The Men’s Bible Study Leadership Series is presented by bible.org to help you build and fortify men in preparation for their roles as leaders in their families, churches, communities, and workplaces.
It is a leadership series because no matter what age or station in life a man finds himself, he is called to lead. Leadership hates a vacuum. If a man of God doesn’t stand up and lead, then someone else will and the consequences can be drastic for generations.
It is also a discipleship series because building men’s leadership requires ongoing personal relationships with someone who will shepherd and mentor them over the long term. Just as Christ lived in a community of relationship with His disciples, preparing them to lead, so too must we if we are to grow and be effective.
There are sixteen lessons that are designed to be conducted over a thirty-two week period. Your group should meet weekly at a specific time and place. First, participants should be expected to read all of the Scripture verses thoroughly, on a daily basis, and be encouraged to meditate on them. Second, they should read the article carefully and look for aspects of it that impact them personally. Third, they should complete the discussion questions thoughtfully, completely, and honestly, and diligently address personal applications. Finally, they should be prepared to share their answers during your group sessions.
The articles used in this series are written by Dr. Kenneth Boa. Dr. Boa is engaged in a ministry of relational evangelism and discipleship, teaching, writing, and speaking. He holds a B.S. from Case Institute of Technology, a Th.M. from Dallas Theological Seminary, a Ph.D. from
By the time your group has finished this series, relationships and spiritual bonds should have formed. Authentic spiritual interdependence will be experienced, and men will know they are not alone in being who and what God wants them to be. It will be critical for the group to either stay together for the next series, or to stay in close touch weekly to continue the shepherding experience and forming true Christian brotherhood.
The Men’s Bible Study Leadership Series is presented by bible.org to help you build and fortify men in preparation for their roles as leaders in their families, churches, communities, and workplaces.
It is a leadership series because no matter what age or station in life a man finds himself, he is called to lead. Leadership hates a vacuum. If a man of God doesn’t stand up and lead, then someone else will and the consequences can be drastic for generations.
It is also a discipleship series because building men’s leadership requires ongoing personal relationships with someone who will shepherd and mentor them over the long term. Just as Christ lived in a community of relationship with His disciples, preparing them to lead, so too must we if we are to grow and be effective.
Jesus tells His disciples in Matthew 28:18-20, “All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit, teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And remember, I am with you always, to the end of the age.” As His disciples, Christian men are called to this great commission. We are to be leaders in this cause just as His disciples were during the birth of His church.
In today’s culture, it is critically important for men to rise up and be courageous and sacrificial, bold and obedient, effective and humble in our roles as God’s proclaimers, protectors, defenders, and warriors. This series is intended to help men learn who they are in God’s eyes; how God has equipped them to do the job He has given them. It is to encourage them to take up their crosses.
The Leadership Series begins with the foundational structures that make up a true man of God – dependence, obedience, character, integrity, self-discipline, and humility. These are the attributes that a man must have in place if he is to have faith, confidence, strength, endurance, and courage during times of great challenge. Through Scripture, articles, study questions, and a weekly discussion group, each man will be encouraged to dig deep into his heart and soul to discover who God has created him to be.
The articles used in this series are written by Dr. Kenneth Boa. Dr. Boa is engaged in a ministry of relational evangelism and discipleship, teaching, writing, and speaking. He holds a B.S. from Case Institute of Technology, a Th.M. from Dallas Theological Seminary, a Ph.D. from New York University, and a D.Phil. from the University of Oxford in England.
Dr. Boa is the President of Reflections Ministries, an organization that seeks to encourage, teach, and equip people to know Christ, follow Him, become progressively conformed to His image, and reproduce His life in others. He is also President of Trinity House Publishers, a publishing company that is dedicated to the creation of tools that will help people manifest eternal values in a temporal arena by drawing them to intimacy with God and a better understanding of the culture in which they live.
Recent publications by Dr. Boa include Conformed to His Image, 20 Compelling Evidences that God Exists, Face to Face, and Faith Has its Reasons. He is a contributing editor to The Open Bible and The Leadership Bible, and the consulting editor of the Zondervan NASB Study Bible.
There are twelve (12) topics that are designed to be conducted over a thirty-two (32) week period. Your group should meet weekly at a specific time and place. First, participants should be expected to read all of the Scripture verses thoroughly, on a daily basis, and be encouraged to meditate on them. Second, they should read the article carefully and look for aspects of it that impact them personally. Third, they should complete the discussion questions thoughtfully, completely, and honestly, and diligently address personal applications. Finally, they should be prepared to share their answers during your group sessions. It is suggested that a participant be invited to share an answer only if he has completed it on paper. Most important, each man should be in prayer that God will speak to him through His word and through other faithful men.
This series can be either a high impact vehicle that can help change men’s lives, or it can be just another hit and run study that withers away. The difference is in the discipleship, shepherding, and mentoring component that you provide between the group meetings, and thereafter.
The men in your group should be encouraged to know and understand the areas of their lives that need transformation. You should encourage them to discuss, and work on, issues involving their faith, obedience, character, integrity, self-discipline, and humility that prevent them from being the leaders God has created them to be. Likewise, they need to know their strengths and virtues so they can be built up.
The ideal size is five to eight members. It is important to build and support a sense of authentic community and to foster close relationships. A group larger than eight can lose spiritual intimacy. It will also make it difficult for you to have regular, meaningful contact with them as you shepherd them each week. A covenant of confidentiality is a must. The men need to know that what goes on in the group, stays in the group. It is also important that your group meets weekly. It is difficult to have long term sustaining power if you meet every other week.
You will want men who are faithful, available, and teachable (FAT!). They should commit to coming every week and being prepared. It does little good for a man to show up without preparing his lesson and answering each question. He loses the opportunity to grow and the group loses the blessings they receive from his preparation.
Be prepared for men to open up and share sensitive areas of their lives. This is a moment when the Body of Christ becomes a healing factor in someone’s life. The key is to listen. This is not a moment to teach or fix. It will be up to you to be a spiritual and emotional traffic cop. It will be important that you prevent a member from monopolizing the time. At the same time, you will want a member who brings a critical issue in his life to the group to have sufficient time to share and be heard. How you and the group responds to him may very well determine if your group is a safe place for him to repair.
The group should be encouraged to bond with each other and to be in contact with each other throughout the week. The best way you can teach this is by doing it yourself. It is key that you contact each member soon after the weekly group session to see how they were impacted. It is also important to check with them to see how their lesson preparation is going. In your personal conversations with them, you will learn more about who they are and what their particular burdens might be. It is at this time that you can shepherd them, pray for them, and encourage them.
Your men will have specific growth issues to tackle, bruises to heal from, and callings for which they need encouragement. They will need each other for support and should receive accountability from someone who will be regularly available to them. Men about to embark on new callings will be greatly strengthened by the groups' emotional and spiritual support.
Finally, your group should be encouraged to engage in fellowship with each other, whether it is golf, fishing, or a sports activity. It should also take on a ministry opportunity together like working at a soup kitchen, helping with a building project for the church, or assisting those with special needs.
By the time your group has finished this series, relationships and spiritual bonds should have formed. Authentic spiritual interdependence will be experienced, and men will know they are not alone in being who and what God wants them to be. It will be critical for the group to either stay together for the next series, or to stay in close touch weekly to continue the shepherding experience and forming true Christian brotherhood.
MEN 7/52 is a men's ministry of bible.org. Our desire is to see all men become true followers of Jesus Christ 7 days a week/52 weeks a year.
The Men’s Bible Study Leadership Series is presented by bible.org to help you build and fortify men in preparation for their roles as leaders in their families, churches, communities, and workplaces.
It is a leadership series because no matter what age or station in life a man finds himself, he is called to lead. Leadership hates a vacuum. If a man of God doesn’t stand up and lead, then someone else will and the consequences can be drastic for generations.
It is also a discipleship series because building men’s leadership requires ongoing personal relationships with someone who will shepherd and mentor them over the long term. Just as Christ lived in a community of relationship with His disciples, preparing them to lead, so too must we if we are to grow and be effective.
There are sixteen lessons that are designed to be conducted over a thirty-two week period. Your group should meet weekly at a specific time and place. First, participants should be expected to read all of the Scripture verses thoroughly, on a daily basis, and be encouraged to meditate on them. Second, they should read the article carefully and look for aspects of it that impact them personally. Third, they should complete the discussion questions thoughtfully, completely, and honestly, and diligently address personal applications. Finally, they should be prepared to share their answers during your group sessions.
The articles used in this series are written by Dr. Kenneth Boa. Dr. Boa is engaged in a ministry of relational evangelism and discipleship, teaching, writing, and speaking. He holds a B.S. from Case Institute of Technology, a Th.M. from Dallas Theological Seminary, a Ph.D. from New York University, and a D.Phil. from the University of Oxford in England.
By the time your group has finished this series, relationships and spiritual bonds should have formed. Authentic spiritual interdependence will be experienced, and men will know they are not alone in being who and what God wants them to be. It will be critical for the group to either stay together for the next series, or to stay in close touch weekly to continue the shepherding experience and forming true Christian brotherhood.
Lesson 1
Leadership Qualities: Dependence on God
God richly blesses those who depend on Him exclusively.
Read “Leadership Qualities: Dependence on God”, by Ken Boa and listen to his audio message online.
