Life Is a Learning Process
Life is a learning process, as this beautiful bit of free verse by Veronica A. Shoffstall tells us:
After a while you learn the subtle difference
Between holding a hand and chaining a soul,
And you learn that love doesnt mean leaning
And company doesnt mean security.
And you begin to learn that kisses arent contracts
And presents arent promises,
And you begin to accept your defeats
With your head up and your eyes open
With the grace of a woman, not the grief of a child,
And you learn to build all your roads on today
Because tomorrows ground is too uncertain for plans
And futures have a way of falling down in mid-flight.
After a while you learn
That even sunshine burns if you get too much.
So you plant your garden and decorate your own soul,
Instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers.
And you learn that you really can endure...
That you really are strong
And you really do have worth...
And you learn and learn...
With every good-bye you learn.