand why the disciples were concerned about who was going to be first in the Kingdom of God? They were status seekers. They looked for spiritual success to gain prestige. The Lord’s response to this kind of thinking was, “Whoever wishes to become great among you shall be your servant” (Matt. 20:26).

Verse 13 of our passage contains the same message that our Lord conveyed to the disciples. Service, not spirituality, is our goal. I maintain spirituality, like happiness, is something that is unattainable when pursued. It cannot be a legitimate goal. This helps us to understand why our Lord Jesus said to His disciples, “Abide in Me.” The goal is abiding in Christ, and the results are fruit-bearing. We have reversed the goal and the results. We have made fruit-bearing the goal because we think that is spiritual. We look at abiding in Him as the necessary evil, or the necessary mechanism to achieve fruitfulness.

When spirituality becomes our goal one of the consequences is that we become self-centered. We begin to ask ourselves, how am I doing? This is why we are so preoccupied with self-image. I suggest that self-image problems are the result of improper orientation. We are self-centered in orientation instead of being service-centered. In our passage Paul states that our goal is to serve one another.

Think through the Book of Philippians, in the light of what I’ve been saying about servanthood with regard to one another. Servanthood is the goal, not spirituality. When we seek spirituality as the highest aim, we look at distinctions as the basis for elevating ourselves above others. This problem was prevalent in Corinth, for example. When we seek to serve, we see distinctions as the opportunity to minister. We see that the differences in the body are designed by God so that the body can minister to itself in love.

Paul wrote the Book of Philippians in prison. In chapter 1 he sets forth the problems related to his imprisonment, two of which were his uncertain future and the fact that others were preaching the gospel in such a way as to distress Paul. How would you feel, and how would you respond, especially if you were preoccupied with being noted as spiritual? You can imagine the response of the other preachers who preached Christ out of selfish ambition. They said to their congregation, “We really need to pray for Paul. It’s obvious he’s under divine discipline. He’s in jail. God has taken away his ministry. God is rebuking him. Let’s pray for Paul that God would restore him.” Paul’s response to his situation was totally different, “Nevertheless Christ is being preached, and in that I rejoice.” Paul responded this way because he was a servant, not a status-seeker who wanted to be esteemed as spiritual.

Later in the chapter Paul writes that his uncertain future may include either life or death. If death was the outcome he would go to be with Christ. If not, Paul stated that he would labor on and continue to serve the saints. Paul had a servant’s heart, and was willing to do whatever advanced the cause of Christ. Paul drew his example from Christ, described as the suffering servant in chapter 2. I’ve always resisted the interpretation of the passage which says, “Let each one of you esteem others better than himself.” It has always troubled me whether the words in Greek mean “more important than,” or “better than.” I finally see the wisdom of the word “better.” What is the mentality of a servant? He sees others as over him. What is the mentality of one who chooses to be spiritual? He aspires to leadership. He aspires to have people serve him. The mentality of a servant is the mentality that sees others as better than and more important than himself.

In Philippians chapter 3 Paul is renouncing the error of the teaching of the circumcisers that men must submit to the Law to obtain righteousness. These men aspired to achieve their prescribed standard of spirituality. Instead Paul sought only to know Christ and Him crucified, the power of His resurrection. I suggest that one of the greatest problems in the church is that we’ve been seeking spirituality and not servanthood. Our focus is shifting from Christ, and we’re beginning to ask, “How spiritual are we?” We really cannot answer that question. I think that’s why Paul said in 1 Corinthians “I don’t judge myself” (cf. 1 Cor. 4:4). Spirituality is God’s business. Abiding is our responsibility. Serving is our responsibility. Whenever we shift our focus from Christ, even to such a pious-sounding commodity as spirituality, we begin to emphasize outward, external standards. This is the essence of legalism.


99 Winston Churchill, The Second World War: The Gathering Storm (Boston: The Houghton Mifflin Company, 1948), p. 443.

100 William Shirer, The Rise and Fall of the Third Reich (New York: Simon and Schuster, 1960), pp. 625-626.

101 Ibid., p. 489.

102 Ibid.

103 This thinking was not helped by the heading provided by the editors of some Bibles and by the way some commentators divide the chapter. The NIV is an exception, taking verses 13-15 as the introductory words of Paul under the category of “Life by the Spirit.”

104 I am quoting from the NASV because I prefer its more literal renderings of this passage, especially in the light of the need to carefully understand the meaning of technical terms such as “flesh,” which the NIV renders more loosely “sinful nature.”

105 Quoted by William Barclay, Flesh and Spirit: An Examination of Galatians 5:19-23 (Grand Rapids: Baker Book House [paperback], 1976), pp. 24-25.

106 Ibid., p. 26.

107 Ibid., pp. 26-27.

108 Ibid., p. 27.

109 Viktor Frankl, The Will to Meaning (New York and Cleveland: The World Publishing Company, n.d.), p. 33.

110 Ibid.

111 Ibid., p. 34.

Related Topics: Ecclesiology (The Church), Soteriology (Salvation), Spiritual Life

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