1. What did you read in this message that was particularly helpful to you?
2. What are the six reasons Jesus gives for trusting in God, rather than worrying?
Read Matthew 6:25-34 and Matthew 10:29-31.
Matthew 6 is a continuation of Jesus’ magnificent Sermon on the Mount. In verses 25 – 34, He lays out the stark contrast between living a life of worry and living a life in total dependence on God the Father. It is a choice between anxiety and faith, and between trust in ourselves and trust in God. The contrasts are stark because Jesus leaves no room for compromise. We can choose one or the other, but not both.
3. Regarding yourself, what do you worry about most?
4. What keeps you awake at night?
5. When do you replace your faith in God with worry?
6. What are the desires that drive your life?
7. In Matthew 6:31-32, who does Jesus tell us are those who chase after food, drink, and clothing?
8. In what ways do you seek God’s kingdom first before seeking the things of this world?
9. In what ways do you put His kingdom second?
10. How do you lead so that others plainly see your faith in God?
11. What changes will you make so you will be totally dependent on God in all things?
Read Psalm 34:19, Jeremiah 20:10, Jeremiah 12:6, Lamentations 3:22-26.
Jeremiah weeps for Israel and her people. He sets out to exhort God’s nation to return to the faith of their fathers and to repent of their disobedience. In the midst of his efforts, Jeremiah meets with rejection. His friends turn against him and wish him harm. Most painful, though, is the betrayal of his own family - his brothers. Yet, Jeremiah presses on, carrying in his heart the message in Psalm 34:19 that the LORD will deliver him from his troubles.
12. Describe a time when a friend turned against you. How did you feel?
13. Have you ever been betrayed by a close family member? Would you share your story with the group and describe your feelings?
14. Has there been a time when you turned against someone close to you? Would you share this with the group?
15. In Lamentations 3:22-23, Jeremiah teaches us the LORD’s attributes and blessings that keep us from being consumed. What are they?
16. Jeremiah goes on in verses 24-26 to describe the ways in which a man shows his dependence on the LORD. What are they?
Read Isaiah 40:27-31, Jeremiah 17:5-8, and Zechariah 4.
God places a premium on our trust and dependence on Him in all things. It is such a high premium that he has specific outcomes for those who depend on Him and for those who do not. Both Jeremiah and Isaiah experienced special blessings as they lived their lives in complete dependence on the LORD, with total trust in His faithfulness.
17. What does Jeremiah 17:5-6 say about those who trust themselves and not the LORD?
18. In verses 7 and 8, what does he say about those who trust Him explicitly?
19. According to Isaiah 40:27-31, what does the LORD do for those who have hope in Him?
20. Have there been times when you felt that God disregarded your pain and your struggles? How did you feel? How did you respond? Would you share your story with the group?
21. What does Zechariah 4:6 mean to you as you lead in your family, your church, your community, and your workplace?
Memory verse: Isaiah 40:31
But those who wait for the Lord’s help find renewed strength;
they rise up as if they had eagles’ wings,
they run without growing weary,
they walk without getting tired.
This Study Guide is for the Obedience article by Ken Boa. Read it first.
MEN 7/52 is a men's ministry of bible.org. Our desire is to see all men become true followers of Jesus Christ 7 days a week/52 weeks a year.
The Men’s Bible Study Leadership Series is presented by bible.org to help you build and fortify men in preparation for their roles as leaders in their families, churches, communities, and workplaces.
It is a leadership series because no matter what age or station in life a man finds himself, he is called to lead. Leadership hates a vacuum. If a man of God doesn’t stand up and lead, then someone else will and the consequences can be drastic for generations.
It is also a discipleship series because building men’s leadership requires ongoing personal relationships with someone who will shepherd and mentor them over the long term. Just as Christ lived in a community of relationship with His disciples, preparing them to lead, so too must we if we are to grow and be effective.
There are sixteen lessons that are designed to be conducted over a thirty-two week period. Your group should meet weekly at a specific time and place. First, participants should be expected to read all of the Scripture verses thoroughly, on a daily basis, and be encouraged to meditate on them. Second, they should read the article carefully and look for aspects of it that impact them personally. Third, they should complete the discussion questions thoughtfully, completely, and honestly, and diligently address personal applications. Finally, they should be prepared to share their answers during your group sessions.
The articles used in this series are written by Dr. Kenneth Boa. Dr. Boa is engaged in a ministry of relational evangelism and discipleship, teaching, writing, and speaking. He holds a B.S. from Case Institute of Technology, a Th.M. from Dallas Theological Seminary, a Ph.D. from New York University, and a D.Phil. from the University of Oxford in England.
By the time your group has finished this series, relationships and spiritual bonds should have formed. Authentic spiritual interdependence will be experienced, and men will know they are not alone in being who and what God wants them to be. It will be critical for the group to either stay together for the next series, or to stay in close touch weekly to continue the shepherding experience and forming true Christian brotherhood.
Lesson 2
Leadership Qualities: Obedience to God
Saul disobeys the Lord, blames others, and is rejected as king.
Read “Leadership Qualities: Obedience to God” by Ken Boa and listen to his audio message online.
1. What did you learn in this message that you applied to your life this week?
2. Explain the “Gethsemane mindset” as it is described in the message.
Read 1 Samuel 15:1-3.
As chapter 15 opens, the prophet Samuel brings a critical message to King Saul. We recall that Samuel had anointed Saul as king at the direction of the LORD. Now, the Lord has a direct command for Saul and delivers it through Samuel. The Amalekites are enemies of Israel and had been a hindrance to them when the Lord brought Israel out of Egypt. The LORD now commands Saul to kill all the Amalekites, including their women and children, and all of their livestock.
3. Has God ever directed you to do something that seemed impossible? What was it?
4. Is God directing you to do something now that appears too big or too outlandish? What is it?
Read 1 Samuel 15:4-12.
Saul goes to war against the Amalekites and sets an ambush against them. But, Saul redefines the Lord’s command. Instead of killing all Amalekites, he spares their king, Agag. Instead of slaughtering all their livestock, he saves the best animals. Then, he goes to Carmel and erects a monument to himself.
5. Why do you think Saul decided to spare King Agag?
6. What do you think were Saul’s reasons for keeping the best livestock, even after he was told to slaughter them all?
7. In what areas in your life do you redefine your obedience to God?
8. How do you rationalize your “redefined” obedience?
9. In what areas of your life do you have the most difficulty obeying God?
Read 1 Samuel 15:13-20
The LORD regrets that He made Saul king. He reveals His feelings to Samuel. When Samuel confronts him, Saul immediately protests his innocence. He claims that he kept the prize sheep and cattle so he could make a sacrifice to Samuel’s LORD. Besides, he claims it really wasn’t his idea in the first place. He blames his army.
10. How did Saul try to rationalize that his disobedience was really obedience?
11. How do you rationalize when you are disobedient and don’t want to admit it?
12. In what way do you believe that living a completely obedient life can cost you your career, friendships, and social status?
13. In what areas are you using your hard work, sacrifice, or generosity to make up for being disobedient?
Read 1 Samuel 15:21-35.
Samuel rebukes Saul, declaring that the LORD values obedience over sacrifice and rejects rebellious and presumptuous leaders as sorcerers and idolaters. The Lord rejects Saul as king, promising to anoint another. Saul pleads with Samuel, saying that the real reason he was disobedient was his fear of the men in his army. Nevertheless, Samuel tells Saul that the LORD does not go back on His word and that he indeed was rejected.
14. God regards the sins of rebellion and presumption as sorcery and idolatry. Where are you being rebellious or presumptuous in your life?
15. What must you give up in order to be obedient to God in all things?
16. What monuments to yourself must you tear down?
17. Specifically, what price must you pay to be obedient to God in all areas of your life?
Christ sets the ultimate standard for obedience.
Read Matthew 26: 36 – 39.
Jesus knows that the hour has come when He will be betrayed, mocked, scourged, stripped naked, nailed to the cross, forsaken by His Father, and die. As the Son of God, Jesus has the power to do whatever He wants. During His agony in Gethsemane, Jesus is in brutal anguish and distress. He throws Himself to the ground and calls out to His Father, “My Father, let this cup pass from me! Yet not what I will, but what you will” (v. 39). And again He cries out, “My Father, if this cup cannot be taken away unless I drink it, your will must be done” (v. 42). In obedience, Jesus goes to the cross.
18. Is there a cup that God is calling you to drink? What is it?
19. What are you doing today that is a reflection of your will and not God’s will?
20. What steps are you taking today to be Christ-like in your obedience?
21. Who is helping you take these steps on a daily basis?
22. Will you seek that help today?
Memory Verse: Matthew 26:39
Going a little farther, he threw himself down with his face to the ground and prayed, “My Father, if possible, let this cup pass from me! Yet not what I will, but what you will.”
This Study Guide is for the Character article by Ken Boa. Read it first.
MEN 7/52 is a men's ministry of bible.org. Our desire is to see all men become true followers of Jesus Christ 7 days a week/52 weeks a year.
The Men’s Bible Study Leadership Series is presented by bible.org to help you build and fortify men in preparation for their roles as leaders in their families, churches, communities, and workplaces.
It is a leadership series because no matter what age or station in life a man finds himself, he is called to lead. Leadership hates a vacuum. If a man of God doesn’t stand up and lead, then someone else will and the consequences can be drastic for generations.
It is also a discipleship series because building men’s leadership requires ongoing personal relationships with someone who will shepherd and mentor them over the long term. Just as Christ lived in a community of relationship with His disciples, preparing them to lead, so too must we if we are to grow and be effective.
There are sixteen lessons that are designed to be conducted over a thirty-two week period. Your group should meet weekly at a specific time and place. First, participants should be expected to read all of the Scripture verses thoroughly, on a daily basis, and be encouraged to meditate on them. Second, they should read the article carefully and look for aspects of it that impact them personally. Third, they should complete the discussion questions thoughtfully, completely, and honestly, and diligently address personal applications. Finally, they should be prepared to share their answers during your group sessions.
The articles used in this series are written by Dr. Kenneth Boa. Dr. Boa is engaged in a ministry of relational evangelism and discipleship, teaching, writing, and speaking. He holds a B.S. from Case Institute of Technology, a Th.M. from Dallas Theological Seminary, a Ph.D. from New York University, and a D.Phil. from the University of Oxford in England.
By the time your group has finished this series, relationships and spiritual bonds should have formed. Authentic spiritual interdependence will be experienced, and men will know they are not alone in being who and what God wants them to be. It will be critical for the group to either stay together for the next series, or to stay in close touch weekly to continue the shepherding experience and forming true Christian brotherhood.
Lesson 3
Leadership Qualities: Character
God equips men and commands men to imitate His holy character.
Read “Leadership Qualities: Character” by Dr. Ken Boa and listen to his audio messages online.
1. In what way did this message impact your understanding of your character?
2. How do leaders cultivate character?
3. In his section “Character from the inside out”, where does he say that character exists, and how?
Read Proverbs 1:1-7
Solomon teaches us that to have character, we must fully understand that knowledge begins with fear of the LORD, and that we are to learn wisdom, discipline, prudence, rightness, justice, fairness, discretion, guidance, and understanding of the wise. Those who have authentic fear of the LORD will possess and reflect His true character.
4.Solomon teaches that true wisdom and knowledge begins with fear of the LORD. What does “fear of the LORD” mean to you?
5.How are wisdom and the attributes of character different for men who truly fear the LORD? Please be specific.
6.Proverbs 1:4 says that having wisdom through fear of the LORD allows a man to give prudence to the simple and discretion to the young. What would that look like in your family and in your church?
7.In what way can having the character of God through His wisdom cause a man to understand the parables, sayings, and riddles of the wise?
8.The wisdom of the LORD calls us to be disciplined, and always do what is right, just, and fair. In what areas of your life do you lack discipline or fail to do what is right, just, and fair?
Read Proverbs 1:8 – 2:5
Solomon makes the point that when we treasure wisdom, understanding, and insight, we will understand the fear of the LORD and we will know God. Those who do not, who rush into sin and mock His wisdom, will be doomed. Those who do not fear the LORD will mock His character and will reflect their own character of sin.
9.Examine the different areas of your life (family, church, community, workplace, etc.). Make a list of the people in those areas whom you fear or cause you anxiety.
10. Next to those names, describe what it is about each one that causes you anxiety.
11. How does your anxiety over them affect the way in which you behave around them or toward them?
12. Describe the ways in which your behavior toward them does, or does not, reflect the character of God.
13. When your character does not reflect the character of God, who suffers and how do they suffer?
14. When your character reflects the character of God, who is blessed and how are they blessed?
15. What parts of your character are not a reflection of the character of God?
16. What will you do today to obtain God’s wisdom and understanding in these areas?
Read Exodus 34:5-7a
The character of God is compassion, grace, slowness to anger, love, faithfulness, and forgiveness.
17. Moses lists six distinct character traits of God. Next to each one, rate yourself from 1 to 10 (with 10 being perfect).
Compassion: _______________
Grace: ____________________
Slowness to Anger: __________
Love: _____________________
Faithfulness: _______________
Forgiveness: _______________
18. In the areas where you struggle most to reflect the character of God, describe what it is about His wisdom that you need to know better.
Read Proverbs 2:6-11, Exodus 34:7b
Those who imitate the character of the LORD, accepting His wisdom, knowledge, and understanding, have His character written into their hearts and souls and receive His victory and protection. Those who do not are punished to the fourth generation.
19. In what areas of your life have you not accepted the wisdom of the LORD, but are relying either on your own wisdom or the wisdom of someone else?
20. Are there areas of your life where you have not surrendered to the wisdom of the LORD, but find yourself struggling with fear, temptation, sin, or shame? Please describe them.
21. God promises victory and protection to those who have His character written on their hearts and souls. In what areas of your life do you need victory?
22. Where do you need protection?
23. In Proverbs 2:1-5, how do we understand the fear of the LORD and find the knowledge of God?
24. What will you do today to seek God’s wisdom, knowledge, and understanding – His character?
25. How will you help each other in your group to imitate the character of God?
Memory verse: Proverbs 1:7
Fearing the Lord is the beginning of moral knowledge,
but fools despise wisdom and instruction.
Lesson 4
Leadership Qualities: Character
God dramatically transforms character in men who seek His truth.
Read again “Leadership Qualities: Character” by Dr. Ken Boa and listen to his audio messages online.
1.What is the incredible call of the Gospel?
2.How does God make this both a possibility and a requirement?
3.In what way are you encouraged?
Read Matthew 26:31-35, 69-75, John 21:15-18
Through his relationship with Christ who restores him, and the power of the Holy Spirit who fills him, Peter’s failed character is transformed and made into the character of God. Those who have a relationship with Christ can have the character of God.
4.Have you ever made a significant promise to God and failed to come through? If yes, what was that promise?
5.What is it about your character that makes it difficult, if not impossible, to keep your promises to God?
6.Peter denied Christ out of fear and weakness in his faith. Are there times when you are afraid or too anxious to show someone your faith in Christ? How does that make you feel?
7.Have you ever made compromises at work, with your friends, in the community, or with the culture so that your faith in Christ won’t be costly to your career, reputation, social status, or family relationships? What were they? Are you still in those compromises?
8.As a follower of Christ, are you the same person in private as you are in public? If not, why?
9.Are there thoughts in your heart or behavior patterns in your life that are a denial of Christ? Would you please share them with someone who will help you repent, just like Peter did before Christ?
10. Do you believe that God will transform your character into one that reflects His? How?
11. Do you believe that God will strengthen you and restore you to reflect His character in your heart and in your life? How?
Read 2 Peter 1:3-9, Romans 6:6-13
God thus commands and equips us to have characters of faith, goodness, knowledge, self-control, perseverance, godliness, kindness, and love, making us effective and productive, free from our past sins, and Christlike in our lives. Having the character of God is not an option.
12. In 2 Peter 1:3-4, what incredible blessing has God given to us through the divine power of Christ?
13. How will these blessings impact your character beginning now?
14. Because of these blessings, what do we escape?
15. Write down specific situations from which you will escape?
16. Name at least seven virtues that Peter teaches us to add to our faith.
17. What impact does the possession of these virtues have on our character?
18. If we do not have these virtues, what is the consequence to our character?
19. Which of these virtues are alive in you now and encourage you in your character development?
20. Which of these virtues do you struggle with and need the transforming power of Christ?
21. Who will you ask to help you through your transformation? Who will you help?
22. According to Romans 6:6-7, what does Paul teach us that gives us the hope for achieving and maintaining the character of God?
23. How does the life of Peter encourage you in becoming transformed into the character of God and making you effective and productive as the man He created you to be?
Memory verse: 2 Peter 1:3
I can pray this because his divine power has bestowed on us everything necessary for life and godliness through the rich knowledge of the one who called us by his own glory and excellence.
This Study Guide is for the Integrity article by Ken Boa. Read it first.
MEN 7/52 is a men's ministry of bible.org. Our desire is to see all men become true followers of Jesus Christ 7 days a week/52 weeks a year.
The Men’s Bible Study Leadership Series is presented by bible.org to help you build and fortify men in preparation for their roles as leaders in their families, churches, communities, and workplaces.
It is a leadership series because no matter what age or station in life a man finds himself, he is called to lead. Leadership hates a vacuum. If a man of God doesn’t stand up and lead, then someone else will and the consequences can be drastic for generations.
It is also a discipleship series because building men’s leadership requires ongoing personal relationships with someone who will shepherd and mentor them over the long term. Just as Christ lived in a community of relationship with His disciples, preparing them to lead, so too must we if we are to grow and be effective.
There are sixteen lessons that are designed to be conducted over a thirty-two week period. Your group should meet weekly at a specific time and place. First, participants should be expected to read all of the Scripture verses thoroughly, on a daily basis, and be encouraged to meditate on them. Second, they should read the article carefully and look for aspects of it that impact them personally. Third, they should complete the discussion questions thoughtfully, completely, and honestly, and diligently address personal applications. Finally, they should be prepared to share their answers during your group sessions.
The articles used in this series are written by Dr. Kenneth Boa. Dr. Boa is engaged in a ministry of relational evangelism and discipleship, teaching, writing, and speaking. He holds a B.S. from Case Institute of Technology, a Th.M. from Dallas Theological Seminary, a Ph.D. from New York University, and a D.Phil. from the University of Oxford in England.
By the time your group has finished this series, relationships and spiritual bonds should have formed. Authentic spiritual interdependence will be experienced, and men will know they are not alone in being who and what God wants them to be. It will be critical for the group to either stay together for the next series, or to stay in close touch weekly to continue the shepherding experience and forming true Christian brotherhood.
Lesson 5
Leadership Qualities: Integrity (Part 1)
Before God uses a man, He first breaks him.
Read “Leadership Qualities: Integrity” by Ken Boa and listen to his audio message online.
1.After reading Dr. Boa’s description of integrity, please define it in your own words.
2.What does it mean to be “consumed” by God’s holiness and “disintegrated” in His presence?
3.In Matthew 23, Jesus calls the religious leaders “hypocrites” in His most condemning language. Why was this sin so despicable in His eyes?
Read Genesis 28:10-17, Exodus 3:1-6, Joshua 5:13-15, Isaiah 6:6-8
God’s holy presence strikes fear, confession, repentance, and humility in the hearts of Jacob, Moses, Joshua, and Isaiah, who are then called to be His leaders. If we are fearful and repentant before a holy God, then we can have true integrity and be useful as His leaders.
4.When do you really feel that you are in the presence of God?
5.Describe your feelings and attitude when you are in the presence of God.
6.How does it impact your fear of Him?
7.What specifically do you do when you are in His presence?
8.In what circumstances do you feel that you are not in God’s presence?
9.What is it about these circumstances that make you believe that He is not present?
10. What is it about you that causes you to believe that He is not present?
11. Moses hid his face in the presence of God. Describe a time when you hid your face in His presence.
12. Have there been times when God has seared you in order to make you clean, just as he burned Isaiah’s unclean lips?
13. Are you ready to say to God, “send me”? If yes, what makes you prepared? If no, what part of your integrity needs to be transformed?
Read Luke 5:1-11, Mark 9:2-6
Christ, in revealing His deity and glory, strikes fear, confession, and an understanding of his unworthiness in Peter, who he calls to lead His church. He first requires Peter to be obedient in something small before He trusts Him with something big. Christ only wants teachable men of true integrity and humility to lead His church.
14. What are the big tasks that you want God to entrust you with as a follower of Christ?
15. What are the small tasks in which He is calling you to be obedient on a daily basis?
16. Do you believe that these small tasks are critical to your integrity? Why?
17. Are there some areas of your life that are inconsistent with God’s requirement for integrity? What are they?
18. Do you regard these areas as unimportant or inconsequential in your qualification as a man of integrity?
19. Are you ready to be a man who fishes for men for Christ? How do you know?
20. Is there something in your life that keeps you from being His messenger? If yes, what is it? Who will you allow to help you?
Read Acts 9:1-9
Saul is thrown to the ground and blinded in the presence of a glorified, risen Christ. The power of Christ’s holiness can transform a man into a leader with true integrity.
21. Do you have any unworthy thoughts or behavior that you believe are so ingrained that they cannot be changed? If so, what are they?
22. Saul was a vicious hater of Christ who became one of His greatest champions and leaders.
23. Paul became a man of enormous integrity at a great price. What price must you pay?
24. What must you surrender?
25. What must be seared from your heart?
26. How will you do this?
27. Who will help you?
Memory verse: Isaiah 6:8
I heard the voice of the sovereign master say, “Whom will I send? Who will go on our behalf?”
I answered, “Here I am, send me!”
Lesson 6
Leadership Qualities: Integrity (Part 2)
God transforms broken men into leaders who reflect His integrity.
Read “Leadership Qualities: Integrity” by Ken Boa and listen to his audio message online.
1. How does a leader have his greatest impact on those he wishes to lead?
2. What kind of leader does the New Testament call for?
3. Where does God’s grace change and shape us into the image of His Son?
Read Ephesians 4:1-8, 2 Corinthians 12:9.
Paul teaches us that to be worthy of our calling, we must practice the attributes of integrity through the grace given to us by Christ, glorifying Him as we serve in our weakness. God grants everything we need to be men of integrity.
4. Describe in detail what God’s calling is for you? Please be specific.
5. How are you putting His calling into practice?
6. In Ephesians 4:1-5, to what standard does Paul calls us if we are to live a life worthy of our calling?
7. How would you evaluate your worthiness to obey your calling?
8. What are your areas of weakness?
Galatians 2:20-21, 2 Corinthians 5:20-21, Ephesians 1:22-23, Colossians 1:24-29.
Paul reminds the church that we are to be mature (made perfect) in Christ, who rules His church, through our crucifixion with Him, if we are to be reconciled to God and be His ambassadors.
9. In Galatians 2:20-21, Paul says he has been crucified with Christ and now Christ lives in him. What does it mean to be crucified with Christ?
10. If you are to be crucified with Christ, what in you would die? Please be specific.
11. If we are to be authentic and effective as Christ’s ambassadors, what does Paul instruct us to do in 2 Corinthians 5:20-21?
12. What do you personally need to do to be reconciled to God?
13. Through whom must you do this?
14. What will you become?
15. In Colossians 1:24-29, Paul asserts that we are to become mature (some texts say “made perfect”) in Christ. How do we become mature in Christ?
16. In what specific areas in your life do you need to become mature so that you can be a man of Christlike integrity?
Hebrews 13:5-6, 1 Timothy 4:15-16, Matthew 6:1-4.
As men of integrity, we are to be content, diligent, seek only to please God, and be holy in our secret places.
17. The writer of Hebrews calls us to be content and not worldly. Why?
18. Are there areas of your life in which you are not content? What are they?
19. What worldly solutions do you seek?
20. What Godly solutions do you seek?
21. Does your concern for adequate financial resources cause you worry or discontent?
22. If yes, what steps are you taking to enjoy Godly contentment?
23. In 1 Timothy 4:15-16, Paul instructs Timothy to be diligent and to persevere. To what matters is Paul referring? Why?
24. What areas of your integrity require diligence and perseverance? Why?
25. Jesus tells us not to do our acts of righteousness before men. Of what danger does He warns us if we show our righteousness to others?
26. Why does Jesus command us to be charitable in secret?
27. Does your secret behavior reflect Godly integrity? If not, what will you do to become a true ambassador of Jesus Christ? Who will you ask to help you?
Read Psalm 15: 1-5
28. Please share your personal understanding of this Psalm with someone in your group.
Memory Verse: 2 Corinthians 12:9
But he said to me, “My grace is enough for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” So then, I will boast most gladly about my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may reside in me.
This Study Guide is for the Self-Discipline article by Ken Boa. Read it first.
MEN 7/52 is a men's ministry of bible.org. Our desire is to see all men become true followers of Jesus Christ 7 days a week/52 weeks a year.
The Men’s Bible Study Leadership Series is presented by bible.org to help you build and fortify men in preparation for their roles as leaders in their families, churches, communities, and workplaces.
It is a leadership series because no matter what age or station in life a man finds himself, he is called to lead. Leadership hates a vacuum. If a man of God doesn’t stand up and lead, then someone else will and the consequences can be drastic for generations.
It is also a discipleship series because building men’s leadership requires ongoing personal relationships with someone who will shepherd and mentor them over the long term. Just as Christ lived in a community of relationship with His disciples, preparing them to lead, so too must we if we are to grow and be effective.
There are sixteen lessons that are designed to be conducted over a thirty-two week period. Your group should meet weekly at a specific time and place. First, participants should be expected to read all of the Scripture verses thoroughly, on a daily basis, and be encouraged to meditate on them. Second, they should read the article carefully and look for aspects of it that impact them personally. Third, they should complete the discussion questions thoughtfully, completely, and honestly, and diligently address personal applications. Finally, they should be prepared to share their answers during your group sessions.
The articles used in this series are written by Dr. Kenneth Boa. Dr. Boa is engaged in a ministry of relational evangelism and discipleship, teaching, writing, and speaking. He holds a B.S. from Case Institute of Technology, a Th.M. from Dallas Theological Seminary, a Ph.D. from New York University, and a D.Phil. from the University of Oxford in England.
By the time your group has finished this series, relationships and spiritual bonds should have formed. Authentic spiritual interdependence will be experienced, and men will know they are not alone in being who and what God wants them to be. It will be critical for the group to either stay together for the next series, or to stay in close touch weekly to continue the shepherding experience and forming true Christian brotherhood.
Lesson 7
Leadership Qualities: Self-Discipline
God requires and empowers His men to be self-disciplined.
Read “Leadership Qualities: Self-Discipline” by Dr. Ken Boa and listen to his audio message online.
Read 1 Corinthians 9:24-27
The Apostle Paul teaches the church in Corinth that they must be strict in their training if they want to win the ultimate prize. He exhorts them to do as he does. He disciplines his body so that he can endure the rigors of being a follower of Christ. He doesn’t want to be disqualified.
Read Jeremiah 18:1-12, Numbers 14:18, Psalm 103:8, 2 Peter 3:8-9.
One of the central themes of the Old Testament is the rise and fall of God’s people as they vacillate between obedience and disobedience. Our lives so often reflect these same blessings and consequences, and His requirement for our obedience. But, God gives us ample time and patience to remold ourselves in true repentance.
Read 2 Timothy 1:7, Galatians 5:16-26.
God never gives us a task to do without equipping us first. He requires our repentance and our obedience if we are to enjoy eternal life with Him. No matter how hard it is to be transformed, God always gives us the means to be in His will.
(Proverbs 12:26, 18:24, 22:24-25, 1 Corinthians 15:33) We are known by the company we keep. We are shaped by the people who influence and are in relationship with us. We need to surround ourselves only with righteous people, even if it is only one.
Memory Verse: 2 Timothy 1:7
For God did not give us a Spirit of fear but of power and love and self-control.
This Study Guide is for the Humility article by Ken Boa. Read it first.
MEN 7/52 is a men's ministry of bible.org. Our desire is to see all men become true followers of Jesus Christ 7 days a week/52 weeks a year.
The Men’s Bible Study Leadership Series is presented by bible.org to help you build and fortify men in preparation for their roles as leaders in their families, churches, communities, and workplaces.
It is a leadership series because no matter what age or station in life a man finds himself, he is called to lead. Leadership hates a vacuum. If a man of God doesn’t stand up and lead, then someone else will and the consequences can be drastic for generations.
It is also a discipleship series because building men’s leadership requires ongoing personal relationships with someone who will shepherd and mentor them over the long term. Just as Christ lived in a community of relationship with His disciples, preparing them to lead, so too must we if we are to grow and be effective.
There are sixteen lessons that are designed to be conducted over a thirty-two week period. Your group should meet weekly at a specific time and place. First, participants should be expected to read all of the Scripture verses thoroughly, on a daily basis, and be encouraged to meditate on them. Second, they should read the article carefully and look for aspects of it that impact them personally. Third, they should complete the discussion questions thoughtfully, completely, and honestly, and diligently address personal applications. Finally, they should be prepared to share their answers during your group sessions.
The articles used in this series are written by Dr. Kenneth Boa. Dr. Boa is engaged in a ministry of relational evangelism and discipleship, teaching, writing, and speaking. He holds a B.S. from Case Institute of Technology, a Th.M. from Dallas Theological Seminary, a Ph.D. from New York University, and a D.Phil. from the University of Oxford in England.
By the time your group has finished this series, relationships and spiritual bonds should have formed. Authentic spiritual interdependence will be experienced, and men will know they are not alone in being who and what God wants them to be. It will be critical for the group to either stay together for the next series, or to stay in close touch weekly to continue the shepherding experience and forming true Christian brotherhood.
Lesson 8
Leadership Qualities: Humility
God expects us to acquire the same humility as Christ.
Read “Leadership Qualities: Humility” by Ken Boa and listen to his audio message online.
Read Philippians 2:1-11, John 13:1-5, Hebrews 5:8-10, Luke 19:10, Mark 10:43-45, John 1:10-13, John 3:5-8, Ephesians 1:3, Philippians 3:20-21.
Jesus lived a life of ultimate humility and demonstrated obedience through His sufferings. He knew the power that He had over all things. Yet, He exhorted His disciples to be sacrificial servants like Him, demonstrating it by washing their feet, being rejected by His own people, and dying for our salvation.
Read Ecclesiastes 3:10-11, Ephesians 6:7-8, Jeremiah 29:11-13, Hebrews 11:6, Isaiah 57:15, Isaiah 66:2, 1 Peter 5:5-7, Proverbs 3:34.
Those who earnestly seek God, pray to Him, and call on His name will find Him. They will prosper through Him, will have their hearts revived, and will be esteemed by Him.
Read Proverbs 25:27, John 5:41-44
Jesus teaches, and models, that God does not honor those who seek their own honor, or the praise of men. Those who seek the praise of men cannot accept Christ and do not receive praise from God.
Read Deuteronomy 8:10-18
Memory Verse: Philippians 2:5-7
You should have the same attitude toward one another that Christ Jesus had, who though he existed in the form of God did not regard equality with God as something to be grasped, but emptied himself by taking on the form of a slave, by looking like other men, and by sharing in human nature.
This is the Study Guide for "Leader Qualifications" the article by Ken Boa. Read it first.
MEN 7/52 is a men's ministry of bible.org. Our desire is to see all men become true followers of Jesus Christ 7 days a week/52 weeks a year.
The Men’s Bible Study Leadership Series is presented by bible.org to help you build and fortify men in preparation for their roles as leaders in their families, churches, communities, and workplaces.
It is a leadership series because no matter what age or station in life a man finds himself, he is called to lead. Leadership hates a vacuum. If a man of God doesn’t stand up and lead, then someone else will and the consequences can be drastic for generations.
It is also a discipleship series because building men’s leadership requires ongoing personal relationships with someone who will shepherd and mentor them over the long term. Just as Christ lived in a community of relationship with His disciples, preparing them to lead, so too must we if we are to grow and be effective.
There are sixteen lessons that are designed to be conducted over a thirty-two week period. Your group should meet weekly at a specific time and place. First, participants should be expected to read all of the Scripture verses thoroughly, on a daily basis, and be encouraged to meditate on them. Second, they should read the article carefully and look for aspects of it that impact them personally. Third, they should complete the discussion questions thoughtfully, completely, and honestly, and diligently address personal applications. Finally, they should be prepared to share their answers during your group sessions.
The articles used in this series are written by Dr. Kenneth Boa. Dr. Boa is engaged in a ministry of relational evangelism and discipleship, teaching, writing, and speaking. He holds a B.S. from Case Institute of Technology, a Th.M. from Dallas Theological Seminary, a Ph.D. from New York University, and a D.Phil. from the University of Oxford in England.
By the time your group has finished this series, relationships and spiritual bonds should have formed. Authentic spiritual interdependence will be experienced, and men will know they are not alone in being who and what God wants them to be. It will be critical for the group to either stay together for the next series, or to stay in close touch weekly to continue the shepherding experience and forming true Christian brotherhood.
Lesson 9
Leadership Development: Leader Qualifications
God’s leaders are holy, faithful men with hearts of humility.
Read “Leadership Qualities: Leader Qualifications” by Ken Boa and listen to his audio message online.
1. Beyond practicing good deeds, what qualifies someone to be a leader?
2. What is the “law of undulation”?
3. List the areas about which a leader must be passionate.
4. What areas of your life are you most passionate?
5. In order to develop a mindset of ministry, what must be the leader’s focus?
6. What areas of your life are parts of your ministry? Which ones are not?
7. How has this article impacted your view of yourself as a leader?
Read 1 Timothy 3:1-13, Titus 1:5-9
In his letters to Timothy and Titus, Paul is very specific about the kind of men who are to lead the local church. In essence, God’s true leaders must have His standards of holiness, character, and integrity. Their public and private lives must reflect these standards. They are to be men of faithfulness, honesty, holiness, and respectability.
8. Describe Paul’s feelings and thoughts about, Timothy. How does he address Titus?
9. What was it about Timothy that stood out in Paul’s regard for him?
10. List all of the characteristics that God requires of a leader, overseer, elder, and deacon.
11. Which of these characteristics is strongest in you?
12. Which ones are weakest and in need of transformation?
13. Why do you think Paul refers to “faith” so many times in these passages?
Read 1 Samuel 16:1-13
Samuel got a second opportunity to anoint a king. This time, God revealed to him the most important qualification for leadership.
14. When Samuel visited Jesse’s household to anoint a king, what was he looking for in a leader?
15. Why was David overlooked by both Samuel and Jesse?
16. What was the LORD looking for?
17. When you select a leader in your church, your community, your business, or in an election, what characteristics do you look for? Be specific.
18. What specifically is God looking for in you as a leader in your family, church, community, and workplace?
Read 1 Kings 11:1-8
The life of King Solomon teaches us a powerful lesson in faithfulness, loyalty, and obedience. We learn the consequences of allowing ourselves to be compromised by worldly influences.
19. King Solomon stands out in Scripture for his wisdom, as well as his achievements in business, poetry, literature, and so on. Yet the LORD promises to “tear the kingdom away” from him. Why?
20. How did Solomon become unfaithful to the LORD?
21. In today’s culture, how can a man become divided in his loyalty to God?
22. In what areas of your life do you find yourself with divided loyalties?
Read James 4:4-9
James gives us some straight talk about God’s leadership standards. God’s leaders are humble men who draw near to Him, resist evil, and are friendly only to Him and His people.
23. How does friendship with the world make us enemies of God?
24. Do you have worldly alliances or friendships that might make you God’s enemy?
25. In your own words, explain what is meant by being spiritually “double-minded”.
26. What does God give to those who resist Satan?
27. In order to draw near to God, what must you have?
28. If you are to be exalted, what does God require you to do?
Read Isaiah 40:10-15
29. In your own words, describe the trustworthiness of God, His power, and His ability to sustain you as a leader. Please share your thoughts with someone in your group.
Memory Verse: Zechariah 4:6
Therefore he told me, "These signify the word of the Lord to Zerubbabel: 'Not by strength and not by power, but by my Spirit,' says the sovereign Lord."
MEN 7/52 is a men's ministry of bible.org. Our desire is to see all men become true followers of Jesus Christ 7 days a week/52 weeks a year.
The Men’s Bible Study Leadership Series is presented by bible.org to help you build and fortify men in preparation for their roles as leaders in their families, churches, communities, and workplaces.
It is a leadership series because no matter what age or station in life a man finds himself, he is called to lead. Leadership hates a vacuum. If a man of God doesn’t stand up and lead, then someone else will and the consequences can be drastic for generations.
It is also a discipleship series because building men’s leadership requires ongoing personal relationships with someone who will shepherd and mentor them over the long term. Just as Christ lived in a community of relationship with His disciples, preparing them to lead, so too must we if we are to grow and be effective.
There are sixteen lessons that are designed to be conducted over a thirty-two week period. Your group should meet weekly at a specific time and place. First, participants should be expected to read all of the Scripture verses thoroughly, on a daily basis, and be encouraged to meditate on them. Second, they should read the article carefully and look for aspects of it that impact them personally. Third, they should complete the discussion questions thoughtfully, completely, and honestly, and diligently address personal applications. Finally, they should be prepared to share their answers during your group sessions.
The articles used in this series are written by Dr. Kenneth Boa. Dr. Boa is engaged in a ministry of relational evangelism and discipleship, teaching, writing, and speaking. He holds a B.S. from Case Institute of Technology, a Th.M. from Dallas Theological Seminary, a Ph.D. from New York University, and a D.Phil. from the University of Oxford in England.
By the time your group has finished this series, relationships and spiritual bonds should have formed. Authentic spiritual interdependence will be experienced, and men will know they are not alone in being who and what God wants them to be. It will be critical for the group to either stay together for the next series, or to stay in close touch weekly to continue the shepherding experience and forming true Christian brotherhood.
Lesson 10
Leadership Qualities: Accountability
God’s leaders are confessional, accountable, and trustworthy
Read “Leadership Qualities: Accountability” by Ken Boa and listen to his audio message online.
1. On what is the study of “cognitive dissonance” based?
2. Because of this, what do we need, and why?
3. How would you define “360-degree honesty”?
4. Dr. Boa states that, “Most leaders don’t experience a sudden blowout in their lives”. What do they experience, and why?
5. What is the difference between a “circle of friends” and “linear friends”?
Read 2 Samuel 11:1-27 and Jeremiah 17:9.
David takes another man’s wife, has him killed, covers it up, and then marries her. He demonstrates that a man who is accountable only to himself is capable of committing terrible sins and enormous damage.
6. Why do you think David was at his palace and not out leading his armies in battle?
7. David is remembered as a man after God’s heart. Why do you think he pursued his lust for Bathsheba?
8. When have you found yourself in a place where you should not be?
9. How often have you sought to be in those places?
10. What kind compromises do you make when faced with your temptations?
11. David concocted an elaborate cover-up that killed Uriah. How do you cover your compromises?
12. What does Jeremiah tell us about the human heart?
Read 2 Samuel 12:1-12, Numbers 32:23, Psalm 90:8, and Jeremiah 23:24.
Nathan confronts David over his sin. Speaking through Nathan, the LORD promises to expose his secret sin in broad daylight and that violence will befall his house. God publicly exposes our secret sins and allows us to suffer the consequences.
13. Who, other than your spouse, have you invited into your life to rebuke you when you sin?
14. How do you react when someone points out a sin in your life?
15. What does God make perfectly clear to us in Numbers 32:23, Psalm 90:8, and Jeremiah 23:24? Give specifics for each verse.
16. What makes you reluctant to open yourself up and invite scrutiny by another man?
17. What would it be like for you if your Christian friends saw you with your non-Christian friends?
18. How are you held accountable in your responsibility to live a life of holiness and obedience?
19. Who are you helping grow in leadership by holding him accountable?
Read 2 Samuel 12:13-14, Psalm 51:1-9, Romans 11:33-36, 14:11-12, Job 41:11, and Genesis 3:8-9.
David admits and laments his sin against the LORD, pleading for forgiveness. He is forgiven by the LORD, but loses his son through death as a consequence. God requires us to humbly confess and honestly acknowledge our transgressions against Him.
20. A truly sorrowful David throws himself at the mercy of the LORD and receives His forgiveness. Why did he still have to lose his son?
21. What do we learn about God’s attitude toward sin in Romans 11:33-36, 14:11-12, and Job 41:11.
22. What does Genesis 3:8-9 teach us about hiding from God?
23. How often do you confess your sins to God?
24. Describe your feelings when you confess to Him.
25. In Psalm 51:5-6, what is it that God requires and why?
26. What steps do you take to build wisdom, truth, and integrity in your heart?
27. Who is helping you in the areas of your greatest challenge?
Read Psalms 51:10-17, 90:12, Ephesians 4:25, James 5:16, and 1 Peter 5:1-4.
More than just seeking forgiveness, David desperately wants to repent – to turn his life back to the LORD. Not only that, he wants to be a witness for God’s truth and righteousness to sinners.
28. How can one have a pure heart after committing grievous sin?
29. What would it mean for you to have a pure heart?
30. In what does God delight?
31. How would you describe your brokenness?
32. What are we commanded to do in Ephesians 4:25 and James 5:16?
33. With regard to your personal positions of leadership and service, describe how will you put 1 Peter 5:1-4 into practice.
34. What will you do, now, to have other men hold you accountable for your cleansing, repentance, and growth as God’s leader?
Memory Verse: Psalm 51:1-2
Have mercy on me, O God, because of your loyal love!
Because of your great compassion, wipe away my rebellious acts!
Wash away my wrongdoing!
Cleanse me of my sin!
This is the study guide for the Interpersonal Relationships article by Ken Boa. Read it first.
MEN 7/52 is a men's ministry of bible.org. Our desire is to see all men become true followers of Jesus Christ 7 days a week/52 weeks a year.
The Men’s Bible Study Leadership Series is presented by bible.org to help you build and fortify men in preparation for their roles as leaders in their families, churches, communities, and workplaces.
It is a leadership series because no matter what age or station in life a man finds himself, he is called to lead. Leadership hates a vacuum. If a man of God doesn’t stand up and lead, then someone else will and the consequences can be drastic for generations.
It is also a discipleship series because building men’s leadership requires ongoing personal relationships with someone who will shepherd and mentor them over the long term. Just as Christ lived in a community of relationship with His disciples, preparing them to lead, so too must we if we are to grow and be effective.
There are sixteen lessons that are designed to be conducted over a thirty-two week period. Your group should meet weekly at a specific time and place. First, participants should be expected to read all of the Scripture verses thoroughly, on a daily basis, and be encouraged to meditate on them. Second, they should read the article carefully and look for aspects of it that impact them personally. Third, they should complete the discussion questions thoughtfully, completely, and honestly, and diligently address personal applications. Finally, they should be prepared to share their answers during your group sessions.
The articles used in this series are written by Dr. Kenneth Boa. Dr. Boa is engaged in a ministry of relational evangelism and discipleship, teaching, writing, and speaking. He holds a B.S. from Case Institute of Technology, a Th.M. from Dallas Theological Seminary, a Ph.D. from New York University, and a D.Phil. from the University of Oxford in England.
By the time your group has finished this series, relationships and spiritual bonds should have formed. Authentic spiritual interdependence will be experienced, and men will know they are not alone in being who and what God wants them to be. It will be critical for the group to either stay together for the next series, or to stay in close touch weekly to continue the shepherding experience and forming true Christian brotherhood.
Lesson 11
Leadership Qualities: Interpersonal Relationships
Our love for others reflects our true love for Christ.
Read “Leadership Qualities: Interpersonal relationships” by Dr. Ken Boa’s and listen to his audio message online.
1. In a world of pain, betrayal, and loss, what are the two ways in which we can choose to live?
2. Describe, in your own words, how the Trinity is the model for building our relationships.
3. How did the story about Aron Ralston impact you in your need for companionship during your greatest challenges (see Ecclesiastes 4:9-10)?
4. What two extremes must be avoided in building a relationship with someone?
5. Write down the first names of the people in your life with whom you have close interpersonal relationships.
6. What must you do to strengthen openness and interdependence with them?
Read Mark 12:28-31.
Jesus is quick and direct in summing up the law of God. God’s commandments center on love – love for God and love for others. He likens love for others to love for God, making a direct link between the two. He makes it very clear that loving others is not an option. It is a requirement.
7. Define what it means to love God with all your heart, soul, mind, and strength. Be specific. You may use other scripture references and dictionary definitions.
8. On a scale of 1 – 10 (10 being the highest), how would you rate your love for God in each area?
9. In the areas where you rate yourself close to a 10, how is your love expressed each day?
10. What must you do about your low rated areas in order to be obedient to this command?
11. What does it mean to love your neighbor “as yourself”?
12. Are there people in your life who you don’t love in this manner?
13. What reasons do you have for withholding love from them?
14. What must you do to be obedient to this command?
Read 1 John 4:4-10, 1 John 5:1-4.
The apostle John draws a direct correlation between our love for God and our love for others. He teaches that it is impossible to hate others and still love God. Furthermore, we can only love God if we know him. If we love Him, then we will obey Him.
15. How does knowing God enable us to love others?
16. In what way does God reveal His love for us?
17. If we know that Christ is the Son of God, and we love God, then what necessarily follows?
18. Write down the first names of people in your life whom you hate, or simply do not love.
19. What is the reason for your lack of love for them?
20. In order to obey God’s command, what must you do to love them? Be specific.
Read 1 Kings 19:19-21.
Elijah finds Elisha plowing a field and throws his cloak over him. Elisha leaves everything behind to follow Elisha and be mentored by him.
21. What do you think is the significance of Elijah choosing Elisha by throwing his cloak over him?
22. Elijah doesn’t ask Elisha to follow him. But Elisha immediately prepares to do so. What does this reveal about Elisha?
23. What does Elisha do to prepare to follow Elijah and why do you think he does this?
24. Who is the Elijah that is mentoring you?
25. What must you do to find him?
26. Who is the Elisha that you are mentoring?
27. What must you do to find him?
Read 2 Kings 2:1-6.
Elisha knows that Elijah will soon be going to be with the LORD. Before going, Elijah has unfinished business in three different cities. He asks Elisha to stay behind, but Elisha refuses.
28. How does Elisha respond to Elijah’s request that he stay behind?
29. Why do you think he responds this way?
30. What does this reveal about their relationship?
31. Who are the people in your life that you never leave during challenging times?
32. What relationships have you walked away from when the going got tough?
33. What must you do to restore them?
Memory Verse
Matthew 12:30
Love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your mind, and with all your strength.
This is the Study Guide for the Values article by Ken Boa. Read it first.
MEN 7/52 is a men's ministry of bible.org. Our desire is to see all men become true followers of Jesus Christ 7 days a week/52 weeks a year.
The Men’s Bible Study Leadership Series is presented by bible.org to help you build and fortify men in preparation for their roles as leaders in their families, churches, communities, and workplaces.
It is a leadership series because no matter what age or station in life a man finds himself, he is called to lead. Leadership hates a vacuum. If a man of God doesn’t stand up and lead, then someone else will and the consequences can be drastic for generations.
It is also a discipleship series because building men’s leadership requires ongoing personal relationships with someone who will shepherd and mentor them over the long term. Just as Christ lived in a community of relationship with His disciples, preparing them to lead, so too must we if we are to grow and be effective.
There are sixteen lessons that are designed to be conducted over a thirty-two week period. Your group should meet weekly at a specific time and place. First, participants should be expected to read all of the Scripture verses thoroughly, on a daily basis, and be encouraged to meditate on them. Second, they should read the article carefully and look for aspects of it that impact them personally. Third, they should complete the discussion questions thoughtfully, completely, and honestly, and diligently address personal applications. Finally, they should be prepared to share their answers during your group sessions.
The articles used in this series are written by Dr. Kenneth Boa. Dr. Boa is engaged in a ministry of relational evangelism and discipleship, teaching, writing, and speaking. He holds a B.S. from Case Institute of Technology, a Th.M. from Dallas Theological Seminary, a Ph.D. from New York University, and a D.Phil. from the University of Oxford in England.
By the time your group has finished this series, relationships and spiritual bonds should have formed. Authentic spiritual interdependence will be experienced, and men will know they are not alone in being who and what God wants them to be. It will be critical for the group to either stay together for the next series, or to stay in close touch weekly to continue the shepherding experience and forming true Christian brotherhood.
Lesson 12
Leadership Qualities: Values (Part 1)
A man’s values must reflect God’s righteousness, integrity, and holiness.
Read “Leadership Qualities: Values” by Dr. Ken Boa and listen to his audio message online.
1. Why are values essential to effective leadership?
2. What are the values that drive your behavior?
3. In what context is righteousness realized?
4. If there is no absolute standard of values, what is the explicit consequence?
5. In resolving the conflict between earthly values and God’s values, where the costs are high, what vital question must you ask?
Read Psalm 15:1-5, Habakkuk 1:13
Through David, God reveals the system of values we must have in order to enter His kingdom.
6. List all the value-driven behavior characteristics mentioned in Psalm 15.
7. With which ones do you struggle the most?
8. From where does truth have to be first spoken?
9. What commitments have you broken so you could avoid the pain of keeping them?
10. Who are we commanded to honor?
11. Who are we to despise?
12. Why do you think God allows wicked people to prosper (Habakkuk1:13)?
Read Exodus 20:1-11
God commands how we are to respect, honor, and revere Him. He demands exclusive worship of Him, and Him alone.
13. In what ways do we have other gods in our culture?
14. When you examine the time, talent, and treasure you spend, what other gods are in your life?
15. As you read verses 4 – 6, what thoughts, fears, concerns, and hope do you have regarding your family?
16. We often interpret verse 7 within the context of cursing. What are other ways in which we can use God’s name in vain?
17. How does your family’s observance of the Sabbath reflect the rest and holiness God requires?
18. What changes do you need to make make?
Read Exodus 20:12-17, Matthew 5:21-22
God commands how we are to treat people. He commands us to respect the life, property, reputation, purity, and honor of others, especially our parents and the sanctity of marriage.
19. Describe what it means to “honor” your father and mother? Be specific.
20. What do you do if your father or mother has been less than honorable to you?
21. How does God expect us to obey this commandment if our parents have been abusive?
22. Explain how you teach your children to honor you? How do you teach them to honor their mother?
23. In Matthew 5:21-22, Jesus teaches that murder is more than killing the body. What other ways can we commit murder?
24. Are there times when your anger toward someone violates this commandment?
25. Is there someone in your life toward whom you harbor such anger? If yes, what will you do to become obedient?
26. Stealing and cheating can be done with things, time, and money. What have you taken that doesn’t belong to you? How have you rationalized your behavior?
27. Have you said something about another person that was either not true, exaggerated, or based on insufficient evidence and knowledge? Please explain.
28. As you observe the social, economic, and professional status of other men, what are some of their possessions or positions that you covet or envy?
29. How has God uniquely blessed you in your social, economic, and professional position?
30. Please share with the group how you can use these blessings to uniquely minister to others.
Memory Verse: Romans 13:10
Love does no wrong to a neighbor. Therefore love is the fulfillment of the law.
Lesson 13
Leadership Qualities: Values (Part 2)
God’s leaders serve Him exclusively and pray to Him daily.
Continue reading “Leadership Qualities: Values” by Ken Boa, and listen to his audio message online.
1. On what values did Jesus teach His disciples to focus?
2. What three questions are derived from Matthew 6:1?
3. How would you answer these questions?
4. Describe the difference between “terminal” values and “instrumental” values.
Read Matthew 6:1-10
Jesus warns us against seeking the praise and recognition of others, especially in our works of charity. He also teaches that our prayers are to be private and intimate – praising the Father, desiring His kingdom, and submitting to His will.
5. Describe circumstances in your life in which you seek the praise of others.
6. How important is that praise for you?
7. List some of the areas in your life where you experience success?
8. What are the symbols of that success?
9. Who gives you recognition for your successes?
10. What would it be like if your successes were unknown to others?
11. Where do you find your significance?
12. Why does Jesus want you to pray and fast in private?
13. How often do you pray privately?
14. How much time do you set aside each day that is dedicated to quite prayer?
Read Matthew 6:11-18
Our requests should be simple. Jesus tells us that we should ask for provision for today, protection from temptation, escape from Satan, and forgiveness of our sins. However, He teaches us that we must forgive others in the same way we want God to forgive us.
15. Jesus tells us to ask only for our “daily bread”. Why do you think He omitted asking for long range blessings?
16. What requests are on your daily prayer list?
17. In verses 12, 14, and 15, Jesus teaches that God’s forgiveness of us is a commensurate with our forgiveness of others. Describe, in your own words, how you want God to forgive you.
18. Is there anyone in your life, past or present, alive or dead, who you have not forgiven in this manner?
19. Write down the names of all those whom you have not forgiven in the manner in which you want God to forgive you.
20. What will you do to genuinely forgive them?
21. Verse 13 asks God not to lead us into temptation. How is it possible for God to lead you into temptation?
Read Matthew 6:19-34
Because we can only serve one master, our singular purpose is to pursue God’s kingdom and righteousness. As we do so, He will fulfill all of our needs. God values undivided loyalty to Him, and total trust in His providence.
22. What conflicts do you encounter in your pursuit of spiritual and financial goals?
23. Describe a circumstance in your life in which your pursuit of a career goal challenged your spiritual character.
24. How did you resolve it?
25. Take some time and conduct an inventory of your spending habits (both money and time). What percentage goes toward earthly treasures? What percentage goes toward Heavenly treasures?
26. What part of your heavenly treasures category is really earthly treasure? Be honest.
27. Why does Jesus warn us not to worry about our needs?
28. What does worry demonstrate that we lack?
29. What changes will you make so that you will exclusively pursue God’s kingdom.
Memory Verse: Matthew 6:24
No one can serve two masters, for either he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be devoted to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve God and money.
This is the Study Guide for the Commitment article by Ken Boa. Read it first.
MEN 7/52 is a men's ministry of bible.org. Our desire is to see all men become true followers of Jesus Christ 7 days a week/52 weeks a year.
The Men’s Bible Study Leadership Series is presented by bible.org to help you build and fortify men in preparation for their roles as leaders in their families, churches, communities, and workplaces.
It is a leadership series because no matter what age or station in life a man finds himself, he is called to lead. Leadership hates a vacuum. If a man of God doesn’t stand up and lead, then someone else will and the consequences can be drastic for generations.
It is also a discipleship series because building men’s leadership requires ongoing personal relationships with someone who will shepherd and mentor them over the long term. Just as Christ lived in a community of relationship with His disciples, preparing them to lead, so too must we if we are to grow and be effective.
There are sixteen lessons that are designed to be conducted over a thirty-two week period. Your group should meet weekly at a specific time and place. First, participants should be expected to read all of the Scripture verses thoroughly, on a daily basis, and be encouraged to meditate on them. Second, they should read the article carefully and look for aspects of it that impact them personally. Third, they should complete the discussion questions thoughtfully, completely, and honestly, and diligently address personal applications. Finally, they should be prepared to share their answers during your group sessions.
The articles used in this series are written by Dr. Kenneth Boa. Dr. Boa is engaged in a ministry of relational evangelism and discipleship, teaching, writing, and speaking. He holds a B.S. from Case Institute of Technology, a Th.M. from Dallas Theological Seminary, a Ph.D. from New York University, and a D.Phil. from the University of Oxford in England.
By the time your group has finished this series, relationships and spiritual bonds should have formed. Authentic spiritual interdependence will be experienced, and men will know they are not alone in being who and what God wants them to be. It will be critical for the group to either stay together for the next series, or to stay in close touch weekly to continue the shepherding experience and forming true Christian brotherhood.
Lesson 14
Leadership Qualities: Commitment (Part 1)
God demonstrates to His people the true model of commitment
Read “Leadership Qualities: Commitment” by Ken Boa and listen to his audio message online.
1. Why do we succumb to mediocrity?
2. From where should all of our commitments flow?
3. What happens to our talents and dreams as soon as we are committed to God’s will?
4. Explain the difference between commitment and bargaining.
Read Joshua 24:14-27
Israel responds to Joshua’s exhortation and warnings to worship only the LORD by committing themselves to complete faithfulness. It is a commitment that proves to be short-lived. We learn that God does not want us to try to be faithful to Him. He requires us to be faithful.
5. In Joshua’s speech to Israel, what two choices does he give them?
6. Why do you think he only gives them two choices?
7. What was Joshua’s commitment for him and his household?
8. Do you have this same commitment for your family?
9. Are there times when you or your family violates your commitment? Please explain.
10. Discuss with the group how your family’s commitment to the Lord impacts your outside relationships.
11. What does Joshua warn Israel will happen if they fail to worship the LORD?
12. What lesson do you learn regarding your own household?
Read Jeremiah 31:31-34
Even after Israel’s unfaithfulness to Him, God promises a new covenant between Him and them. We see that God promises bountiful blessings to those who turn to Him in complete faith.
13. Did Israel keep the promises they made in Joshua 24?
14. Why did God establish a new covenant with Israel?
15. Describe the terms of the covenant?
16. What was the most significant commitment God made?
17. Is that commitment still in place today?
18. What commitments have you made to the Lord?
19. What commitments should you make to Him?
Read Jeremiah 31:35-37
God declares the firmness and trustworthiness of His commitments.
20. To what does God liken the firmness of His commitments?
21. Why do you think He uses these specific comparisons?
22. What do these verses say about God’s promises and commitments to you?
23. How would you describe the firmness of your commitments to:
24. What will you do to strengthen the firmness and trustworthiness of your commitments to God?
Memory Verse: Joshua 24:15
If you have no desire to worship the Lord, choose today whom you will worship, whether it be the gods whom your ancestors worshiped beyond the Euphrates, or the gods of the Amorites in whose land you are living. But I and my family will worship the Lord
Lesson 15
Leadership Qualities: Commitment (Part 2)
God’s leaders are committed to Christ and conformed to His will.
Continue reading “Leadership Qualities: Commitment” by Ken Boa and listen to his audio message online.
1. When we offer ourselves to God, what are we acknowledging?
Read Matthew 16:24-26
Jesus asserts that the only ones who will be saved are those who are committed exclusively to His life, and not to their lives. We can only be alive in Christ through death.
5. What does Jesus mean when He says we must “deny” ourselves?
Read Romans 12:1-2
Paul teaches that our bodies must be completely sacrificed to God and our minds must be completely conformed to His will.
Memory Verse: Romans 12:2Do not be conformed to this present world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may test and approve what is the will of God – what is good and well-pleasing and perfect.
This is the Study Guide for the Encouragement article by Ken Boa. Read it first.
MEN 7/52 is a men's ministry of bible.org. Our desire is to see all men become true followers of Jesus Christ 7 days a week/52 weeks a year.
The Men’s Bible Study Leadership Series is presented by bible.org to help you build and fortify men in preparation for their roles as leaders in their families, churches, communities, and workplaces.
It is a leadership series because no matter what age or station in life a man finds himself, he is called to lead. Leadership hates a vacuum. If a man of God doesn’t stand up and lead, then someone else will and the consequences can be drastic for generations.
It is also a discipleship series because building men’s leadership requires ongoing personal relationships with someone who will shepherd and mentor them over the long term. Just as Christ lived in a community of relationship with His disciples, preparing them to lead, so too must we if we are to grow and be effective.
There are sixteen lessons that are designed to be conducted over a thirty-two week period. Your group should meet weekly at a specific time and place. First, participants should be expected to read all of the Scripture verses thoroughly, on a daily basis, and be encouraged to meditate on them. Second, they should read the article carefully and look for aspects of it that impact them personally. Third, they should complete the discussion questions thoughtfully, completely, and honestly, and diligently address personal applications. Finally, they should be prepared to share their answers during your group sessions.
The articles used in this series are written by Dr. Kenneth Boa. Dr. Boa is engaged in a ministry of relational evangelism and discipleship, teaching, writing, and speaking. He holds a B.S. from Case Institute of Technology, a Th.M. from Dallas Theological Seminary, a Ph.D. from New York University, and a D.Phil. from the University of Oxford in England.
By the time your group has finished this series, relationships and spiritual bonds should have formed. Authentic spiritual interdependence will be experienced, and men will know they are not alone in being who and what God wants them to be. It will be critical for the group to either stay together for the next series, or to stay in close touch weekly to continue the shepherding experience and forming true Christian brotherhood.
Lesson 16
Leadership Qualities: Encouragement
Encouraged by Barnabas, Paul grows in stature, strength, and significance.
Read “Leadership Qualities: Encouragement” by Ken Boa and listen to his audio message online.
1. What must people have in order to both live and survive?
2. When hope is gone, what evaporates?
3. What happens when we place our hope in the wrong things?
4. In the Old Testament, what does God always give His people after warning them of His judgment?
5. When we have hope in God, what do we never lose?
6. What does God normally use when encouraging His people?
7. What do men need when going through the peaks and valleys of life? Why?
Read Acts 4:32-37 and Acts 9:26-31.
Encouragement of others leads to their acceptance.
8. Why did the disciples initially reject Saul?
9. How did Barnabas defend Saul before the disciples?
10. What did Barnabas tell the disciples he saw in Saul?
11. Who do you know that needs to deepen his commitment in the Lord Jesus Christ?
12. What are you doing to encourage and support him in your church?
Read Acts 11:19-26.
Encouragement build’s Christ church with vibrancy and vitality.
13. Why was Barnabas the right man to be sent to Antioch?
14. What was his assignment?
15. Who did Barnabas eventually recruit to help him in Antioch?
16. What spiritual gift do you have that can be an encouragement to men?
17. How will you encourage men to grow deeper in their faith?
Read Acts 12:25 and Acts 13: 1-12.
Encouragement helps transform a man into a bold defender.
18. Describe Paul’s demeanor in his confrontation with Bar-Jesus.
19. What caused the proconsul to become a believer?
20. Who are you mentoring to be a courageous defender of the faith?
21. Who are you encouraging to stand against false teaching about Christ?
Read Acts 13:13-52.
Encouragement gives a man strength to stand firm in the face of rejection.
22. Why were Paul and Barnabas invited to return to the synagogue and preach on the following Sabbath?
23. What was Paul’s powerful message to them?
24. Who showed up when Paul and Barnabas returned to preach?
25. What was the reaction by the Jews and how did Paul answer them?
26. What happened to Paul and Barnabas?
27. Who do you encourage to speak out about Christ, even in the face of painful rejection?
Read Acts 14:1-20.
Encouragement motivates a man to sacrifice his life for Christ.
28. Why did the people of Lystra regard Paul and Barnabas as “gods”?
29. How did Paul and Barnabas respond to them? Be specific.
30. What was the crowd’s reaction?
31. Who came in and tried to win the people away from Paul and Barnabas?
32. What happened to Paul?
33. Are you prepared to give your life for Christ in spreading His word?
34. Who are you encouraging to be sacrificial in defending Christ?
35. Are you leading by example?
Read Acts 14:21-38 and Acts 15:1-35.
Encouragement brings groups together in their shared faithfulness to Christ.
36. What was at the crux of the debate regarding the Gentile believers in Antioch?
37. What did Paul and Barnabas tell the Jerusalem Council about their work with the Gentiles?
38. How was the debate settled?
39. Are there people or groups in your church that are divided over non-essentials of our faith?
40. What are you doing to unite them in Christ and to encourage them to be His Body?
Read Acts 15:36-41.
Encouragement leads men to encourage others, who will do likewise.
41. Describe the dispute between Paul and Barnabas.
42. Where did Barnabas go and whom did he take with him?
43. Where did Paul go and whom did he take with him?
44. What were John Mark and Silas each being prepared to do?
45. Who are you preparing to encourage, mentor, and shepherd other men?
Memory Verse: Acts 4:32
The group of those who believed were of one heart and mind, and no one said any of his possessions was his own, but held everything in common.